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The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 7:50am On Oct 18, 2017
Matters of family and relationship are very crucial subjects. They are crucial because they deal with the lives of people. Whenever a problem arises from the home or between couples, such problem should be taken as an extremely serious and volatile one because if it is not handled properly, it could lead to the end of such relationship, or even worse. And the scars that would arise out of such outcomes may last through out the lives of the individuals involved and possibly even affect their children.

If all this is the case, and if we, as I suppose, understand how precariously balanced a problem or issue bothering on family or relationship is, why then are we quick to the proffer advice that we aren't competent enough to render?

I don't mean to denigrate the active users on this section, but from all the threads I have read, I have hardly come across any piece of advice that's worth applying. I think it was just in one case that I read something that didn't make me frown. Does this mean that no one on this section is smart enough to render the sort of advice one would find on foreign forums? Is this related to the pervasive claim that black Africans have lower IQs compared to other races, a claim I am trying so hard to reject? Why is it that almost all responses from users on this section bespeak of a low intelligence, a lack of healthy experience on the subject of marriage and a dangerous eagerness to air opinions, whilst lacking the cognitive capacity to realize that such opinions are inane?

And the poor content quality on this section isn't the only problem, there is also the problem of the poor writing. If you must offer an advice, please do it in proper written English. I've read a lot of responses on this section that bear a lot of similarity to the writing of a kid in nursery school. If you can't write properly then please don't hurt the sensitivities of people who enjoy reading properly written posts by uploading the pile of grammatical blunder you call a post.

Please, for the sake of the families and relationships of people who ask for advice, if you are incompetent to proffer a solution to their problems through written advice(and this is like more than 90% of the users on this section), please don't bother responding to such threads. These are real people with real problems and you shouldn't jeopardize their lives or escalate their problems with your ill-thought-out, preposterous advice.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 7:57am On Oct 18, 2017
What dafuq is you saying
Does this section look like a counseling office to you? You need advise, go talk to a priest.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 7:59am On Oct 18, 2017
LadyGoddiva:
What dafuq is you saying

Do you have a comprehension problem? If you do, which seems to be the case, get someone who can comprehend written English to explain the content of my post to you.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 8:01am On Oct 18, 2017
Bruv, Shut the fûck up and go and sit under a mango tree. Goat.
THT80:


Do you have a comprehension problem? If you do, which seems to be the case, get someone who can comprehend written English to explain the content of my post to you.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 8:03am On Oct 18, 2017
LadyGoddiva:
What dafuq is you saying
Does this section look like a counseling office to you? You need advise, go talk to a priest.
You see as the op insult you? When you see mental case wey dey write kolomental post you supposed don know. Now he don tell you say you no get compregini problem. I'm really disappointed in you. No offense. As for the op sniper for adide na 520. Drink early in the morning.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Lomprico2: 8:13am On Oct 18, 2017
THT80:


Do you have a comprehension problem? If you do, which seems to be the case, get someone who can comprehend written English to explain the content of my post to you.

What dafuq is you saying
Does this section look like a counseling office to you? You need advise, go talk to a priest.

Now that is why you don't get good advice you seek on this section. smiley

How can a 15 year old advice you a 25-45+ year old married individual? undecided

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by NeeKlaus: 9:33am On Oct 18, 2017
This guy is moving from section to section, stirring trouble. Dictating what should and what shouldn't like an overlord.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 9:56am On Oct 18, 2017
NeeKlaus:
This guy is moving from section to section, stirring trouble. Dictating what should and what shouldn't like an overlord.

I'm not deliberately courting trouble and I'm definitely not dictating what should or what shouldn't be done. I am simply airing my views on issues that I believe should be addressed. I am someone who cares about my country and everywhere it's represented, whether online or offline, and if I detect a problem, I'll articulately shine a light on that problem so that it will be resolved.

But every time I try to illuminate problems I notice, I get insulted by people like you and the lady above, and this is really appalling. Are Nigerians immune to change? Why do we feel hurt whenever our faults are pointed to us? Why do we have this pathetic inclination to attack the messenger rather than address the content of his message?

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by festwiz(m): 10:44am On Oct 18, 2017
THT80:


I'm not deliberately courting trouble and I'm definitely not dictating what should or what shouldn't be done. I am simply airing my views on issues that I believe should be addressed. I am someone who cares about my country and everywhere it's represented, whether online or offline, and if I detect a problem, I'll articulately shine a light on that problem so that it would be resolved.

But every time I try to illuminate problems I notice, I get insulted by people like you and the lady above, and this is really appalling. Are Nigerians immune to change? Why do we feel hurt whenever our faults are pointed to us? Why do we have the inclination to attack the messenger rather than address the content of his message?
When you are done with this section, can you move on to the Jokes section and talk about how the free jokes being handed out are not funny? All your posts have been about one complaint or the other. I don't know you, but you appear to be sad and lonely, and that's why you can't see good in anything. Nairaland has about 1.9 million users, mostly consisting of normal, everyday people. Any advice being sort after here will just be from folks giving out their own opinions, whether medically valid or otherwise. What you do with that advice is your business.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by mrphysics(m): 10:59am On Oct 18, 2017
THT80:


Do you have a comprehension problem? If you do, which seems to be the case, get someone who can comprehend written English to explain the content of my post to you.
You started writing well, but along the line, you spoke far lower than the people you were trying to render advice to.

There is no relationship between posts made here and English language. This is a forum, a very informal place, so people should be free to air their opinion in any style of language they wish to use. It has no relationship to the quality of content pasted here. Who English help. Even with you claimed level of English, if you want to study outside, you will still have to sit for TOEFL.

Secondly, when people are chatting in a forum, they are free to use even shorthand notations. I have seen pure US and UK citizens speak poor english when they are chatting with sellers on fiverr. If you need proofs, I will make a screenshot and post here.

Lastly, you are too rude. Just because this is a faceless forum does not give you the right to talk to people anyhow. Nairaland is filled with cyberbullies which I think you are one of them.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by shaneroberts26: 11:40am On Oct 18, 2017
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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by NeeKlaus: 12:01pm On Oct 18, 2017
THT80:


I'm not deliberately courting trouble and I'm definitely not dictating what should or what shouldn't be done. I am simply airing my views on issues that I believe should be addressed. I am someone who cares about my country and everywhere it's represented, whether online or offline, and if I detect a problem, I'll articulately shine a light on that problem so that it would be resolved.

But every time I try to illuminate problems I notice, I get insulted by people like you and the lady above, and this is really appalling. Are Nigerians immune to change? Why do we feel hurt whenever our faults are pointed to us? Why do we have the inclination to attack the messenger rather than address the content of his message?
I am not evasive like you pointed out and I believe I have a right to address whatever and whoever I choose to address without being guilty of a fallacy.

I stumbled upon your posts littered around various sections in the course of your (very) short stay here and I noticed you have an advanced case of superiority complex. I don't know if it's as a result of your grammatical fluency or some other psychological problem I know nothing about but you really have to come down from your high pedestal.

Also, you act like a perfectionist with your mantra of anything worth doing is worth doing well but seriously, who gives a rat's ass? This is an online forum; a virtual reality. If everything doesn't conform to your high and exquisite taste, then you can go ahead and create your own planet of perfection and reside in it exclusively. No one cares.

I don't resort to invectives because that tramples upon all aspects of intellectualism. Criticism is both constructive and destructive and I honestly doubt if I am in line with the latter.

My 2 kobo.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Daeylar(f): 12:34pm On Oct 18, 2017
Chaii he has come to family section grin grin

Cc ZandhaZaraZ
Npcomplete


Every section on nairaland must know him by fire by force, after all every publicity is good publicity,

We must know him, whether for good or bad grin grin LMAO grin

He cannot come to nairaland and be unknown grin

Lol grin

I think what will pain him most Is if he is ignored grin if he opens the next thread and no one even bothers to comment grin grin LMAO, grin

That will be more painful than all theses disses and explanations for his behaviour he keeps recieveing.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 18, 2017
Daeylar:
Chaii he has come to family section grin grin

Cc ZandhaZaraZ
Npcomplete


Every section on nairaland must know him by fire by force, after all every publicity is good publicity,

He cannot come to nairaland and be unknown grin

Lol grin

I think what will pain him most Is if he is ignored grin
Hahahaha. grin

Cc. JackBizzle
adepeter2027
Lawlahdey
kimbraa
Safiaa
RaggedyAnn

Your vanquished lunatic has refused to enter his coffin o.

grin grin grin

That will be more painful than all these disses and explanations for his behaviour that he keeps receiving

Hmmm. I think this is true. grin
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Daeylar(f): 12:54pm On Oct 18, 2017
ZandhaZaraZ:
Hahahaha. grin


I've modified my post

Funny enough. I think he was much nicer here though, what do you think about his post here? I think all the L's he's been taking has been really helpful
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Oct 18, 2017
Daeylar:


I've modified my post

Funny enough. I think he was much nicer here though, what do you think about his post here?
I've done the same.
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 18, 2017
THT80:
Matters of family and relationship are very crucial subjects. They are crucial because they deal with the lives of people. Whenever a problem arises from the home or between couples, such problem should be taken as an extremely serious and volatile one because if it is not handled properly, it could lead to the end of such relationship, or even worse. And the scars that would arise out of such outcomes may last through out the lives of the individuals involved and possibly even affect their children.

If all this is the case, and if we, I suppose, understand how precariously balanced a problem or issue bothering on family or relationship is, why then are we quick to the proffer advice that we aren't competent enough to render?

I don't mean to denigrate the active users on this section, but from all the threads I have read, I have hardly come across any piece of advice that's worth applying. I think it was just in one case that I read something that didn't make me frown. Does this mean that no one on this section is smart enough to render the sort of advice one would find on FOREIGN FORUMS? Is this related to the pervasive claim that BLACK AFRICANS have lower IQs compared to other races, a claim I am trying so hard to reject? Why is it that ALMOST ALL RESPONSES from users on this section bespeak of a LOW INTELLIGENCE, a lack of healthy experience on the subject of marriage and a dangerous eagerness to air opinions, whilst LACKING THE COGNITIVE CAPACITY to realize that such opinions are inane?

And the poor content quality on this section isn't the only problem, there is also the problem of the POOR WRITING. If you must offer an advice, please do it in proper written English. I've read a lot of responses on this section that bear a lot of similarity to the writing of a kid in nursery school. If you can't write properly then please don't hurt the sensitivities of people who enjoy reading properly written posts by uploading the pile of grammatical blunder you call a post.

Please, for the sake of the families and relationships of people who ask for advice, if you are incompetent to proffer a solution to their problems through written advice(and this is like more than 90% of the users on this section), please don't bother responding to such threads. These are real people with real problems and you shouldn't jeopardize their lives or escalate their problems with your ill-thought, preposterous advice.
The cure for your stupidity and mental illness is in your mother's womb. I hope she's still alive, otherwise, there's no hope for you!

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Daeylar(f): 1:10pm On Oct 18, 2017
ZandhaZaraZ:
I've done the same.

I've modified this quote cry
Lol,
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:14pm On Oct 18, 2017
Daeylar:


I've modified my post

Funny enough. I think he was much nicer here though, what do you think about his post here? I think all the L's he's been taking has been really helpful

His post here is no different from the usual hogwash - the I'm-intelligent-and-everyone-else-is-stupid fücking insane kind of batshit.

Take note of the parts I emboldened.
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by KevinDein: 1:15pm On Oct 18, 2017
Why don't you all just address the issues raised by the op rather than attacking him. Advice or opinions being dished out in a forum such as this and on this section in particular can make or mar families. So it's totally understandable that the op is bothered.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Daeylar(f): 1:19pm On Oct 18, 2017
ZandhaZaraZ:
His post here is no different from the usual hogwash - the I'm-intelligent-and-everyone-else-is-stupid fücking insane kind of batshit.

Take note of the parts I emboldened.


I know most especially that part you bolded in purple, but I think this is less than what he wrote in literature section, (i may be wrong) but what he wrote there was really terrible.


However that notwithstanding, like I said earlier, he feeds off this attention he gets, ignore him and he will disappear. If he posts in another section again and no one comments he will cry grin grin lol
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:25pm On Oct 18, 2017
KevinDein:
Why don't you all just address the issues raised by the op rather than attacking him. Advice or opinions being dished out in a forum such as this and on this section in particular can make or mar families. So it's totally understandable that the op is bothered.

Yeah, right. Bothered indeed. We'll address the issues he raised when he stops talking about everyone's IQ, their written english and foreign forums.

He said ALMOST ALL THE ADVICES in this section are not worth applying. Barely has he found ANY that didn't make him frown. I can see that he's gone through the thousands of threads in family section to arrive at that hasty conclusion.

"Does that mean NO ONE HERE IS SMART ENOUGH......?". He's a very smart fellow, isn't he? What has grammar and english mastery got to do with the quality of advice?

That nigga is suffering from a very serious mental disease.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 18, 2017
Daeylar:



I know most especially that part you bolded in purple, but I think this is less than what he wrote in literature section, (i may be wrong) but what he wrote there was really terrible.


However that notwithstanding, like I said earlier, he feeds off this attention he gets, ignore him and he will disappear. If he posts in another section again and no one comments he will cry grin grin lol
grin grin grin
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by sisisioge: 1:38pm On Oct 18, 2017
But this thing is long nau...longer than a deck is allowed to be. Whew!
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 18, 2017
ZandhaZaraZ:
Hahahaha. grin

Cc. Jack Bizzle
adepeter 2027
Law.lah.dey
kim.braa
Sa.fiaa
Raggedy Ann

Your vanquished lunatic has refused to enter his coffin o.

grin grin grin



Hmmm. I think this is true. grin


Lmao @vanquished lunatic has refused to enter his coffin. He's like a cockroach that way. I think Daeylar is right, though: It would hurt him to be ignored, so let's do that. Let him vomit his bit wherever he wants to, and when he's done, hopefully, he'll crawl back into his hole infested by other scholarly vermin.
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by sisisioge: 1:43pm On Oct 18, 2017
ZandhaZaraZ:

The cure for your stupidity and mental illness is in your mother's womb. I hope she's still alive, otherwise, there's no hope for you!


Oh spoons! You are brutal baby...very brutal grin
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:43pm On Oct 18, 2017
THT80:


I'm not deliberately courting trouble and I'm definitely not dictating what should or what shouldn't be done. I am simply airing my views on issues that I believe should be addressed. I am someone who cares about my country and everywhere it's represented, whether online or offline, and if I detect a problem, I'll articulately shine a light on that problem so that it would be resolved.

But every time I try to illuminate problems I notice, I get insulted by people like you and the lady above, and this is really appalling. Are Nigerians immune to change? Why do we feel hurt whenever our faults are pointed to us? Why do we have the inclination to attack the messenger rather than address the content of his message?


I believe you. You're absolutely right
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by dominique(f): 1:47pm On Oct 18, 2017
So this guy has carried his wahala to family section, I wonder where he will tackle next grin
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Oct 18, 2017
KevinDein:
Why don't you all just address the issues raised by the op rather than attacking him. Advice or opinions being dished out in a forum such as this and on this section in particular can make or mar families. So it's totally understandable that the op is bothered.


This is the problem I have with Nigerians. Are we so egotistical that whenever our problems are pointed out, instead of us to focus on the problem, see where we have faults and deal with those faults, we'd rather prefer to insult the person pointing out those faults to us? This isn't how people grow. This kind of behavior facilitates stagnation. We will never move forward as a society if we always respond this way to criticism.

I care so much about family, especially about children. The home is where the primary traits of a child develop. If something goes wrong during this development, then it could influence the future of the child in an extremely negative way. Whenever a question is raised on this section that concerns marriages and family, the responses to such question need to be smart and useful responses. That's all I am clamouring for.

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Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Oct 18, 2017
supersystemsnig:


I believe you. You're absolutely right
It's good to know that someone actually agrees with me.
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 18, 2017
THT80:


It's good to know that someone actually agrees with me.


I don't just agree, i'm with you all the way..By the way, someone read your post and contacted me offline saying we write exactly alike...

Don't take them too seriously bro, some folks just have nothing to offer...Take it like that
Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Nobody: 2:00pm On Oct 18, 2017
RaggedyAnn:



Lmao @vanquished lunatic has refused to enter his coffin. He's like a cockroach that way. I think Daeylar is right, though: It would hurt him to be ignored, so let's do that. Let him vomit his bit wherever he wants to, and when he's done, hopefully, he'll crawl back into his hole infested by other scholarly vermin.
That's right. He'll keep swallowing back his ball of faeces himself when no one comes around to smash them in his face.

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