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There has been many sayings such as “A father is her daughter’s first true love”. The bond between a father and his daughter (aka his little princess) can be so deep especially when she’s an only daughter. It could go from a healthy deep affection to a moderate protectiveness, to an outright jealousy and over-protection. For most men, you don’t mess with their ‘little girl’, some over-do it and some don’t know when to stop. But when can it be said that this bond is going too far especially as the daughter turns into a teenager?

1. Can a teenage daughter still dress in undies before her dad?
2. Can she still give a mouth-to-mouth lip kiss to her dad?
3. Can she ask dad to help her adjust her bra while dressing up?
4. Can she lift her skirt to show dad a burn high-up on her thighs?
5. Can she show dad a suspicious growth on her brea*sts?
6. Can she tell dad her close, near-se*x experiences with aggressive men?
7. Is there a time to start scolding her for these?
7. Or should all this be left for mom to handle?

Experience Fathers in the house, do you still feel comfortable with this with your little ‘teen princess’? How do you handle it? Abeg share your experience and teach us newbies….

NOTE: Assumption here is that it’s a two-parent household and there exists a healthy father-daughter relationship, and daughter is now a non-sexually active teenager.

bigheart2013:
1. Can a teenage daughter still dress in undies before her dad?
2. Can she still give a mouth-to-mouth lip kiss to her dad?
3. Can she ask dad to help her adjust her bra while dressing up?
4. Can she lift her skirt to show dad a burn high-up on her thighs?
5. Can she show dad a suspicious growth on her brea*sts?

No matter how close a father is to his daughter, its just not right!

The issue of no1 is subjective.When a girl starts growing up as a teenager,she should start to have her privacy.I've seen a couple of families where dressing up in front of the dad didn't mean a thing however.

Mouth-to-mouth kiss is out of it.

3,4,5 should be left for the mum to handle.

6,If they are that close,sex education and sex related discussions with the dad is alright.He has a role to play too.

Nothing is wrong with all you listed