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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by 2016v2017: 11:54am On Mar 02, 2017
TheSlyone2:
She got rape and she still went ahead to marry her rapist... There's more to this than meet the eye
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Nofuckgiven: 11:56am On Mar 02, 2017
All this kids(obviously matured adults read before they comment) here talking trash should actually be happy and joyful when their mothers,wives,nieces and female relatives fall victims of rape. Because it hasn't happened to someone close to you doesnt mean you should open your gutter you call mouth to spew trash. undecided
As for those asking why she married the rapist,she obviously got pregnant as a result of the rape which is an extra reason why female rape victims are far off worse than any male rape victim. So all this stupid dumb men ranting like educated illiterates, do yourselves a favor and shut the gutter in your stinking faces!! angry

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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Fhowe: 11:59am On Mar 02, 2017
all made up make she find somewhere go sit

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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by LockDown69(m): 12:02pm On Mar 02, 2017
6 years
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by ikp120(m): 12:09pm On Mar 02, 2017
It depends in what she is claiming to be rape. You'll be shocked to know that the girl and the guy were actually dating when the thing she's claiming to be rape occurred.

Imagine a girl making out with a guy and the guy brings out his dick and plugs it into her pussy, then the girl go dey scream rape angry angry Anuofia! Gerarahia mehn! angry angry
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by ShaqFu: 12:16pm On Mar 02, 2017
This is proof that prayer and speaking in tongues don't work!.

I still find her story sketchy, like where was her parents? Who gave her out for marriage? Did she tell her parents that the man who wants to marry her, raped her? Did she tell anyone her ordeal?

These questions and many more need answers.

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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 02, 2017
SACI:

As u no no d the specifics surrounding this situation ...abeg no begin dey judge




Ok.
Am not judging.. I simply wondered
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Nobody: 12:19pm On Mar 02, 2017
ShaqFu:
This is proof that prayer and speaking in tongues don't work!.

I still find her story sketchy, like where was her parents? Who gave her out for marriage? Did she tell her parents that the man who wants to marry her, raped her? Did she tell anyone her ordeal?

These questions and many more need answers.



Exactly! Who would give out 18 years old girl for marriage.
She needs to answer awhole lot of questions.
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by ikp120(m): 12:21pm On Mar 02, 2017
Nofuckgiven:
All this kids(obviously matured adults read before they comment) here talking trash should actually be happy and joyful when their mothers,wives,nieces and female relatives fall victims of rape. Because it hasn't happened to someone close to you doesnt mean you should open your gutter you call mouth to spew trash. undecided
As for those asking why she married the rapist,she obviously got pregnant as a result of the rape which is an extra reason why female rape victims are far off worse than any male rape victim. So all this stupid dumb men ranting like educated illiterates, do yourselves a favor and shut the gutter in your stinking faces!! angry

Bros use your brain na. Before you reach a conclusion, you should have considered all the probable probabilities.

You should have asked about the other side of the story. Have you considered the chance that the 2 could have been in a love relationship back then but had sex and the girl turned the shiit to a rape story as a way of making up for the loss of her virginity?

Do you know that some girls who claim to have lost their virginity to rape never actually did, but the thing was actually consensual? That's from my personal experience. In my case, the girl actually got pregnant for him and used rape to hide her ass from the blame.

I simply ain't buying this story because it reeks of dishonesty and I ain't that gullible not to spot dishonesty.

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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Pweedycutie(f): 12:22pm On Mar 02, 2017
alexialin:
Why would a lady or girl or whatever in her right senses marry a rapist in the first place
Who does that?
She truly has some deep issues to solve within her.
She was forced into marriage...
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by tsmith(f): 12:23pm On Mar 02, 2017
DollarAngel:
I have conversed with Ladies on how they lost their Virginity the truth is, When it comes to sexual abuse there are always vulnerability, Most felt unprotected, unable to resist on their own, and isolated by what has happened to them. This is why I admonish our Nigeria schools to adds sexual abuse program to the curriculum, it should tightly focus on basic the difference between "good" and "bad" touching, alerting them to dangers and encouraging them to tell an adult if anything untoward happens to them.

Totally agree the need teach Sexual education and protection against sexual harrasment and abuse in school curriculum. I have had 2 relationships that started with rape. Many ask why and how? Its a combination of guilt of did i put myself in the situation to no real reporting body or line to the added drama and attention of what people will say or think. Of course the rapists were not total strangers, probably someone you're already relating with and could have possibly given in to at a later date, but that never erases the fact that at that point in time, the girl's no is no! Even if she is laying spreadeagle on your bed in her birthday suit.

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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by DavidEsq(m): 12:25pm On Mar 02, 2017
CaroLyner:
Rape is not just about "private parts being touched without consent". Its a violation of dignity and self respect.
Rapists deserve to be castrated.
Or

Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by seangy4konji: 12:28pm On Mar 02, 2017
i nor deh there when it happen...

i no fit testify,confirm or cook beans cos of that.
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by tsmith(f): 12:29pm On Mar 02, 2017
ikp120:
It depends in what she is claiming to be rape. You'll be shocked to know that the girl and the guy were actually dating when the thing she's claiming to be rape occurred.

Imagine a girl making out with a guy and the guy brings out his dick and plugs it into her pussy, then the girl go dey scream rape angry angry Anuofia! Gerarahia mehn! angry angry

Dating shouldn't translate to forced sex. Sex should be consensual, when it's not its simply rape

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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by DavidEsq(m): 12:30pm On Mar 02, 2017
tsmith:


Totally agree the need teach Sexual education and protection against sexual harrasment and abuse in school curriculum. I have had 2 relationships that started with rape. Many ask why and how? Its a combination of guilt of did i put myself in the situation to no real reporting body or line to the added drama and attention of what people will say or think. Of course the rapists were not total strangers, probably someone you're already relating with and could have possibly given in to at a later date, but that never erases the fact that at that point in time, the girl's no is no! Even if she is laying spreadeagle on your bed in her birthday suit.
Pls wat is birthday suit? The word just confuses me and it got worse, wen u said "spread-eagled". How can som1 be spread-eagled in a bday suit. Edakun pls ep me wit d meaning cry
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by tsmith(f): 12:34pm On Mar 02, 2017
durasome:
It depends on the circumstances,when,where and how. You don't follow a man that has been asking you out and you have been collecting stuffs from or maybe he didn't give you the amount you asked of before the deed then you come out and start shouting rape rape.a lot of you girls are just what I can't imagine.

Potential rapist alert!!!

Nothing and absolutely nothing justifes rape. NO is NO.

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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by ceejay4real(m): 12:35pm On Mar 02, 2017
Maybe the rapist's cassava was too sweet to be true! Or else I can't fathom why a sane woman wld marry someone who raped her!
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by tsmith(f): 12:36pm On Mar 02, 2017
DavidEsq:

Pls wat is birthday suit? The word just confuses me and it got worse, wen u said "spread-eagled". How can som1 be spread-eagled in a bday suit. Edakun pls ep me wit d meaning cry

Google or at best oxford dictionary should be your bestfriend
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by DavidEsq(m): 12:42pm On Mar 02, 2017
tsmith:


Google or at best oxford dictionary should be your bestfriend
Wen dey don't kno somtin, dis is how dey wee be talking

Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by ikp120(m): 12:42pm On Mar 02, 2017
tsmith:


Dating shouldn't translate to forced sex. Sex should be consensual, when it's not its simply rape

You're making out with a guy, do you expect a prophet to tell you that that's already sexual? It is not forced sex if you both were making out when it happened. You don't know that making out with a guy can turn a girl on badly to the point that she'll just be enjoying the whole thing, including the sex part.
Na after her eyes don clear she go dey scream rape. Most rape claims in relationships are LIES!
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by karimusaa: 12:59pm On Mar 02, 2017
Oyind17:
Wicked man. All rapist deserve death sentence

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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by David97: 1:04pm On Mar 02, 2017
TheSlyone2:
She got rape and she still went ahead to marry her rapist... There's more to this than meet the eye

I don't think that's the full story
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by euchariadavid(f): 1:04pm On Mar 02, 2017
Jodha:
Lemme get this straight.. She was forced at gun point to marry the rapist?.. Some people are just the cause of their predicaments..
Maybe she didn't know that it was the same guy that raped her
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Nobody: 1:07pm On Mar 02, 2017
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Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Okeyson4wisdom(m): 1:15pm On Mar 02, 2017
AdoraAmadi:


http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/03/i-was-raped-at-17-married-my-rapist-at.html

if I talk now people would Say am too harsh but let me ask now what is she going to lecture people about that it is good to divorce (Abi) am beginning to reason like the things written in Ecclesiastes which is there are things that happens in this lifetime especially in the ladies side which is that in this world that is so busy yet I see people especially ladies being idle and never have a anything to give out sumbody on this close of age that people are planning how best to fit in this harsh economic turmoil and I see some ladies where I do business still have time to take selfies posing with k legs and v legs and all sort and then I keep wondering is this person out of this world, what will this person offer if she is being put in a marital way. Sighs na way oh. embarassed
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Xzbit91: 1:18pm On Mar 02, 2017
Mariojane:
do you know how to read or comprehend simple words? she was raped by him, she did not tell anyone because of threat, she was forced into marrying him, she was maltreated by him during the period of her marriage to him before she was free. SIMPLE

Where did you read this? undecided
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Nofuckgiven: 1:25pm On Mar 02, 2017
ikp120:


Bros use your brain na. Before you reach a conclusion, you should have considered all the probable probabilities.

You should have asked about the other side of the story. Have you considered the chance that the 2 could have been in a love relationship back then but had sex and the girl turned the shiit to a rape story as a way of making up for the loss of her virginity?

Do you know that some girls who claim to have lost their virginity to rape never actually did, but the thing was actually consensual? That's from my personal experience. In my case, the girl actually got pregnant for him and used rape to hide her ass from the blame.

I simply ain't buying this story because it reeks of dishonesty and I ain't that gullible not to spot dishonesty.
Na you sabi. You are entitled to your own opinion Bros.
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Mariojane(f): 1:41pm On Mar 02, 2017
Xzbit91:


Where did you read this? undecided

go read the last paragraph Uncle Emma

[/b]This is a story of rape, of how she didn't speak out, of how she was forced into marriage, of how he abused her, would beat her and she'd loose consciousness for days, a story of how she'd pray and
fast and speak in tongues but nothing changed, until she parted ways with him[b].
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Xzbit91: 2:04pm On Mar 02, 2017
Mariojane:


go read the last paragraph Uncle Emma

[/b]This is a story of rape, of how she didn't speak out, of how she was forced into marriage, of how he abused her, would beat her and she'd loose consciousness for days, a story of how she'd pray and
fast and speak in tongues but nothing changed, until she parted ways with him[b].

I read that, but was concerned with the part I bolded.
It reads "how she didn't speak out" I wonder where you got the 'why' (because of threat)
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Nobody: 2:04pm On Mar 02, 2017
Jodha:
Lemme get this straight.. She was forced at gun point to marry the rapist?.. Some people are just the cause of their predicaments..

I think I understand what happened, the rape leads to pregnancy and he was forced to marry her, after getting more awareness about rape and how cruel it is, she decide to dump him because she can't stand it..


You know she was still young, and at that age most parent will want to influence their children decision, I guess they told the guy to marry her since the outcome lead to pregnancy,she had no option than to obey.

After 6years,she is old enough to take decision and she decide to do the real deal.

I bet the awareness on rape was not that much, and parent don't want anything that will bring shame to their family but this is 2017,try it and see what will happen to your d*ck, the John Thomas will rote in jail for life.. Hahaa
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by encrypt(m): 2:12pm On Mar 02, 2017
Jodha:
Lemme get this straight.. She was forced at gun point to marry the rapist?.. Some people are just the cause of their predicaments..
Ever heard of Stockholm syndrome?
Madam go and read up!
Re: Joy Chinenye Azubike: Raped At 17, Married Rapist At 18, Divorced 6 Years Later by Nobody: 2:18pm On Mar 02, 2017
mamajaz:

People in their right senses do read posts before commenting.



People not in their right sense should stop quoting me.

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