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Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by 1NigeriaOnlyIf: 10:50am On Sep 19, 2016 |
My dear, its good that you are seeking advice. But if may say, the advice of the people here will be mixed and varied. why dont you see a counsellor. If you wish, you might write to counselling@deeplookers.com. A qualified counsellor will attend to your issue. I say this with respect to all the mature minds here on nairaland. But we all know there are some that will not be described as mature enough Temilola01: |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by obeuno(m): 12:02pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Temilola01: Please why seeking for advice when u summarized all by ( We are still waiting on God. Although this was before we met ) to err is human, since himself was never aware of this. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Folksyharry(m): 12:25pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Eketem: There's so much wisdom in this post. I like your line of thought. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by abbey621(m): 12:31pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
LuvU2: Is that what you would say in court or when arguing in front of family members? Conscience my foot! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Kristystore14: 1:10pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
Temilola01: Hello Temilola01, can you please email me at kristyshealthandbeautystore@gmail.com? I'd like to discuss something with you. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Dom2020: 2:23pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
pls don't use this to determine if ur marriage should move on or end, what happened is not his fault, it's one of those mistakes we man make. marriage is a beautiful thing, keep on believing coze one day u'll have coze to smile. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by karbridals(f): 3:14pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
My advice, take her,love her and treat her like ur daughter. When urs comes it will be a big happy family. Don't let fear of the unknown make u destroy your home with your hands..he is never going to marry the girls mother again, he will only love his daughter and don't feel bad about the love he will give her cos he will try to make up for all the years they have been apart. When you do all these,ur home will forever be urs. Temilola01: |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Decibel: 5:21pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
misspicy:He meant that the daughter will soon marry and leave the house where as the son will become a landlord |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Pidggin(f): 8:40pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Decibel: I hope you know females now have a right to inheritance and even if the father doesn't leave anything for her she can still take the case to court if she can prove that she is his legitimate child and she will definitely win as it is in our constitution that no one should be discriminated against based on gender or any other factor. This law was signed into act sometime in May 2015 and since then many females have won cases of inheritance. She will definitely win. The OP' fears are valid. I will personally find this situation hard to deal with, Chai. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Decibel: 8:43pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Pidggin:It's not about inheritance but freedom from antagonist. The woman will be married off while she will be seeing the boy around. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Pidggin(f): 8:47pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Decibel: How do you know, is it every woman that is married and does it mean she will abandon her father after marriage? Which one is married off na, abi your mother doesn't associate with her family members because she is married or what? Life is not like that o lol, she will still identify with her own family members na |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Decibel: 9:01pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Pidggin:You still don't get. If she marries her coming to the family will be limited and not 'frequent' or staying in the family house. But the only thing now is the tribe in question. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Pidggin(f): 9:03pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
Decibel: No I don't get it. Take care |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by FellaL: 7:37am On Sep 23, 2016 |
Lol. You can to Nairaland to seek opinion, you're funny o |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Temilola01: 10:06pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
Thank you everyone, I really appreciate. It has been hard but i'm in a much better head space now. I came here to get other poeple's opinion on this matter because I did not want to be clouded by my emotions and make a wrong decision. My husband and I are working on our relationship, our lawyer has also written them requesting a DNA they are yet to revert. I'm thankful to God, my family, my in laws (they have been nothing but supportive) and most importantly everyone who has taken time out to offer a sincer advice; you may not know how much each comment/advice helped and lifted me up. I was hurting so bad. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Temilola01: 10:42pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
KanwuliaExtra: I do run two very successful businesses. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Temilola01: 10:46pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
Eketem: Thank you. God bless you. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Emilly2016: 8:23am On Nov 07, 2016 |
I am going through a very similar situation and am still struggling. My husband wants to do the right thing but doesn't know what that is... he says he wants to get to know her but does not know how often their contact will be or what their relationship will look like. I'm afraid of how our lives and marriage may change and I'm stuck feeling selfish and insecure. I don't like it and am trying to be a better person. I'd love to hear how you are dealing with it. Please feel free to email me- seek_elevation@yahoo.com |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by oloyede252(m): 9:32am On Nov 07, 2016 |
Emilly2016:419 How many times you wanna post this?. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by maclatunji: 8:42pm On Nov 07, 2016 |
How do you have an 18-year-old daughter without knowing? |
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