₦airaland Forum

SleekyPosh:
No 1..Ur descendants and offsprings will always carry the genetic and permanent label of Products of a Broken Home.

No 2..If you are married ...Then you have only been bestowed as a curse and source of sorrow and anguish on your husband, inlaws and even your born or yet to be born children. You are not worthy of a reasonable husband with this barbaric and loose tongue of yours.

No 3. Be guided..Its obvious you are brought up from a lawless slum or ghetto infested with prostitutes and all sort of vices nd you were never cultured to respect anybody not even your father or senoir ones..its a pity..

Funny..Im even responding to an imbecilic brain like you..You are not worth an ounce of response from me..

Id leave the sensible ones to learn from my post..

Just donate yourself to the nearest abbatoir for disposal..

Female species like you should be eradicated from the face of our sane society..

I spit on You.

awwww..Nigga sounds pained,was your scrotum peeled,after you read my lines..soon sorry, I never meant to be brutal.Well I can,see you are truly cursed,let me guess is either you must be a product,of premature ejaculation,or product of a broken condom,and you were picked from the waste-bin of a brothel in ogbomosho..I go for this one,lil wonder you re inhumane, u lack motherly care and love, u're a beast in the form of man..candid advice,get itself into the nearest orphanage home,and stop pouring ur aggression on line..child of hate,accursed human being..

Blessing16:
You'll be surprised to know that a woman doesn't have to do anything wrong for a wife-beater to beat her, all it takes is for the man to be a wife beater. I've bn around quite a few men who beat their wives and when they tell you why,you'll run from them as far as your legs can carry you.Their excuses are usually absolutely stupid. Funny thing is, poor men beat their wives more, they have nothing to loose.

Those ones that beat women for no reason are the ones you can refer to as beast but the ones that women destroy them with insults and curses shd just slap her to reset her brain, the ones that gets dumped after spending money on her or get cheated on don't blame them too much it's painful and not all men can walk away.

eyah, nawa o, it seems they just married based on lust, the lady did not observe her man at all, it's well, they did has been done, she should pray for her husband's change of heart

Joy1706:
I don see una wey no get caustic tongues. NL is proof that men's tongues are just as sharp as that of the women

..My dear if 'caustic tongue should be an excuse for physical assault,then more than half of Nairaland males should be in hospital due to serious beatings occassioned by their 'caustic tongue''

repogirl:
One day na one day that you will beat your wife?

That isnt what i mean....You don't start making conclusions from outside...though most men will say they will never raise their hands on their women, but of that most, some ll still end up doing it. Not that they wish to buh shit happens smx.

Dtz y m saying get married first.....unmarried ones are always quick and the first to criticize married ones when issues come up in pple's marriages.

Personally, itz not a good thing to beat ur wife buh the devil lives in most women.

vicfuntop:
When I read your quote, I just went back to check the gender. Why am i not suprised.

still doesn't answer my question

poshestmina:
There is NOTHING good enough reason to beat up a woman ,no justification whatsoever ! .What happened to walking away or divorce ! men who hit women are worst than animals.

If women were created to be equally strong as men, they would have taken domestic violence to a whole new level, you need to see how some women brutalize their house helps over flimsy reasons to get my point. See your mouth like no justification whatsoever. Continue attacking men verbally and expecting them to walk away, I pray u don't end up with a man who kill you, na for afterlife you go come get sense

Angeleena:
awwww..Nigga sounds pained,was your scrotum peeled,after you read my lines..soon sorry, I never meant to be brutal.Well I can,see you are truly cursed,let me guess is either you must be a product,of premature ejaculation,or product of a broken condom,and you were picked from the waste-bin of a brothel in ogbomosho..I go for this one,lil wonder you re inhumane, u lack motherly care and love, u're a beast in the form of man..candid advice,get itself into the nearest orphanage home,and stop pouring ur aggression on line..child of hate,accursed human being..

kilode madam...somebody can't play with u again

poshestmina:
There is NOTHING good enough reason to beat up a woman ,no justification whatsoever ! .What happened to walking away or divorce ! men who hit women are worst than animals.

When you ladies go about trying to marry all these guys that live in clubs and jumping from one woman to the other and you feel you have gotten a celebrity.

85% of most of them are not worthy to be a responsible husband or father to their wife and children.

How can a responsible man be beating his wife in the presence of friends/visitors. That goes to show how useless he is. Must you beat your wife to get even no matter what she did to you? Hell No.

Any man that raises his hands on a lady no matter the provocation is not worthy to be alive.

We men should be responsible enough to note that women exhibit funny attitude that could be provocative, but beating them is not the best option, rather take a walk and allow things to calm down and you talk it over with her. I still stand to say it that The Nigerian Women are the most endurable women on the face of this world and they do respect their partners more than other women from other part of this world.

Can you imagine the kind of blood coming out from a woman he calls his wife.Too bad. I blame these ladies that are after some of these guys.

FOSTON IS A USELESS COWARD. FOLSTON SHOULD BE ARRESTED AND LOCKED UP!

This is barbaric! Assaulting a woman in this manner is idiotic and totally unacceptable. We know Nigeria is a Zoo, where thieves, rapists, barbarians, 419 pastors, and all manners of uselessness thrive and subsists. However, this case should not be ignored, if we have any functioning government in this country. The Nigerian police should spring into action immediately and arrest this disgraceful man. FOSTON UTOMIC IS A COWARD. WHY DOES HE NOT FLEX HIS WEAK MUSCLES ON A MAN AND FEEL WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE MALTREATED AND ASSAULTED IN THIS MANNER. COWARD AND IDIOTIC FOSTON SHOULD BE ARRESTED AND PUNISHED.

AGAIN, FOLSTON SHOULD BE ARRESTED AND CHARGED WITH ASSAULT AND ATTEMPTED MURDER. UPON ARRESTING FOLSTON FELLOW PRISONERS SHOULD BEAT HIM UP IN JAIL.

FOLSTON IS A COWARD AND A DISGRACEFUL IDIOT

This is just one side of the story...

I would also like to hear the other side of the story

The said post have been deleted sef

CecyAdrian:
Wat in the world is happening to marriages

Godlessness.

Most People (ladies esp.)go into marriage to satisfy the society and their ego.

I asked one the other why she is so desperate about getting married to a "well to do man".

Her epic reply:

"I grew up knowing hardship, l don't want to suffer anymore".

The person in question is in her early 30s.

The day our ladies stop seeing marriage as a Gold mine and follow HARD after God, the one that gave us solutions to all life struggles, the better for the human race.

As for men that beat up their wives. You don't deserve to wear Boxers let alone full clothing.

You are way lower than a bush rat.

Eddygourdo:
As usual women and victim tales, they have started again. Just see the description of the violence your husband meted on you. Yet you expect us to believe he is an animal who blew his top like that. Do people blow their top to tthe point of daring murder without and reason ? I very much doubt that.

This is the problem with loving the wrong person. When one is in love he is weak, and slight hurts appear too painful to bear, utter betrayal by these cheating and deceptive 21st century nigerian women , makes one think of murder thanks to utter shock of it all.

How easy is it to gently seek a divorce when blind sided by the sudden realization of the betrayal or crimes of someone you loved. Nevertheless its a better path to choose without violence. Not because the scum doesn't deserve to be dealt with as your mind tells you, but because you need freedom (not going to jail) to enaable you find a berra mate and move on with ya life. Thus I say no to violence.

Woman, stop with the victim tales, confess what you did wrong even though u denying it cos the man likely has no concrete evidence. Marry not a woman you love, but strictly a woman whose loyalty you can vouch for completely. Nobody attacks another without reason as we have observed, mad people don't even do that often.

You deserve 10 crates of whatever you're drinking

Kobicove:
This is just one side of the story...

I would also like to hear the other side of the story

What other side of the story are you looking for? Will the woman cut her body or inflict such injury on herself to get even with the guy?

I am not after that, but MUST condemn any action of violence against women no matter the provocation even if you caught a man on her top, allow her go rather than taking laws into your own hands.

poshestmina:
There is NOTHING good enough reason to beat up a woman ,no justification whatsoever ! .What happened to walking away or divorce ! men who hit women are worst than animals.

But it's excusable when it's the woman who hits the man abi?
Go grab yourself some sense biko

When a lady asks you to pray for her to get married and all she wants is a well to do man.

You know that 90% of ladies don't have an idea what marriage is all about.

NB: She is in her early 30s.

I weep for this Godless Generation.

The husband needs serious psychiatric intervention. She needs to ask his family to confess about his mental health history. What she described has passed normal anger or fight. Super human strength, stripping in front of people, making murderous threats shows this guy has serious mental problems. He will definitely kill her one day if he does not get help. This sounds like Schizophrenia.

You see, while I agree with everything you've stated and quite applaud the brilliance behind this comment, these are moral and rational issues. A normal and rational thinking human knows the consequences of hitting a woman. We all know this. Naturally, no one should. But a human, who is extremely irrational won't think of this when pushed to the wall only to regret later.

My point is, we can't solve this issue by telling men not to hit women because there are grave consequences for their actions. We tell our youth to abstain from sex not to get HIV and unwanted pregnancies. Do they listen? Absolutely not! They are aware of the consequences but in the heat of passion, they let go of it all (Except a few).

I'll rather go with provocation. Can we calm down on the temptations? This is in no way in support of the male folks. Men also get battered and killed by women too. Rage can do anything. Especially if you are trying so hard to suppress it and fail.

PeacenLove2:
Passion does not excuse crime. Provocation if well proven may reduce gravity of responsibility but still will not exonerate you. You cannot control another human being thus you should not have high expectations as to how well they will not provoke you. You owe at least yourself a duty to show restraint in the face of provocation if you value your life and freedom. To live a respectable life, you must respect yourself and see how people relate with you from your reflection. A person who respects himself respects others. You take advantage of the lawlessness in this society.

The animal behaviour you do not do much to conquer within yourself pushes you to attack someone you think you can take on easily. This shows the lack of human progress and it doesn't distinguish you from animals in the jungle. A woman insults you, if you are unable to ignore her, the fair thing is to insult her back, not beat her up. An uncultured woman slaps you, you slap her back, chances are that you may commit murder. You ruin your lives because you do not realize she is no match for you physically.

Society especially conservative ones as Africa, already puts men in position of mini gods. You have everything going for you. You single handedly ruin your marriage and move on while society puts the blame on the woman. Heck! It is even other women who will castigate their fellow women mostly. Like someone said, these type of women have a special place in hell. Women go through so much and I applaud men who can appreciate them and indulge them even when they are throwing tantrums. I don't know many women who wouldn't go through hell just to keep their homes. The problem is not women in marriage, the problem is the men who have not been taught to see women as human beings. And this is because some other women have raised them to show no mercy at all to their own kinds.

The issue always boils down to respect. For a man to have a peaceful home, he must get over his complex. He must start or learn to see women not as properties or lesser beings. He must learn to expect what he gives. He must see that woman, his wife as a female version of himself. Learn to ask himself, " if someone treated me this way, would I be happy? Would it be fair?". We must stop making lousy excuses for our wickedness. And I hope women continue to show patience, love, understanding and devotion but they must always draw the line. You draw the line or you continue to promote this defeatist and self-hate attitude.

No matter what she did, that does not warrant her being battered, sincerely this is so uncalled for.
Only weak men beats women

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dabraska:
Can we all take a minute and really digest this?

One of my favourite quotes: A man is not one. A man is infact two.

Behavioural economics are beginning to shed light on the irrational behaviour of humans. And you'll be shocked how irrational and twisted-thinking we are. If you have asked the man in a cold state if he'll ever touch his wife. He'll ask you if you are crazy. Let's leave sentiments and moral comments aside. This is HUMAN NATURE! Your tendency to do things you never thought you'll ever do, increases naturally during heights of passion. The man is no animal. The man is in fact, human. Read a book today!

Don't hit a woman... Please don't hit a woman... That's all we hear and preach.

Please don't provoke a human being! That should be the message we should be passing across as either a man or a woman is capable of attaining heights of rage such as this.

PREACH!!

thunderbabs:
That isnt what i mean....You don't start making conclusions from outside...though most men will say they will never raise their hands on their women, but of that most, some ll still end up doing it. Not that they wish to buh shit happens smx.

Dtz y m saying get married first.....unmarried ones are always quick and the first to criticize married ones when issues come up in pple's marriages.

Personally, itz not a good thing to beat ur wife buh the devil lives in most women.

the devil lives in most women? Really? And Angels live in most men?

Besides, aren't you concluding from outside? You don't know either of them to start making conclusions or even suspecting that it's the woman who pushed the man to it.

Lastly, there is NO justification for beating up a woman or even any human being like that. Fighting is for animals and not sensible human beings.

Martin124:
Bumbae will u just keep in some words,,,ah common what u saying?sorry if am over heated @ u,,,dat comment should come from u,,,pple are watching

Lol ok sir i don hear

repogirl:
the devil lives in most women? Really? And Angels live in most men?

Besides, aren't you concluding from outside? You don't know either of them to start making conclusions or even suspecting that it's the woman who pushed the man to it.

Lastly, there is NO justification for beating up a woman or even any human being like that. Fighting is for animals and not sensible human beings.

Well written
But they wont listen ..

U will go & marry olosho & be complaining she's cheating on u,u really need deliverance.

Her husband is not a mad man that will just wake up one day and injure hee like that.. Even though what he did is very wrong. He should control himself when his wife uses her sharp tongue on him and simply walk away and if he realise he can't bear hee insults anymore ? Simply drop hee load in her father's house.. And hold on to his son.. Staying in an abusive marriage no be by force.

He didn't act well as the man of the house. No matter the provocation?? Either walk away or separate from each other. Even a poor man with no self control will beat the hell out of her.. Even chop her body and bones into pieces if he's provoked. It has happened before.. No be today.. Women, wives, gfs... Watch una tongue.. If u don't want the man again? Quietly leave him and move on.

Gals bkiaful on ur choice of spouse... Nah they won't.
U wanna rush into marriage cos u see him flashy and buoyant or because u see ya mates rushing in.
U rush in, u rush out.
Domestic violence is real. This man can't stop.
The early sign was thr, buh nah, u tnk u can manage or change him. Most rich spoilt guys don't gv a Bleep abt u after sex. U just thr as a sex slave.
Women we kw most times r provocative, buh dude this ain't ryt.
U don't beat or harm ya own. A lady u made a vow wt? Part of u? Mother of ya kids? No naa.
They don't change xcept prayers and the fear of God.
God pls help marriages and d generations ds days... Amen!

Na your type wey no get sense man dey beat

Angeleena:
useless man of a husband.. if he's maN enough he would have been WWE champion..why beat up a woman??u don't blame most of these men,they are products of broken homes,they saw what their Fathers did to their mothers..they have that aggression in them,naturally because of what they saw,or witnessed when growing.. that's why sometimes it's necessary u check the home of your Nigga bfr walking down the aisle..

atoleybaba:
still doesn't answer my question

Source for your answer else where