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sukkot:
well being sanguine and phlegmatic comes from being tested and purified and refined in the fire of affliction. I have passed through that torturous fire. it stabilises you emotionally. it also helps knowing the spiritual knowledge of how this world functions. when you combine those two you become sanguine and phlegmatic. nothing can ever rattle you again. some say you become less emotional and less empathetic but i see those two qualities as weaknesses anyway. you cant be letting good or bad news affect you emotionally. you have to be solid. so yeah it is what it well hun, thanks for the kind words

two nice words by the way lol. had to google the meaning to be sure it is what i thought it was

generationz:
Hunn
Obviously you don't know what I was talking about


Have you ever heard of personality typing before
There are two types the Tim LaHaye typing
And the Myers Briggs personality test


Since you are such a curious cat, I'lld like you to take the (lanre olusola personality test) , Google it and get back to me

Actually sanguine phlegmatics are very emotional they are very kind and try as much as possible to stay out of trouble . They prefer to compromise, than quarrel with people
They are also funny outgoing and friendly.

and you are very correct, i stay out of trouble, i dont like drama trouble or wahala of any kind. i like peace. who doesnt right ? lol . well i am not that emotional-i dont see that as a virtue-especially for a man lol. i consider myself friendly, funny, used to be outgoing but after the internet era i have become like everybody else in the world a homebody-always on nairaland if i am not out and about doing my hustling and daily chores

ibkayee:
Lool I was only joking to be honest, even if I weren't though, it doesn't stop you from having a calmness about you, you come across as having a very relaxed demeanour, to me anyway

Blackfyre:
What's the worst shiit you have been through in life?

sukkot:
ohhhh ok because when i checked the meaning of sanguine and phlegmatic it said otherwise. apparently a phlegmatic person is >>>>

phlegmatic
flɛɡˈmatɪk/Submit
adjective
(of a person) having an unemotional and stolidly calm disposition.
"the phlegmatic British character"

and you are very correct, i stay out of trouble, i dont like drama trouble or wahala of any kind. i like peace. who doesnt right ? lol . well i am not that emotional-i dont see that as a virtue-especially for a man lol. i consider myself friendly, funny, used to be outgoing but after the internet era i have become like everybody else in the world a homebody-always on nairaland if i am not out and about doing my hustling and daily chores

sukkot:
yeah i am very relaxed and calm. lmao. crazy how that comes across the internet. how the heck does that come across tho ? is it in what i say ?

generationz:
https://www.google.com.ng/url?q=https://www.16personalities.com/enfp-strengths-and-weaknesses&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwiB0ue_977XAhWHMhoKHcFSDLgQFjAHegQIFhAA&usg=AOvVaw0Up3tgp-4eUtumBvKLmrow

ibkayee:
Lol yeah, what you say, but more the way you say it, you come across as someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and likes his peace. Even when you engage in arguments you’ll turn it into a joke and somehow manage to keep your cool, your types make great trolls

sukkot:
lolzz yeah guilty as charged. but then again you already knew

sukkot:
ohhhh ok because when i checked the meaning of sanguine and phlegmatic it said otherwise. apparently a phlegmatic person is >>>>

phlegmatic
flɛɡˈmatɪk/Submit
adjective
(of a person) having an unemotional and stolidly calm disposition.
"the phlegmatic British character"

and you are very correct, i stay out of trouble, i dont like drama trouble or wahala of any kind. i like peace. who doesnt right ? lol . well i am not that emotional-i dont see that as a virtue-especially for a man lol. i consider myself friendly, funny, used to be outgoing but after the internet era i have become like everybody else in the world a homebody-always on nairaland if i am not out and about doing my hustling and daily chores

sukkot:
I will take it tomorrow. looks like it is going to require more of my attention than I can give it now.

sukkot:
hmm had digestive problems for YEARS. like my food wasnt getting digested properly so i had no energy. this went on for years and lead to mild depression and within that period my dad and big brother died and my big brother was in america while my dad was in nigeria and i was in england and didnt have enough energy to go to their funerals. and that is just the beginning of it lmao. after you been through what i been through you will be refined. however it is for a reason which i know what it is now. when you have a higher purpose your emotion has to be grounded and you have to be refined in the furnace of affliction. like they say, you have to go through hell to get to heaven ( metaphorically speaking )

generationz:
25 Struggles Only ENFPs Will Understand
By Heidi Priebe , September 17th 2014
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ENFPs are passion-driven ‘ideas’ people. They gain energy from interacting with the world around them, and become quickly excited over new possibilities. Though ENFPs loves being around people, they crave alone time much more than the average extrovert. ENFPs search for a deeper meaning in just about everything, and use their much-coveted alone time to decide how their experiences fit in with their system of core values. To be frank, it’s an exhausting personality to have. Here are a few struggles most ENFPs face.
1. Getting your energy from social interaction, but disliking superficial conversations. Yes, I want to go to a party tonight. But a party full of contemplative people who want to alternate between taking shots and discussing the meaning of life.
2. Being very socially conscious but also fiercely individualistic. This means always wanting to fit in with a group, but never wanting to compromise your personality to do so.
3. The constant tug-of-war between ‘YES, I WANT TO GO EXPERIENCE EVERYTHING RIGHT NOW’ and ‘Wow, I need a lot of time to process these experiences, can I take a breather?’
4. Having a thousand great ideas that you never follow through on.
5. Regularly forgetting that your physical needs exist.

6. Getting into the perfect job/relationship/groove and hearing that nagging voice in the back of your mind going “But maybe there’s something even BETTER out there…”
7. Constantly contradicting yourself because you genuinely see multiple sides to most situations.
8. Everyone thinking you’re flirting with them, all of the time.
9. Being a HUGE, UNSTOPPABLE FORCE of creativity and productivity… an hour before the deadline.
10. Getting bored 500 times faster than the average human being.
11. Constantly biting off more than you can chew… and then chewing it out of stubbornness.
12. Stressing out friends and acquaintances who don’t like straying from the original plan.
13. Working towards a constantly altering notion of your “ideal self.”
14. When you have to complete a task that you simply cannot find a way to make fun.
15. Begrudgingly identifying Peter Pan as your spirit animal.
16. People underestimating your intelligence because you lead with the fun, upbeat parts of your personality.
17. Needing significantly more alone time than other extraverts.
18. Others being surprised that you hold such strong opinions and beliefs, despite your easy-going nature.
19. Trying to explain to the people closest to you that yes you love pretty much everyone, but you love them the MOST.
20. People thinking you’re looking for advice when you simply need to process things out loud.
21. Staying in bad relationships because you focus on how things COULD be rather than how they are.
22. Wanting to be alone… but like, with other people nearby.
23. Appearing shallow because of your tendency to flit from topic to topic in conversation, with lightening speed.
24. Having a fiercely independent streak… but getting bored without company.
25. Being a walking contradiction in almost every way, but knowing that you wouldn’t change a thing, even if you could.

ibkayee:
Lol yes I do, I find you hilarious

generationz:
Lol no p

sukkot:
wow i identify with almost everything on the list especially number 17. i need my alone time. i identify with number 2 strongly too although i dont try to fit into any groups, 9, 18, 22,. so i identify with those 5 strongly. the others ? hmm give or take

Blackfyre:
A 'mild' depression for digestive problems for 'Years'?

Anyway, in the midst of all that how would you describe your state of mind?

I get what you mean though, at the end you tend to lose empathy/emotions, you just accept the fact that some people are destined to be damned and nothing you do or say can save them.

But empathy helped me connect to peoples pain and learn from them hence I don't have to go through such to learn lessons. And I love sad tales...

So you see, it's how you apply it.

@refined in the furnace of affliction, so true. Someone often told me that.

generationz:
Alright goodnight

sukkot:
well you know when you have digestive problems you get nutrient deficiencies and that causes mild depression. but like i said, everything happened for a reason. I had to be stopped dead in my tracks. i was brought back into this reincarnation for a reason. we are all here for a purpose. my purpose i believe is divine but i was like jonah, running away from my purpose. i was very outgoing, into designer clothes in uni, getting money and cars and not nourishing my spiritual side so the LORD had to get my attention by slowing me down and putting that affliction on me. then when he slowed me down he brought me into the wisdom knowledge and understanding that i would need for my divine path. without that affliction i would still be a party guy till today but now i am a different person. so like i said, it was for a reason and i have had several people walk up to me and say you are destined for greatness. several strangers have walked up to my mum and said that your son is going to be a great man in the earth. so these messages were passed on to me by all these people. i get strange women look at me on the bus and their eyes get lightened. children see me and they are transfixed and have this amazement in their eyes. when i go under some light bulbs they start flickering. lmao. so i think i pretty much am here for some kind of divine mission and i had to be slowed down so i could walk into the wisdom knowledge and understanding needed to fulfil the role. point being i understand why i was afflicted for so long

Blackfyre:
Hmmmm...okay.

You are from Ikorodu ba? I will watch out for you and the permutations is already going on in my head.

Everybody is headed for a divine mission these days, yours was quite costly at such prices though.

sukkot:
you gotta go through hell to get to heaven bro. nothing good comes without trials. you MUST be tried. it is a rights of passage

Blackfyre:
I rather take the trials under the tutelage of the Most High than leave my chances to the whims and caprices of life.

Hence my signature.

sukkot:
who do you think my trials was under ? lmao. the MOST HIGH. ask about me in the religion section. i had the username obadiah777. people still remember that username today from how i could pull out any scriptures from the bible to match any situation in the world or any situation you bring up

Blackfyre:
I know for a fact God will not take two souls to teach someone a lesson or bring him to a path.

But I think we are allowed to have our own interpretation of God as we see fit.

What will you say if someone had told you, he met God in person speaking through a being by the power of the Holy spirit?

sukkot:
well then you dont know how the spiritual world works. didnt GOD kill all the first born sons of egypt to get the attention of pharoah ?

Blackfyre:
Old testament bro, old things have passed away all things have become new. By the blood of Christ all sins are forgiven and everyone is called to the kingdom of God.

God will not give his only begotten son to die for our sins and then take two souls to teach a lesson or for an agenda. It's an aberration of the mercy and might of God.

sukkot:
this is Jesus. red letter bible speech.

hebrews 10 vs 7 Then said I, Lo, I come (in the volume of the book it is written of me,) to do thy will, O God. <<< I COME IN THE VOLUME OF THE BOOK. AKA THE WHOLE BOOK NOT JUST NEW TESTAMENT

Blackfyre:
He was speaking of his prophecy by the old testament I think Isaiah. Was the new testament written when Jesus made that statement? Remember also the

The prophecy said he will come as the prince of peace to do the will of God. Btw, how many people did Jesus condemn to death? He preached the other thing, turning the other cheek. A man who cast the parable of the prodigal son will now turn around to take two souls to justify his wish upon someone? I don't think so.

sukkot:
ok lets get one thing clear, i am speaking to you like someone who is on kindergarten level with biblical knowledge. because the bible is an esoteric book. there are many christs and not just one. the name Jesus Christ is a title for a group of ascended beings. there are many of them not just one

1 corinthians 15 vs 23 Christ the firstfruits << THE FIRSTFRUITS ARE CHRIST. PLURAL NOT SINGULAR


Secondly, I never told you the lives of my brother and dad was taken because of me. I said during the period when i was sick they passed on and i couldnt attend their funeral. i dont know where you deduced that i said they passed because of me. so stop twisting scenarios to suit your agenda

Blackfyre:
Apologies!

Let's forget the discourse.

generationz:
Alright goodnight

sukkot:
well ? whoop there it is

Personality type: “The Defender” (ISFJ-A)
Individual traits: Introverted – 86%, Observant – 86%, Feeling – 58%, Judging – 92%, Assertive – 82%
Role: Sentinel
Strategy: Confident Individualism