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stefan388:
Congratulations. Wishing you many more birth days and good luck to you this morning and for ever. Amen.

congratulations my name sake

Kia

This is serious...

make them pass the bill now, Wettin concern me, after all women been don the claim equality since the days of John the Baptist

Nigeria in doom if they pass this to law

MadCow1:
I support Gender Equality.

... You don chop craze..

The First person to bring katakata into this world was eve( woman) ....women will finally end this world... Give a woman an inch and she takes 9...Lil Wayne 2014 ( these hoes ain't loyal)

Dejavvu500:
... You don chop craze..

You don dey Madt?

People left their homes and queue up to vote for this unfortunate woman into the senate to ensure a better country, she is now carrying one unfortunate document call bill, make uneccessary phone call, dey walker up and down, just to allow women who are already heading their husbands, giving birth to both neighbiurs and all over the place, freedom to walker left and right. Don't worry, 2019 is nearby. We will see if you go go there again to walker up and down. Very rubbish. Buhari has cause the country to shut down. There is serious confusion, groaning everywhere, so many people with increased BP yet all this woman is doing is to abandon all those important areas and walker up and down for freedom of movement for women. If she is very interested in abandoning her family and move across the country even across the world, must she force others to join?

wonderkid619:
is that what is next out of all the problems on ground!
gender equality sha... we just wan Americanize this country finish.
gone are the days when wives will finish cooking and then bring the food to their husbands on their knees, now they'll tell the man, if you're hungry, you know the way to the kitchen. simply because the government decided to give them 'more power'

It's not "Americanization", it's "liberation". Unless you're using "Americanize" to refer to "liberate" and "empower", seeing as it is the "land of the free and the home of the brave". Embrace the change! Gone, too, are the days when men were forced to work cotton fields and plantations from sun up to sun down saying: "yessir massa.....nossir massa......massa, I's gon be a guuuud nigga"

Not so nostalgic, that one.

It may be African & Middle Eastern culture to oppress women with their secular laws, but culture simply means - the way of life of a group of people. It doesn't necessarily mean that those "ways" are correct. Killing of twins, human sacrifice, slavery were once part of our culture too. Human beings can't thrive under oppression - it's not natural, it's always going to be a matter of time before resistance is shown. That's why a democracy is more sustainable than a dictatorship.

Women's Lib doesn't mean that husbands won't still be the head of the household, it just means that instead of being the husband's appendage wives are free to own property, free to demand respect and fidelity, free to protect themselves from dangers that husbands expose them to (for instance, a woman who knows her husband sleeps around is still expected to have sex with him and usually without a condom, risking exposure to STDs), etc. These things shouldn't threaten our core values. A wife, if she wishes, may still serve her husband on her knees. Not because he demands it but to reciprocate his loving treatment of her.

Women's Lib also means that a woman can be defined without a man (even though you can't spell woman without man). It used to be that women could be one of 3 fundamental things - daughter, wife, widow. While men are defined by their trade/work and respected for it, women are defined by their men and respected for them. Women's lib seeks to give women their own identity whether they're married or not.

Interesting

If the amended bill is designed to address "women’s freedom of movement, female economic activity, girls’ access to education, equal rights for women in marriage, divorce, property/land ownership and inheritance, appropriate measures against gender discrimination in political and public life and prohibitions of violence to women", there is issue with "equal rights for women in marriage".

My advise to 'faithful men' is:
God is the head of your home, He is your head; you(father and husband) is head of your home.
Find a wife in accordance to the above statement.

Oh oh oh oh e don happen, e don happen. O no I want to tell u. Abeg, make I tell una watin dey happen to our Senators and law makers. Since dey decide say dem no go sleep with dia dear wives again, dem come knack akpako for all these runs girls, campus girls, ladies club and the fast food patronages watin u want make dem do. U go see one tall, fair, lanky, curved legs and naturally endowed ladies who has decided to make hell ll give in her best to knack ur stupid Senator a very wonderful akpako which go turn the man brain upside down, couple with marine spirits and divers Satanic girls whom the devil had unleash to destroy the whole world and to drag many with him to hell. Why won't they make those irrational decision as a bill to entice and succumb to their demand which is the exchange for sex and romp behaviour. We have to declare one year prayer and fasting to avert this prophecy for our own sake (the youth). The worst is coming to us. Be vigilant always.

tholexzy:
Hmmm, western system encroaching afrika like 'kilode' jst crying 4 d generation to come as to d viracity of Naija men commiting sucide. Did ur bible tells u man and woman are equal in marriage. " Sarah loves Abraham to an extend that she calld him - my Lord"

Brother, Nigeria don condem and finished.

Nawaz o.what's with the daft comments guys are making here? Na ordinary bill dey make una piss ur pants like dis? How pathetic. Ur insecurity stinks to incredibly colossal proportions. Dear pathetic insecure Misogynistic dude/"Man" reading this comment...Women are NOT ur slaves.They refuse to be continuosly used like thrash.They refuse to be used as footstools and rags.If u hate it,build a time machine and go back to 400 AD.Better still, relocate to North Korea,far far away from modern civilization cos women are not backing down on their fight for their rights anytime soon.
*Ef es paining u,let it pain u well: Ntoooooor :p *

Smh for some of the comments here. Nigeria I hail thee.

austinbrown:
2day is My bday show me some love dashboard me likes for no reason

you said today is your birthday and we should show you some love and dash you likes for NO REASON?

Isn't the birthday reason enuf?

It's heart wrenching to see how much men still want women to remain modern slaves.


I really do not understand what the insecurity is all about. Is too much to all for freedom of movement, is too much to want every female child educated, is too much to want to do away with gender discrimination? I bet some of you here won't have male children and because of your insecurity, you wouldn't support what will guarantee your GIRLS their inheritance after your demise.

Well, for those cheating/looking forward/planning to cheat on their wives, I feel your pain


BTW, I don't understand why you guys are alluding this Bill to the story of the woman who had four kids for a neighbor. Oh yes, the act is disdainful but last time I checked, a lady can not impregnate another lady. In a nut shell, she has a partner in crime who is a man and who is aware she is married. Pls, stop making it look like it's only a 'lady thing' The two gender is guilty here or is it now proper to sleep with another man's wife but improper for a married woman to sleep with someone else?

U seems so embittered,did it happen in ur family,i mean wife giving birth to neighbour's children instead of husband's and also who gave birth to u...is it a bloodless and consciousless thing,pls mind ur words and be diplomatic.

stefan388:
One trillion likes for you. Imagine these things call the Nigerian women who gives birth to neighbours instead of the husband are requesting for freedom of movement. Bloodless and Consciousless things

Mad women with dillddo-messed-up brians seeking equality with men while keeping their gains of womanhood. Let's see how their madness drags them to demand a queen beside God so as to make them equally represented in heaven.

Apparently, Eve is still listening to Satan and gullible men are still listening to Eve. The end result: men will suffer more to gain less and women will be destroyed by the fruits of their wombs.

...I expect bashing anyways. It means nothing to me.

Lots of retardz on this thread. And you guys wonder why you're still third world.

tholexzy:
Hmmm, western system encroaching afrika like 'kilode' jst crying 4 d generation to come as to d viracity of Naija men commiting sucide. Did ur bible tells u man and woman are equal in marriage. " Sarah loves Abraham to an extend that she calld him - my Lord"

a real man will not look for a slave as a wife before he feels like a lord .. With love and the right attitude u can make a free woman call u creator ..

NaWetinDey:
Mad women with dillddo-messed-up brians seeking equality with men while keeping their gains of womanhood. Let's see how their madness drags them to demand a queen beside God so as to make them equally represented in heaven.

Apparently, Eve is still listening to Satan and gullible men are still listening to Eve. The end result: men will suffer more to gain less and women will be destroyed by the fruits of their wombs.

...I expect bashing anyways. It means nothing to me.

. You don see GOD before ? How you take know if GOD get gender?

kaylivin:
a real man will not look for a slave as a wife before he feels like a lord .. With love and the right attitude u can make a free woman call u creator ..

God bless you!
I love you already

stano2:
Mtchewwwwwwww.. Bring up this issue in the midst of elders in the village and have several walking sticks landing on your head. This is Nigeria. Gender Equality my foot.
Women are even lucky they are allowed to drive in this country,maybe when the reach some countries the will drop this noise. We have many vital issues in this country to visit first and not this.

What a nonsensical statement

Shaking my head for some re. tar. d. ed comments .

Up gender equality

See boys pissing on their pants because of an ordinary bill. Women need freedom of movement,rights in marriage/divorce,freedom to own properties,right to be educated, so?
What are we helpers for if not to take a little of the burden?lol.....
Men want to eat their cake and have it in their hands,not possible!!!

kaylivin:
. You don see GOD before ? How you take know if GOD get gender?

Whether you are a Christian or Muslim, Hindu or Buddha, your 'holy' books refer to God as a "He." However, I can't help you if you are an atheist; but I think a shrink can.

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In a society like ours, women are meant to be protected not to compete on a level playing ground. African women like some(not all) on this thread are so daf.t to understand that this bill will cause them more harm than good if fully implemented in Nigeria

NaWetinDey:
Whether you are a Christian or Muslim, Hindu or Buddha, your 'holy' books refer to God as a "He." However, I can't help you if you are an atheist; but I think a shrink can.

what about other deities that see the supreme being as a female , ( afinna , obatala was sangos mother , osun , hera(goddess of the earth ) , and so many others that I don't know .. What if they claim that the female gender is supreme , ( I heard in a tribe in ghana, the woman is the head of the house ).... My point is ,, it does not lessen any man to free and respect his woman ,, we r only trying to protect ego ,, this thing must have started the moment man found out he is physically stronger than the woman ,, there r so many other ways women show their own strength ... No one will die when we perceive each other as equals

tholexzy:
Hmmm, western system encroaching afrika like 'kilode' jst crying 4 d generation to come as to d viracity of Naija men commiting sucide. Did ur bible tells u man and woman are equal in marriage. " Sarah loves Abraham to an extend that she calld him - my Lord"

What is this 1 saying . D truth is u can use d bible to justify literally everything
What u r doing is picking those things that favour u


Plsssssssssss, don't quote me I don't have time for this rubbish!