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Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by Vince77(m): 11:04pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Vick4rill: But i wouldn't mind marrying a female atheist. I am a Christian 2 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by AbuMikey(m): 11:04pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Vick4rill: Do You have Problem with Atheists? |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by FriedYam: 11:09pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
APCsupporter:Lol mention me with your other moniker when you're banned Lexxyburg:No, an atheist will/may not beat his wife. It depends on the individuals tolerative ability on the long run... But an atheist marrying a christain might cause mini-conflicts which might also exacerbate on the long run. We read a true life story of a nairalander here who married an atheist who later became outspoken and was also imposing his ideas on their little kid thereby causing confusion for the young boy. mrmrmister:Christains are not 'perfect beings' neither are atheists also and as an atheist, you were not expected to reason with the post. |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by FriedYam: 11:18pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
You wouldn't mind cos you're a guy. She is not supposed to control or make decisions for you Vince77: i think this topic is focused on male atheists in a way 1 Like |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by BossLadyF(f): 11:25pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
An atheist proposed to me just last month and I didn't think it twice to say no. He said things like "I won't disturb you from serving your God, our children will be raised uprightly and when they are old enough, they will choose either being Christians or atheists" but I know once I enter that house, he won't allow me to serve my GOD again 2 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by frank317: 11:26pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
shadeyinka: My children can go to church all they want... The most important thing is that I am their father... I will always be more important in their life than any imaginary being just as long as I am the best father that I wanna be So tell.me something Mr counselor, are u suggesting my girl is better off marrying a Christian who she might not be as comfortable with as she is with me! We will soon get married!! Communication is the least of our problems 5 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by LaClickLaBend: 11:26pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
kevoh:you sir, deserve a potato. Hypocrites Indeed....the whole scum of dem can't even deal with other denominations 4 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by frank317: 11:28pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
shadeyinka: I studied psychology... U can come around for some relationship communication skills, I can make u a better counselor... Trust me. 4 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by FriedYam: 11:28pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
BossLadyF:you've made a good decision. It's gonna be another story when you're tied and by then, it may be too late 1 Like |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by chrisj2(m): 11:29pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Vick4rill: I liked this! Because I am an agnostic... However, it is much easier for an atheist to be tolerant of a mildly religious person than an ultra-religious (like the pastor loving, night vigil and bible classes types. I fond it so hard to communicate with members of my family because every other word is god this and god that... So you are right that a deeply religious person should not kid themselves about marrying an atheist - it will be hard for it to work! I also like the part about not trying to change people; right on! 1 Like |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by somegirl1: 11:29pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Most Africans are religious, not godly. Some atheists and agnostics are better people than most Muslims and supposed Christians. 12 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by Ishilove: 11:29pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
The kind of ignorant bullshit and blasphemy I'm reading here is part of the reasons why I avoid the religion section. There's just so much filth one can swallow. To the profane, all things are profane. Thinking themselves, they became fools. I will keep guarding my heart diligently. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by Lexxyburg(m): 11:33pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
FriedYam:Uncle I'm an atheist dating a xtain. Perfect relationship. if I eventually get married nothing can make me lay a finger on my wife. What's with the portraying atheists as some kind of evil beings? I'm just free like a wind doesn't mean I do evil stuff's I don't need no god before I do the right things. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by hopefulLandlord: 11:35pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
BossLadyF: its your decision anyways what if you marry a guy that changes to atheism 5 years down the line? what would you do? 9 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Many people be forming the separate belief. In as much as the things we use are built by man, then the "natural resources" should be built by someone. The question is - who? We all know there's some Supreme one.
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Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by emisun(m): 11:36pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Vick4rill: Another religious extremist on the loose! 6 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by hopefulLandlord: 11:37pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Ishilove: 8 Likes
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Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by bqoND(m): 11:37pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
kevoh:I seriously love you for this reply. #epic. 6 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by talktonase(m): 11:38pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
You will be surprised on the last day it is the atheist you will see in heaven and not the christian.There are atheist that have a very high moral standard than many christians...lets not Judge anybody. 9 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by manmustwac(m): 11:39pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
BossLadyF:RUBBISH!!! He's being honest and straightforward he wants his kids to make their own decisions. The only reason why your a christian instead of a muslim is because you were born into a christian family and grew up a christian. And him stopping you from practicing your belief on Sundays thats rubbish 5 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by tulampa89: 11:41pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
religion is our number problem in this nation call Nigeria, for me morality should be the key because without religion humans are capable of doing good 5 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by ojigbijigbi: 11:41pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
I don't know why I love girls with wide hips and bubble butt. Do I need help or what |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by TruthHurts1(m): 11:42pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
The truth is that an atheist has no moral compass. For an atheist anything goes. Because he doesn't believe in a Higher Power to whom he will be accountable at the end of his life, he is free to indulge and even over-indulge every excessive urge for selfish gratification that comes over him. Is it any wonder that the biggest producers of pornography in the world, like Larry Flint and Hugh Heffner are staunch atheists? It takes discipline to subordinate yourself to a Higher Ideal. Atheists will NEVER have such discipline. |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by EreluY(f): 11:45pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Daft ideas certainly being spewed and floated here. Repeatedly on NL, I've asserted that morality is logically independent of religion or theism. Empirically verifiable findings (See Phil Zuckerman's Society without God) incontrovertibly shows that most religious countries (and therefore people) are the most corrupt. Conversely, the least religious countries in the world (e.g. the Nordic countries) are the least corrupt and most morally upright. There are pastors, not simply congregants, who beat their spouses to stupor (http://www.nigerianmonitor.com/photo-mfm-pastor-beats-up-his-wife-of-17-years/). There are Christians (including pastors) who, over time, abandoned their faith and became atheists or agnostics and who neither abuse/assault their spouses nor prevent them from continuing to practice their Christian faith. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by FriedYam: 11:47pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
Lexxyburg:please read in between the lines... "Atheists will not or may not beat up his wife, it depends on the individual's tolerative ability" or let me rather say it depends on the individual's mentality. Also a christain married to a christain can not be ruled out from beating up his wife. I didn't portray them as evil beings but my post was based on their religious differences. You as an individual have taken your decision, you can't speak for others. |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by EreluY(f): 11:47pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
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Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by hopefulLandlord: 11:48pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
TruthHurts1: do you know there are much more theist pornstars than atheists. 7 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by angelo5uk(m): 11:56pm On Oct 07, 2016 |
OP you no just get sense at all. I'm a Proud Deist and my wife is Christian..... We're happily married for your information. Even though I don't believe in all those religious crap my wife still takes our daughter to church on Sundays. You're such a narrow minded fellow 7 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by Cmeo(m): 12:04am On Oct 08, 2016 |
@Op Wake up please! A lot of atheist marriage to theist are working much more better than so many Christian pastor and brothers marriages to each other. 2 Likes |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by Vick4rill(m): 12:04am On Oct 08, 2016 |
SpicyJosBabe:before you start disputing my facts, you need to understand that the direction am talking about here, have nothing to do with acceptable social norms.am trying to show how a muslim or hindu have an upper chance of been save than the so called atheist |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by uzolexis(f): 12:14am On Oct 08, 2016 |
frank317: I'm a christian, engaged to an atheist and getting married to him soon. This is the 1st atheist i've ever dated, I have dated Christians all my life but this is my bestest relationship so far and it has taught me a lot especially to be non-judgemental, accept pple for who they are and respect pple's opinion and i'm very grateful for this amazing man in my life. 30 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Why No Christian Lady Should Ever Marry An Atheist!! by Antiparticle(m): 12:17am On Oct 08, 2016 |
I see where you are coming from, and a part of me identifies with you. I was once a very committed Christian, but obviously not anymore. What I used to do in my interactions with atheists (when I was Christian) was I didn't assume that they had ulterior motives to be stubborn. It was clear to me that they were indeed truth-seekers and were not being needlessly disagreeable. I just felt they needed to find what I had found... Christ's love! I think if you take things from this perspective, you will have productive conversations with atheists even if neither side agrees with the other. Ironically it wasn't my conversations with atheists that changed my mind. Years later, it was my own crazy questions about the nature of reality that triggered a lot more questions and even more painstaking research. I came out of the process empathizing for my atheist friends who in the years past had badgered me with questions that I didn't have crisp answers to. A couple of months later, I found myself ridding myself of what I now realized wasn't true and had never been true. As for my Christian friends in real life, I am still very close friends with them. At the end of it all, we all realize that we are friends and what matters in our relationships is being good to each other and supporting one another, atheist or theist. DoctorAlien: 7 Likes 2 Shares |
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