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NwaAmaikpe:


Fatherhood greatly changes one's life...

You can not knack when you want to because the baby will be crying.
You can not suck boobi because the milk gushing out is not good for you.
You can't leave your porn movies lying around because the kids might slot it in and learn faster than you

But don't get it twisted,

It is beautiful to be a dad....a blessing actually, unless you impregnated an imbecilé

EgunMogaji:
Fatherhood changed me in many ways. But the most profound was when I held my first Daughter in my hand 22 years ago I knew I had to back off from the street life and settle more into a professional career. Surprisingly it wasn't as hard as I thought it would be.

I thank God that today Fathers day 2017 she is graduating from Stanford University (Stanford University is a private research university in Stanford, California, adjacent to Palo Alto and between San Jose and San Francisco. Its 8,180-acre (12.8 sq mi; 33.1 km2)[12] campus is one of the largest in the United States. Its academic strength, wealth, and proximity to Silicon Valley have made it one of the world's most prestigious universities.) with a degree in Biomed Engineering.

So it paid off.

Ishilove:
Depending on when you had her, you should be in your late 40s or early 50s.

No wonder you respond to mentions with so much arrogance and dismissiveness. You feel everyone 'is not your mate'.

'Uncle' don't quote me abeg because I will so ignore you

ashjay001:
Walahi, I sure say u get mental health!

OLUJOSHINS:
Do U have the faintest idea of what He passed through to pay that school fees?

3 times in a year for U & the others?

Do U have the faintest idea of what it takes to feed more than one mouth 3times daily?


U think He love whisking off early in the morning only to come back late at night?


U think He love hardwork?

Chai !!!!!!!!!!

He did all this & this is the best way U can appreciate Him


SMH

Ishilove:
Phillfree tell 'em. The young Gee is now a more mature, gentle Gee. Shakara don end

Benignasweety:
How I wish my husband is like dix, am not judging a book by itx cover though cuz u might say all dix goody goody tin and be an arse to your wife... God's blessings on you for being a true father if this is true about you...


Itz well....

Phillfree:
Sharap

influenz:
Dear, please don't compare your husband with anyone else. This is me. You don't even know me so why should I come here to lie?

Its not my style.

Benignasweety:
Lol I aint comparing o... Am counting my blessings and mah woes...

Atleast lemme appreciate d fact he comes here to hype us and is a total different person in real life...

influenz:
maybe I don't understand you. Just be the best you can.

influenz:
maybe I don't understand you. Just be the best you can.

tydi:
don't mind her!

she is confused like 9ja economy!

Ishilove:
Your nyaaaash!

Ishilove:
Your nyaaaash!

OLUJOSHINS:
Do U have the faintest idea of what He passed through to pay that school fees?

3 times in a year for U & the others?

Do U have the faintest idea of what it takes to feed more than one mouth 3times daily?


U think He love whisking off early in the morning only to come back late at night?


U think He love hardwork?

Chai !!!!!!!!!!

He did all this & this is the best way U can appreciate Him

This is some serious sense making. You have no idea What he was passing *SAVE YOUR HUSBAND!*

Why do husbands in Africa die most times before wives? A husband in Africa in most cases is under intense tension because he is responsible for:

● *Children school fees*

● *house rents*

● *Electricity bills*

● *Medical bills*

● *Generator fuel & repairs*

● *Car fuel and repairs*

● *Feeding of family*

● *Clothes for children*

● *Sallah or Christmas and New year bills*

● *Furniture & House maintenance*

● *In-laws wahala/demand*

● *His own aged parents*

● *His siblings most times*

● *His wife's demands*

● *Vigilante bills*

● *Erecting Building*

● *Religious demands*

● *Family social bills*

● *Electronics bills*

● *Recharge cards*

● *Extended family bills*

● *Community demands*

On top of the above, he also faces:

● *Wife stress/insults*

● *Boss stress at work*

● *Police stress on the way*

● *Area boys stress*

● *Kidnappers fear*

● *Friends stress*

● *Economy stress*

● *Fear of job loss*

● *Unemployment pains*

● *Armed Robbery stress*

● *Children misbehaviour*

● *Neighbours stress*

● *Bank loan payment stress*

● *Enemies stress*

● *Demonic attack stress*

● *Sex stress*

..and so on! OMG!!

Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home? Are men not trying? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man?
Women, please give your husband's peace at home. Encourage your husbands. Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early! Note:
That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family. Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging. Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!
Help your husband to live longer like you.


FORWARD THIS TO EVERY WOMAN IN YOUR CONTACT LIST UNTIL EVERY WOMAN IN AFRICA READS IT. LET US PROLONG THE LIVES OF OUR MEN!!. Just a reminder .

SMH