A man that masturbates in presence of his wife without involving her is TOTALLY disgusted with his wife or a misogynist. Either way he hates her guts. Every sane woman ought to know that. It's certainly not a sign of his gayness.


On this case, I think that this lady has been driven insane. What a pity.

When you put the story together,she is for real but got carried away by the social standing of the owulirii.if most of us knows what is lurking behind all the massive mansion and their children and parents we will not even dear to go near them.best advice ever for everyone please marry from you own class and social standing.

olihilistic:
I hate gays

why ma

northvietnam:
Gays dont mas.................. In front of a lady,should be in front of same specie..
It's either He is so so into vaslining (so so into him self, yeaah it do happen when u just finished having sex and you still go to the shower to play with soap).
Or

Having issues with the wife

Or

The woman maybe related to our minister of information

u mean lie Mohammed?

Ok

[quote author=jcross19 post=43676778]the story have loopholes , why would a married man masturbate when he has a pretty wife or a wife? Something is fishing here , maybe the wife was not sexually active enough or the wife was denying his right.Well God know the best/quote]
only a mental retard man will masturbate in the presence of his wife. Its either he's high on drugs or he actually didnt finish his treatment at the psyco home. All these money miss road pikin self. The mother is sure a big disgrace to womanhood no matter the angle of a story. If you can help your son keep a home i wonder how she became the minister

Just a simple quote says it all...

"Not Everything that glitters is GOLD"

Gold digger ladies out there, You better learn from her ordeal but some strongheaded ones amongst you wouldn't listen and after they might have faced similar trauma, they would now come here on Nairaland looking for public sympathy.

Ladies Wise up!!!

I am not in support of masturbation buh i think the woman is not sexually active or that type of woman who gives excuse why she shouldnt have sex with the husband.

which kind talk be dis one now, Emeka Onwuliri gay ke. One thing that is as sure as rain and taxes is that we graduates of St Murumba College, Jos sure love the ladies. Gay fire, pretty women don finish for town wey St Murumba guy go dey sleep with him fellow man?!

Something sure doesn't add up.

Suigeneris93:



Lol! Do I smell a compliment there somewhere?

You indeed have an excellent olfactory sense...

One first lady from coal city was crying foul about her husband the governor that time.

Happily NEVER after

why go all this length when the laws of Nigeria provides a legal way out if your marriage has become an eternal endurance race.this lady must be evil.she should go and learn what Joseph did when she found that his bride to be was pregnant.being a decent man Joseph wanted to dissolve the union very quietly so that Mary is not put to public disgrace.this woman is evil,it is now that she knows he is gay.MAY GOD HEAL the unemployable hubby,why wont he masturbate or malfunction when marrying you led him to a state of unemployable.everybody wants to seduce her,the sponsor,the ex minister ,even me the nairalander.SHIO.

I am marrying him/her and not his/her family.
See where it leads one to? When you tell them say, if Papa and Mama no put hand, DO NOT CHOOK YA HEAD dem no go gree hear.

RedCapChief:
Masturbation is not the exclusive preserve of homosexuals; even heterosexual men masturbate.

This woman's story is like an INEC election; inconclusive.
Let us hear from the man before condemning him. She is angry with him so she can say all kind of crap about him just to embarrass him.

Let's assume you hear from the man and it happens to be true. What are you condemning him for? It is not your body neither is it your life or he borrowed someone's hand to relieve himself.

There was a topic on Nairaland where a girl was asking if she could date a barber though he was in his final year and a dull senseless girl names Comfort kept insulting my mum nd me, when I made a comment. These is a prove that d rich also face shit in relationship and money in a relationship do not guarantee happiness. I hope she learns from these

Doxie69:
Let's assume you hear from the man and it happens to be true. What are you condemning him for? It is not your body neither is it your life or he borrowed someone's hand to relieve himself.

I don't know what happens in your village, but where I come from, men are not violent towards their wives. Any man who beats his wife unjustly should be condemned.

I can shout, get angry and in the process insult, but to lay my hands on my wife (not married). Would definitely be madness on my part.

1: why can't some women quit controling their kids and families after marriage? Why can't some women just accept a fellow woman easily without causing trouble.

2: what sort of man masturbates when he hasn't satisfied his wife, beats his wife? Brings male partners to his matrimonial home to shag? These rich kids eh and their expensive marriages wey no dey last.

3:the rich also cry. We ladies have to realise when you go to a home and mama of the guy no like you or your background, dust your heels and scamper for safety. Don't put yourself in such a situaton where after marriage, you start runnng from church to church for prayers so your husband's people like you. That's the whole essence of courtship, go and balance where you're celebrated and accepted not where you're tolerated.



4: if when you should shine your eyes to see and notice things in courtship, you use it to attend societal gatherings that show you in papers and social media, no come back begin cry o!

jcross19:
the story have loopholes , why would a married man masturbate when he has a pretty wife or a wife? Something is fishing here , maybe the wife was not sexually active enough or the wife was denying his right. Well God know the best.

Or maybe because the man is gay as it was clearly stated in the post must you always find a way to blame the woman?

The fact remains that you cannot judge the matter based on what you hear from only one of the opponents. She is married and I think she should be respected but moreso, she should try to co-exist with the family of her husband. If the husband loved her at the beginning not listening to his mother then, I think something would have made him to change his position. You can only determine the truth when you listen to both parties.

RedCapChief:
Masturbation is not the exclusive preserve of homosexuals; even heterosexual men masturbate.

This woman's story is like an INEC election; inconclusive.
Let us hear from the man before condemning him. She is angry with him so she can say all kind of crap about him just to embarrass him.

When the man was saying is side, you didn't say let's hear from the woman o

jcross19:
the story have loopholes , why would a married man masturbate when he has a pretty wife or a wife? Something is fishing here , maybe the wife was not sexually active enough or the wife was denying his right. Well God know the best.

bros a man can do anything to spite a woman he is tire of.
Thats by the way: i blame this lady for everything. In Igboland marriage is between two families and not just the man & the woman. When she noticed that her would be mother-inlaw doesnt like her, she would backed off as igbo lady that knows igbo culture. I think she was head in love with the guy. Girls fail to know that there is more in marriage than just love.
Saying they took away her daughters is nonsense. In igboland the husband owns the children. Igbos dont share children between couples. All these things they are borrowing from oyibo man is what is leading to high level of failed marriage in Africa, Nigeria & amongst Igbos in particular. It is because she thought she was marrying oyibo whose family has no say in his marriage that she ignored glearing warnings of the mother inlaw will do.

Ladies make una learn lessons here.

She hear minister son,she jump join the ship...better thing good oh,but e dey run belle.

dts wt hapen wen u marry for money n name/fame

The elaboratness of your wedding has nothing to do with the success of your marriage.

Alejhandro:
Pls mention d former minister. Kema or Viola or

Uno read the post ni?

Goldrushnigeria:



http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2016/03/my-husband-is-gay-former-ministers.html?m=1

post pics of him masturbating then I'll believe SINCE U WERE THERE WITH HIM

Forwetinnah:


..i guess you didn't read the part where she said he brought men home and slept with them on their matrimonial when they were in Canada. He took to masturbation here in Nigeria because his fellow gays are not easy to come by besides he could be exposed. Men should learn to speak the truth not make excuses for an obvious pervert!!

OK I didn't,bt d OP nid to correct d headin

Goldrushnigeria:



http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2016/03/my-husband-is-gay-former-ministers.html?m=1

Goldrushnigeria:



http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2016/03/my-husband-is-gay-former-ministers.html?m=1

B*tch alert!!!!!!