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Can a 21yr old graduate, with Solid financial backing marry? And why not? The idea always gets scoffed at but with no good reasons. 

[quote author=~Borat~ link=topic=306676.msg4313898#msg4313898 date=1249636915]Can a 21yr old graduate, with Solid financial backing marry? And why not? The idea always gets scoffed at but with no good reasons.  [/quote]marriage is not all about money but being psychologically loaded huh

emilyone:
marriage is not all about money but being psychologically loaded huh

I'm sorry but i dont agree with this

I think it is better for her/him to enjoy herself/himself more before going into marriage.
This is some of the reasons why you see married men now wanna have fun and married women, cos they never had the fun while single.
What is the point rushing into something that you will be enjoying forever?
Marriage is like having a television with so many channels but yu can only watch one channel all your life.

[quote author=~Borat~ link=topic=306676.msg4313898#msg4313898 date=1249636915]Can a 21yr old graduate, with Solid financial backing marry? And why not? The idea always gets scoffed at but with no good reasons. [/quote]with your question now, can a 21yrs old with all this qualities you are talking about date a man or a woman?

The question you are asking shows that such is not mature enough.
It is not money

Are you responsible or man enough to handle this issue?
Think of it.

If you're matured enough to tolerate, why not?

chaircover:
A man can have all the money in the world but if he doesn't treat his wife right or is a bad husband in every other area, then the wife will take a walk.

True but that same wife will walk away quicker if there is no money or she'll start cheating

@ Post
If he's mentally ready for marriage and he's got no probs financially den he can definately go ahead

tboy1:
I'm sorry but i dont agree with this

. I'm sorry I do .......... Durh state of mind does really matter........ Marriage is a life long institution ..... So u need it's psychology in other to prevail undoubtedly.... If u aren't. Ready mentally.... Ur nt ready den

tboy1:
True but that same wife will walk away quicker if there is no money or she'll start cheating

@ Post
If he's mentally ready for marriage and he's got no probs financially den he can definately go ahead

gbam

Fhemmmy:
I think it is better for her/him to enjoy herself/himself more before going into marriage.
This is some of the reasons why you see married men now wanna have fun and married women, cos they never had the fun while single.
What is the point rushing into something that you will be enjoying forever?
Marriage is like having a television with so many channels but yu can only watch one channel all your life.

And is jumping from one partner to another enjoyment?

and who told you those married ones have fun cos they never had it while they were young?

Darteyyyy:
And is jumping from one partner to another enjoyment?

and who told you those married ones have fun cos they never had it while they were young?

Abi o! see reasoning. I remember when Steph Curry (an American basketball player) was asked why he married so young he said if you have found the right one, why wait?
What would i be waiting for if i met the right girl?

Borat1:
Can a 21yr old graduate, with Solid financial backing marry? And why not? The idea always gets scoffed at but with no good reasons. 

are you married now?

You can be 30 and f00lish; also you can be 21 and wise.


Can a 21 year old marry? I will answer that with a question, can a wise/ f00lish woman marry?


Check your religious book for the meaning of a "f00lish woman".

Acidosis:
You can be 30 and f00lish; also you can be 21 and wise.


Can a 21 year old marry? I will answer that with a question, can a wise/ f00lish woman marry?


Check your religious book for the meaning of a "f00lish woman".

u needn't have bordered to try to make sense