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Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jun 26, 2017
To God be all the Glory! Hallelujah for the Lord God Omnipotent reigneth!
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Bananafall: 8:33pm On Jun 26, 2017
with God all things are possible
one with God is majority
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by JustCalMeDBoss(m): 8:35pm On Jun 26, 2017
Why do God allow people to live in pain. I have never gotten it. Infact make him end this world abeg the sin NEVA too much. Pls time for rapture life no sweet us again.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by francesawesome(f): 8:35pm On Jun 26, 2017
shininglight78:
Every time GOD. Does that guy really exist. With all the wahala we face in this world. Abeg make I hear word.
deep down in your heart you know there's God. Seek him and you will find him
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:36pm On Jun 26, 2017
UrennaNkoli:
What mother in her right senses will pray for her child to die? Those that have children with extreme stammering. The one they'll be banging their legs on the floor before they even talk, no be human being dem be..

People have kids with down's syndrome and othe extreme genetic disorders yet they still embrace their kids happily. Common autism, you were praying for him to die..
Chale autism isn't common. I have a sister who's autistic and it's a very big deal. It's worse if you are poor with no money as autistic people have special needs. They even have special education for them which costs a lot.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Sleyanya1(m): 8:41pm On Jun 26, 2017
Sometimes God has a way of us know that what matters so much to us that we worry and cry over, are just so minute before HIM. Its a miracle.

P.S: Please anyone Going into marriage must be sound spiritually. Spiritual powers are real.
I've made it a criteria.

God help us all.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Oyindidi(f): 8:42pm On Jun 26, 2017
UrennaNkoli:
What mother in her right senses will pray for her child to die? Those that have children with extreme stammering. The one they'll be banging their legs on the floor before they even talk, no be human being dem be..

People have kids with down's syndrome and othe extreme genetic disorders yet they still embrace their kids happily. Common autism, you were praying for him to die..
I wanted to create a thread to seek opinion concerning a friend. The son's head is bigger than that of 3 adult. The husband want docs to help end his life. It's causing trouble in the marriage. Don't be too quick to judge. You call autism common?
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Heshei: 8:42pm On Jun 26, 2017
We would have missed such a cute smile if God had answered the prayer she thinks will bring her closure.

Indeed when God gives life, nothing dies.

May God breath his life over every situation that his making many loose their faith.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by macanu(m): 8:42pm On Jun 26, 2017
money can buy anything but not everything,God is great
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Leez(m): 8:43pm On Jun 26, 2017
Namzy:
Saw this story on nairaland before. Y recycle old news
i dn tell peeps hia say most of d stories na tales by moonlight bt dm go dy vex smh
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by lovingyouhun: 8:45pm On Jun 26, 2017
Very touching, God is God, all the time
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by uniqueogo(f): 8:46pm On Jun 26, 2017
UrennaNkoli:
What mother in her right senses will pray for her child to die? Those that have children with extreme stammering. The one they'll be banging their legs on the floor before they even talk, no be human being dem be..

People have kids with down's syndrome and othe extreme genetic disorders yet they still embrace their kids happily. Common autism, you were praying for him to die..


my dear Hmmmmmm mind the way you talk you are a woman.... and don't call autism common if u haven't come in contact with an autistic child
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mean while I reject any spirit of abnormalities in my children... let them go back to the pit of hell where they came from... amen

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Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by ItalianWine(f): 8:46pm On Jun 26, 2017
careytommy7:


Me too! angry

Do you mean It? When are you going to get your own money? Let me know what to do.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by funshint(m): 8:47pm On Jun 26, 2017
UrennaNkoli:
What mother in her right senses will pray for her child to die? Those that have children with extreme stammering. The one they'll be banging their legs on the floor before they even talk, no be human being dem be..

People have kids with down's syndrome and othe extreme genetic disorders yet they still embrace their kids happily. Common autism, you were praying for him to die..
Hope u read d narrative before commenting. May life never bring u issues beyond what u can bear IJN!
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by ItalianWine(f): 8:49pm On Jun 26, 2017
richinvestor:
aunty mmm
I would need a richinvestor to sow seed in the mmm account sad
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by yinkslinks(m): 8:51pm On Jun 26, 2017
Can you dance with me and I buy ur phone?
ItalianWine:
The money (which I don't even have yet) that I'm planning to use in buying a new phone next month, is already paining me in advance cry
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by henocherry18: 8:52pm On Jun 26, 2017
UrennaNkoli:
What mother in her right senses will pray for her child to die? Those that have children with extreme stammering. The one they'll be banging their legs on the floor before they even talk, no be human being dem be..

People have kids with down's syndrome and othe extreme genetic disorders yet they still embrace their kids happily. Common autism, you were praying for him to die..
Dnt be too extreme in judging her but rather pray never to have problems that are bigger than you. I have a true life story to tell but for now let me just give the summary. I have a relative that was born with a hole in her heart and even after spending fortunes on her going from one counttry to the other, she has still not been ok. She is over 12yrs now and she still doesn't talk. It got to a point we were all praying for God to take her life just to less the suffering everybody is going tru in the family especially her mother. Do you know that at 12 she still wear pampers because she could just stand anywhere and pass out faeces. Everybody is just tired of the whole situation. Now, the only consolation we have now is that we believe knows about her condition and he is the only one who will definitely make her whole.

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Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by NevetsIbot(m): 8:54pm On Jun 26, 2017
UrennaNkoli:
What mother in her right senses will pray for her child to die? Those that have children with extreme stammering. The one they'll be banging their legs on the floor before they even talk, no be human being dem be..

People have kids with down's syndrome and othe extreme genetic disorders yet they still embrace their kids happily. Common autism, you were praying for him to die..

shut up. you've never been in any tough situation in life?

Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by francesawesome(f): 8:56pm On Jun 26, 2017
henocherry18:

Dnt be too extreme in judging her but rather pray never to have problems that are bigger than you. I have a true life story to tell but for now let me just give the summary. I have a relative that was born with a hole in her heart and even after spending fortunes on her going from one counttry to the other, she has still not been ok. She is over 12yrs now and she still doesn't talk. It got to a point we were all praying for God to take her life just to less the suffering everybody is going tru in the family especially her mother. Do you know that at 12 she still wear pampers because she could just stand anywhere and pass out faeces. Everybody is just tired of the whole situation. Now, the only consolation we have now is that we believe knows about her condition and he is the only one who will definitely make her whole.
so sad. There's nothing God cannot do
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by OMOTOWO(m): 8:57pm On Jun 26, 2017
ItalianWine:
The money (which I don't even have yet) that I'm planning to use in buying a new phone next month, is already paining me in advance cry
how much do you need?
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by UrennaNkoli(f): 8:58pm On Jun 26, 2017
NevetsIbot:


shut up. you've never been in any tough situation in life?
No matter how tough the situation is, if you cannot face it rather than looking for a short way out, then you are not worth being called a man.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jun 26, 2017
Ur son had problems, Usually clears out with time as he grows. There was absolutely no need to pray n shout n starve urself.
Africans need education n an end to religion
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Sterope(f): 9:04pm On Jun 26, 2017
Ermmm....Who diagnosed him?
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by andyanders: 9:07pm On Jun 26, 2017
Martins98:
A Nigerian woman has taken to Facebook to share touching story of how God miraculously healed her son of Autism!

She wrote:

I PRAYED FOR HIM TO DIE
Dont judge me, wait untill you hear me out.
#Dilemma#Myonlyson#Autism#nohope#prayernotanswered#gaveupthefight#


He was a healthy awesome child when I had him but by age 2 we noticed there was something wrong. There was no eye contact, he could not talk, didnt understand instructions, and so many other bad vibes.

That was when my nightmare started. I ran from pillar to post seeking solution. In some places they said he was partially deaf at others they said it was Autism. Up untill then I never heard the word Autism. The information I got about it was frightening and I saw those signs clearly in my son.


My life stood still.


No school would take him in as he couldnt settle. Finally and luckily an Indian lady with a nursery school took him in, but my heart broke the Day I went to pick him up from school and asked her politely how he was doing. Her response was i don't know what to do with him. Am just a teacher not a psychiatrist. I cried all the way home. Thoughts bombarded my mind. Worst of all there was no answer to the tormenting thoughts.


An only son, Autism, was it generational? Or the devil? No answer!


Up untill then I was having a swell time living my life to the fullest.. But with this dilemma I crawled to God .I attended every Christian gathering, crusade, vigils; just name it.

I prayed; prayed , cried, fasted , sowed seeds but nothing happened. The years went by and it seemingly got worst.

People were begining to notice there was a problem I couldnt hide it any more. (By the way, dont try hidding your shame if God doesnt hide it you can't hide it)


My husband was tired. My mother who was perpetually encouraging me was tired, I was tired, exhausted and tired of casting, binding, fighting and faithing, so I prayed for Him to die so I could move on with my life.
(I wanted a short cut)

He didnt die instead he grew. Seeing God wasnt ready to take him I went back to God again in prayer, I repented and continued from where I stopped .Running from pillar to post, church to church.


At one church I was told to go on one week dry fast with consistent midnight prayers. At midnight when I came down to pray I was usually afraid. One night as I came down for the prayer routine, I heard a voice say to me how can you be praying and afraid. You are afraid because you do not know the God you are praying to.

At that point I packed up and went on a quest to know this GOD!
I stayed alone for 2weeks with only one prayer point. ( God if you are real let me know you.). I spent more time within those weeks studying the Word of God , and through the pages of the Bible I came to know this GOD.


After that 2weeks of word immersion I had peace like I never had since the ordeal started. The burden for my son to speak or get normal left me. I was just at peace with God and the World.
About 3weeks later we travelled to England on Holiday. We were in a shop on Oxford street when my son that had never spoken came to me tapped me and asked me a question.

His first words to me were where is kamsy?

He was asking for His older sister.

That was how my son started talking.

One thing led to another; he started doing things he couldnt do and like magic caught up with his age mates.
It was like Magic! No! A Miracle!
Today I celebrate God as He turns 18.

There is nothing we dont talk about now. From His school work to the Girls that likes him and the ones He likes, lol..
Sometimes I even scold him that he talks too much, correcting him that as a gentleman he shouldnt talk much. How we so quickly forget...smh...

I cant thank God enough for him.
Through my trial with him, I was reconnected back to God, I found my purpose in Life, and my ministry was birthed.(That is another story for another Day). Family Word Centre

I encourage you today in your own trial to fight on. No short cut.
God has not disappeared, take your eyes off your problem (if you can)
Seek Him and He will do the needful plus much more



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Am still praying... During my prayers today
I PRAYED FOR HIM TO LIVE AND SHOW FORTH THE GLORY OF GOD.

Your post almost made me cry. The God we serve does everything beyond human comprehension. God will continue to see him through and your post has given us strength to know God the more.Remain blessed.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jun 26, 2017
judedwriter:
Wonderful testimony smiley wink

Persistent, specific prayers always get answered, no matter how long it may take...especially @ midnight which is the best time to pray.


His son had Autism, It's a normal illness, comes with very slow development.

All those prayers didn't do a thing, He's son still has Autism(its clear from the picture).

Nigerians should learn to live their lives the way God gave it to them and avoid unnecessary sadness.

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Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by ItalianWine(f): 9:08pm On Jun 26, 2017
yinkslinks:
Can you dance with me and I buy ur phone?

Please kindly answer the following questions before we get to the dance floor.

What kind of dance are we dancing?

Where are we dancing?

How many people would be in attendance?

How long is the dance?

How many meters would there between us during the dance?

Who would be in custody of the phone?

How much phone are you buying?

Are there other T&C attached to this offer?

If your answers are correct pls click on the next link to get to the dance floor.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by NevetsIbot(m): 9:10pm On Jun 26, 2017
UrennaNkoli:

No matter how tough the situation is, if you cannot face it rather than looking for a short way out, then you are not worth being called a man.
How old are you?
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by ItalianWine(f): 9:11pm On Jun 26, 2017
OMOTOWO:
how much do you need?

Just 30, 000 naira only.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by UrennaNkoli(f): 9:12pm On Jun 26, 2017
NevetsIbot:
How old are you?
Cn't say but I'm well sure I'm older than your mother. She would go on her kneels to greet me.
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by ijayebonyi(f): 9:13pm On Jun 26, 2017
Old news
Re: I Prayed For Him To Die! - Mother With Autistic Child (Photos) by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jun 26, 2017
ItalianWine:
The money (which I don't even have yet) that I'm planning to use in buying a new phone next month, is already paining me in advance cry
babe. Let me sample you na

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