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Franzinni:
welL your view is understandable... But like I said it's better to educate than to regret. Kids are not what they use to be... And a wise person will let them know it is a reality but also let them know what the dangers are... Ignorance is bliss should not be applied here... I have kids of my own and I know as a guardian I am obligated to be involved in my kids life and to be a guide on all topics they wish to know... I will only be discreet when needed.

Like I said it's the right thing, not the right time.

Proudlyngwa:
Like I said it's the right thing, not the right time.

Your opinion tho... But we would just have to agree to disagree...

Franzinni:
Your opinion tho... But we would just have to agree to disagree...

Cheers

slawomir:
mutual masturbation is in accordance with the topic of discussion na. so what is wrong here?
mutual masturbation is truely and the best way to get sexual pleasure and closeness without any form of penetration be it anal, oral or vaginal.
whats our problem in this part of the world?
or don't we understand what sex education is all about.
why can't we face reality for once and stop pretending.
lets do away with this hollier than thou and this altitude of moral superiority.


I encourage both mutual and solo masturbation.
why even bother to penetrate her vagina with your erected dickk at first place when it is obvious that orgasm is the result of each successful sexual intercourse. and we can get this same orgasm through solo and mutual masturbation.
what happens when we penetrate a woman and start doing the up and down thrusting of our waist, we are actually rubbing our dickk between walls of the inside of her vagina just to give us that sweet sensation and also to stimulate her. so that she can squirt and we can ejaculate
if so why don't we make things easy, prevent stds and pregnancy by simply doing the mutual masturbation. tell her to grab your dickk and rub it and you inturn insert your finger inside her and stimulate her vaginal before you know it both of you will reach orgasm and everything will be fine just like sexual intercourse.

OK go and teach your daughter to allow her classmates finger her when she feels the urge to have sex, and also she shall be willing to give any of them handjob when they require one. Rubbish!

The way those "ways of satisfaction without having sex" were presented is tantamount to simply encouraging them to do those things which directly leads them to the path of having early sex.
How many times do you think the kids will do mutual masturbation before deciding to try the real thing?
Sharing intimate thoughts is directly invitation to sex as well.

Wot is our schools turning to sef

itsIYKE:
Afonja people no just get sense.......see.what someone went and published

must u tag evririn to afonja ni.... lata ull say arewa youths dy cause wahala, watin u sef dy do. smh

Franzinni:
who keeps saying the book is wrong? Anybody in that category is a prime example of an illiterate...

Now the book say clearly, ways to give and receive pleasure without actual intercourse... How is masturbation out of place?

Some dingbat. Had posted this same thing a while ago and due to poor comprehension, hoped to find similar minds to swallow this misdirection based on the topic...

Read well... The book is accurate in that regard.

I would have been disappointed if I did not find someone of rational thought in the 1st page of the thread to confirm that the book did not err in including the masturbation entry under the classification it was placed.

I salute you Sir.

Nigeria has become a country of McCarthyism and of religion induced idiocy.

Amberon11:
I see some crazy people are already in support of this nonsense. Many are mad but few are roaming.

The roaming few must include you if you believe that mutual masturbation does not belong under the title for which it was discussed in the book.

If you believe the title should altogether not even be in the book, then I would even suggest that those who do not need education should altogether stay at home.

now they will end up with PHD in wankiology.
i just taya for this zoo

Now what is this?!

Omotuyole,what manner of text bk is this tht you wrote. Were u mandated in your secondary school days to read such seductive text bk.
Instead of writing edifying texts to quell rising corrupt morals among youths,you are busy aggravating things.

As a Doctor, I wish to remind you tht sex education is supposed to be taught passively without emphasis of its various methodologies. Otherwise, you will be handing the kids some dangerous information they cannot handle,but to experiment and experience to paranormal levels. I dont know how long you hav had this Tex in circulation,it obviously shows why the secondary school students misbehaviors on sex is rampant.
Therefore,purge this text book now!!!

The author is SO Omotuyole...or whatever. Disseminating what he/she practices so kids can imbibe same. Shame!!

Honestly speaking, going through the sub-topic and it's content, I see nothing wrong.

If you are a teacher and you teach sex education, you should know that kids of such age are already involved in it.

It's your job to use wisdom and let them know the dangers in it.

Sex education is taught in stages right from the primary school. You build up on previous knowledge.

Kids of such age are involved in sex already, that's why they need sex education.

Abstinence still remains the key to a healthy living(emotionally,physically and mentally).

The writer or publisher is not wrong in anyway. Guys, take the pain to read that page again.

Presh555:
Honestly speaking, going through the sub-topic and it's content, I see nothing wrong.

If you are a teacher and you teach sex education, you should know that kids of such age are already involved in it.

It's your job to use wisdom and let them know the dangers in it.

Sex education is taught in stages right from the primary school. You build up on previous knowledge.

Kids of such age are involved in sex already, that's why they need sex education.

Abstinence still remains the key to a healthy living(emotionally,physically and mentally).

The writer or publisher is not wrong in anyway. Guys, take the pain to read that page again.

Proof read over,it is the voracious nature of the message we are talking about here.This can consume our younger generation.
As a doctor,I evaluate all levels of human beings of different ages.
The primary and secondary schools don't need such explicit teachings on sex education,because they can't handle it. What the kids need badly is Moral Education and Values.

Check the author Afojans

OMOTUOYE

it is the voracious nature of the message we are talking about here.This can consume our younger generation.
As a doctor,I evaluate all levels of human beings of different ages.
The primary and secondary schools don't need such explicit teachings on sex education,because they can't handle it. What the kids need badly is Moral Education and Values.

The children will be like, uncle we've done it before ����

The children will be like, uncle we've done it before

tunapawizzy:
This story is misleading...d book says ways of achieving sexual satisfaction without intercourse not a way to abstain. To the morality of masturbation,Maybe u should have said d writer should highlight why masturbation is not good. In any case it's possible d textbook will discuss masturbation as a sub topic on the next page where d advantage(if any) and disadvantage of masturbation will be highlighted there. But as u no show us d next page now.

Can you teach your Jss 1 daughter how to masturbate with a partner?

In2systemsTech:
The question is, are they going to learn it one day? Yes... Is it better learnt in the class or via peer pressure?

Who taught the ones that are not doing it not to? One is a sane parent the other isn't. What made our grand parents different. How did they succeed in raising a decent generation than the present. Who is failing

Franzinni:
who keeps saying the book is wrong? Anybody in that category is a prime example of an illiterate...

Now the book say clearly, ways to give and receive pleasure without actual intercourse... How is masturbation out of place?

Some dingbat. Had posted this same thing a while ago and due to poor comprehension, hoped to find similar minds to swallow this misdirection based on the topic...

Read well... The book is accurate in that regard.

You are a wonderful example of literacy. Please teach your JSS 1 daughter how to master bath with a partner as lesbians do and give us feed back when she becomes an adult then we can emulate you.

Thrash! I'm very sane and I seriously doubt your sanity. Pls teach your children to masturbate as a means of abstinence.

And stay out my mentions as I won't read nor reply you further. [s]

StOla:
The roaming few must include you if you believe that mutual masturbation does not belong under the title for which it was discussed in the book.

If you believe the title should altogether not even be in the book, then I would even suggest that those who do not need education should altogether stay at home.

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Amberon11:
Thrash! I'm very sane and I seriously doubt your sanity. Pls teach your children to masturbate as a means of abstinence.

And stay out my mentions as I won't read nor reply you further.

You cannot be sane if you think that listing an entry that qualifies under a specific topic is tantamount to teaching the students about the practice the entry describes.

You would also say teaching nursery or primary students that theft is an antisocial behaviour is tantamount to teaching students how to steal.

I repeat, if you do not want an education, stay in your cave, while sane minds are kept informed about what is naturally existing in their environment.

Finally, learn the word "McCarthyism", because you suffer the same problem. A chronic patient of this problem is Femi Fani-Kayode.

Franzinni:
who keeps saying the book is wrong? Anybody in that category is a prime example of an illiterate...

Now the book say clearly, ways to give and receive pleasure without actual intercourse... How is masturbation out of place?

Some dingbat. Had posted this same thing a while ago and due to poor comprehension, hoped to find similar minds to swallow this misdirection based on the topic...

Read well... The book is accurate in that regard.

My bro, I wonder. I had to read the thing 3 times so I can be sure

Franzinni:
who keeps saying the book is wrong? Anybody in that category is a prime example of an illiterate...

Now the book say clearly, ways to give and receive pleasure without actual intercourse... How is masturbation out of place?

Some dingbat. Had posted this same thing a while ago and due to poor comprehension, hoped to find similar minds to swallow this misdirection based on the topic...

Read well... The book is accurate in that regard.

Thank you , when parents/ Adult by mistake fail to understand the motives & intension of writers there may be more problem for us than from the writers.

tobtap:
who approved the book for pupils...wont be surprised if somewhere in dat book or others SAME-SEX marriage is been encourage.. our educational system is so dysfunctional.. we need help...

Don't continue to embarrass yourself; the pupils show know those un warranted sexual behaviour for them to keep away, you mis understand the motive of the author.UBE is not stupid now.

ufo4u:
You are a wonderful example of literacy. Please teach your JSS 1 daughter how to master bath with a partner as lesbians do and give us feed back when she becomes an adult then we can emulate you.

you are right... You also are a wonderfull example of the African mentality that keeps us in the stone age.... If teaching my daughter the dos and donts of sexuality will help her not fall victim, then I bet you I will teach her as that is the point of education not so she becomes a lesbian and self-services with friends.. As a literate your self you didn't see lesbian in the textbook did you? And besides what is wrong with lesbians?

Franzinni:
sir, I am not slow and I had started masturbation precisely in jss1. And back then it was extremely uncomfortable for me but I enjoyed it so it made me feel weird... But if I was educated by my parent in the same subject don't you think it would have helped me understand my biology better? It's time Africans come out of the stone age... That same jss1 kid is already watching hours or porn in this age and time... You all should stop thinking like you are in the. 70s or 80s educate your child so they don't fall victim to pervs

Sir, pls how do you educate a child dat you are teaching 'abstinence' and telling d child dat masturbation is a form of abstinence, does it really make sense, so he can go on and practise masturbation before d time of marriage reaches, since its wrong to have sex before marriage. l wld like to really tell me if u, as a teacher can demonstrate masturbation to those little kids when asked in a classroom

4reala:
Sir, pls how do you educate a child dat you are teaching 'abstinence' and telling d child dat masturbation is a form of abstinence, does it really make sense, so he can go on and practise masturbation before d time of marriage reaches, since its wrong to have sex before marriage. l wld like to really tell me if u, as a teacher can demonstrate masturbation to those little kids when asked in a classroom

my brother I am very sure you have not taken the time to read the literature in the book please go and read it and understand what the topic and answers In the book are all about then you will not mind the topic op. Used.

But let me say my own piece...

The book doesn't talk about abstinence it clearly says something like...

How to receive and give pleasure without actually having sex... Which masturbation is one of the ways... So there is no need for demonstration besides any kid that knows. The meaning of the word masturbation does not need a demonstration anymore...

Just look at the NAME OF THE AUTHOR...that says it all!

Franzinni:
who keeps saying the book is wrong? Anybody in that category is a prime example of an illiterate...

Now the book say clearly, ways to give and receive pleasure without actual intercourse... How is masturbation out of place?

Some dingbat. Had posted this same thing a while ago and due to poor comprehension, hoped to find similar minds to swallow this misdirection based on the topic...

Read well... The book is accurate in that regard.

that's a Jss 1 text book o, with a class age average of 9 year olds. It's not about the accuracy of the information there oga, it's about how appropriate it is to teach young kids of that age such. You telling me if you walk in on 2 nine year olds "mutually masturbating" you'll tell them to carry on kwo??

odijeks:
that's a Jss 1 text book o, with a class age average of 9 year olds. It's not about the accuracy of the information there oga, it's about how appropriate it is to teach young kids of that age such. You telling me if you walk in on 2 nine year olds "mutually masturbating" you'll tell them to carry on kwo??

well it is easy to bend the narrative to suite your point... I am tired of arguing... all I will tell you Is the fact that masturbation is used in that context, Is absolutely right.. As a way to provide pleasure without intercourse.. Beyond that point that I have made, whatever you want to say about the age group of the pupils learning from it is honestly not my business.. I simply don't care that much to keep defending a book but if people can think critically, the subject of that book us probably sex education... So what do you expect to be taught in that class.... States and capitals?

Franzinni:
my brother I am very sure you have not taken the time to read the literature in the book please go and read it and understand what the topic and answers In the book are all about then you will not mind the topic op. Used.

But let me say my own piece...

The book doesn't talk about abstinence it clearly says something like...

How to receive and give pleasure without actually having sex... Which masturbation is one of the ways... So there is no need for demonstration besides any kid that knows. The meaning of the word masturbation does not need a demonstration anymore...

But pls educate me d more. How do kids at dat age knw what masturbation is if u dnt teach them. And if they dnt knw, dnt u think they wld be curious to knw?