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diva90:
Evidently you do for you to have replied that last post and I'm sure your worthless self will still come back here to reply this one. acting like you are busy when we all know that you are nothing but a jobless idiot seeking so badly her 5 mins of fame. Educated illiterate with no common sense

Tundeiab:
You sound like a woman who has passed through such before.

SAMBARRY:
it's ok na diva

njokusboy:
@diva, ur suggestion is indeed stvpid, any reasonable man would know ur lying else you would have reported as soon as you were raped...
Nd if that man is really his friend, he won't believe ur story against his...
Dat is me tryong to rationalise ur evil thought...

Nd. I pity your husband...

SAMBARRY:
it's only a daft woman that will follow this stupidity typed here.Op accept this at your own peril.you have to follow divas suggestion if you still love yourself. That's where your emotional strength is needed moreso he doesn't have evidence since there was no picture taken it will only make ur hubby friend look stupid

HIDDENSECRECY:
Well comprehension is not for everyone.
Why dont you proffer a suggestion to your partner in crime.
For me she is gone already. If my wife can sleep with my friend then that is the height of betrayer I cannot forgive.

diva90:
It might be stupid to a shallow minded individual such as yourself but a real and practical person knows what point I'm trying to get to here. Secondly I'm not shoving my opinion up anyone's throat, that's why it's an OPINION it's up to her to take it or leave it. Don't say the man won't believe it, you can only speak for yourself.
I pity your wife and the sisters that you advice too

SAMBARRY:
and the friend?

You're still friends abi?

njokusboy:
You are an incorrigible buffoon...
Where do idiots like you spring from?
A woman cheated on her husband, then you are advicing her to say she was raped, if dat does not work, it won't be long before you consider murder, dat is how far desperate lowlifes like you can be...
Do you think it's easy for a man to believe his friend raped his wife, where did the rape happen? Did he do it in your house? If not what were you doing with him? And why did it even take so long for you to say it?
I bet you were too ddumb to consider all this?
The only thing to do here is to come out clean....
If you are going down, do so with some dignity not as a bloody witch...
Seriously, I pity the unfortunate man dat marries someone like you..

SAMBARRY:
it's only a daft woman that will follow this stupidity typed here.Op accept this at your own peril.you have to follow divas suggestion if you still love yourself. That's where your emotional strength is needed moreso he doesn't have evidence since there was no picture taken it will only make ur hubby friend look stupid

diva90:
It's your father that is a buffoon. Now get out of my sight you enemy of progress, you don't want the girl to progress in her marriage because you are a failure in life and you want everybody to be at your level.
When your sister goofs up in her marriage, evidently she's not perfect either, pls advice her to use her hand and put sand in her garri. But don't cause other people misery just because you are a selfish human being. Nonsense

diva90:
Thank you, atleast there is one person thinking right on this thread. When will be learn that it's not everything you disclose to your spouse... Even a marriage counsellor will tell you this.

SAMBARRY:
he dey form saint.he never see table turning wey go make am look stoopeed

njokusboy:
Gerrara here, onye I beribe, anuofia...
So your mother thought you that the best way to progress in your marriage is to cheat on your husband and claim you were raped...
You are a disgrace to the woman that carried you for 9 months...
Cheating on your husband is no goof, if you can do it then you should be able to take the fall for it not lying to cover it up...
If any sister of mine is so stvpid as to sleep with her husbands friends, i'd help her husband pack her things out of his house after flogging the evil spirit out of her...
I don't support evil...

taryour:
@ sambarry and diva90 i come in peace and i do not engage in e-fights/e-battles. I apologies if i have offended anyone. We are all entitled to our diffrent opinions. I only have 2 questions for you both which i want you to answer honestly.

1. What happens if eventualy the whole truth of the situation unfolds later on wereby the husband finds out the real truth? What will the wife say this time to cover up her past mistakes?


2. If you as a woman happen to be in this position, you hubby sleeps with your bestfriend and your hubby comes telling you your bestfriend seduced him and raped him/fell for her seduction. What would be your reaction to that when you later on find out the truth

Once again i come in peace.

SAMBARRY:
taryour the chefs no be me and you get beef.the only beef I have with you be say you never prepare the pounded yam goat meat and egusi soup wey you promise me

So to the matter. It is not a sin to implicate someone that earlier took advantage of you and wants to even turn you to atm machine. This world is not a nice place. If you don't protect yourself you'll be trampled upon.

SAMBARRY:
taryour the chefs no be me and you get beef.the only beef I have with you be say you never prepare the pounded yam goat meat and egusi soup wey you promise me

So to the matter. It is not a sin to implicate someone that earlier took advantage of you and wants to even turn you to atm machine. This world is not a nice place. If you don't protect yourself you'll be trampled upon.

taryour:
Haaaa food wey i don prepare since last year. Na you no gree come chop na. Lol

SAMBARRY:
food wey I no see

taryour:
You sure say you no see am. Lol. Na because you no open your eyes oo, oya open ya eye and yee shall see...

SAMBARRY:
oya upload am here at least my eyes go chop belleful

diva90:
Don't give him money. The moment you give him money, he will ask for more and keep black mailing you. Don't tell your husband about what happened either( you already know he won't forgive you and you will use your hand to scatter your marriage)... Spoil his so called friend's image/reputation first by telling your husband that his friend made sexual advances at you and that you want him to leave the house because you don't feel comfortable with his presence anymore. Men don't like it when their territory is being threatened so u know that telling him something like that will quickly alert his senses....If your husband trusts you, he will believe you and act fast by then you have already made his friend handicapped and he cannot carry out his blackmail or soil your image any more. The only way that you will be In serious trouble is if you two have a sex tape or he secretly recorded you carrying out the deed. Other than that you should be fine... Just speak out first and fast

diva90:
Anu mpama. You are the one that's a disgrace to your entire family and generations to come. You don't support evil but yet you advice a woman to ruin her home. I wonder why people like you even visit threads like this, you are the same motherfuckers breaking homes and luring naive women into trouble. Swear that you are a one woman man now and drop dead. Shameless fool!

taryour:
Lol.

Jackrich:
She better start confessing before we will hear stories that touches o.
Cococandy , what sayeth thou ?

edwife:
Please when you said advice a woman ruin her home how? Didn't she ruin her home by sleeping with her husband's friend in her matrimonial home probably on her matrimonial bed?

If you said that she must use evil to cover another evil good but ain't nobody ruining something she ruined by herself.

diva90:
No! SHAME ON YOU!! Because you don't think like a wise woman.
Okay! She confesses, he sends her packing... What next Marriage done end... You have succeeded in helping her ruin her marriage. She even specified it in her write up that the man will send her packing if he finds out, read it again.
In this world we all have our secrets including you... Including her husband. Do you think the man doesn't have things he has kept to himself that the wife doesn't know?? Or Can you honestly say that you have never lied in this life or hidden a truth that would have deprived you of a benefit?? Answer na! Because you are a Saint that can never do wrong Abi?
You are entitled to your silly opinion but I'm trying to be as practical and as realistic as I can be with the Poster. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. When you run into your own problems, handle it the way you have prescribed and let's see if you will survive it.