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Pls, my friend needs help o. During his wife child birth early last year, she had a tear which was stitched and nurses advised her that the thread will melt or dissolve with time. But recently my friend came complaining that he is afraid having intimacy with his wife because for sometime now, anytime he does, he would experience a stinging sensasion and he would have a bruised organ anytime he does to the extent that there will be peeling at the area where his rod contacts where she was stitched. He has complained bitterly to his wife, who at present is pregnant. The wife has gone to the General hospital where the stitches were done, but she was told that they cannot do anything about it now till on her labour time. My friend is getting starved, but the wife does not want to understand that because she feels her husband is just dodging from sex with her because maybe he usually have it with other ladies outside. With his finger, my friend feels this pitching or stinging sensation, but the wife says she does not feel anything. Both now think it could be an infection. My friend is really suffering from this situation and the pregnant wife is worried too and they are contemplating going to a private hospital to see what can be done to remedy this condition. Pls advice needed urgently.

ur friend?

if they can afford it, then they should get 2nd n third opinions

wen the gen hospital says they cant do anything bout it, does it mean the stitch is still in place? cos that means the thread is not gonna dissolve. Tho, i guess i'm stating the obvious

You can seek a second opinion but I really doubt there's much they can do as your wife is pregnant. .there's a risk of losing the pregnancy if they try to tamper with her vg..

If the second hospital says abstain, then do it.. you can go oral or a condom could prevent the injury. . This one you dey para like this, let me not see your middle leg outside oo. You're in this together with your wife..

Btw, she gave birth last year and she's pregnant again? Oga take am easy o

nickxtra:
My friend is getting staved, but the wife does not want to understand that because she feels his husband is just judging from sex with her because maybe he usually have it with other ladies outside.

What exactly does he want the wife to do? A pregnant nursing mother? Is it her fault?

Also, is he cheating?

Lalasticlala , come and help move this thread to the health section. .he'll get better responses there..

What a heartless man he is. How many pregnancies in a short while? The man is complaining bitterly as if it is the wife that sutured the area and left it intentionally like that.
Do you think you are the only one that enjoys sex or do you think the woman is not feeling starved too cos of the poor penetration.?

Wait till she delivers so the will suffer another round of pain to make it tighter and more "penetratable" for you.

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