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Otapipia:
Celebrating negativity at the expense of positive side of life is what this whole argument is about. I will rather stick to the positive side of life and confine the negative side to my memory for guidance sakes. I will never at the slightest opportunity highlight negative events where there are plethora of positive moments to relish.

How is an advice against a bad situation make you celebrate the situation As a child and having agreed that you only put those negatives in your memory, isn't it what my advise was meant to do, leave it in his memory and allow him draw the right path?

Basildvalour:
How is an advice against a bad situation make you celebrate the situation As a child and having agreed that you only put those negatives in your memory, isn't it what my advise was meant to do, leave it in his memory and allow him draw the right path?

As if he does not already know his father's past escapades. I don't even agree that a man who chooses to be polygamous should be viewed negatively as your advise to the young man suggests. The fact that you aren't polygamous doesn't make it evil. After all said and done, Tubaba as he is fondly called is an epitome of success on almost every conceivable front of life. He ended up a wonderful family man, a school dropout who has managed stamp his feet positively in the sand of time and above all good father to his children. That is the side of Tubaba I will always highlight and not how he made children from different women

Otapipia:
As if he does not already know his father's past escapades. I don't even agree that a man who chooses to be polygamous should be viewed negatively as your advise to the young man suggests. The fact that you aren't polygamous doesn't make it evil. After all said and done, Tubaba as he is fondly called is an epitome of success on almost every conceivable front of life. He ended up a wonderful family man, a school dropout who has managed stamp his feet positively in the sand of time and above all good father to his children. That is the side of Tubaba I will always highlight and not how he made children from different women

If you don't see polygamy as an evil, then, why did you attack my "positive" advice?

Basildvalour:
If you don't see polygamy as an evil, then, why did you attack my "positive" advice?

Because you advised to chap not to take after his father in that direction.

Otapipia:
Because you advised to chap not to take after his father in that direction.

And it is a direction you see nothing wrong with right? Then, why are you crossed with me?

Basildvalour:
And it is a direction you see nothing wrong with right? Then, why are you crossed with me?

Because you gave him a wrong advise.

Otapipia:
Because you gave him a wrong advise.

And when did a "positive" advise become wrong?

Basildvalour:
And when did a "positive" advise become wrong?

If your advise was positive I wouldn't be here exchanging words with you.

Otapipia:
If your advise was positive I wouldn't be here exchanging words with you.

You said you see no negativity in being polygamous which implies that l didn't give a negative advise after all...Or isn't that what you said?

Basildvalour:
You said you see no negativity in being polygamous which implies that l didn't give a negative advise after all...Or isn't that what you said?

If it wasn't negative in your opinion why did you advise him against it. Or do you want to take back your advise as a gentle man that you've proved to b thus far?

Otapipia:
If it wasn't negative in your opinion why did you advise him against it. Or do you want to take back your advise as a gentle man that you've proved to b thus far?

Yes, in my opinion, it is and l believe everyone is entitled to his opinion. Since it is positive for you, you would have stuck to yours and not interfered with mine. Isn't it that easy, or should my opinion be questioned by your opinion?

Basildvalour:
Yes, in my opinion, it is and l believe everyone is entitled to his opinion. Since it is positive for you, you would have stuck to yours and not interfered with mine. Isn't it that easy, or should my opinion be questioned by your opinion?

An opinion that seem to have crossed the line should be rebuked. Now I sense anger your response. It is OK. Have a wonderful time ahead.

Otapipia:
An opinion that seem to have crossed the line should be rebuked. Now I sense anger your response. It is OK. Have a wonderful time ahead.

I do not have anger issues guy and you have been contradicting yourself all day. What line did my opinion cross and how did my positive opinion as believed by you crossed path with yours? You are yet to answer that question.

Basildvalour:
I do not have anger issues guy and you have been contradicting yourself all day. What line did my opinion cross and how did my positive opinion as believed by you crossed path with yours? You are yet to answer that question.

Hey hey hey, I am not a guy bro. I wish you knew better you wouldn't have used that prefix for me. If you think I have been contradicting myself, then I really question your sense of judgment. Anyways, it was nice arguing with you until you called me a guy. Good luck.

Otapipia:
Hey hey hey, I am not a guy bro. I wish you knew better you wouldn't have used that prefix for me. If you think I have been contradicting myself, then I really question your sense of judgment. Anyways, it was nice arguing with you until you called me a guy. Good luck.

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