Action Ar Judge Accoding To Ur Intention So If Ur Intention Is Gud Than U Can Eat Bt If Ur Intention Is Bad Pls For Allah Sake Don't Eat

azimibraun:
Are you a child? Be serious. Some of us had chicks in the past and we in our sinful life didn't joke with Ramadan. My chick who chilled at my crib back in the day was realy Hot. But God first. It was a huge mistake I made having a babe I wasn't married to stay in my crib. But none of my cousins or naphews made that mistake after me. I ensured that. Go ask the girls hand in marriage or just let her go.

Should we marry every girl we date ??

That's why it's called girlfriend and boyfriend

How many of your ex girlfriends did you marry ??

If you would want, you can scan the internet on what the scriptures said about that, I bet you will find none. Having said this, I am part of people that believed that there are some islamic rules that had gone stale because as at the time Islam was being revealed, and as it was what is happening at that time, there are no rules that cover such incidences or even at that, things had changed from that time, in such circumstances, I use my common sense, believe in God, fear of Allah to judge my next action. If I were you in this scenario, I will allow her to cook for me during ramadan with pure mind. As for those who are saying girlfriend/boyfriend arent allowed, am sure if islam was being revealed as at date, and our Prophet is still alive, there would probably be revelations to cover such, because time and tide had changed so much that friends exist between lady and boys these days and no matter how we pretend to hide under religion, there is nothing we can do about it.

teamf:
Can I eat the food prepared by my girlfriend during Ramadan when we aren't married? and no one to cook for me

To start with.
Keeping girlfriends is not allowed in islam

Zaitoon:
keep fooling your yourself, we know you are not a Muslim

Thanks... Meanwhile i love ur name.... Av seen a name i ll name my first daughter..

What is your Prove Mr Man,

Kakamorufu:
Haram. A lady that you haven't paid her bride price isn't allowed to cook for you. If you eat the food, your fasting is as good as starving yourself

In My opinion you can eat her food provided its not Haram, if its only food, But if you transgress and eat the other food, You have not only committed a Major Sin, but you actually did it at a time you should be closer to Allah and pray fervently for your needs, such as getting a job and marrying that girl.

I dont know your level of self control but please avoid been very close with her if you are weak.


lastly next time study your religion or asked learned people and stop coming to Nairaland.

May Allah make it easy for you and for all of us.

Allahu alam.

Is forbidden, during my NYSC year i cooked my food, i set my alarm to 4am through out the month.

iPopAlomo:



Haramotulah... gerraway...

lol. if I hear. better believe it.

Laburos:
What is your Prove Mr Man,

see, ehn, am not that good at debating. I drop my point and drop the mic. If you want more proof, check google. answers full there from scholars

businesscitadel:

The only thing these guys think about during Ramadan is food. Food, Food, Food! You begin to ask yourself what's the point of starving fasting. I'm not talking only Nigeria here I've been chanced to spend some time in an African Arab country during Ramadan. You need to see the way the trolleys are packed full with food by customers in the supermarkets during Ramadan. Starting Work hours is shifted from 8 to 9a.m and closing from 5/6 to 4/5p.m. Everyone acts lazy and put the blame on fast.

There's nothing special in the fast as they only miss one meal in a day which is lunch, most people who work already miss a meal in a day. Iftar and sahur is met with lots of food binging!

Hypocrite! You too should try it (fasting) and see how hard/fun it is...
I'd explain to your better but you're a No brainer ..

IhateAfonjas:


Should we marry every girl we date ??

That's why it's called girlfriend and boyfriend

How many of your ex girlfriends did you marry ??

Islam forbids having boyfriend or girlfriend. tho it's the world we live in now. am not innocent too. May Allah help us

EngrBello:


Hypocrite! You too should try it (fasting) and see how hard/fun it is...
I'd explain to your better but you're a No brainer ..

am not sure he's a Muslim. make i no even bother quoting him. he sound silly

oneitalia:
I posted similar question. My case is we have done a proper family introduction. Can she cook for me?

did you do the akhid nikkah alongside? if no, then she's not allowed to cook for you, under the rule

babablogger:


Your reply is flawed I don't know how you practice your Islam but a lady preparing Sahur for me is not as bad as it seems if we are not married
What about if she was a neighbour or a friend who I have no intimate relationship with?

I hear you oo. am just saying what I've heard preached numerous times. so whatever rocks your boat.
MA salam

businesscitadel:

The only thing these guys think about during Ramadan is food. Food, Food, Food! You begin to ask yourself what's the point of starving fasting. I'm not talking only Nigeria here I've been chanced to spend some time in an African Arab country during Ramadan. You need to see the way the trolleys are packed full with food by customers in the supermarkets during Ramadan. Starting Work hours is shifted from 8 to 9a.m and closing from 5/6 to 4/5p.m. Everyone acts lazy and put the blame on fast.

There's nothing special in the fast as they only miss one meal in a day which is lunch, most people who work already miss a meal in a day. Iftar and sahur is met with lots of food binging!

Ramadan has never affected my output at work. whatever task am given, I will carry it out with joy and happiness. even some have asked me, are you really fasting, with this kind of morale you have during this period.

Don't try it bcoz there is no GIRLFRIEND in Islam

This is Islam, you speak with prove from The Quran, Hadiths, or Qisas (Fiqh) or you shut up.

Not up for debate.

Kakamorufu:
see, ehn, am not that good at debating. I drop my point and drop the mic. If you want more proof, check google. answers full there from scholars

Kakamorufu:
I hear you oo. am just saying what I've heard preached numerous times. so whatever rocks your boat.
MA salam

did you get back up from the Quran and Hadiths anytime you listen to sermons try to get back up

AllahuAlam

EngrBello:


Hypocrite! You too should try it (fasting) and see how hard/fun it is...
I'd explain to your better but you're a No brainer ..

Whats the big deal about missing lunch. That's what you do in your fast. When I was still a student, a lot of times I eat only dinner. Not because I didn't have food or money. It's because I was too obsessed with early morning tutorials that I would not have time for cooking and eating in the morning until I came back in the evening.

Laburos:
This is Islam, you speak with prove from The Quran, Hadiths, or Qisas (Fiqh) or you shut up.

Not up for debate.

well. go check fiqh books and hadith. answers should be there.

teamf:
Can I eat the food prepared by my girlfriend during Ramadan when we aren't married? and no one to cook for me

Salam alaykum, In Islam everything we do has to do with intention, so far u said she ur girlfriend it is not allowed, thou the issue of girlfriend and boyfriend is not welcome in Islam.....walao Alan...

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IhateAfonjas:

I don't know what version of Islam you practice

My girlfriend lives with me and we will enjoy Ramadan together and before i forget, she will be cooking my favorite food

And this weather a is weather for 2

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#smh

I know who you are!!!

People Like you gives Islam a Bad name. Do not speak on what you know not.

Go back to Islamiyya.

Ma assalam.

Kakamorufu:
well. go check fiqh books and hadith. answers should be there.

princessayesha:

Lol. Please eat o. As long as there is no pork or alcohol, or anything Haram. May Allah accept our Ibadat.

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can i collect fruit 4 break(open)-up 4rm a gf?

sleemoon:



Thanks... Meanwhile i love ur name.... Av seen a name i ll name my first daughter..

Thanks
But you will pay me first before you name her

EngrBello:


Hypocrite! You too should try it (fasting) and see how hard/fun it is...
I'd explain to your better but you're a No brainer ..

Does this one even know the meaning of hypocrite? Why would I bother trying to starve myself? It is a pointless exercise to me. Of what benefit is pretending to starve oneself for a month in the name of some meaningless spiritual exercise but meanwhile your actions and thoughts are 100% the hefty meals you will eat at iftar and sahur? It always about the food. Infact, you guys consume more food at Ramadan than the average non-fasting person.

businesscitadel:

The only thing these guys think about during Ramadan is food. Food, Food, Food! You begin to ask yourself what's the point of starving fasting. I'm not talking only Nigeria here I've been chanced to spend some time in an African Arab country during Ramadan. You need to see the way the trolleys are packed full with food by customers in the supermarkets during Ramadan. Starting Work hours is shifted from 8 to 9a.m and closing from 5/6 to 4/5p.m. Everyone acts lazy and put the blame on fast.

There's nothing special in the fast as they only miss one meal in a day which is lunch, most people who work already miss a meal in a day. Iftar and sahur is met with lots of food binging!

But does it actually concern you Are you our God who chose to make fasting easy on us? Did he tell you he is judging on us only based on our abstinence from food during Ramadan? Have you not heard dat we are to eat just before the expiration time in the morning and break ASAP in the evening? Abi u also do not know dat unlike every other religion our 30 days fast is COMPULSORY and any missed one must be covered up for later? Bet why must u even bother yourself over our issue sef? My dear, in a nutshell, dats how Allah (swt) has asked us to fast n we can only be grateful to him. Overfeeding has no place in Islam but are free to eat healthy during this period. Thank you for understanding.

niyah24:


But does it actually concern you Are you our God who chose to make fasting easy on us? Did he tell you he is judging on us only based on our abstinence from food during Ramadan? Have you not heard dat we are to eat just before the expiration time in the morning and break ASAP in the evening? Abi u also do not know dat unlike every other religion our 30 days fast is COMPULSORY and any missed one must be covered up for later? Bet why must u even bother yourself over our issue sef? My dear, in a nutshell, dats how Allah (swt) has asked us to fast n we can only be grateful to him. Overfeeding has no place in Islam but are free to eat healthy during this period. Thank you for understanding.

Yada yada yada... didn't read your rant. Thank you for understanding.