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PrincessKab:
Well, maybe I should begin by telling you, without any reservation, that "I AM SORRY", I'm not so arrogant not to be able to say that, since I was being biased.
However, considering some statements in your message attached, I'd have ignored, but something struck me in it, which is similar to the 2nd post attached below, that word "dislike" is in both posts, and the word "humiliated" in this 1st post; and cos you made in a statement quoted below) and someone said (in the 3rd post below) that I was responsible for your ban. Hence, I'll like to address these altogether.

@Threebear @Foxrain , I see you as an intelligent young man who is broad in knowledge, I acknowledge and admire this. But you see, I just wanna point out some things to you:-
*No one is an "Island of Knowledge". If only you can adjust and give room for more knowledge in your argument! If only you can give room to the fact that you may be wrong too. If only you can be slow to calling people"dumb" or "ignorant". If only you can be thankful you are privileged or recognise that it's not some people's fault that they are less-priviledged to some level of education or exposure. If only you can humbly explain without being disrespectful, that's attractive to make people wanna learn from you or listen to you when you express yourselfin writing.
*Attack. If only you can stop calling people names no matter how childish their reasoning seem to you. If only you can stop insulting people no matter how vague their argument is. If only you can be slow to anger or frustration. If only you can ignore some people's posts no matter how humiliating they are.
*Correction. If only you can be open-minded to being corrected. If only you can accept that many people will know some things more than you and you'll know more than many(not all) people too.
*Respect. If only you can respect people's views and opinions without disrespecting them. If only you can recognise that Respect is reciprocal and not an Age thing, especially on a platform like this when you barely know a small percentage really well.

I'm sure you can bear me witness that at some point, I took a correction from you and I wrote "Thank you" to you. You can also bear me witness that I don't reply insults with insults, I don't exchange abuses or curses and I'd rather ignore such posts and some other, no matter how humiliating they are, despite not deserving it. I guess you can bear me witness that I usually accept openly here that I make mistakes, I do apologise as well, whereas many may say I owe nobody such cos it's not an obligation I have to perform. These are only possible cos I recognise I'm human and I learnt some more tolerance and patience over time.

However, I will like to state here that I don't dislike you as a person, I just have some issues about most of your responses, mentions, exchange, approach to arguments... here. Nevertheless, I only wish you can take into consideration all, if possible, I wrote above, your person will be so endearing cos like I stated above, I admire your intelligence and level of knowledge.

Also, as regards the ban, I'll honestly state that I don't think I was responsible. I did report when I newly joined, maybe 2 days or so, but when I noticed you were still online, I stopped reporting, and that was even before you and I exchanged chats. I didn't even report your exchanges with me.

As regards Efe or his fans, you and I know you do go overboard on his case, attacking his person and his fans. I understand, maybe before I joined this forum, a lot had ensued, which is why you're always reiterating that Efe fans will come for so.. so.. so. However, what I've seen so far are threats, intimidation, Oppression, Bully, from you and from people here. I sense that Efe fans are calm or lemme say, cos I don't know what ensued before, calmer now and seeking to make peace, so is there anything bad in playing maturity here? I mean, it's not a good thing when some people only read and not contribute cos they're scared of intimidation? Is it a bad thing if many people can update(Without fear of persecution that they didn't update all or they are biased), if many people can contribute, give their opinions, argue, disagree to agree or otherwise, with all maturity, without tantrums being thrown here and there. Fine, I recognise we have a wide range of ages, but maturity is not by age and that's one thing I recognise, but I believe we can all act maturely.
I know there is no smoke without fire, and I wanna assume some people brought stepped on your toes and brought out this side of you, we all have our dark side, it takes extra effort to tame it not to come out. On behalf of of myself and them all, pls, we are sorry, let it go and let's move on from here, without going against the rules the moderators laid down here.

So pls, think about it, we can all make peace and move on from here. We can all argue constructively without being rude or sarcastic or bragging about material things and co, these can be very irritating and childish cos we don't know who the next person is or what he has and so may be a turn off for some people as painting you as who you really are not.

Conclusively, @Threebear @Foxrain , I have no issue with you, as you'd observe, I don't respond to your posts and mentions, not because I don't want to, but cos I honestly had a bad picture of you at the back of my mind and I know many people do too, but I saw that soft part, weak, in your first and second posts. Some things are better left unsaid, let's just move on from here.
We can all be cool, you know. BBN is here and will end on April 9th, what impressions about ourselves, that we ain't, have we made? Let's just be ourselves, don't let people mould you into what you ain't, and if what you are ain't good, then you can be better and take the good people offer you.

Do have a great week.











I'll quote out from a post of yours, after your previous ban, where you wrote ".... evil princess....I know this your handiwork and I'm coming for you..."

Papykush:
Tayo is arrogant yeah, but he speaks the truth and he is real. Trust me, if Uti wasn't in that house Tayo would have won.

adonismuller:
lol....yeah Efe is gone...too bad he left so soon...



















he actually left to collect his head warmer in the dressing room...lol

ovoP:
Chai aswear d music no make at all he b like comedy 4 my ears

That is how Efe's "fufu" rap will be like soon

dadavivo:
watch how Efe fans will jump on you like mad dog. Just watch

Read me signature. Na their medicine be that.

vickydevoka:
uti kwanu! na waoo.. where u watch ur own

dadavivo:
watch how Efe fans will jump on you like mad dog. Just watch

Unimaginable123:
Mods, why is this big ediot Akthedream112 always allowed to abuse and insult forunmites as if he or she or it is a sacred cow?

toseen7:
i'm gon' be so happy...

dadavivo:
watch how Efe fans will jump on you like mad dog. Just watch

dadavivo:
who be this mumuu, you and who dey argue about Efe fufu rap.

PrincessKab:
Well, maybe I should begin by telling you, without any reservation, that "I AM SORRY", I'm not so arrogant not to be able to say that, since I was being biased.
However, considering some statements in your message attached, I'd have ignored, but something struck me in it, which is similar to the 2nd post attached below, that word "dislike" is in both posts, and the word "humiliated" in this 1st post; and cos you made in a statement quoted below) and someone said (in the 3rd post below) that I was responsible for your ban. Hence, I'll like to address these altogether.

@Threebear @Foxrain , I see you as an intelligent young man who is broad in knowledge, I acknowledge and admire this. But you see, I just wanna point out some things to you:-
*No one is an "Island of Knowledge". If only you can adjust and give room for more knowledge in your argument! If only you can give room to the fact that you may be wrong too.

PrincessKab:
Lol... We'll see how it plays out. We surely have his back. If he's not up and probably Marvis, we gats to rest o, let other fans save their Favs by themselves. Let's not interfere, support or gang up against any other Housemate...It has its advantages and disadvantages, but it's better to be neutral than gamble between both sides.
Aiit...Catchyu...

Misswang001:
I am thinking the power card Marvis got, could make her HOH tomorrow.

ninnyanny:
you are right.cos last night Marvis was telling Efe that, Efe,tin tall,Bisola and hersef are already in the final.that she doesnt know who the 5th finalist will be...I laughed at her if only she knew.

frankfiny:
Sorry to ask...but Madam, are you a Journalist by profession?

geekybabe:
Maybe you were not listening tonight. They want TTT gone. They have seen is tactics and how he is using them to play d game. Bisola cant wait for TTT to be gone so she can move to bally. She said it tonight that tony thinks he is d only one that can use pple to get what he wants. Efe does not like him anymore too.

PrincessKab:
Lol... I'm not.

fitzmayowa:
Bisola is all talk she is really into that guy, she would rather have her "rival" go than TTT, marvis will not nominate him because of the power card ish...

The only person that can nominate him MIGHT be efe and even at that efe is still loyal and looks up to him somewhat...


However, we still have to wait for whoever wins the HOH, the only thing that's sure from the "gang" bisola, efe and marvis is the nomination of Tboss based on their convos this night...

jdanz:
How could Kemen had fingered Tboss when she has confirmed she was on her period and Kemen did not have his fingers stained. "KEMEN IS INNOCENT"
http://www.bigbrotherafricatv.com/2017/03/tboss-says-she-was-on-her-period.html?m=1

jdanz:
How could Kemen had fingered Tboss when she has confirmed she was on her period and Kemen did not have his fingers stained. "KEMEN IS INNOCENT"
http://www.bigbrotherafricatv.com/2017/03/tboss-says-she-was-on-her-period.html?m=1

Bukybabe:
no only them..Bassey and bally might also nominate tboss.They are complaining about her...It's probably only debie that may not nominate tboss

Akthedream112:
BALLY BALLY... THE REAL DEVIL IN BBN

Misswang001:
I am thinking the power card Marvis got, could make her HOH tomorrow.

PrincessKab:
Haba! She didn't say she was on her period, I watched it, she said "what if I was on my period?..."

Papykush:
Odds for those that will be norminated tomorrow

DebbieRise 4.5/ straight winning.
Tboss 4.3/ goal-goal
Bassey 3.5/ handicap
Marvis 2.5/anybody win
Bally 2.5
Bisola 1.5
Efe 1.0
TTT - Nigga is going nowhere he is the next head of house

Papykush:
Efe will norminate Tboss and Tony for eviction
Debie-rise - Tony and Bisola
Bally - Tony and bassey
Bisola - Tony and DebbieRise
Tboss - Bisola/Marvis and Tony
Marvis - Tboss/Debbie and Tony/bassey
Bassey - Tony/Tboss and bally
Tboss - Tony/bassey and bally.

75% accurate...