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Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 9:33pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
If the man paying all bils -- will that make the man to mistreat the woman Lot of people need to open their eye today is 2017 not 1950 women doctor, lawyers women are today making major contribution to the society In all area That include their marriages |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
smartty68:And so what if he apologised, you men need to realise that an apology is not a magic recipe for forgiveness, no wonder you think you have a license to cheat. An apology it is to clear your conscience and if the mum is not going to forgive him, then it is on her. No wonder people say success is the best revenge, she has been avenged by wearing the trousers in the house while the man has become a spineless coward. But she should remeber that revenge has a price. Bringing in family members will not solve anything cos they will either be a yesman to the woman or sound backward and misogynistic which would anger the mum more. My advice is that they go for therapy with a neutral party and you should pray and watch war room. a tempoary seperation should also be arranged. If the roles were reversed, let us not lie, the man woild have thrown her out of the house since. What a double standard world we live in. This should also teaxh us ladies not to be so reliant on men. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
drjustice17:shut up 3 Likes |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 9:39pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:why are u telling the people to shut up just sharing his view |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
yebeans:hian fowl nyash, carry your sob story abeg, until men stop claiming to be polygamous you will never earn public sympathy. Any man that earns 400k and allows his wife to shoulder 80% of the family expenses deserves to have his testicles cut off, if men are not satisfied to be men, they can become like bobrisky. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 9:45pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:because his views make him seem illitrate and so did some of yours, so please mind your business |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 9:45pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:if the man make 400k The woman want better schools for the kid want to like in lekki add it up |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by PstBiola: 9:46pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
BrotherJesu: Dear BrotherJesu, Thank you for sharing your family burden with us. The problem between your parents started long time ago. The was a strange covenant that exist between your them and an evil altar. The steps that was taken to nullify the covenant unfortunately compounded it. What I am sharing with you is a deep secret and none of them can be set free without total forgiveness of one another, to start with. The wickedness that was taken down to the grave must be appeased. And also some restitutions must take place. Please bear with me, there are other things, I cannot share online. And the goodnews is that there is a way out. You also have parts to play in this, you must go on your knees and use the full names of your parents and the full names of their parents to pray. I will guide you step by steps of the prayers and by the Grace of God the evil covenant shall be destroyed and everlasting peace shall reign between them in Jesus name. Amen. Yours in His Vineyard, Pst Biola |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 9:47pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:time will come you will remember some of the stuff here If you are a medical doctor your husband teach in a university who is likely going to make more money I have a story for you two brother in their 20s, one of the brothers said me and my brother going to buy and live very close I said if your wives approve it 29 some year later one of the brother reminded me of that comment |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 9:50pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
BrotherJesu:you are actually blind, if you fell sick one day with some expensive disease who will help you out, it is not your. Fault , you are still collecting pocket money. Let me tell you one thing about marriage, once a woman starts earning more, whether the man is respextful or not, the man can not raise his voice at her because of shame 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by personalshopper: 9:51pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:you are not making sense and diverting from the issue..the man has the money,he spends outside and father's a child outside...abegn no be2d me this night...maybe you have a responsible father you dont understand shit!so please I agree shut up. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 9:52pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:do u think any man want to make less than the wife? This is real world |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 9:53pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:i am already a medical doctor, and let me let you in on a secret,for most female medical doctors, the least they can marry is a medical doctor and they always marry someone higher financially than them. All that time in med school has made them smart, that is why they are very selective and dont marry on time. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 9:56pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
personalshopper:What I tell people today it is not about ur income but what you spend |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 9:56pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:but it doesnt change the fact that men tend to feel lazy, or emasculated or just become mental when that happens. List 10 men you know whose wives earn more than them and no matrer how their wives treat them still behave the same way if the roles were reversed |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 9:58pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:I think you real young unreality sorry, I don't see lot of doctors marring doctors |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:then the op's mum hussled and fojnd the means to live in lekki and let her kids go to better schools so what is your point 1 Like |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 10:00pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:how many doctors do you see, i come from a family of doctors, grew up with other doctors so you are not making any point here. I can confidently say that 40% of doctor will marry doctors |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 10:02pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:You young and you are thinking one way If you not seeing people marry to big banker year down the road things change the banker might loss his job but if he is a smart man set up business for the wife that if he loss his job the wife can carry on |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 10:03pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:If you are a doctor and think this way SAD you are not open minded you see thing just one way what happen to the other 60% |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 10:04pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Before we judge the man for contributing 20%, what's the family's expense? Isn't it only pragmatic that the person that earns more should spend more? The man really needs to tell what he is doing with 400k. What percentage of that 400k is he contributing to the home. That's on the issue of finance. The babymama issue would be handled accordingly. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 10:05pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
PaperLace:that is the real story what is the cost for school fee for the kids what is the cost of rent does the wife want lekki and good school for the kids |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 10:09pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:wow that is new, i have never been called not open minded in my life. Anyway it is your opinion, i hope you know you are pot calling kettle black right? Just so you know, so because i dont agree with you i am now close minded, is ok, is ok. For every time i am not open minded, you are a hundred times worse |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 10:09pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:my point is 400k will not make it |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 10:10pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:why are you guys against lekki and good school for the kids |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 10:10pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:you looking at thing one way |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 10:11pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:what I am saying is 400k may not cover the expensive |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 10:11pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:please prove to me that you are looking at this story more than one way |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 10:12pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
GoodFaith:does that give the man the license to have a family outside |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 10:13pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:we know he make 400k but what is the expensive it is not about what you make but what you spend that is what i tell people I know better |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by GoodFaith: 10:14pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:the man shouldn't have done that wrong what are other factor that might have led he to the outside Life is a bitch we all need God in our lives |
Re: My Mum's Pride Is Breaking My Family Apart. by Nobody: 10:19pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
PaperLace:i agree with you on everything except the baby mama issues cos for the woman, nothing short of deleting thebside chick and her child from history can make things right. Men need to stop realising that life is not an africa magic yoruba movie where all the repentant serial cheat of a man needs to do is to bring family members and buhari's encourage to kneel down and beg for forgiveness. It no longer works that way, nowadays women are teach men lessons that would make them afraid tobbehold a skirt that doesnt belong to his wife. Look at the Ivie edobhor story for example, now that is a real woman. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
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