Yea right... It 'must' be the woman 's fault.

jcross19:
the story have loopholes , why would a married man masturbate when he has a pretty wife or a wife? Something is fishing here , maybe the wife was not sexually active enough or the wife was denying his right. Well God know the best.

Elijahrona2:


They don't care.

Or u meant to type u don't care.

SycophanticGoat:



You indeed have an excellent olfactory sense...

I am flattered

Wow! And I used to visit the Onwuliris when I was schooling in Jos.

mrdino:

Or u meant to type u don't care.

Lol. You want me to type it?

asha80:
it seems you do not know gay guys...if you like put them in the same room with Kim kardashian nothing go happen as they are only interested in a fellow guys butt

see in every lies there is a truth , vice versa and in that post we can just jump to conclusion when you have heard the other side of the story, mind you the woman in question have no any fan from the husband family that could stand for her!!, then that should raise an alarm of a bad woman, in that post the lady clearly stated that the man declared his love for her in the beginning and at middle of the journey the man change , see something is wrong here .

Forwetinnah:


Ehen?? As usual, you will always look for an opportunity to blame the woman!! The man is gay, naturally they're not attracted to women...the ones from Nigeria/Africa only get married to appease their folks. Abi you need binoculars to read the story again

What some women see in marriages. ...mouth CANNOT SHOUT

come on , woman is the architect of her fall. Women do get it wrong whenever they discovered their have fell for them , they started misbehaving now they will take the man's love for granted because of all these they will be intoxicated by the joy of catching prey that they can easily turn his around not knowing that some men are just wolves under sheep skin, I mean pretenders, so women don't be carried away because of a man that wash your undies today , tomorrow thesame man can hit your ass with koboko.

Wonders shall never end.
She was in my school abroad but studied another course.
She met the guy through facebook and they got married within 2 months

She brought this upon herself
She met the guy via facebook and within 2 months they are married.

Rexleo:
When you put the story together,she is for real but got carried away by the social standing of the owulirii.if most of us knows what is lurking behind all the massive mansion and their children and parents we will not even dear to go near them.best advice ever for everyone please marry from you own class and social standing.

We keep advising you, don't marry for Cheeda you won't agree... I hope you get your life back.

Suigeneris93:



I am flattered

You best be..

When has masturbation qualify a man as a guy?
Well why not ask ur husband why he becomes a guy when you are there as a wife

Vasline on top gear.......

Its very pathetic but a big lesson to all these girls that crave for husbands that are flashy. what matters most is not the caliber of people that attended ur wedding or how much money u spent to make ur wedding look expensive.
Let girls stop chasing shadows and face reality. Women love flashy things and they end up in pains.
Look at the number of witches and wizards that came to her wedding. some of them are the cause of her problems.
Men should also stop their mothers interference in their marriages. its a shame that ur mother will decide when to sleep with ur wife and when not to. what a shame.
There is no love in this marriage at all.

jcross19:
see in every lies there is a truth , vice versa and in that post we can just jump to conclusion when you have heard the other side of the story, mind you the woman in question have no any fan from the husband family that could stand for her!!, then that should raise an alarm of a bad woman, in that post the lady clearly stated that the man declared his love for her in the beginning and at middle of the journey the man change , see something is wrong here .

I understand you but in our society where everyone is expected to get married no matter our sexual orientation and this case a well of offspring of a family it is not hard for gay to proffer love to a woman just to satisfy society and family to get married..after the deed is done it is back to real habits

Alejhandro:
Pls mention d former minister. Kema or Viola or

That's viola's son. Kema's surname is Chikwe not onwuliri

This minister is a very controversial woman. Everyone who knows her personally can testify to the fact that she is a renowned trouble maker. They should let the woman reunite with her children( it is very wrong to take away young children forcefully from their biological mother) but they should work towards a joint custody and equal visitation rights while they go ahead with the dissolution of the marriage, evidently the union cannot be salvaged anymore. The girl was just so slow in acting out, the moment she started being abused was the moment when she should have walked away.... She was more concerned in making peace at the expense of her happiness. Not good! She can't tell me that she didn't suspect that something would happen during the proposed trip to nigeria even with all the issues that were already existing. It's just unfortunate that it all ended this way. Lesson to other women, do not go into a family where you are not 100% accepted.

I knew Emeka back in school, can't say he is gay. That's probably the wife trying to get back at him.
But he is almost but not a nerd, smart and bookish, mastubation thing might not be a lie, but his wife probably does not even know what a gay person is.

Emeka is very gentle, am disappointed to read that he beats his wife, and locks her up?
I think the problem is that he lost his job, and as the saying goes, loose money, loose respect.

Emeka if you are reading this, I will say,
First end all this media court case.
Give your wife some space,
Give your mum some space as well,
Provide as much as you can for your kids but focus on reinvigorating yourself.

Get back to that hammer brain of yours, look real deep, you will find things that Nigeria needs real bad.
Nigeria needs those marathon brain of yours, so no need rushing to Canada, you can go vacation there later.
Look around so many problems need solution. And you even have the pedigree to get funding.
Give the lady her passports and papers, you do not need it, cause you are not likely to find Job in Schlumberger Canader in a downturn.

When you are able to buildup from what we all know you have,
Your wife and all the rest will fall into place.
This is nothing more than money issues, not because your family does not have money, but because it seems you are depending on others including your mother for money. He who pay the piper dictates the tunes. So get back up and play your own tunes.


Emekas Wife, here is the bottom truth.
That guy did not grow up a minister's son, so can't be living with a bloated ego. You are really angry and spewing rubbish, which may come back to bite you.
You have in your hands a brain and a mind that could rival Steve Jobs.
If you cannot make a husband out of that, you will not be able to make a husband out of any better man.
Go help your husband focus on the things he is really good at.

KissCODE:
bros a man can do anything to spite a woman he is tire of.
Thats by the way: i blame this lady for everything. In Igboland marriage is between two families and not just the man & the woman. When she noticed that her would be mother-inlaw doesnt like her, she would backed off as igbo lady that knows igbo culture. I think she was head in love with the guy. Girls fail to know that there is more in marriage than just love.
Saying they took away her daughters is nonsense. In igboland the husband owns the children. Igbos dont share children between couples. All these things they are borrowing from oyibo man is what is leading to high level of failed marriage in Africa, Nigeria & amongst Igbos in particular. It is because she thought she was marrying oyibo whose family has no say in his marriage that she ignored glearing warnings of the mother inlaw will do.

Ladies make una learn lessons here.

Is this Biafra? Igbo culture can never superceed the constitution of Nigeria, if she takes the matter to court he can be charged for kidnapping of his children.

RedCapChief:
Masturbation is not the exclusive preserve of homosexuals; even heterosexual men masturbate.

This woman's story is like an INEC election; inconclusive.
Let us hear from the man before condemning him. She is angry with him so she can say all kind of crap about him just to embarrass him.

PEOPLE SHOULD BE UNBIASE IN READING THIS KIND OF FAMILY PROBLEMS REVEALED TO D PUBLIC. THIS LADY HAS SUFFERED ALL SORTS OF WICKEDNESS.U PEOPLE SHOULD READ IN BETWEEN THE LINES. SHE IS POURING OUT HER HEART.THE SO CALLED HUSBAND IS A MISFIT,SPOILED CHILD,BRUSHED UP TO BE A MAN.THE MOTHER IS D SON'S PROBLEMS.IS IT BY FORCE TO MAKE A SON RESPONSIBLE IF HE DOESNT WANT TO BE? PARENTS SHOULD LEARN.MONEY AND FAME IS NOT ALL THAT BRINGS PEACE AND LOVE.SCHOOL UR CHILDREN WELL.PROPER UP BRINGING IS KEY.

Jeeeeeez!! Christina Amaefule! I can't believe this marriage ended so soon! Daaayyuuuuuummm! I gats inform some of our classmates ASAP......... this is just so damn sad......

Elijahrona2:


They don't care.

Rona(or Rhona) u're either Urhobo or Isoko... And you live in Warri. How are you?

Best graduating student in this state. Well, no one has it all. I was expecting Emeka to be flying real high somewhere, maybe an Intl staff at schlum when I heard he was with schlum, not losing his job and document being stamped "unemployable". For what na? Something is wrong somewhere.

I have come to learn that situations and people change, time only hosts them all.

Elijahrona2:


Don't be filled with hatred for the people. Love the people but hate the character. The people themselves, if given a chance, would want to repent. Have you ever seen one and advised instead of insult him?

My brother when I see you pat someone who steals your money or your certificate and U pat him/her on the head then I will consider your advise.

Its not his fault woman..this only happens when funnel turns tunnel... If u no what I mean.

BE811APP:
dis one is strong

Say No to arangee marriage...

Ladies is not all that glitters that is Gold...

The mother in-law is from Mbaise in Imo State. Na hell fire the women be. Need I say more?

GerogeI:
I knew Emeka back in school, can't say he is gay. That's probably the wife trying to get back at him.
But he is almost but not a nerd, smart and bookish, mastubation thing might not be a lie, but his wife probably does not even know what a gay person is.

Emeka is very gentle, am disappointed to read that he beats his wife, and locks her up?
I think the problem is that he lost his job, and as the saying goes, loose money, loose respect.

Emeka if you are reading this, I will say,
First end all this media court case.
Give your wife some space,
Give your mum some space as well,
Provide as much as you can for your kids but focus on reinvigorating yourself.

Get back to that hammer brain of yours, look real deep, you will find things that Nigeria needs real bad.
Nigeria needs those marathon brain of yours, so no need rushing to Canada, you can go vacation there later.
Look around so many problems need solution. And you even have the pedigree to get funding.
Give the lady her passports and papers, you do not need it, cause you are not likely to find Job in Schlumberger Canader in a downturn.

When you are able to buildup from what we all know you have,
Your wife and all the rest will fall into place.
This is nothing more than money issues, not because your family does not have money, but because it seems you are depending on others including your mother for money. He who pay the piper dictates the tunes. So get back up and play your own tunes.


Emekas Wife, here is the bottom truth.
That guy did not grow up a minister's son, so can't be living with a bloated ego. You are really angry and spewing rubbish, which may come back to bite you.
You have in your hands a brain and a mind that could rival Steve Jobs.
If you cannot make a husband out of that, you will not be able to make a husband out of any better man.
Go help your husband focus on the things he is really good at.

[b]Bro I totally agree with you but for a few points.
I have know Emeka for the past 15 years. And I can guarantee you that this guy is far from gay. I know some of the ladies he use to hang out with and dated while we were in UNN and before he got maried. Yes you can call call him a late bloomer but definitely not gay!

Emeka is the last person that will lay his hands on a lady. This guy will go out of his way to help, feed and cloth fellow students that he does not really know ( mind you his mother was not yet a minister while we were in UNN). I use to joke that he is too soft with women and they will always take advantage of his "gentleman" character. He is well mannered, humorous and treated every woman I have see around him with utmost respect and dignity. I don't really know his wife very well but from the little interaction I've had with her in the past her does not strike me like a person you can lock inside a toilet, abuse and she will keep quite for 5 years.

This whole story is just cock and bull story fabricated to get back at her husband for yet to be disclosed marital issues. It's sad that she has to throw all caution to the wind, and lay false accusations to one of the finest brains this generation has know. This guy was the valedictorian for the whole UNN in 2005. He archived this in Electronic Engineering not some social science course or education.

It really a pity that madam chose to wash her dirty linen in public. My question is "where are the adults in both families?" Issues like this should be settled in the family not on Linda Ikeji blog. [/b]

Opharhe:
Rona(or Rhona) u're either Urhobo or Isoko... And you live in Warri. How are you?

Yh that's me. Am cool. Who are you?

ODUBEZE:

My brother when I see you pat someone who steals your money or your certificate and U pat him/her on the head then I will consider your advise.

Why is it that people aren't arrested after they've confessed some gross conducts at the church? Cause the attitude has been wiped away remaining the HUMAN that you should LOVE

veron007:



[b]Bro I totally agree with you but for a few points.
I have know Emeka for the past 15 years. And I can guarantee you that this guy is far from gay. I know some of the ladies he use to hang out with and dated while we were in UNN and before he got maried. Yes you can call call him a late bloomer but definitely not gay!

Emeka is the last person that will lay his hands on a lady. This guy will go out of his way to help, feed and cloth fellow students that he does not really know ( mind you his mother was not yet a minister while we were in UNN). I use to joke that he is too soft with women and they will always take advantage of his "gentleman" character. He is well mannered, humorous and treated every woman I have see around him with utmost respect and dignity. I don't really know his wife very well but from the little interaction I've had with her in the past her does not strike me like a person you can lock inside a toilet, abuse and she will keep quite for 5 years.

This whole story is just cock and bull story fabricated to get back at her husband for yet to be disclosed marital issues. It's sad that she has to throw all caution to the wind, and lay false accusations to one of the finest brains this generation has know. This guy was the valedictorian for the whole UNN in 2005. He archived this in Electronic Engineering not some social science course or education.

It really a pity that madam chose to wash her dirty linen in public. My question is "where are the adults in both families?" Issues like this should be settled in the family not on Linda Ikeji blog. [/b]

So you have clearly judged the case abi? Have you lived with the guy before how can you know what he does in secret, do you know that paedophile often have great relationship with kids on the surface but abuse them when no one is watching.

Dude abeg go siddon jor, because person dey pretend e don become saint. What made him now certified unemployable if all is well?

Elijahrona2:


Yh that's me. Am cool. Who are you?

A brother who just wants to acknowledge his kin in a public forum. Good morning.

Hh