Franzinni:
who keeps saying the book is wrong? Anybody in that category is a prime example of an illiterate...

Now the book say clearly, ways to give and receive pleasure without actual intercourse... How is masturbation out of place?

Some dingbat. Had posted this same thing a while ago and due to poor comprehension, hoped to find similar minds to swallow this misdirection based on the topic...

Read well... The book is accurate in that regard.

Oga literate. that thing is very wrong for the children of dat age. though it falls under d category of obtaining pleasure, it shld have been excluded from the study of dat stage but may be put at an advance education stage. if not, can you demonstrate masturbation to a JSS 1, student?

In my opinion there is everything wrong with this book because of its target audience. From my calculation JS1 students will be between the age range of 9 - 13yrs at that age they don't need that kind of knowledge. For matured persons on this forum remember that this sexual pleasure thing and the actual sex act is like pandora's box once opened then ur exploration mode is activated
It wouldn't really be a problem if it were an SS2 - SS3 target audience but for a JS1 class there is everything wrong with it.

Franzinni:
I under stand. Your views but do you think a child in jss1. Is ignorant to sex or sexuality in this age and time?

Very true... But should we now encourage them to go ahead and do it?

stephanie11:


http://politicsngr.com/2017/07/02/outrage-secondary-school-textbook-teaching-masturbation-abstinence/

Kindly modify you first post to include the error in number 6.(INMATE). Which I believe should be INTIMATE. One would think an educational book would always vet spellings before publishing.

In2systemsTech:



I understand perfectly well, during my secondary school days an only daughter died while committing abortion so that his father will not find out... Her father was filled with tears, he went to the daughters corpse and told her that she should have had the baby, that she knows she is the only one he has....

Now imagine what could have been averted if this was taught to her on time... Please what's the average age of a JS 1 student and why shouldn't they learn it on time so that they don't fall for peer pressure ?

An average age of a jss1 kid this days is 9.
Fuckin 9.
Who teaches kids to simulate organs for pleasure at 9.

DIS MODS KEEP PUSHING OLD NEWS TO FP TO GET TRAFFIC UNA NO DEY FEAR GOD O.THIS IS THE THIRD TIME I AM SEEING THIS THREAD ON FP

Franzinni:
I under stand. Your views but do you think a child in jss1. Is ignorant to sex or sexuality in this age and time?

Very true... But should we now encourage them to go ahead and do it just because they know?

ngolokante:


Very true... But should we now encourage them to go ahead and do it?

no... But educate is better than regret.. Because they will learn it outside and might be taken advantage of.. But if they are educated in the full sense of it. It is better than to learn it from a perv.. Don't get me wrong it is a cringe worthy subject but if Africans educate their kids about sexuality.. We won't have so many teen mother's running around..

4reala:
Oga literate. that thing is very wrong for the children of dat age. though it falls under d category of obtaining pleasure, it shld have been excluded from the study of dat stage but may be put at an advance education stage. if not, can you demonstrate masturbation to a JSS 1, student?

sir, I am not slow and I had started masturbation precisely in jss1. And back then it was extremely uncomfortable for me but I enjoyed it so it made me feel weird... But if I was educated by my parent in the same subject don't you think it would have helped me understand my biology better? It's time Africans come out of the stone age... That same jss1 kid is already watching hours or porn in this age and time... You all should stop thinking like you are in the. 70s or 80s educate your child so they don't fall victim to pervs

Proudlyngwa:


An average age of a jss1 kid this days is 9.
Fuckin 9.
Who teaches kids to simulate organs for pleasure at 9.

The question is, are they going to learn it one day? Yes... Is it better learnt in the class or via peer pressure?

Laughable. I won't be surprised those who condemn the textbook actually masturbate a lot.

Come to think of it, why is masturbation even bad, surely it save against unwanted pregnancy and those disease with names a person can't pronounce.

tunapawizzy:
This story is misleading...d book says ways of achieving sexual satisfaction without intercourse not a way to abstain. To the morality of masturbation,Maybe u should have said d writer should highlight why masturbation is not good. In any case it's possible d textbook will discuss masturbation as a sub topic on the next page where d advantage(if any) and disadvantage of masturbation will be highlighted there. But as u no show us d next page now.

I swear........... it was just as if you were me before posting this comment ni......!!!! I've never read the book but I'm pretty sure the author would write essentially on it, highlighting the good (merits) the bad (demerits) and the ugly. Common........ at least...... the author was courageous enough to come out with such factor associated with teenagers. That is the real sex EDUCATION. Nobody is promoting masturbation........sex education needs to cover masturbation before it can really be called SEX EDUCATION if you asked me...... and I really can't be wrong on this. If I was wrong, then the writers guild is also wrong!!!

Franzinni:
sir, I am not slow and I had started masturbation precisely in jss1. And back then it was extremely uncomfortable for me but I enjoyed it so it made me feel weird... But if I was educated by my parent in the same subject don't you think it would have helped me understand my biology better? It's time Africans come out of the stone age... That same jss1 kid is already watching hours or porn in this age and time... You all should stop thinking like you are in the. 70s or 80s educate your child so they don't fall victim to pervs

Thank you ma/sir for such a wonderful comment. I mean......that is why it's called SEX EDUCATION. it needs to cover all aspects of sex.

slawomir:
mutual masturbation is in accordance with the topic of discussion na. so what is wrong here?
mutual masturbation is truely and the best way to get sexual pleasure and closeness without any form of penetration be it anal, oral or vaginal.
whats our problem in this part of the world?
or don't we understand what sex education is all about.
why can't we face reality for once and stop pretending.
lets do away with this hollier than thou and this altitude of moral superiority.


I encourage both mutual and solo masturbation.
why even bother to penetrate her vagina with your erected dickk at first place when it is obvious that orgasm is the result of each successful sexual intercourse. and we can get this same orgasm through solo and mutual masturbation.
what happens when we penetrate a woman and start doing the up and down thrusting of our waist, we are actually rubbing our dickk between walls of the inside of her vagina just to give us that sweet sensation and also to stimulate her. so that she can squirt and we can ejaculate
if so why don't we make things easy, prevent stds and pregnancy by simply doing the mutual masturbation. tell her to grab your dickk and rub it and you inturn insert your finger inside her and stimulate her vaginal before you know it both of you will reach orgasm and everything will be fine just like sexual intercourse.

So You Will Teach All What You Have Just Written Down Here To JS 1 Kids Between The Age Of 9 To 13 Right? To Aggressively Finger Each Other Genitals Thereby Inflicting Pain And Scars? What A Great Sex Educationist You Are!

I starts bangin at d age of 6yrs old bk then in aj city...talklezz of nw.

In2systemsTech:

The question is, are they going to learn it one day? Yes... Is it better learnt in the class or via peer pressure?

There is time for everything, so why don't you advocate for nursery school kids to be taught sex education, since they will learn it one day.

The body of a 9 year old might look ready, is his brain ready.
At that age they should be thinking of academic brilliance, not sexual pleasure.

Incase you don't know, mastubartion is addictive.

Franzinni:
sir, I am not slow and I had started masturbation precisely in jss1. And back then it was extremely uncomfortable for me but I enjoyed it so it made me feel weird... But if I was educated by my parent in the same subject don't you think it would have helped me understand my biology better? It's time Africans come out of the stone age... That same jss1 kid is already watching hours or porn in this age and time... You all should stop thinking like you are in the. 70s or 80s educate your child so they don't fall victim to pervs

And how are you sure 90% of jss1 kids are watching porn.
Mastubartion at such a tender age is wrong, I know puberty is kicking in earlier, but is the associated mentality kicking in with it.
We should be thinking of how to help our kids develop intellectually, not giving in to everything because it's the norm.

Proudlyngwa:


There is time for everything, so why don't you advocate for nursery school kids to be taught sex education, since they will learn it one day.

The body of a 9 year old might look ready, is his brain ready.
At that age they should be thinking of academic brilliance, not sexual pleasure.

Incase you don't know, mastubartion is addictive.

You sound like those dads that will beat the hell out of their wards when they catch them making love but forgetting that they have never taught them that it's wrong... A Js1 is no longer a baby...


The onset of puberty varies among individuals. Puberty usually occurs in girls between the ages of 10 and 14, while in boys it generally occurs later, between the ages of 12 and 16.

In2systemsTech:



You sound like those dads that will beat the hell out of their wards when they catch them making love but forgetting that they have never taught them that it's wrong... A Js1 is no longer a baby...


The onset of puberty varies among individuals. Puberty usually occurs in girls between the ages of 10 and 14, while in boys it generally occurs later, between the ages of 12 and 16.

I will discipline if that is what you mean, and puberty is not the gateway to sex,.
We need to start doing things right again.
We are in a moral bankrupt generation, with things like this, I can only see it going south.

Proudlyngwa:


I will discipline if that is what you mean, and puberty is not the gateway to sex,.
We need to start doing things right again.
We are in a moral bankrupt generation, with things like this, I can only see it going south.

Please what is the meaning of Puberty?

In2systemsTech:



Please what is the meaning of Puberty?

I know what puberty is, you know what puberty is.

Like I said it is not the gateway to sex, sex is physical and emotional, if the body is ready is the mind ready,

I repeat Jss1 students should have better things occupying their minds than maturation, if we can't achieve that, then we are failures.

IF THE BOOK IS RIGHT, LET THE AUTHOR PRACTICALISE MITUAL MASTURBATION WITH HIS/HER FAMILY. SATANIC AUTHOR.

Rilwayne001:


Did I know you?

you can't even write English well....go go go

donralph2000:

I swear........... it was just as if you were me before posting this comment ni......!!!! I've never read the book but I'm pretty sure the author would write essentially on it, highlighting the good (merits) the bad (demerits) and the ugly. Common........ at least...... the author was courageous enough to come out with such factor associated with teenagers. That is the real sex EDUCATION. Nobody is promoting masturbation........sex education needs to cover masturbation before it can really be called SEX EDUCATION if you asked me...... and I really can't be wrong on this. If I was wrong, then the writers guild is also wrong!!!

Very well said brother

This has ended before the end

itsIYKE:
you can't even write English well....go go go

I've corrected myself, idiot.
Now, Who are you?

There are two groups of men :
-95% who masturbate. . .and the
-5% who lie that they don't.

Rilwayne001:


I've corrected myself, idiot.
Now, Who are you?

Go your way this thing

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The fact that we are doing something wrongly doesn't mean we should encourage our kids to follow suit. The book is wrong on mutual masturbation.

Proudlyngwa:


And how are you sure 90% of jss1 kids are watching porn.
Mastubartion at such a tender age is wrong, I know puberty is kicking in earlier, but is the associated mentality kicking in with it.
We should be thinking of how to help our kids develop intellectually, not giving in to everything because it's the norm.

welL your view is understandable... But like I said it's better to educate than to regret. Kids are not what they use to be... And a wise person will let them know it is a reality but also let them know what the dangers are... Ignorance is bliss should not be applied here... I have kids of my own and I know as a guardian I am obligated to be involved in my kids life and to be a guide on all topics they wish to know... I will only be discreet when needed.

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I actually think it will be difficult to explain, but i feel it is necessary because even from primary school people get exposed to such, i feel its better they are aware so they could know their right from wrong