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Joke SilvaShe said:
“People say marriages are breaking here and there, fine. But the reason marriages are breaking up in Nollywood is because we are out there in the public domain. There are so many marriages breaking up among lawyers, bankers and doctors, and when you compare that to the number of marriages breaking up in Nollywood, you find that it is a very small percentage. The fact is that social media is now our reality and it is having a lot of effect on the industry. So, when people say to me, ‘what advise are you giving younger people?’ My dear, that is what Light in The Dark is also about. The issue is that if someone is experiencing violence, male or female, leave the marriage. Leave it because when you die the other person continues living. For me, whether the abuse is emotional or physical, please leave; and let each party get counseling, then you can come back together if counseling works, but if not, don’t come back.

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She is so right

No woman should remain in any abusive marriage.
No man too should remain in any abusive marriage

Believe me some women are like Floyd Mayweather + Manny Pacquiao when it comes to handling their husbands

I agree with you ma.,..marriage is not by force,leave if you are experience violence because life has no duplicate to avoid stories that touch

My own is that.. If yhu have children.. Don't be quick to leave the marriage.. If yhur partner feels remorseful.. Then yhu guys can work things out for the kids...

It's very hard for children to grow up.. In broken homes..
Work things out for yhur kids...

Jodha:
My own is that.. If yhu have children.. Don't be quick to leave the marriage.. If yhur partner feels remorseful.. Then yhu guys can work things out for the kids...

It's very hard for children to grow up.. In broken homes..
Work things out for yhur kids...

even when there is violence??

crazymommy:
even when there is violence??

Read my post wella.. I said if the... Abuser is remorseful.. They should work things out for the children..

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