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I Have A Crush by obowunmi(op):
Pls I need help on a baby girl. grin grin grin
Re: I Have A Crush by Nobody: 7:43am On Jan 18, 2017
obowunmi:
Pls I need help.

I have a crush on someone. I have their phone number and I don't know how to tell them.

I use style to invite the person for a business meeting but I am not really interested in the business but the person.

How do I tell them without coming of stalkerish ?
shocked

How many of THEM u got a crush on? cheesy

Why not create a GROUO CHAT instead? wink one stone can kill a flock ooo.. tongue
Re: I Have A Crush by obowunmi(op): 7:45am On Jan 18, 2017
Just one.
Re: I Have A Crush by Nobody: 8:02am On Jan 18, 2017
You have a crush on someone, you have 'their' number. Wait is she"TRINITY"? grin cheesy
Re: I Have A Crush by freecocoa(f): 8:16am On Jan 18, 2017
At your age.

Smh. undecided
Re: I Have A Crush by obowunmi(op): 8:55am On Jan 18, 2017
Why are you yabbing.

Pls drop advice.
Re: I Have A Crush by obowunmi(op): 8:55am On Jan 18, 2017
DuchessDee:
You have a crush on someone, you have 'their' number. Wait is she"TRINITY"? grin cheesy
Huh? undecided
Re: I Have A Crush by tbliss22(m): 9:09am On Jan 18, 2017
obowunmi:
Why are you yabbing.
Pls drop advice.
Your written expression is confusing, try edit may be people will understand....
Re: I Have A Crush by freecocoa(f): 11:36am On Jan 18, 2017
Btw, there's nothing confusing about OP's grammar but then again, not everyone understands ......
undecided
Re: I Have A Crush by crackhaus: 12:12pm On Jan 18, 2017
obowunmi:
Pls I need help.

I have a crush on someone. I have their phone number and I don't know how to tell them.

I use style to invite the person for a business meeting but I am not really interested in the business but the person.

How do I tell them without coming of stalkerish ?
Send me her number, let me tell her for you.
Re: I Have A Crush by obowunmi(op): 12:13pm On Jan 18, 2017
freecocoa:
Btw, there's nothing confusing about OP's grammar but then again, not everyone understands ......
undecided
This English is Primary 4 level.

What else do people want.
Re: I Have A Crush by obowunmi(op): 12:14pm On Jan 18, 2017
crackhaus:
Send me her number, let me tell her for you.
Give tips here.
Re: I Have A Crush by Nobody:
obowunmi:
I use style to invite the person for a business meeting but I am not really interested in the business but the person.
LOL.

The next time you see her, tell her. The worst that could happen? She's not interested. OR you might be surprised to find out that she likes you too. Either way, stop playing games and tell her.
Re: I Have A Crush by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jan 18, 2017
Anyone who thinks that is bad English should be culled from the population. However it should be 'coming off', not 'coming of'.
Re: I Have A Crush by Richy4(m):
This is just so annoying....Someone needed help on what to do...Some people that got nothing to say were busy correcting English language usage.......If the thread was below your level/ standard because of the grammar, you can always skip or scroll to pass...You really do not need to rub it in especially when you cannot advise him after correcting the grammar.........A lot of people here doesn't care much or wants to know that you graduated from Oxford University.....What we are interested in will be how you can use your intellect to help someone...And others might apply whatever you pinpointed should same situation arises.....I thought family section was for mature minded adults... undecided

@ Op,In my own opinion,I think you should Call her and Invite her out for Lunch....The highest thing she can say will be "NO I have a boyfriend full-stop".....Besides have you considered the fact that she might say yes to your request.... You can add taking the bull by the horn to your new year resolution list this year... It's not to late to pencil it in..
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Re: I Have A Crush by sisisioge: 5:21pm On Jan 18, 2017
You with your highended résumé on women's affair tongue tie cos of a crush? Okies!

You are on the right track...at the meeting make sure you get her to notice you sorta notice her...
1) Make as much eye contact as possible with her and smile.

2) Listen well to whatever she says however minute.Then make references.

3) Compliment her...girls can't get enough of that.

4) Plain ask her for her number so you could take it more private... three is a crowd dude!

Good luck...remember to be yourself all the way.
Re: I Have A Crush by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jan 18, 2017
Since you are a guy, why not approach her in a gentle calm way and tell her your very mind.
Re: I Have A Crush by crackhaus: 10:12pm On Jan 18, 2017
obowunmi:
Give tips here.
Warning: This is the long version.

Tips:
1. Ignore her
2. Ignore her some more
3. Completely ignore her

Then after ignoring her for 2weeks:
4. Give her a compliment and let that be the first thing you say to her...Not good morning or how are you. Let the compliment (her hair, eyes, or perfume) be the first thing you say to her after 2weeks.

5. Ignore her again for 3days.
6. After 3 days, walk up to her and tell her you have something important to talk about with her.
7. Tell her you've been ignoring her because you heard some unpalatable rumour about her (don't mention the source) and you've been trying to form your conclusions from afar.
8. Let her know that you finally decided to get her perspective because you have chosen NOT to believe what you heard.
9. Fix a date.
10. Go on the date and talk about everything EXCEPT your feelings. Let her trust you first before you tell her how you feel on the third date.

The End.


If you want the shorter version, please let me know.
Re: I Have A Crush by nurey(m): 1:31am On Jan 19, 2017
This will do the magic.

Sing her this song
Am still missing you
It hurts me every time I see you
It makes me realize how much I need you
I hate it that I love
I hate it that I want you
I wish you miss me like I miss you
I hope you feel the same way
You are my day, my night, my sun, my moon
Your presence is all I hope for

At the end, kneel on one knee, hold her hands while using the other to caress that same hand, look straight into her eyes, let one tear drop... Wait for it, be patient cause your boldness just whaoed her. She's all yours
Re: I Have A Crush by sisisioge: 6:15am On Jan 19, 2017
nurey:
This will do the magic.

Sing her this song
Am still missing you
It hurts me every time I see you
It makes me realize how much I need you
I hate it that I love
I hate it that I want you
I wish you miss me like I miss you
I hope you feel the same way
You are my day, my night, my sun, my moon
Your presence is all I hope for

At the end, kneel on one knee, hold her hands while using the other to caress that same hand, look straight into her eyes, let one tear drop... Wait for it, be patient cause your boldness just whaoed her. She's all yours
grin grin grin Let's hope she's am oldies girl that loves tellymondo and Indian films die! Otherwise , while you are singing and caressing her like that na prayer she go dey pray for people to save her from the hands of a perceived Looney.
Re: I Have A Crush by Acidosis(m): 8:16am On Jan 19, 2017
Do people still pass through these bureaucratic processes to date a woman?
Re: I Have A Crush by obowunmi(op): 11:25am On Jan 19, 2017
Acidosis:
Do people still pass through these bureaucratic processes to date a woman?
Yes. I am a gentleman.
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