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Raine80:
Some mother in laws are just evil there is no winning them over. No matter what you do that's a real reality.

ajebuter:
Ngbo...lyangbali and notoriousbabe..

Are you nice to aunty kemi olunloyo... una mother-in-law?

Abeg Lala..ask dem oh...

missbronze:
But, how can mil and dil be competing for love and attention sef?

cmon, the love for wife is different for love for mother. And, the love for mother is different for love of wife.



the earlier we understand it, the best for everyone, and peace for all.

eleojo23:
My wife will be so damn lucky

Divay22:
Give her the ultimate price
Grand children,i said more grand children,trust me, she'll leave you and your husband alone,and focus on her grand children.....
Cheers

nonjebose:
Wisdom. But make sure you and your hubby can adequately take care of them

JoeBlocks:
Remember evil can be tamed and controlled? All you need is the manual and you're home free.

Raine80:
If people came with instructions many things would be easy.

ednut1:
U will never hear father in law giving wahala. Its always women. Awon alafishe

Fakemumu:
My mother inlaw is something else,will I call it wickedness or she's bottle up with hate..always commanding me,calling me a small girl in front of her daughter I senior with about 10yrs..theres nothing I do dat pleases her..to her am a horse that don't need rest,som1 dat each time I n my husband are arguing she will come out and say I should stop shouting at my husband..she tell me all I do is eat and get fat that am in fatting room..I have a baby girl for my husband,and my husband seem not to be saying anytin..am seriously thinking of absconding...I will miss my baby but wen i hammer like in a year time I will come and take her,she chased me outside to bath my baby outside when my baby girl was 3months old..telling me nothing will happen to her..shes a nightmare to me,i give up

ednut1:
U will never hear father in law giving wahala. Its always women. Awon alafishe

Pidgin2:
Eyah, your MIL sounds really wicked. I was listening to my radio today and one lady called in during a show and she was praying for her MIL to die, although I was shocked but we do not know what she is going through in her home for her to pray for such. Can't you involve your own parents in the matter?

nairalanddss:
Being a good daughter-in-law can be a challenging job, but it doesn’t need to be if you keep a few simple suggestions in mind.your husband was a son first!

As a new wife, it is difficult not to feel possessive and a little defensive. You want to be number one in your husband’s life, but you should remember not to put him in a position of having to defend his mother! no one wins that battle; it will only put pressure on every relationship. Will what you gain, by dividing your husband and his mother, be worth the many unnecessary heartaches for the family?

[b]Granted, there are mother-in-laws that will do everything to prove you are not worthy of their son; you can only do so much to make a relationship with her happen. No matter what you do or hard you try to make things work, she constantly tries to demonstrate how unworthy you are. How do you deal a mother-in-law like that? Well, you could stoop to her level and try to make her look bad, but the truth is, your husband can probably see how his mother is treating you and doesn’t like it either. He may not stand up to her, for whatever reason, but he’s new to this too. Give him a break! Just keep your distance and try to keep the peace, but not at the cost of letting yourself be walked on. Don’t stoop to her level and don’t hesitate to speak up for yourself; you don’t need to set yourself up for abuse from anyone.

Don’t try to compete. He married you because he loves you. His relationship with you is different from the relationship with his mother. You’re his wife, not his mother. If she’s the queen of lasagne, give her the throne; she’s been cooking it for years and has perfected it. Create something new and perfect it. Or, better yet, find a great wine, light a candle and cook a little something up.

Do a good job taking care of her son. Part of the unnecessary strain on an in-law relationship is that your husband’s parents, particularly his mother, want to know that the wonderful care of their son that they have long provided will continue in your care. Let them see that you love him and that he has clean underwear and vegetables at least once a day. They’ll be happy and he’ll be more regular.
Keep them in the loop. Don’t cut his parents out. Take the initiative and call them with news and updates. Even though things might be a bit uncomfortable at first, remember that they are a big part of your life and making a little extra effort won’t hurt a bit (well, it won’t hurt too much).[/b]

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