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Fellow nairalanders what do I do?
I have been experiencing near miracle/success syndrome for as far as I can remember especially since I graduated from school 4years ago.
I must confess sir, I am not progressing. Even as I speak, I don't have a house of my own again. I had to relocate to Kaduna to stay with my parent for a while pending when I sort out things.

The most recent one was that I was making arrangements for a training so that I can get paid. I dropped my proposal to the school, it was accepted and date was agreed, terms and condition were also agreed upon but in the last minutes everything was suspended till further notice.

I have been to several bank interview and I have been shortlisted as successful for me to start the job only for me to be removed for no reasons. This thing has happened four times so far since last year.

I would do job for people, I won't get paid till I decide to forget about the money. People that I have helped would turn against me and hate me so much. I have a very good result and I have different ideas all hasn't been able to be of use to me so far.

Each time I manage to secure any job, the devil would start attacking me till I would be ask to leave the job or forced to resign, my bosses would start having me for no reasons till I would be ask to resign. Please don't think I am lazy ooh. I am very dedicated and loyal. I am very hard working yet all this unfortunate predicament

Please, what do I do? I have played and fasted. I have been to mountains and done all sort of thing as a Christian yet no change of story.

I am at a cross Road now. Infact I had to sell my mattress and personal effects to pay a debt I owed someone so that he don't embarrass me. All my friends have abandoned me, the only grace for me is my parent. At least I can feed but we all know that life goes beyond that.

Where do I go for solution, who can help me out?

Please help me fellow nairalanders

Felix Alida.
felixalida@gmail.com

Get a copy of Our Daily Manna and thank me Later.

I don't know about the spiritual aspect, so I will leave it to the spirikoko

But...

You have a problem.
And
You don't have a problem.

From the two statements, pick the one you believe the most and it is the truth.

Why will the devil attack you with to leave the job and your boss starts to hate you.

You may have behavioral flaws or anti social behavior that manifest, while you see it as normal, others get pissed off including your boss.

You must be a lonely person, that alone is not a problem but most people can't control the beast it grows in them.

first, stop thinking that it is you against the world. Sometimes , spirituality is just an escape from reality. Face your problems and fears.

second, man up and improve yourself, work on your best abilities and do things that compliment your strength.

If you are a fish, leave the trees for monkeys and rule the sea.

Third, you are progressing but the problem is you are using someone else as your yard stick, stop it today and see how far you have come in the past four years.

Four, you are selfish, did you ask the school why they backed out, they may be cash strapped. It was an opportunity for you to offer a lesser service to them for free and get recommendation. Go back and ask why they backed out.

Does Juventus or Benfica suffer near success syndrome or they play against better team.

Keep trying, put in Better effort, you will land something big.

Disclaimer: my opinion
Lalasticlala and Mynd44 help this guy!

Prevho:
You have a problem.

You don't have a problem.

From the two statements, pick the one you believe the most and it is the truth.

Why will the devil attack you with o leave the job and your boss starts to hate you.

You have behavioral flaws or latent anti social behavior that manifest, while you see it as normal, others get pissed off including your boss.

You must be a lonely person, that alone is not a problem but most people can't control the beast it grows in them.

I don't understand, can you explain better?
What is the way out?

Prevho:
You have a problem.

You don't have a problem.

From the two statements, pick the one you believe the most and it is the truth.

Why will the devil attack you with o leave the job and your boss starts to hate you.

You have behavioral flaws or latent anti social behavior that manifest, while you see it as normal, others get pissed off including your boss.

You must be a lonely person, that alone is not a problem but most people can't control the beast it grows in them.

You've said virtually everything.

felixalida:
I don't understand, can you explain better?
What is the way out?

first, stop thinking that it is you against the world. Sometimes , spirituality is just an escape from reality.

second, man up and improve yourself, work on your best abilities and do things that compliment your strength .

Study your lifestyle deeply and remove the removables, pray hard, work hard, never stop hoping for the best. In other not to lose guard of yourself, always assure yourself of a better tomorrow, someday, somewhere, someway, your hustles will pay.

[quote author=Prevho post=58353980]I don't know about the spiritual aspect, so I will leave it to the spirikoko

But...

You have a problem.
And
You don't have a problem.

From the two statements, pick the one you believe the most and it is the truth.

Why will the devil attack you with to leave the job and your boss starts to hate you.

You may have behavioral flaws or anti social behavior that manifest, while you see it as normal, others get pissed off including your boss.

You must be a lonely person, that alone is not a problem but most people can't control the beast it grows in them.

I can't be an antisocial person when I was an SUG official throughout school and I have been involved in a lot activities that turn out great and outstanding

[quote author=felixalida post=58354716][/quote]Do you know that extreme show of pride and over confidence are also anti social behaviors?

I was also an SUG official in school, SEC. GEN. so you see that I know what I am saying.

Hmmm...ok
This is serious

Hmmm...ok
This is serious

felixalida:
Fellow nairalanders what do I do?
I have been experiencing near miracle/success syndrome for as far as I can remember especially since I graduated from school 4years ago.
I must confess sir, I am not progressing. Even as I speak, I don't have a house of my own again. I had to relocate to Kaduna to stay with my parent for a while pending when I sort out things.

The most recent one was that I was making arrangements for a training so that I can get paid. I dropped my proposal to the school, it was accepted and date was agreed, terms and condition were also agreed upon but in the last minutes everything was suspended till further notice.

I have been to several bank interview and I have been shortlisted as successful for me to start the job only for me to be removed for no reasons. This thing has happened four times so far since last year.

I would do job for people, I won't get paid till I decide to forget about the money. People that I have helped would turn against me and hate me so much. I have a very good result and I have different ideas all hasn't been able to be of use to me so far.

Each time I manage to secure any job, the devil would start attacking me till I would be ask to leave the job or forced to resign, my bosses would start having me for no reasons till I would be ask to resign. Please don't think I am lazy ooh. I am very dedicated and loyal. I am very hard working yet all this unfortunate predicament

Please, what do I do? I have played and fasted. I have been to mountains and done all sort of thing as a Christian yet no change of story.

I am at a cross Road now. Infact I had to sell my mattress and personal effects to pay a debt I owed someone so that he don't embarrass me. All my friends have abandoned me, the only grace for me is my parent. At least I can feed but we all know that life goes beyond that.

Where do I go for solution, who can help me out?

Please help me fellow nairalanders

Felix Alida.
felixalida@gmail.com

My dear, i must be honest with you-you are operating under a spell/ curse of retrogression.
I have been in your shoes, and i can tell you that backwardness is one of the WORST attacks of satan against anyone.

To break this curse over your life, you must be really strong and vow to progress no matter what. The demons that enforce this curse can be very stubborn; even when people are delivered, these demons keep monitoring them, looking for loopholes to re-enter.

The woman with the issue of blood was under a curse of retrogression. Her case kept getting worse until she became a pauper. Until the anointing on Jesus set her free.

What is the anointing? It is the miracle power of God released in His presence. I noticed that the strongest anointing comes when i am praising God and fasting. This can be the source of your deliverance! Good luck!

But remember, staying delivered is harder than being delivered. No matter the anointing on you if you go back to sin, your bondage will be more difficult than before!

Thanks @Judewriter

felixalida:
Fellow nairalanders what do I do?
I have been experiencing near miracle/success syndrome for as far as I can remember especially since I graduated from school 4years ago.
I must confess sir, I am not progressing. Even as I speak, I don't have a house of my own again. I had to relocate to Kaduna to stay with my parent for a while pending when I sort out things.

The most recent one was that I was making arrangements for a training so that I can get paid. I dropped my proposal to the school, it was accepted and date was agreed, terms and condition were also agreed upon but in the last minutes everything was suspended till further notice.

I have been to several bank interview and I have been shortlisted as successful for me to start the job only for me to be removed for no reasons. This thing has happened four times so far since last year.

I would do job for people, I won't get paid till I decide to forget about the money. People that I have helped would turn against me and hate me so much. I have a very good result and I have different ideas all hasn't been able to be of use to me so far.

Each time I manage to secure any job, the devil would start attacking me till I would be ask to leave the job or forced to resign, my bosses would start having me for no reasons till I would be ask to resign. Please don't think I am lazy ooh. I am very dedicated and loyal. I am very hard working yet all this unfortunate predicament

Please, what do I do? I have played and fasted. I have been to mountains and done all sort of thing as a Christian yet no change of story.

I am at a cross Road now. Infact I had to sell my mattress and personal effects to pay a debt I owed someone so that he don't embarrass me. All my friends have abandoned me, the only grace for me is my parent. At least I can feed but we all know that life goes beyond that.

Where do I go for solution, who can help me out?

Please help me fellow nairalanders

Felix Alida.
felixalida@gmail.com

I will tell you the truth, this is simply witchcraft activities going on in your life.

Please what should I do Prophet Michael? I am tired of this life now.

Call for help secretly and openly from He who created you and your forefather. Call on God alone and humbly request from Him.

Do not call Jesus or any created things, for they are unaware of your prayers.