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Good advice

this is the only post I have read without summarizing it. what else will I say, he who has ear let him/her hear. op for bringing up this issue, my the lord bless u and keep u, may his light shine upon u and may he be gracious to you.

Nice one op.... but they wunt listen.

Dats hw 1 of our nebos dota went to skl nd came bak pregnant. Wen ppl come to see d child, d moda would be like "come nd see d certificate she brought for us" nd burst into tears with shame

Na that girl wey dey there me even dey interested in, her simple or dimple set die

all well and good

Na today??

Dances outta thread

Not in the mood of typing epistles

why re u so bothered with what people decide to mke out of their lives? Somebody decides to cohabit, u talk. They flaunt boobs, u talk. Sleep around. you talk. At the end of the day u wnt gain anything from talking, while the pple you re talking abt re busy living their lives. Sorry oh, you also mentioned that virginity is the best gift... bullshit. Thats a whole lot of bullshit.

U nailed it. Very Common in our so called institutions
God bless d writer

hUmaneOne:
This is wrong.we are accusing presido of plagiarism and you're also partaking in plagiarizing..

No wonder he said change begins with us..
The original author is Ayo Joy on Facebook.I'll show her original post

I tell tell u, fake pple everywhere u go,. I hv bin seeing this message as far back as 2014/2015, one Olosho come dey give herself the glory of writing it.

Bt we are always quick to attack d president and other notable citizens of plagiarism....... Smh.

nice write up. Op are you a virgin? if yes have you ever kissed a guy?. If yu can't answer any then STFU!!

Benbobola:
It all depends on goals. I know a couple like that back in 300 lvl. Now, they are happily married.

me too am happily married to my schl boyfriend whom I lived with.

Op , I think you should mind your business there are more serious things going on around the world go and tackle that first and leave campus lovers alone.

Luckygurl:

Na today??
Dances outta thread
Not in the mood of typing epistles

are u a victim of such circumstance?

Yea itz tru...thnk you bro

naijalodge:
Shebi u na Virgin ni,or u never date boy before,ND who told u it's only guys that infects ladies wit stds,or u no know say na ladies carry stds pass?

help me ask her oooo.

RealJaneDoe:
Oh PUH-LEASE give me a break from what you wrote you mostly shamed the girls why.... so the guys are not involved too. That's very silly

Anything that is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

If girls are promiscuous they're hoes if guys do the same they're pros.

.We really need to stop this habit of blaming one side for an issue when clearly both are involved.
Its so freaking annoying

I am not supporting what they are doing but spread your message to both sides OK!!!!

I think people blame ladies more cos they have more to lose. The guy has virtually nothing to lose. Incase of pregnancy, which is very possible, the lady will be the one to drop out of school or abort which may jeopardize her chances later in future.

OP sake of no niccur dey eye you for campus nor mean say you go transfer your aggression come here

RealJaneDoe:
Oh PUH-LEASE give me a break from what you wrote you mostly shamed the girls why.... so the guys are not involved too. That's very silly

Anything that is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

If girls are promiscuous they're hoes if guys do the same they're pros.

.We really need to stop this habit of blaming one side for an issue when clearly both are involved.
Its so freaking annoying

I am not supporting what they are doing but spread your message to both sides OK!!!!

E pain am, sowi

Some Nairalanders will be quick to attack the messenger without taking time to read d content of the message..

nice article, but a complete waste of time I'd say, cuz its gonna change nothing!! we all know the truth,and we make our choices from a wide range so invariably nothing one hears or reads about will change that mindset, until we experience it, this moral decadence won't stop anytime soon,it will rather get worse, the lucky ones will learn from their mistakes and retrace their steps, the unfortunate ones might pay with their life or get broken for life, with d current economic crisis, most guys smiling home are yahoo bois and we all know money attracts naive ladies faster than magnets and metals,and this issue shouldn't be blamed on the ladies alone, they've gat a partner innit?? and I think the motivating partner is the greater evil in this scenario (men), in for a penny in for a pound they say.

OP..i dont support you at all.

My best friend from 100lvl started dating his wife when we were in 200lvl and this was in 2006. We all graduated togeda in 2010, NYSC seperated us all, the babe kept visiting the guy in Abuja and the rltnshp kept running smooth. We all got retained in our respective coy's aldo the guy was transfered to Yola, fast-forward again to Dec. 2014, this guy came to Lagos, they had their introduction, few days after, the guy was transfered out from Yola to Lagos. He was gonna be stranded and didnt have all the knowledge of living in Lagos yet, so he had to put up with me from that December 2014, den she started coming again and they both practically lived with me in the couples life nature. October 2015, they got a flat not far from my street, december 2015, dey got married and moved into their flat fully.

Morale of the story, they were both age mates, class mates, same course sef. They agreed to keep the rltnshp to the end, not minding woteva d society was going to tag them at dat early stage, dey focused on the future, now happily married with pregnancy that will come to term at the due time as I reply dis post.

If you decide to live a couples lifestyle with your yahoo boy bf or club boy or serious broda etc, just be sure that its someone you can plan your life with. Am not a girl, but am sure most of the girls doing this always hope for the best at the last, what one should now be sure of is that you are picking the right guy to do all this wifey shits with.

I was once into this... Hehehe

eleojo23:
Many people will tell the OP to mind her business.
But what she is saying is the truth.

lol dat gurl nah send den send her...

seyiojomu:
OP..i dont support you at all.

My best friend from 100lvl started dating his wife when we were in 200lvl and this was in 2006. We all graduated togeda in 2010, NYSC seperated us all, the babe kept visiting the guy in Abuja and the rltnshp kept running smooth. We all got retained in our respective coy's aldo the guy was transfered to Yola, fast-forward again to Dec. 2014, this guy came to Lagos, they had their introduction, few days after, the guy was transfered out from Yola to Lagos. He was gonna be stranded and didnt have all the knowledge of living in Lagos yet, so he had to put up with me from that December 2014, den she started coming again and they both practically lived with me in the couples life nature. October 2015, they got a flat not far from my street, december 2015, dey got married and moved into their flat fully

Morale of the story, they were both age mates, class mates, sa course sef. They agreed to keep the rltnshp to the end, not minding woteva d society was going to tag them at dat early stage, dey focused on the future, now happily married with pregnancy that will come to term at the due time as I reply dis post.

If you decide to live a couples lifestyle with your yahoo boy bf or club boy or serious broda etc, just be sure that its someone you can plan your life with. Am not a girl, but am sure most of the girls doing this always hope for the best at the last, what one should now be sure of is that you are picking the right guy to do all this wifey shits with.

And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.
Philippians 4:8 NLT
http://bible.com/116/php.4.8.NLT

Do u think that what they did collaborated with the above scripture?

nairaarea:
*MARRIED IN SCHOOL BUT SINGLE AT HOME.* THOUGH IS QUITE LONG BUT I URGE YOU TO READ AND THANK ME LATER

Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are practising 'wifely functions'!
Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment 'you look sexy my gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic smile. Who is her lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental association. So, the girl need to live with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls
suddenly loose their senses immediately they gain admission. I've seen that some of them have no more sense of caution, honour and dignity. They would change their wardrobes and acquire a new set of make ups just to look
'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In
months, they would start sleeping around with little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most of the time are infected with sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know that you were sent to school to obtain a degree not a disease. The campus is called a school; school not sex! You are on campus to receive education not ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do some thinking. Your future is greater than the 'best couple award'. You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than.
You give your virginity to a boy who will
definitely leave you after graduation. You play wife to a boy who cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open your eyes! Can't you see you're being foolish?
You are passing through the fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to a
coward who cannot stand before your father. And when you eventually gets pregnant, he would brutally advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the consequences later. What a shame! You may master the use of condoms but you can't master the punishment of your conscience. Don't you know you are bringing shame to your family? Don't you know that you are cursing your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a man) without her consent?
I cautioned a girl against sleeping around and she replied 'Sheddy, I don't sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to him'. What impunity! That's classified harlotry. And don't you know that sleeping with a man without your father's blessings is bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would use you and dump you; so why are you setting up yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a lady and one day you may get married. And your husband would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps with anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady would give to her husband on the wedding night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the certificate of best couple of the year on campus!
The other gifts for the rest of her life are her
care and character not her curves and
complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
screwed in! Those treacherous boys would call you 'sexy'
and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch your breast and you would smile? They would ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you are
indeed a mistake. I'm not saying that you should be rude or never live a 'social life' but I want you to think deeper than you are currently doing. I want to turn your attention back to your books.
You are not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay less attention to those boobs and give more attention to your books! You are not in school for cat walking show. You are rather here to show us the dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us that you are costly. So, why make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in my heart and that's why am sounding stern. I know about two girls now that have been living with
their boyfriend since year one and as it is now they can't even even count how many abortions they had for that same boy at sch bae. it's now like a normal thing to them, the last one she did
almost took her life and that made her bleed for 4 months, imagine how you do feel with ordinary 4 days of menstruation left alone living with it for months.. As a matter of fact one of them have damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive use of contraceptives she has taken to prevent pregnancy. I want you to look beyond now and think of what advise you would give your own daughter when you become a mother. I hope I have not offended you...if I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do not be swayed by these evil. Be consistent and keep celebrating your purity. I am always proud of you. And God is more proud of you.
....... . Thanks.

Bernice Cryout(Voice of Inspiration)
400Level Department of Nursing,
Nnamdi Azikiwe University

seems u really needs someone to take good care f u......with this your rant ....hmmmmm

God bless the OP. You shall see your children children, it is well with you dear

nurseafrica:
Good 1 collegue. Sadly it wont be moved to front page. Thumbs up young collegue. Permission to share it on facebook. Add me

.. The OP didnt give credits to who wrote it.. It was a female frm OAU wrote that piece of note.. I hav read it a lng time ago.. B4 u misquote me sch mantra, am nt OAU student.

soloroyality:
are u a victim of such circumstance?

Hahaha
I laugh in swahili

It's for me to know and for you to find out

nairaarea:
*MARRIED IN SCHOOL BUT SINGLE AT HOME.* THOUGH IS QUITE LONG BUT I URGE YOU TO READ AND THANK ME LATER

Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are practising 'wifely functions'!
Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment 'you look sexy my gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic smile. Who is her lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental association. So, the girl need to live with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls
suddenly loose their senses immediately they gain admission. I've seen that some of them have no more sense of caution, honour and dignity. They would change their wardrobes and acquire a new set of make ups just to look
'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In
months, they would start sleeping around with little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most of the time are infected with sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know that you were sent to school to obtain a degree not a disease. The campus is called a school; school not sex! You are on campus to receive education not ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do some thinking. Your future is greater than the 'best couple award'. You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than.
You give your virginity to a boy who will
definitely leave you after graduation. You play wife to a boy who cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open your eyes! Can't you see you're being foolish?
You are passing through the fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to a
coward who cannot stand before your father. And when you eventually gets pregnant, he would brutally advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the consequences later. What a shame! You may master the use of condoms but you can't master the punishment of your conscience. Don't you know you are bringing shame to your family? Don't you know that you are cursing your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a man) without her consent?
I cautioned a girl against sleeping around and she replied 'Sheddy, I don't sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to him'. What impunity! That's classified harlotry. And don't you know that sleeping with a man without your father's blessings is bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would use you and dump you; so why are you setting up yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a lady and one day you may get married. And your husband would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps with anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady would give to her husband on the wedding night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the certificate of best couple of the year on campus!
The other gifts for the rest of her life are her
care and character not her curves and
complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
screwed in! Those treacherous boys would call you 'sexy'
and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch your breast and you would smile? They would ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you are
indeed a mistake. I'm not saying that you should be rude or never live a 'social life' but I want you to think deeper than you are currently doing. I want to turn your attention back to your books.
You are not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay less attention to those boobs and give more attention to your books! You are not in school for cat walking show. You are rather here to show us the dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us that you are costly. So, why make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in my heart and that's why am sounding stern. I know about two girls now that have been living with
their boyfriend since year one and as it is now they can't even even count how many abortions they had for that same boy at sch bae. it's now like a normal thing to them, the last one she did
almost took her life and that made her bleed for 4 months, imagine how you do feel with ordinary 4 days of menstruation left alone living with it for months.. As a matter of fact one of them have damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive use of contraceptives she has taken to prevent pregnancy. I want you to look beyond now and think of what advise you would give your own daughter when you become a mother. I hope I have not offended you...if I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do not be swayed by these evil. Be consistent and keep celebrating your purity. I am always proud of you. And God is more proud of you.
....... . Thanks.

Bernice Cryout(Voice of Inspiration)
400Level Department of Nursing,
Nnamdi Azikiwe University

Good but u urself miss writter,are you a virgin?
Can u tell us boldly dat u ve not sleep wit more dan two boys in ur campus?
Are u not a victim of wat u r advising?
Don't you cook for your boyfriend if u visit him?
All dis I m sure u can't deny
SO SHUT UP!!!

The greatest mistake a girl can commit is not by loosing her virginity or by having a boyfriend, the greatest mistake a girl can commit is by having an ABORTION. Girls please be wise, he asked you to abort the pregnancy, and you did, he didn't look at your health implications and he said he loves you and you're happy saying it's a mistake it will only happen once.

Lemme tell you, you can forgive yourself for breaking your virginity, you can forgive yourself for having an immoral life but you can never never forgive yourself for committing an abortion. It will forever be a dent in your conscience.

Let no one deceive you o.

As for me, never in my life will I take that step of abortion. I hate it with a passion, I will face the consequences and carry the child to full terms instead of committing murder.

hahahahaaahahahaha so true, trial marriage


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