₦airaland Forum

I overheard a woman in her early 60s
complaining about her husband accusing her of
infidelity after over 35 years of marriage. To her
it was surprising that her husband would level
such accusation on her at this her age where
there is no "Juice" (in her words) left in her.

It pained her that when her husband was
been transferred in his workplace from one
state to the other, being absent from her for
over a year she remained faithful to him, as
well as when he ignored her and went after
other women, beats her up etc. That after all
she has endured in their over 35years of
marriage the best her husband would do was to
accuse her of infidelity.

I believe this is exactly the kind of pain African
Music Diva " Tiwa Savage" is currently suffering
from, considering all that she had borne for the
success of her marriage with " TeeBillz" only to
be accused of infidelity.

Though It wasn't any of my business but I had
to ponder on the issue and I came to
understand that Men that often accuse their
faithful wives of infidelity are usually those been
devoured by the guilt of their inability to love /
care for their wives as they ought to.

They, totally aware of the things that makes
their wives happy and not able to do them, yet
find their wives happy, presume that another
man must be responsible for their happiness.
This presumption is what leads them to accuse
their wives of infidelity.

If you have been faithful to your husband as a
wife despite all unfair treatments from him and
he is accusing you of unfaithfulness, don't let it
bother you. He is just feeling guilty for not
loving / caring for you as a husband should. If
he is reasonable, talk to him; tell him you have
forgiven him. I believe it will help him overcome
his guilt, withdraw his accusations and
appreciate the sacrifices you have made for your
marriage and ... you know the rest.

If Tiwa had known this and Teebillz been
reasonable, the unfortunate end of the marriage
would have been prevented.

www.ehijeremiah..com/2016/04/handling-accusations-of-infidelity-in.html

Well, to many Naija men, marriages are to be endured not enjoyed.

delishpot:
Well, to many Naija men, marriages are to be endured not enjoyed.

well in reality that is a wrong order.
marriage is meant to be enjoyed with endurance and tolerance.
www.ehijeremiah..com/2015/08/it-is-widely-accepted-that-marriage-is.html