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How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by babayega(op): 6:33am On Jun 15, 2016
I am missing a few 1,000 notes in an envelop. I've turned the room upside down, still can't find it. The only person who has access to my room when I'm not around is the cleaning lady. So naturally I suspect her.

I feel she has changed the location of the money and will "claim" it if I don't ask. Its a common practise among boyz while growing up grin How do I ask about the money without offending her?
Re: How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by Flexherbal(m): 6:45am On Jun 15, 2016
No matter how polite you are, most people feel offended when you ask them of missing money. They feel you should know that they can't take your money without your consent.
Still ask, anyways.
Re: How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by youngaz(m): 6:46am On Jun 15, 2016
*clears throat*
u will walk up 2 her wit a sad face and say
"aunty please i want 2 ask u dat in d course of cleaning my room did u see any money at all (den u kind of pretend and say) i tink i put it on d table....no i tink twas on d bed or.....wait where did i put oooo maybe it fell in my pocket wen i was wearing my trousers i dnt even no sha plzz did u help me see it??"........dnt 4get make ur face look plain very well.....dnt try 2 laff just put up some kind of a "sad" face wen talking....if she lyks u den she will put up a lie and return it and if she doesn't lyk u well....*winks*
Re: How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by babayega(op): 6:58am On Jun 15, 2016
youngaz:
*clears throat*
u will walk up 2 her wit a sad face and say
"aunty please i want 2 ask u dat in d course of cleaning my room did u see any money at all (den u kind of pretend and say) i tink i put it on d table....no i tink twas on d bed or.....wait where did i put oooo maybe it fell in my pocket wen i was wearing my trousers i dnt even no sha plzz did u help me see it??"........dnt 4get make ur face look plain very well.....dnt try 2 laff just put up some kind of a "sad" face wen talking....if she lyks u den she will put up a lie and return it and if she doesn't lyk u well....*winks*
Nice one. grin I'll consider this. Lemme get more inputs first
Re: How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by babayega(op): 6:59am On Jun 15, 2016
Flexherbal:
No matter how polite you are, most people feel offended when you ask them of missing money. They feel you should know that they can't take your money without your consent.
Still ask, anyways.
That's the fear. I must ask o, month end still far.
Re: How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by Nobody: 8:32am On Jun 15, 2016
Hello Aunty, I beg I dey look for my money. I need you join me in looking for it.
You will start searching, then you will walk away far from the room and allow her to return the money.
Note: That's if you have been nice to her.
Re: How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by philismary(f): 8:38am On Jun 15, 2016
Nice strategy,I think dis will solve the problem.
youngaz:
*clears throat*
u will walk up 2 her wit a sad face and say
"aunty please i want 2 ask u dat in d course of cleaning my room did u see any money at all (den u kind of pretend and say) i tink i put it on d table....no i tink twas on d bed or.....wait where did i put oooo maybe it fell in my pocket wen i was wearing my trousers i dnt even no sha plzz did u help me see it??"........dnt 4get make ur face look plain very well.....dnt try 2 laff just put up some kind of a "sad" face wen talking....if she lyks u den she will put up a lie and return it and if she doesn't lyk u well....*winks*
Re: How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by babayega(op): 11:51pm On Jun 20, 2016
I found the money people!!! I was going to ask her today, but I decided to check one last time. Found it behind book shelf, far from where I kept it. Maybe na breeze or maybe na "relocation" wink
Re: How Do You Ask About Missing Money Without Offending The Suspect by tollytexy(m): 8:03am On Jun 21, 2016
I'll ask her to pls help me to keep the money she picked.. Or I'll tell her she failed my first test of N1000 while I keep laughing..then watch if she's hot conscience
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