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I'm 18 And Stuck With 2 Best Friends; Should I Just Kiss One Already?
Hello, I know I shouldn't be here but I just found your blog on Google Search and I need adult help as quickly as possible. I'm sending you this mail because my situation is very complicated. Ok, so at the start of the school year (I'm an 18 year old, shy, smart and moderately rich, chasis car owner 200 level student), I started becoming friends with these two girls (Best friends on
campus). I will call them Brandy and Funmi. I met Brandy before I met Funmi, and had a crush on her. I was just generally attracted to her, and she thought I was funny, but that was really as far as it went in my mind. After about 3 months of trying to Pursue something with Brandy, I became more introduced with her best friend Funmi (when I say best friend, I mean they value no one more than each other on campus and outside, everyone knows them as an item and they are both smart and hardworking.. best friends forever BFF). At first, i thought she was nice and funny. I didn't think much of it. Give it about 2 weeks of talking and having conversations with this girl and I couldn't get her off my mind.

Aunty Eya, believe me She's gorgeous just looking at her makes me smile uncontrollably. Her laugh is incredible, she's sexy, she's hilarious, and all I want to do is be around her more often. Anyways, one night while texting, Brandy asks me who I like. She forced the answer out of me, as I told her I like her best friend, Funmi. and her overall reaction led me to believe that Funmi wants nothing to do with me as anything more than a friend. Well as it turns out, not only does Funmi like me like crazy, Brandy is equally falling for me, if not even more in love with me than Funmi is. To sum it up, they both really really like me and I'm freaking out because thiz iz bizzare. I had no damn idea what to do!!! Like I have literally never had this issue before in my entire life, it's always been a lack of girls, unable to talk to those I like or their complete rejection of me as in, and now I have too many already interested in me!! Well, right now, things are as weird as they could get . Me and Funmi see each other alone as often as possible, which usually means twice for about 2-3 hours over the weekends. I don't know what she tells her best friend before coming to spend time with me. They are room mates and always together like boli roasted planted and pepper sauce.

We usually hang out together, have deep talks, basically just what a couple usually does at our age, but there's one problem. I desperately want to kiss her, and go further with her, and even after our three months knowing we really like each other, we haven't done anything. I don't want a situation where because they both like me, we start hiding our relationship or trying to be discreet. I feel stuck. Sometimes I get frustrated with Brandy in my mind, but I know that it's not her fault for having true feelings for me only when she saw that I was getting interested in her friend. In my heart, I want nothing more than to have Funmi as my date, and give her an amazing time on this campus, but of course we can't do that if Funmi thinks that Brandy wouldn't be ok with it. I just want her to be happy, because she's never had anyone that truly cared about her before. I just simply
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mctheeew!!!!

Missingrib lol no be small mcheew

missingrib:
mctheeew!!!!

Didn't read pass the first paragraph but from the little I read you sure can do that again.

missingrib:
mctheeew!!!!

I like how u av summarized d whole mumbo-jumbo

diportivo:
I like how u av summarized d whole mumbo-jumbo

I tell u so annoying ...I even manage to read it all thinking there is sense in it..

make i undastand ur point. u wan kiss or want to have one gf abi bff

Chukwu abiama bia naputa nwata nke a ngwa ngwa maka oku igba ya na eruyi eru.... Nna ndo ooo

Find ur brain first