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| Husband Scarcity!!!...A Must Read For Women. by gimmesome(op): 3:43pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations,but i can no longer resist the push. ''Husband Scarcity" has become one of the major challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses,majority of their intentions are prayer points for a life partner. And this calls for a great concern,casting our minds back to the times of our others and grandmothers,was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity"problem?,Or maybe there were more women then,or there was adequate corresponding numbers of both genders...i don't think so. Maybe then,the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not pack into a built home. Then,once a young man comes of age and at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman in return really appreciates him and then assists him fully to build a future...What am i trying to say?. Women created what they now see as "Husband Scarcity" for themselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get answers like "he has to be tall,handsome,fair and rich,own a house at least,and be presentable" and then she adds"god fearing"in order not to sound so worldly. Then check the number of men that meet that meet that standard,and you will see the problem. You often hear girls say "I cannot suffer in my father,s house and then go and start suffering with a man all over again". Oh..What a wonderful dream!!..What if from the beginning, you have everything you wanted and there is no suffering and later in the marriage,the table now turns around, then now comes the suffering?..will you now run away?..No one prays for such fate but its preferable to start small and end big,than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same, When 50 girls ant the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man and the man can only pick one. Then what becomes of the remaining 49 girls?. they simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity", Another irony of this time is that it is hard,due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who has all those attributes these ladies want,legally(except those involved in internet fraud),even the number of those in internet fraud is not enough to match those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects,are married and are not complaining of this husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him without a helpmate and then made the woman and gave to him and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. WOMEN are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS....DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY, Where he is today may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "Husband Scarcity", PICK UP the RIGHT VALUES. I'm not saying that you should pick any man that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What i am saying is that you girls should stop setting your standards on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical...WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF..and that which he is made up of is, most times not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing, whatever is seen is Temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. GOD DID NOT JUST MAKE EVE FOR MAKING SAKE, HE MADE HER FOR ADAM'S NEED TO BECOME COMPLETE AND FULFILLED....BE WISE...TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. |
| Re: Husband Scarcity!!!...A Must Read For Women. by bigass123(m): 3:57pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Nice write up.. Op But I can't help but laugh at MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. |
| Re: Husband Scarcity!!!...A Must Read For Women. by MrFlavvor(m): 3:58pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Guy wida your lie la...... Some one already did this la. Zinachidi https://www.nairaland.com/2597982/little-thought-husband-scarcity#37991161 |
| Re: Husband Scarcity!!!...A Must Read For Women. by zinachidi(m): 5:54pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
MrFlavvor:oga ooo, lol, catch am well.. Copyright infringement fa..  |
| Re: Husband Scarcity!!!...A Must Read For Women. by MrFlavvor(m): 9:42am On Oct 17, 2015 |
zinachidi:They do this all the time on this forum. Very soon they'll start banning them. |
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