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a frnd this story same ns here too he alsoof states he met dis b fam house came vc him he fell for her at recently d ldy md outr owrtmnt wherhe staove's heand or suls told her about, tgh her but he f she is just get. D day ut oher place she actuay aer bitr for some reasonsforgt abou hims

I got lost in this your him/her he/she.

please. try to write better next time. intelligent ppl like me will find it hard to understand

fbtowner:
I got lost in this your him/her he/she.

please. try to write better next time. intelligent ppl like me will find it hard to understand

will see what i can do about it

Kizito2nv:
ma best frnd just askd me dis and i wish i could same sensible answers here too he also corp's member servin in one of the states of the country he met dis strange girl at family house and they became close according to him he fell for her and was truly in love with her just recently d lady moved out of the family lodge to her own apartmnt where she stays alone, he love's her so much and not for sexual reasons which he told her about, though d girl has adviced him to forget about her but he feels she is just playing hard to get. D day she parked out of d lodge he slept over at her place the actual askd her to stay a bit longer for some reasons though nothin happend d night they just cuddled up but she still askd him to forgt about her. Two days leta he has to go bak and fix somethns for her and help her do other works same thing hapend he slept over but this tym somethn happend my guy askd d lady if she had any feelns for her no matter how little and she said no she doesnt he felt so frustratd, paind and hrtbroken d grl notic what he was passin through cuddled up with her tryin to consol him and thns went out of hand she was almost on d verg on starting a Mouth Action when he askd her to stop and ask her if she truly loved her cos he promisd himslf d 1st person to make love to must b in love with her immedialty her mood changed and she felt so bad for what she was about doin she said she felt like a slut or so cheap d guy to startd convincn her dat he would never see her dat way and another round of consolation led to a head job and bloow jab bt she never allowd penetration when tension died down she still told him d best thin was for him to foget about him that she wouldnt want to disapoint him dat she more scared of breakin his hrt b4 dey left for work she still asked her when he would come to complet what was remainn known well he would still have to sleep over at her hous cos she close late from work he promised to return d day after tmoro but in his mind he doesnt thnk its right to go bak so soon pleas what advic do u have for him should he sto callin her atleast for now to know her reactions or go and try not to do anythin but his crazy in love with her.... I know its long and no time to edit it cos am typing from a fone but sensible and mature advic would be appreciated

im very sorry.
But you meant all these ranting was about sex and sexual ordeals and not love
My advice? If he truely loves her,
1. He wouldnt and shouldnt have sex with her.
2. He would avoid situations that may lead to sexual relations( all those heads and necks should be avoided by all means)
3. He would build the relationship on some spiritual rock.
4. He shoul stop thinking of her as a sexual tool.
5. He should makeplans to marry her!!! Thats the only way he can prove his love for her.

Stop smelling the food you know you aint gonna eat. Its a very bad habit. Shalum!

fbtowner:
I got lost in this your him/her he/she.

please. try to write better next time. intelligent ppl like me will find it hard to understand

The SHE is the girl, and the HE is the boy . do you understand now?

kehnton:
im very sorry.
But you meant all these ranting was about sex and sexual ordeals and not love
My advice? If he truely loves her,
1. He wouldnt and shouldnt have sex with her.
2. He would avoid situations that may lead to sexual relations( all those heads and necks should be avoided by all means)
3. He would build the relationship on some spiritual rock.
4. He shoul stop thinking of her as a sexual tool.
5. He should makeplans to marry her!!! Thats the only way he can prove his love for her.

Stop smelling the food you know you aint gonna eat. Its a very bad habit. Shalum!

that was his initial plan he never intended any thin sexual to occur its just dat she startd it

Kizito2nv:
that was his initial plan he never intended any thin sexual to occur its just dat she startd it

the girl would get your friend into trouble if he doesnt wise up.
She might not be the wife material he "might" be looking for.

Ginaz:
The SHE is the girl, and the HE is the boy . do you understand now?

no i dont