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Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by sebali(op): 8:57am On Mar 12, 2017
It's no longer news that Christianity has stylishly accepted fornication. We no longer see it as anything when our Cell mates or Unit mates tell us about their cheating sexual partners, neither is it news to know that within our small church, Christian brothers and sisters are sexual involved. Fornication in Christianity is now own a " I know, you I know; We are All Guilty; So, don't ask, don't judge".
Today am not talking about the accepted Christian Vice of sex before marriage, rather am worried we are now adding another vice to the list of the accepted norms in "Christiandom".
I have a neighbour who you can't find at home as early as 6:30am and comes home late cos he is forever in church but literally lives with his girlfriend. This is a Man who told me that his pastor would not let him change parish because of the pivotal role he plays in that parish, yet he doesn't see it as a wrong for his girlfriend to share is roof and bed for weeks running(once in a while she visits her home maybe for a day or two, and then she is back to Eldorado)
This is not an isolated event, it is rather a common sight today. Zealous Church Goers, do not feel disturbed wen dey visit their fellow zealots who cohabits, we know Unit leaders who stylishly cohabits and we encourage them by calling the girl "awa wife". While in Uniben I knew a GTAN(i don't know if i spelt it right) pastor who cohabited with a friend of mine, for a semester, who was also a top GTAN sister. In her defence she told me there relationship was sex free, as in they were courting but without sex.
This Morning I ask HAVE WE ALSO ADDED COHABITING to the "DON'T JUDGE MANTRA OF CHRISTIANITY? Or is it that we don't understand what it means to be a CHRISTIAN , thus mistaking RELIGIOSITY for CHRISTIANITY. I conclude that the later is the case, we now have RELIGIOUS FANATICS and very, very, very few DIMINISHING CHRISTIANS.

N.B :Muslims should not come here and start masturbating on this(Since I've never seen a cohabiting Muslim Couple) because fornication and adultery is a common practice amongst Muslim, one wonders if the duo is even a SIN IN ISLAM provided the "doer and the doee" keeps the facade of the good Muslim.
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by Nobody: 9:04am On Mar 12, 2017
Op is just senseless
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by sebali(op): 9:10am On Mar 12, 2017
catlova2:
Op is just senseless
Senseful, do you mind Educating me?
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by Kondomatic(m): 9:16am On Mar 12, 2017
sebali:
Senseful, do you mind Educating me?
How and when did Christianity approve fornication??
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by paulGrundy(m): 9:22am On Mar 12, 2017
sebali:
It's no longer news that Christianity has stylishly accepted fornication. We no longer see it as anything when our Cell mates or Unit mates tell us about their cheating sexual partners, neither is it news to know that within our small church, Christian brothers and sisters are sexual involved. Fornication in Christianity is now own a " I know, you I know; We are All Guilty; So, don't ask, don't judge".
Today am not talking about the accepted Christian Vice of sex before marriage, rather am worried we are now adding another vice to the list of the accepted norms in "Christiandom".
I have a neighbour who you can't find at home as early as 6:30am and comes home late cos he is forever in church but literally lives with his girlfriend. This is a Man who told me that his pastor would not let him change parish because of the pivotal role he plays in that parish, yet he doesn't see it as a wrong for his girlfriend to share is roof and bed for weeks running(once in a while she visits her home maybe for a day or two, and then she is back to Eldorado)
This is not an isolated event, it is rather a common sight today. Zealous Church Goers, do not feel disturbed wen dey visit their fellow zealots who cohabits, we know Unit leaders who stylishly cohabits and we encourage them by calling the girl "awa wife". While in Uniben I knew a GTAN(i don't know if i spelt it right) pastor who cohabited with a friend of mine, for a semester, who was also a top GTAN sister. In her defence she told me there relationship was sex free, as in they were courting but without sex.
This Morning I ask HAVE WE ALSO ADDED COHABITING to the "DON'T JUDGE MANTRA OF CHRISTIANITY? Or is it that we don't understand what it means to be a CHRISTIAN , thus mistaking RELIGIOSITY for CHRISTIANITY. I conclude that the later is the case, we now have RELIGIOUS FANATICS and very, very, very few DIMINISHING CHRISTIANS.

N.B :Muslims should not come here and start masturbating on this(Since I've never seen a cohabiting Muslim Couple) because fornication and adultery is a common practice amongst Muslim, one wonders if the duo is even a SIN IN ISLAM provided the "doer and the doee" keeps the facade of the good Muslim.
Sad development. But OP what if what the GTAN sister told you is true?
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by Pastafarian: 9:30am On Mar 12, 2017
Morality evolves, that's the bitter fact!!!!!


so many things that are seen as wrong in the past are now seen as normal

so many things that are seen as right in the past like slavery, genocide are now seen as wrong

in remember growing up and females started wearing trousers in Nigeria, something that I've seen as normal in my visits to Norway and other developed counties was seen as PURE EVIL by Nigeria Christians, lots of churches called any female wearing trousers demonic and preached vehemently against it

today, females are now wearing trousers even to church

this is how it'll be till forever, the only thing constant is change

most things Christians of today do would be seen as sinful evil and demonic by Christians of the past

if we are to look 100 years into the future, we'll see "Christians" of the future doing things Christians of the present would consider evil, sinful and demonic


morality is not stagnant, it evolves with time
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by sebali(op):
paulGrundy:
Sad development. But OP what if what the GTAN sister told you is true?
It could be true, but b4 the general public who do not stay with them or have d privilege to ask her, what impression is left for them and how do u think dey wud judge their act
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by sebali(op): 10:08am On Mar 12, 2017
Kondomatic:
How and when did Christianity approve fornication??
Silence is Consent.
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by otemanuduno: 10:15am On Mar 12, 2017
Pastafarian:
Morality evolves, that's the bitter fact!!!!!


so many things that are seen as wrong in the past are now seen as normal

so many things that are seen as right in the past like slavery, genocide are now seen as wrong

in remember growing up and females started wearing trousers in Nigeria, something that I've seen as normal in my visits to Norway and other developed counties was seen as PURE EVIL by Nigeria Christians, lots of churches called any female wearing trousers demonic and preached vehemently against it

today, females are now wearing trousers even to church

this is how it'll be till forever, the only thing constant is change

most things Christians of today do would be seen as sinful evil and demonic by Christians of the past

if we are to look 100 years into the future, we'll see "Christians" of the future doing things Christians of the present would consider evil, sinful and demonic


morality is not stagnant, it evolves with time
You are not far from the truth.


DOCTUFOS: Observation of Rastus 7: 9-19


9. I have made observations and known that there is nothing normal in itself except what the homos have normalised. And anything can be normalised, no matter how it seems impossible to do. 10. For if the homos of the world decide to normalise equality in gender, it shall be so. But the beginning of every normalisation is called an offence to the gods. 11. For before in Juda, the Shabbat was the last day of the week, but from the time of the beginning of Krishtanite till now, it was changed and the first day of the week seemed to be their Shabbat. 12. So also in the normalisation of blood drinking, which was forbidden by the homos of Juda before. 13. But when Zeusus came, he normalised the drinking of human blood and the eating of human flesh, which Danyal had foreseen hundreds of years before as the abomination of destruction which shall come after the daily sacrifices done by the Jews and many other kingdoms. 14. I have observed and known also that there is nothing powerful in itself except what the homos have given power to. 15. And if they decide to give power to another thing, so shall it become powerful. 16. For many gave powers to ancient books and tablets, and those things seemed powerful to them. And some gave powers to images which they had moulded. And nature makes it appear real to them. 17. And some write terrible things about the gods which they worship, so that they might make others afraid by their testimonies. And those gods seemed powerful to the understanding of those who fear them. 18. And how do the homos give power to their beliefs? They do so by lying and propaganda; telling much lie and acting them out also. 19. But the wise knows this and say to himself, I cannot be fooled.
Re: Has Christianity Accepted Cohabiting by sebali(op):
[quote author=Pastafarian post=54507784]this is how it'll be till forever, the only thing constant is change

most things Christians of today do would be seen as sinful evil and demonic by Christians of the past

if we are to look 100 years into the future, we'll see "Christians" of the future doing things Christians of the present would consider evil, sinful and demonic


True talk religion generally is evolving and becoming more permissive. .... My pain is that they judge me for not being churchy and not by moral standards
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