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| How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Nobody: 7:20pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
I'm a married man and happily in love with my wife and daughter, problems started when my wife did some things that made me not to trust her. She was having a secret phone conversation with her ex which prompted me in having an affair with a lady though it wasn't what I feel like doing. I met this lady and so quickly things started fast with us despite i told her I have a wife and a daughter but she feels she has found a young handsome guy she can snatch like that o, we started going out to the gym, spend time together but i tried to keep the relationship away from anyone knowing in my street because she lives on a street closer to mine, she became a competitor with my wife and along the line she was having calls with my wife which I thought will change my wife when she knows I'm having an affair outside but things got out of hand when I tried to stop the relationship when I realize things was getting out of Hand and threaten to chase my wife out and it to my surprise it happened as she promised, my wife left same day, time she told me she will leave and she was telling she visited a man of God who told her my wife is possess and she will definitely leave. Everything happened and we broke up after she started causing troubles with the guy that introduce us to each other because the guy was dating the lady's younger sister and they had problems which got me involved. We broke up And my wife got back home and she changed enviroment but she still stalks me and each time she drops a whatsapp messages with words like My husband, my love. I think she's trying not to let go and she still wants me to see her. And I always avoid her everytime she ask us to meet .. How do u handle a stalker in this situation .cc: lalasticlala |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by kilokeys(m): 7:25pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
You are very silly , sir. Ur head is not very correct, Sir. Ur wife is back... Thats all that matters. Block her thru whatsapp. Blacklist her number with apps available for download. Work things out with ur wife, and stop snooping around her phone.. Its a private property. 7 Likes |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by MzPecs(f): 7:32pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Silly story! |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Predictor007(m): 7:37pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Adultery........... |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by tsephanyah(f): 7:56pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
most I write something |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by MARKone(m): 8:01pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Lol How did you got involved with a stalker  . Two wrongs don't make a right Mr OP, the moment you suspected that your wife might be cheating, that is when u should have confronted her, nip the whole ish by the bud, and not looking for a Congo to shine, all in the name that you are paying back your wife for her supposed infidelity. I hope say girl next door, abi Street no be Karashika, na that one go hard, all the best bro. |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Applaner: 8:16pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
I don't know what nairaland is turning into. No need to read that story |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by FynBabe(f): 8:41pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Ode! |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Swissheart(f): 8:46pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Disappointed |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Richy4(m): 10:11pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
I can't judge you sir........But your write up shows nothing about feeling remorse in breaking the 7th Commandment..... Besides, I did not understand the write up so much but was it your sin partner, the one you were committing adultery with that told you that her pastor said your wife was a witch? Sorry for being so blunt..... some times hyperbole is better than Euphemism when passing messages across |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Dyt(f): 10:16pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
All I can do is smh |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Adonis3: 5:42am On Mar 02, 2016 |
but how do people reason You think the best way to deal with a cheating partner is to go cheat tooo  Two wrongs never make a right! Well, OP Just straighten things out with your wife And forget the HO.E!! #Adonis3HasSopken |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by luciouscookie: 6:28am On Mar 02, 2016 |
Silly pool with a dangling snake. He will never take responsibility for his stewpid action. |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Nobody: 6:39am On Mar 02, 2016 |
How d hell did anyone read this and understand it? |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by lesbiangirl(f): 6:41am On Mar 02, 2016 |
but she still stalks me and each time she drops a whatsapp messages with words like My husband, my love. I think she's trying not to let go and she still wants me to see her. And I always avoid her everytime she ask us to meet..How do u handle a stalker in this situation .cc: lalasticlala I do hope she stalks you till thy kingdom comes. What ur wife did was terrible, but what you did to handle it was extremely foolish and u deserve every consequences that comes with it. So u felt if u cheat, it'll make ur wife sit up...just shows u both still don't know what it takes to keep a union. Wife dey talk to ex...hubby sef dey cheat...kasala don burst nw na NL go come hear am  ...the only way to get rid of ur stalker is either to find her another man or kill her. My money is on the latter though  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Nobody: 7:24am On Mar 02, 2016 |
This happened to a very close pal of mine and his home is perfectly intact now but the other lady keeps disturbing him. But his wife seems to be attached to her ex and anytime she goes to the area her ex lives, she end up meeting her ex lesbiangirl: |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by lesbiangirl(f): 7:33am On Mar 02, 2016 |
Ferraricash:Hian!that home isn't intact o...ur frnd has alot to deal with o...he has to curb his wife's attachment to her ex while also keeping the ex-sidechick at bay.  all the best to him 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Nobody: 7:46am On Mar 02, 2016 |
lesbiangirl:you are absolutely right, my friend recently told me about his intention in starting a great bussiness with his wife but he has a lot of fears. I tried my best to talk to him, but he feels like his wife just need to confess to him after he found out that his wife was in a romance with 2 ex when she left home and she confessed it was just a Kiss kiss thing, he promised to forgive her even if truely she had sex while away from home |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Nobody: 7:53am On Mar 02, 2016 |
I think we all just need to learn about keeping our homes and never compare your husband/wife to any ex, learn to talk about things., never keep secrets from each other, protect your home from any silly advice from friends and even families, trust each other, when you both offend each other, they should try and talk abt it and let it end on the bed  . You don't need an ex in your life once you have your wife/husband. Don't let think every secret will forever remain secret, so every man/woman should never hide things from theirselves because breeze will blow one day and fowl's bumbum go open |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by keepingmum: 9:01am On Mar 02, 2016 |
goat, ewu, feeling like a handsome something Mtscheeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww  She never begin stalk you COWWWWW So your wife communicating with an ex results in ADULTERY abi? You even allowed her to disrespect your wife by communicating and harrassing your wife Your wife left her home because you and your fetish whooree drove her out yet it didnt bother you until you had issues and she wont let go? May amadioha +sango strike you mmmmttsssssshhhheeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Sijo01(f): 9:14am On Mar 02, 2016 |
A kid in adult clothing |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Sijo01(f): 9:20am On Mar 02, 2016 |
Ferraricash:Hah! If you're this good at advising yourself and others, why did you thread the wrong part and why did you bring the matter to nl End shall not wonder! |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Nobody: 7:38am On Mar 03, 2016 |
Sijo01:maybe u just got the whole thing wrong |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by Nobody: 7:41am On Mar 03, 2016 |
Sometime u need to hear their whole story, there are 2sides to a coin, I found out that they are both wrong and she admitted her own part. If u see Sango, can u call his first letter talkless of the full pronounciation keepingmum: |
| Re: How Do U Handle Situations Like This by keepingmum: 9:16am On Mar 03, 2016 |
Is it not the same woman, you impregnated and ran away from? Then later returned after childbirth? putting her through so much turmoil and shame? Yet you have the temerity to cheat... please mtssssheeewww!!! |
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