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| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 8:58pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
firstEVA:Now here comes a sound woman, her steps and utterances ordered my wisdom and knowledge. Worthy of an intellectual debate she is. But let me chip in this: I see men adjusting quite in a contrary way to your expectations. They'll keep having the under 18s as either wives or sex partners. Or worse, they no longer consider women marriage-worthy, and opt for contracts where women give them kids, and they live their life free from marriages. It's happening already. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by Nobody: 8:59pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann: ![]() Yes pls |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by K9blunt(f): 9:17pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann:Lolz , my dear your write up and comments , I know I am old enough to be your mother or auntie. You need to grow up, up there son, no offence. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 9:19pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
firstEVA:Very true. But in that part of the country it is common sight to see men with 2nd wives with children. And when a man has degenerated to such extent, his wife is sexually nothing to him! He more or less don't care. His sexual thirst is COMPLETELY being fed from another fountain. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 9:23pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
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| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 9:23pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
K9blunt:Ok, I know it's a faceless forum and talk is cheap. But was it you in a dehumanised pose, flaunting your backside in your DP? Then you must be a terrible mother. No offence ma'am! |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by Nobody: 9:25pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann:I agree, those who do not have a second wife, have strings of concubines to the knowledge of their wives. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by K9blunt(f): 9:26pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann:Need I say more. You just proved me right |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by Nobody: 9:27pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Postmann did you say dehumanised pose? Hahahahahahahahahaha , there is nothing I won't hear o, chaiiiiiiiiiii!!!!! |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 9:33pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
firstEVA:She s full of denial. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lovaleenny(f): 9:39pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann:You ended saying soo much without actually saying anything tangible . I read her reply towards your post and GodnGold's reply too and i quite agree with them. If u had any other contrary opinion just say it and you both should trash it out rather than dance and beat around the bush with huge vocabulary words that aren't called for. All these men (sorry boys) that are so full of themselves one would think they should have choked on it by now K9blunt was right: Grow up son! |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 9:43pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Have you come to stand in for her? I mean the Divergent. If so, let me know. There are enough replies to go round. *modified: Less I forgot, this post by its content generates different reactions from different kinds of women. The humble The recalcitrant feminist And the potential adulteress/sexually rascal woman By thier reactions/replies you know which category they belong. Of which category are you, dear lovaleenny?. lovaleenny: |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lezz(m): 9:48pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Hehehehe!!! Women are having emotional and psychological readjustments to sexual liberties in recent times, though. I've met women who only wanted _fuck for _fuck's sakes. Although basic biology tells me women get somewhat attached to their lovers, but I ponder if such attachment can't be severed by other environmental and behavioural factors. It behoves women should take precautionary measure in sexual indiscretions, but in all frankness, the sexual failings of women are the lack of leadership of men! |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lovaleenny(f): 9:52pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann:First of all there's no such thing as "the divergent"...it aint a noun, it's meant to be used in adjective form mr. postman and quit the ego thing going on with "my reply this, my reply that". One can always spot the defensiveness going on with you. You don't have any reply you're only hiding behind your wrong use of diction rather than face the fact that your post reeks of chauvinism, double standards and irrational perspective towards cheating in genders am out! |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lovaleenny(f): 10:02pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann:I hope you can also use huge english terms for ur fellow men that feel they can shove their tiny pees pees inside every skirt they see. Her post wasn't feminist, her post was stating the obvious fact that the consequences of "Cheating" isn't weighting more on the female gender but both. And every individual will face the consequences of their actions. But u didn't read it did you? Coz ur mind was focused on "Lesbiangirl" and you automatically thought she didn't say any tangible and scoffed by calling her lezzie and feminist. Before i go..i leave u with one advice; "remove the log from your eyes before you point at someone else's" ![]() |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 10:08pm On Feb 28, 2016*. Modified: 11:48pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lovaleenny:I see you're suffering from my lexical intimidation. The Divergent is grammatically correct if only you are clever enough during your days of schooling. You should have known the article "the" qualifies that adjective to be used as a noun. Now you've failed your bunch of recalcitrant feminists woefully. The content of my post is too serious for you to ignore and start finding holes in my grammar. Now you'll go to bed in shame. There are ready made replies to give the Divergent and all other recalcitrant feminists who will be bold enough to stand in her place. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lezz(m): 10:08pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lovaleenny:Actually, you're the one with the grammar -blemish. Divergent is actually an adjective but when preceded by the definite Article, " The" it becomes an adjectival noun. So foolish or dead are both adjectives but when you add the definite article, e.g , The dead or The foolish it becomes an adjectival Noun. But let us dispense with this grammar correctness. Tell me your views on the topic. Personally, I think _fuck is a matter of subjective morality and not gender based. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by SAMBARRY: 10:11pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
You sef have time to be replying baseless thrash I'm out OF here.this thread is full of bs lesbiangirl: |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lovaleenny(f): 10:19pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann:Using vocabs doesn't make u smart u hear! Am not suffering from intimidation but you are. Your defensiveness will build and build till u burst open one day. There's no standing in her place coz deres no place to begin with. You brought your post to an open forum so u shud be smart enuf to accomodate criticism and contrary views on it. And you talk about your views in a civil manner rather curl and hide behind unnecessary vocabs, and name tagging. So anyone dt has contrary view on ur post is now a feminist ehn. You make it sound like it's a bad thing. Atleast they are fighting for a cause but then again i don't expect you to understand since u feel the freedom women are enjoying is "ungodly". Am out! |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lovaleenny(f): 10:22pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lezz:Thanks for the correction. My own view on cheating is "anyone doing it should be responsible for the consequences that comes with it and not put blame on any gender". Also guys shudnt feel ladies cheating is some sort of taboo while over-looking theirs. One needs to be fair in their perspectives rather than accomodate double standards. My 2kobo! |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 10:32pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Oh, contrary views are always respected. You blind hypocrite. The guy you mentioned God&Gold held a contrary view. He was civilized and gentlemanly and I accorded him all the respect a civilized response deserve. But for you and the divergent and other feminists, I just served you with the dirty plates you brought to this thread. Oh, feminist is a negative word. This post is my effort with sound research. And I expected contrary views and I'm well poised to answer them. But first, I need to rid this thread off comprehension deficient lesbians and angry emotional-wrecked feminists. lovaleenny: |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lovaleenny(f): 10:41pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann:Smh! I don't even know why i bothered do enjoy your angry-bitter filled life. Hopefully you'll find inner peace and joy in the end. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by kurupt1: 10:42pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lesbiangirl:. Lol........u go arrange boiz to beat me up,later you will come back to my house shebi maybe ur living in america but this is naija. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lezz(m): 10:53pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lovaleenny:You're absolutely correct!!! Sex and cheating are purely subjective in opinion and morality, and if any blame should be doled out, in my opinion, I think men should carry more of the responsibility. It takes two to cheat and men are often the initiators. 'sides, sex has become so well-worn everyone knows the likely fallout. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lovaleenny(f): 10:58pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lezz:Thank you my brother...please kindly dt to d op hopefully he won't label you a feminist. Have a goodnight ![]() |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 10:59pm On Feb 28, 2016*. Modified: 11:56pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lovaleenny: ![]() My life is quite the opposite of what you describe. But I hate feminists. They are satanically inspired and possessed. I was seriously tempted to add up scriptural references to this post. But I had to leave it out. Feminists are rebels. As a woman you're either under a husband's authority or you're under the control of a demon who inspires you to be rebellious and resist authority. No woman is under her own control. Either she yields to her MAKER who puts her under the authority of her father (for the unmarried ) or under the authority of her husband. Or she yields to a demon who possesses her and makes her rebellious. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lezz(m): 11:04pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lovaleenny: I love Nairaland for its varying opinions.To each his/her own views and beliefs. Life is to be lived to the fullest. There's oft time for rest. Good night, dear. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 11:09pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Hey, king Troll, I don't care about your reputation here, but don't you dare twist the fact. This thread isn't about who should carry more of the blame. IT IS ABOUT THE SIMPLE FACT THAT WOMEN HAVE MORE TO LOSE THAN MEN IN INFIDELITY AND SEXUAL RASCALITY. And the facts are clear and fact-proven even for bats to see. Do you like lovaleenny? lezz: |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by lezz(m): 11:18pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
postmann: postmann:Read my first post on this thread. postmann:I love women!! Nothing compares to the beauty of a woman. |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 11:24pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
lezz:Oh, quit with the sarcasm, KING TROLL. Why did you derail then? To please her? Or a pay back for always messing up your threads? I see, but don't you use my thread as a hunting ground. ![]() |
| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 1:11am On Feb 29, 2016*. Modified: 1:28am On Feb 29, 2016 |
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| Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by postmann(op): 1:33am On Feb 29, 2016*. Modified: 5:24am On Feb 29, 2016 |
You failed to meet my demands and yet some disatisfied woman said I should reply you. For the record sake, I will. Not that you're worthy. And I'll expurgate your handle if I could. 1) If you had paid attention in your English classes, you would have understood the different types of introduction used when writing an essay and wouldn't bother with my style of writing. But I guess your lesbian pervertions were already taking little sprouts of roots back then and your little perverted, lustful eyes were on young innocent, little Ada while the lessons lasted. ![]() 2) Again, you displayed your comprehension deficiency. What, is feminism so bad that it also affects basic comprehension too? Since I said " ungodly freedom ", it automatically means there are "godly freedom" and no one was talking about enslavement of women. But guess what? Your tactics of playing the victim by crying out where there is no oppression, is a well known tactics employed by women. Especially the deceitful, manipulative, 21st century replica of Eve - the originator of sin, usurpation, disobedience and damnation. That reply of yours was to draw sympathy and a lot of fools fell for it. 3) Again, you skipped your English classes in pursuit of a less dignified extracurricular activity (lesbianism ) 4) You should have taken an off-course lesson for debates before vying your way into my thread. We are not talking about cheating per se, but the consequences as it affects male and female. 5) And here she goes again! "Cheating is cheating irrespective of gender ". Didn't you see that in the later paragraph in my post?? I AM TALKING ABOUT THE "CONSEQUENTIAL REPERCUSSIONS OF CHEATING" AND IT IS GENDER SENSITIVE!!!! What can't your lesbian compromised faculty grab ? Or do men carry the shame of an unwanted pregnancy outside marriage?Feminists are lousy, low intelligent fallout from human societal error! 6) Are those your role models? I'll refrain from saying anything detrimental to them cos they never gave you permission to drag their names here in your shameless debate.Call us hypocrites but we are very interested in our women's sexual history. It's one of the ways we are different from you. woman is created FOR MAN!!! And not the other way round. Our bodies don't bear traces of our sexual past, but yours do. GOD made it that way, because HE is wise. Even your local juju in your village reacts when a married woman cheats. The sum total of your life and reason for your being, is to help your ordained husband, a man, in whatever way he finds conducive. Failure to comply, then you'll suffer the fate of all ignoble recalcitrant women. You're the lesser vessel as long as this earthly sojourn lasts ![]() 7) Must you reply Single mothers get married mostly to divorcees and widowers. Or much less desired suitors since their is a baby that diminishes her bridal value. You're really a lousy defence for recalcitrant females! ![]() Must families from unbroken home are very reluctant in allowing any of their children to marry into broken homes. And the daughters do have problems just like the sons. For example, a father who is well known for wife battery and multiple marriages will have his ignoble act as a barrier to his son when he wants to get married from a respectable family. So it is with a daughter whose mother is known to have married several men or was promiscuous. You're one denial-loaded, blind feminist. 9) Way fewer men than women get emotionally involved in extra-marital affairs. That's why men don't send their wives packing as easy as they cheat. And that's why they'd rather run 2 homes or keep a side chick. Except the side chick employs diabolical, fetish methods, she is more likely to remain a concubine than a wife to the cheating man. And that's a well known fact! Men are more likely to sleep with a woman he just met than women sleeping with a guy they just met. While the woman is like, let's get to know each other better, most probably after some dates and hanging out, and several night romantic calls and chats. The man is already ready for sex if he finds the girl sexuality attractive. While the girl would be like, "I'm not that cheap" 11) So you now know more than all the experts and world renowned researchers who have compelling proofs and evidence to show that while STDs affects both genders, it is worse on women? Hehehehe! You elected yourself to defend women even in your intellectual bankruptcy. You reek of uncommon arrogance in your hopeless attempts to defile nature! I've seen women who toll your line. Some are at most financially OK, but are lonely miserable wretches who live in a forlorn, desperate, shameful state. They cry themselves to sleep most nights. Most women of failed marriages run to their children's matrimonial homes and try to marry their sons or daughters, constituting the well known mother-inlaw-nuisance, plaguing several marriages. They are a destructive cycle! A generational curse!!! Others are far more miserable frustrated worms, who paid the double price for trying to be what nature and GOD didn't call them to be. They go to the grave as unfulfilled, angry, loathsome, restless packs of regrets. The only path available to a woman's joy and fulfilment is HUMILITY and SUBMISSION ! lesbiangirl: |
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