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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by feddy27: 9:29pm On Dec 13, 2016
Mummygwen, take it easy on yourself and your baby ok. You sound exhausted avin tried 'everytin' and none seems to be working. Exhaustion can lead to frustration which is been passed on the baby. I would advise u talk to someone dat has a baby as well. Your baby is in a transitional phase which requires patience and a lot of experiment. Continue breast feeding + giving formula. Put a little of wateva u re eating in her mouth.

There is a facebook group that might be of help to you as regards diff meals u might want to try. Search for it and request to be added: Easy Healthy kids and family meals by August Secrets. She's also on instagram

Also check out mummysyum.com for meal ideas.

I would advise you drop your anger and go thru helovesme post. She made a lot of good contribution. Ur baby needs to see a doctor to rule out infected tonsils and others. Also check the teat of her bottle and maybe try changing the formula. Also don't give bland foods like plain rice cereals, dey might not be palatable to her. Try sweet purees like banana, avocado etc.

Finally don't beat her again ok cheesy. This is a phase and it will surely pass

All the best

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Coldfeet(f): 9:32pm On Dec 13, 2016
I had to bite my tongue really hard since morning on this issue.

Onegai no vex shift abeg I've never been known to obey orders tongue

MummyGwen I had to go look at my neighbours 6months old son to remind myself of the tiny tot a six month old is AND I'M APPALLED angry


Would have set you straight but the Nairaland toothless rabid dog barked and got to you before I could cheesy

However see the not so pleasant comments as a show of love towards your beautiful daughter and not a spite on your person. Please do not use force on her again.

Since you mentioned money not being an issue let me suggest you take her to Reddington hospital at Idowu Martin's street Victoria island or any good hospital that handles paediatric cases well and have a feeding tube put on her! That way she won't be able to make a fuss while her stomach gets filled with nutrition.

You will be happy, baby will be fed without force or violence and life will go on smiley

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by MummyGwen: 9:32pm On Dec 13, 2016
She can start for all I care I have seen how she fight everyone on this thread and also act ITK, and u should have gone blind urself after typing that and not comment further... I can see u re jobless, that's y u fight everyone and act ITK, my company is actually employing... They re looking for nanny actually, u can apply as u re the mother hen that knows how to take care of her chick very well, I continue to dare u to pm ur address and u will see me at ur house tmoa first thing in the morning even if it means leaving work for u... I wonder how ur hubby live with u if all u do is judge, I can imagine the hell that man Is living and how u must have judge everyone around u... Stupid idiot.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by AlphaHandMaiden(f): 9:34pm On Dec 13, 2016
maamee01:


Thanks swthrt. Sorry it's coming late motherhood tinz. I have gone through your blog n was inspired, waiting for part 2 as it will be inspiring. Tnx kiss

Thanks for reading it. glad to know it is of help to someone.
Here is the link to the 2nd part:

http://alphahandmaiden..co.uk/2016/12/weaning-foods-for-babies-6-months-and_74.html

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 9:38pm On Dec 13, 2016
MummyGwen:
She can start for all I care I have seen how she fight everyone on this thread and also act ITK, and u should have gone blind urself after typing that and not comment further... I can see u re jobless, that's y u fight everyone and act ITK, my company is actually employing... They re looking for nanny actually, u can apply as u re the mother hen that knows how to take care of her chick very well, I continue to dare u to pm ur address and u will see me at ur house tmoa first thing in the morning even if it means leaving work for u... I wonder how ur hubby live with u if all u do is judge, I can imagine the hell that man Is living and how u must have judge everyone around u... Stupid idiot.


Hehehehehe. I must have touched a raw nerve.

Besides, which kind husband you get? You mean he sits and watches you abuse his child cry cry

I dare you sef to drop your address and see if you won't have a visit tomorrow from one NGO/a charity that deals with abusive mothers like you.

Sha stop beating your baby. You hear? wink

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 10:18pm On Dec 13, 2016
Yawns !!!

Mummygwen. Is that you? Guess this is your real ID. grin grin

Say no to child abuse. A 6 months baby should never be physically assaulted.

Anyways, I'm done with you lot. Feel free to off bra, pant and display all my manners of craze.

I'm off to play FIFA on PS4 with hubby. wink grin

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by crystalzoe: 10:57pm On Dec 13, 2016
MummyGwen:
I wonder how ur hubby live with u if all u do is judge, I can imagine the hell that man Is living and how u must have judge everyone around u... Stupid idiot.
Pls let it go for peace sake biko, pls.
I can imagine how hurt u feel being called a bad mother when u actually sought help.just let it go.
I hope Ur able to get the solution u seek. Its well with Ur little one
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by ahnie: 10:58pm On Dec 13, 2016
Mehn this room z something x


Lawd have mercy!

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by soonest(f): 10:58pm On Dec 13, 2016
Una no get chill @ all. Since morning naim this matter dey trend.
It haff do oooo.

Mum contem2011, God bless you for your kind wishes.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Lutherap: 11:09pm On Dec 13, 2016
Never knew this page is filled with many judgemental people sad just when I thought of convincing dw to join?


For a mother to come here and openly admit she beats her baby just for her to eat, shows she needs the help of fellow mothers and not lecture or dissing on how to be a " good mother" correction done with kind words sinks in faster and better than one done with a harsh and condemning tone.

Help your fellow mother and don't drag her down further she is down already and is just seeking for a hand to lift her.

New moms should be able to come in here and get solution and not chased away by a few loud mouths.

Live and let live.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by philoedx: 11:32pm On Dec 13, 2016
House let peace reign.

@helovesme ,pls ur judgemental and uncouth attitude is becoming to much!! haba? you are not the only woman in this forum yet I see you making trouble all over the internet. the other day you carried ur troublesome and judgemental attitude to pregnancy thread,today you are equally showing off here in new mums thread. Permit me to say this honestly you are not properly trained!! which right do you have to tell a woman that she is a bad mother?

If you are like this in real life, I really pity that poor man you call your husband and your inlaws. The way I see you have scared people around you with your judgemental and comdemnation attitude. Na your type wey inlaws no dey gree near their house cos of bad attitude.There are wonderful mamas in this thread ,learn good manners from the likes of Onegai,Zaynie,etc . you mustn't comment in every post since you are terrible in dishing advice.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by elmoduddah: 11:58pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by bolanlegrace: 12:38am On Dec 14, 2016
helovesme:


Hehehehehe. Meet you ke? grin grin If we meet, it's to drag you by the weave to a doctor because you need serious help.

I won't abuse you back oh. Why? It's pointless trading words with a woman with mental health issues taking out her frustrations on an innocent baby.

Anyways, just stop beating your baby. You hear? wink

Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by valeriechima(f): 12:41am On Dec 14, 2016
As FTM I dey fear to ask my question.....abeg make nobody judge my matter ooo. I'm only seeking for advice from my fellow mamas....thanks

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dexterush(f): 1:22am On Dec 14, 2016
Mogbe mogbe modaran MMM

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dexterush(f): 1:22am On Dec 14, 2016
Came here to weep,but it seems am in the wrong thread cry
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dexterush(f): 1:23am On Dec 14, 2016
Somebody help,we've been invaded

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dexterush(f): 1:24am On Dec 14, 2016
I sprinkle holy water on this thread,receive healing and let peace reign

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by farydah: 2:02am On Dec 14, 2016
New mothers come here for honest help but when you act all judgemental and sanctimonious they will be scared to ask questions. We are all work in progress, nobody knows it all. Even if you think a woman is getting it wrong or is mentally unstable or is suffering from post natal depression, if you are a better mum or have more sense, you should know better than to berate her like that because your behaviour will increase her frustration.

the way you respond to people or certain situations tells a lot about you, your home training, your background and interestingly, you mental status so that it becomes the proverbial case of three fingers pointing back at you while one is pointing out.

let us live and let live abeg or at least be more gentle and patient when dishing out corrections/advice

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by iomoge2(f): 3:45am On Dec 14, 2016
Prettyhurts:


Ahh Mummy E MMM e yaff not crash ooo. They should pay me back my money before they start crashing abi freezing. Even the 30% I don't want again ooo. Me that aff prepare how I'll do Nwunye Oga with the money this Xmas. E aff nọ funny me at all at all

cheesy cheesy cheesy
Nwunye Oga got me lol.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by iomoge2(f): 4:11am On Dec 14, 2016
Na wa o.
No wonder some mamas never want to come here.

Its pathetic that a woman/mother will talk the way helovesme talks.
Jeezzzzz.

Your long post suggesting wat can be done came too late.
See all d rubbish u said b4 that.
Even from your first comment i was shocked.

I am not supporting child abuse but hay... there are better ways to say it.
7years moniker my foot.
Please drop it and get a new one.
Also get a new attitude and dont forget this " if u have nothing nice to say, dont say anything at all"

Thats how u insulted a mama for thinking of surgery.

And please dont respond or mention me cos u will so hate yourself....
Your stay here is long over due.... even if na u get solution to everyone question on nairaland please keep the solution to your self.

You wont bully me into not asking my questions as u have done some others.....

But please, if i ask a question, never u respond.
Asswipe.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by iomoge2(f): 4:14am On Dec 14, 2016
helovesme:


Is this your attempt at humour or what ? undecided undecided

The fact that you BEAT a 6 months old baby makes you a very BAD AND TERRIBLE MOTHER. there's no sugar coating it.

You are very lucky that this is a Nigerian forum and you have people here trading "turanchi" with you. Try this in any western or developed country and someone would have reported anonymously to the authorities, your IP address would have been tracked and you would have received a home visit from child protection officers.

Imagine

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by iomoge2(f): 4:22am On Dec 14, 2016
At my 6week pp appt.
A baby was put on a table by a staff of the hospital. ( her child)

Another woman came in and said wao... are they twins...
She was refering to my daughter and d girl on d table cos they were close by.

Immediately the childs mother started lamenting... saying " you see your life, you are 10months and they are comparing you with a new born...."

I was shocked. I thought the baby was 3months and was surprised she was seating already.

She said the baby never eats...
Honestly when i got home, i told my mum i will bend her neck n feed her if she was my child.... fine its not advisable but u need to c d child.... like she was going to break....

May God help us mothers to do what is best 4 our children.... amen

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by derommyvent: 4:33am On Dec 14, 2016
iomoge2:
Na wa o.
No wonder some mamas never want to come here.

Its pathetic that a woman/mother will talk the way helovesme talks.
Jeezzzzz.

Your long post suggesting wat can be done came too late.
See all d rubbish u said b4 that.
Even from your first comment i was shocked.

I am not supporting child abuse but hay... there are better ways to say it.
7years moniker my foot.
Please drop it and get a new one.
Also get a new attitude and dont forget this " if u have nothing nice to say, dont say anything at all"

Thats how u insulted a mama for thinking of surgery.

And please dont respond or mention me cos u will so hate yourself....
Your stay here is long over due.... even if na u get solution to everyone question on nairaland please keep the solution to your self.

You wont bully me into not asking my questions as u have done some others.....

But please, if i ask a question, never u respond.
Asswipe.


True talk.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by MamaOO: 4:38am On Dec 14, 2016
iomoge2:
Na wa o.
No wonder some mamas never want to come here.

Its pathetic that a woman/mother will talk the way helovesme talks.
Jeezzzzz.

Your long post suggesting wat can be done came too late.
See all d rubbish u said b4 that.
Even from your first comment i was shocked.

I am not supporting child abuse but hay... there are better ways to say it.
7years moniker my foot.
Please drop it and get a new one.
Also get a new attitude and dont forget this " if u have nothing nice to say, dont say anything at all"

Thats how u insulted a mama for thinking of surgery.

And please dont respond or mention me cos u will so hate yourself....
Your stay here is long over due.... even if na u get solution to everyone question on nairaland please keep the solution to your self.

You wont bully me into not asking my questions as u have done some others.....

But please, if i ask a question, never u respond.
Asswipe.

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