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Why Does It Hurt When He Enters Me? 7 Top Reasons by hypertension(m): 1:31pm On Jul 07, 2017
At the age of sixteen, most girls will be surprised they have their menstrual period to worry about. While period cramps are common in women, It's not the only concern for girls. Having vaginal pain during penetration can be worrying.

As you grow older, falling in love with someone and expressing your feeling through sexual intercourse may become necessary.

Now you get disappointed on the first day with a severe painful penetration, vaginal bleeding, and lower abdominal discomfort.

If you are having intercourse for the first time, you should know it's painful and may come with spotting for a few days.

After your first sexual intercourse, some women may still get pain for months or years. Though, It could easily be prevented by using the right techniques.

There are other reasons you could have intercourse after losing your virginity. It could occur if you have a urinary tract infection, vaginal infections, anxiety, lack of adequate vaginal lubrication or a forceful penetration.

In older women and women who have given birth, sexual intercourse becomes less painful. Though, the vaginal trauma during childbirth may cause severe painful intercourse.

This article explains the common reasons why you experience pain when your boyfriend enters you, what to do, and when you should worry.



Why does it hurt when my boyfriend enters me? Here's Why



1.  You've never had sexual intercourse before

The age of first sexual intercourse varies from women to women; Though one thing is common, PAIN.

The vagina in the early stages of a woman's life is covered with a crescent-shaped membrane with a small opening that allows blood from menstruation to flow through

During you first intercourse with your boyfriend, you may experience severe pain when he enters you as the hymen ruptures. Pain may be very mild or severe and sometimes could be accompanied by vaginal spotting.

Having pain the first time is not abnormal and should not bother you. In few months you will start enjoying intercourse with you boyfriend.

However, it's possible you may still get pain later on. Here are some other reason it occurs

2. Your vagina is not wet enough

Sometimes you may not have the urge for intercourse and you are pressured into it; If you are not in the mood or not stimulated before penetration, your vaginal area will hurt during penetration.

Within the sides of the vaginal wall is the Bartholin gland which helps to release watery discharge during pre-intimacy, and intercourse.

However, if you are not ready for sexual intercourse, your body is not stimulated to increase vaginal wetness. This will result in pain.

One easy way to help ease the stress on your vagina is applying a lubricant. This commonly used by women to prevent pain, vaginal tear and improve sexual experience.

3.  You have vaginismus

Some women may have difficulty engaging in any form of vaginal penetration. This is called vaginismus and occurs due to spasm of the pubococcygeus muscle.

Pain may occur during sexual intercourse - when your boyfriend tries to enter you, or while inserting a tampon or menstrual cup.

In most women, psychological help with sufficient vaginal lubricant will help prevent pain.

4. You have vaginal infection

If you are not expecting, you could get pregnant if you do not use a condom. That's not the only risk. Sexually transmitted diseases are mainly transmitted through unprotected sexual intercourse.

Therefore, using a condom or abstaining from intercourse is vital to preventing this kind of infections. If you have an infection down there, you may experience persistent vaginal and abdominal pain during intercourse.

Some common infections that could result in pain are Chlamydia, bacterial vaginosis, complicated yeast infection, trichomoniasis, and gonorrhea.

Should you notice penetration pain weeks after unprotected intercourse, it's possible you may have an infection.

Some other symptoms of vaginal infections you may experience are

Unpleasant vagina smell
Pain before, during and after intercourse
Foul-smelling vaginal discharge
Green vaginal discharge
Yellow vaginal discharge
Low abdomen tenderness
Itching vagina with sore
These symptoms indicate you may have an infection. However, you may have an infection and still not show any symptoms.

Chlamydia, trichomoniasis and gonorrhea infections may lie dormant for months or years. If you feel pain after an unhealthy sexual practice, it advisable you inform your doctor.

In fact, the World Health Organization and Center For Disease Control (CDC) recommends women less than 25 years to routinely check for infections yearly.

This is important because gonorrhea and chlamydia may spread up to the uterus and fallopian tubes resulting in pelvic inflammatory disease. Long-term vaginal infections may also affect your chances of conceiving in the future or result in ectopic pregnancy.

5.  You had a rough intercourse

Emotions and desire may sometimes drive urge for a deep and rough sexual experience. If you are not aroused with a dry vagina, this may result in severe pain.

On the other hand, during deep penetration, the man's penis may hit your cervix very hard. This could cause inner vaginal pain or low abdominal cramps after intercourse.

Most women will experience an increased desire for sexual intercourse a week after period. This occurs because of body changes during ovulation.

During you ovulation period or fertile window, your cervix is soft and may be difficult to detect. Sexual intercourse during this time will not cause pain.

However, immediately after the end of period or days before your period will start, deep penetration may hit your low-lying cervix with pain.

6. You are emotionally not ready

Not being psychologically ready for intercourse could affect vaginal wetness and result in pain.

The fear of getting pregnant, catching an infection, having a break up with your boyfriend or stress, may affect vaginal wetness or cause pain.

It's important you are ready to prevent a painful experience.



Why does it hurt when my boyfriend goes deep?

Normally, vaginal intercourse should not be painful. If you are having intercourse for your first time, its okay if you feel some pain.

During sexual intercourse, it's possible you could get pain when your boyfriend goes deep or hit your cervix from behind.

This occurs because your cervix is low down in your vagina or you have inflammation of the ovary, fallopian tubes or abdomen.

Possible causes of pain are intestinal diseases, ovarian cyst, ovarian cancer, or adhesions from previous surgeries or endometriosis.

https://www.medplux.com/pain-after-sex-7-main-causes-of-belly-and-vaginal-cramps-treatment/

Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44
Re: Why Does It Hurt When He Enters Me? 7 Top Reasons by Ubijus1(m): 9:49am On Oct 21, 2017
hypertension:
At the age of sixteen, most girls will be surprised they have their menstrual period to worry about. While period cramps are common in women, It's not the only concern for girls. Having vaginal pain during penetration can be worrying.

As you grow older, falling in love with someone and expressing your feeling through sexual intercourse may become necessary.

Now you get disappointed on the first day with a severe painful penetration, vaginal bleeding, and lower abdominal discomfort.

If you are having intercourse for the first time, you should know it's painful and may come with spotting for a few days.

After your first sexual intercourse, some women may still get pain for months or years. Though, It could easily be prevented by using the right techniques.

There are other reasons you could have intercourse after losing your virginity. It could occur if you have a urinary tract infection, vaginal infections, anxiety, lack of adequate vaginal lubrication or a forceful penetration.

In older women and women who have given birth, sexual intercourse becomes less painful. Though, the vaginal trauma during childbirth may cause severe painful intercourse.

This article explains the common reasons why you experience pain when your boyfriend enters you, what to do, and when you should worry.



Why does it hurt when my boyfriend enters me? Here's Why



1.  You've never had sexual intercourse before

The age of first sexual intercourse varies from women to women; Though one thing is common, PAIN.

The vagina in the early stages of a woman's life is covered with a crescent-shaped membrane with a small opening that allows blood from menstruation to flow through

During you first intercourse with your boyfriend, you may experience severe pain when he enters you as the hymen ruptures. Pain may be very mild or severe and sometimes could be accompanied by vaginal spotting.

Having pain the first time is not abnormal and should not bother you. In few months you will start enjoying intercourse with you boyfriend.

However, it's possible you may still get pain later on. Here are some other reason it occurs

2. Your vagina is not wet enough

Sometimes you may not have the urge for intercourse and you are pressured into it; If you are not in the mood or not stimulated before penetration, your vaginal area will hurt during penetration.

Within the sides of the vaginal wall is the Bartholin gland which helps to release watery discharge during pre-intimacy, and intercourse.

However, if you are not ready for sexual intercourse, your body is not stimulated to increase vaginal wetness. This will result in pain.

One easy way to help ease the stress on your vagina is applying a lubricant. This commonly used by women to prevent pain, vaginal tear and improve sexual experience.

3.  You have vaginismus

Some women may have difficulty engaging in any form of vaginal penetration. This is called vaginismus and occurs due to spasm of the pubococcygeus muscle.

Pain may occur during sexual intercourse - when your boyfriend tries to enter you, or while inserting a tampon or menstrual cup.

In most women, psychological help with sufficient vaginal lubricant will help prevent pain.

4. You have vaginal infection

If you are not expecting, you could get pregnant if you do not use a condom. That's not the only risk. Sexually transmitted diseases are mainly transmitted through unprotected sexual intercourse.

Therefore, using a condom or abstaining from intercourse is vital to preventing this kind of infections. If you have an infection down there, you may experience persistent vaginal and abdominal pain during intercourse.

Some common infections that could result in pain are Chlamydia, bacterial vaginosis, complicated yeast infection, trichomoniasis, and gonorrhea.

Should you notice penetration pain weeks after unprotected intercourse, it's possible you may have an infection.

Some other symptoms of vaginal infections you may experience are

Unpleasant vagina smell
Pain before, during and after intercourse
Foul-smelling vaginal discharge
Green vaginal discharge
Yellow vaginal discharge
Low abdomen tenderness
Itching vagina with sore
These symptoms indicate you may have an infection. However, you may have an infection and still not show any symptoms.

Chlamydia, trichomoniasis and gonorrhea infections may lie dormant for months or years. If you feel pain after an unhealthy sexual practice, it advisable you inform your doctor.

In fact, the World Health Organization and Center For Disease Control (CDC) recommends women less than 25 years to routinely check for infections yearly.

This is important because gonorrhea and chlamydia may spread up to the uterus and fallopian tubes resulting in pelvic inflammatory disease. Long-term vaginal infections may also affect your chances of conceiving in the future or result in ectopic pregnancy.

5.  You had a rough intercourse

Emotions and desire may sometimes drive urge for a deep and rough sexual experience. If you are not aroused with a dry vagina, this may result in severe pain.

On the other hand, during deep penetration, the man's penis may hit your cervix very hard. This could cause inner vaginal pain or low abdominal cramps after intercourse.

Most women will experience an increased desire for sexual intercourse a week after period. This occurs because of body changes during ovulation.

During you ovulation period or fertile window, your cervix is soft and may be difficult to detect. Sexual intercourse during this time will not cause pain.

However, immediately after the end of period or days before your period will start, deep penetration may hit your low-lying cervix with pain.

6. You are emotionally not ready

Not being psychologically ready for intercourse could affect vaginal wetness and result in pain.

The fear of getting pregnant, catching an infection, having a break up with your boyfriend or stress, may affect vaginal wetness or cause pain.

It's important you are ready to prevent a painful experience.



Why does it hurt when my boyfriend goes deep?

Normally, vaginal intercourse should not be painful. If you are having intercourse for your first time, its okay if you feel some pain.

During sexual intercourse, it's possible you could get pain when your boyfriend goes deep or hit your cervix from behind.

This occurs because your cervix is low down in your vagina or you have inflammation of the ovary, fallopian tubes or abdomen.

Possible causes of pain are intestinal diseases, ovarian cyst, ovarian cancer, or adhesions from previous surgeries or endometriosis.

https://www.medplux.com/pain-after-sex-7-main-causes-of-belly-and-vaginal-cramps-treatment/

Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44

Good morning bro, pls I need your attention on something.

How can I reach you pls?
Re: Why Does It Hurt When He Enters Me? 7 Top Reasons by hypertension(m): 6:34am On Apr 11, 2018
Ubijus1:


Good morning bro, pls I need your attention on something.

How can I reach you pls?

Send me an e-mail


Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44

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