Livez..., you are not alone but I think eating much makes my tummy bigger

queenhecate:
2017 oya hurry up and go. it has not been so good to me though I got my daughter.

now it has dealth me another terrible blow. my dad went away yesterday on boxing day. what a black Christmas for me.

Wow
This is a shocker.
May God grant you the fortitude to bear this loss. It is well.
How's the princess? Is she accepting it?

babylove01 and jazzyjazz thank you so much.
tears became food and drink for me this year. 2018 please be kind to me.

zaynie:



Wow This is a shocker. May God grant you the fortitude to bear this loss. It is well. How's the princess? Is she accepting it?

thank you ma and yes she likes it.

beyedew:

You just want some mamas to just die!
Wicked .

I’m telling you. Some of us use breastfeeding as our consolation, now this?
I scrolled down immediately I saw her post before I start getting depressed.

Taymi:
Mamas ooooooooooooo. I greet una. Please what's all this nah. My baby's skin is very fresh. This just came up "sobs" what can I do?

It could be an allergic reaction or teething.
Yes teething. I remember Moyo bringing plenty boils with each tooth that sprout .

queenhecate:
2017 oya hurry up and go. it has not been so good to me though I got my daughter.

now it has dealth me another terrible blow. my dad went away yesterday on boxing day. what a black Christmas for me.

I sympathize with your family. It is well

queenhecate:
2017 oya hurry up and go. it has not been so good to me though I got my daughter.

now it has dealth me another terrible blow. my dad went away yesterday on boxing day. what a black Christmas for me.

May the Almighty give u the fortitude to bear this great lost take heart sister.

enque:
Pardon me mamas, I'm about to derail the thread small

OK let me finally address this our weightloss issue

Naomi14 drag ur tiny legs here _{dunno y I just love teasing U}

I guess a lot of us know about how I started my weightloss journey sometime in October this year, after I realised I had gained about 14kg (accumulated pregnancy and post-partum weight).
It was an 8 week program which ended on Saturday and I actually paid 7k for the duration of the program.
I successfully lost about 12.4kg (starting weight was 84kg and present weight is 71.6kg) with portion control and workouts, and my big belle has significantly reduced from 37 inches to about 32 inches (still a work in progress). My target weight was 70kg but I had to slow down in the last 2 weeks cos physically, I was OK with d way I looked [s]and my DH was worried about my nyash reduction [/s] (no b say I kuku carry Ikebe super b4 )
It wasn't easy cos I had to give up a lot food-wise and as a former foodie, I had to discipline myself a lot. The workouts were tough cos I'm a bit lazy but eventually, I got around to loving them when I started seeing results.

Biko, I'm not saying I'm a pro or an expert in weightloss issues, but with the little I've learnt, I'm willing to share with any mama who wants to shed some weight... If u wanna join the fitness guys I worked with, I'll share their details wt u do U can join any of their new classes.
But if u wanna try on ur own, I'm willing to help FOR FREE but it'll be on whatsapp so that we don't derail NL thread and get banned. I'll share food tips, workouts routines etc and we'll just encourage each other Shikena.

U can just mention me, and I'll take it up from there.

.
I'm interested please add me Biko...

queenhecate:
2017 oya hurry up and go. it has not been so good to me though I got my daughter.

now it has dealth me another terrible blow. my dad went away yesterday on boxing day. what a black Christmas for me.

I'm sooo sorry dear, take heart. It is well with you.

Graciouscharis:


I’m telling you. Some of us use breastfeeding as our consolation, now this?
I scrolled down immediately I saw her post before I start getting depressed.

You are funny .

Giddyperson:
I'm closer to Enugu than Anambra

Depends on part of Enugu u are, if you are close to nsukka go to ogige market u ll get flour unadulterated . If you know orie orba well. U are good to go. But if you can't get buy the seeds let me teach you how to process it.

zaynie:



It could be an allergic reaction or teething.
Yes teething. I remember Moyo bringing plenty boils with each tooth that sprout .

Mumsy's thought is teething. Nothing new that he's reacting to. So make I just dey look?

Taymi:


Mumsy's thought is teething. Nothing new that he's reacting to. So make I just dey look?

See a Paed.
When the boils were just too much I had to see a Paed too. I counted 14 big boils o.
But keep the area clean and dry always .

queenhecate:
2017 oya hurry up and go. it has not been so good to me though I got my daughter.

now it has dealth me another terrible blow. my dad went away yesterday on boxing day. what a black Christmas for me.

So sorry dear. May the Lord comfort u and your family. know this, that earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. E-hug sis. E-hug!

FOR FREE[/b] but it'll be on whatsapp so that we don't derail NL thread and get banned. I'll share food tips, workouts routines etc and we'll just encourage each other Shikena.

U can just mention me, and I'll take it up from there.
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Pls i am interested, dont know how to PM would hv sent my nos

FOR FREE[/b] but it'll be on whatsapp so that we don't derail NL thread and get banned. I'll share food tips, workouts routines etc and we'll just encourage each other Shikena.

U can just mention me, and I'll take it up from there.
[/quote]
Pls i am interested, dont know how to PM would hv sent my nos
enque

enque:


I eat rice once a week and swallow once a week...
Controlled portions

Please ma add me, am afraid 😨 😨 😨 😨 of climbing weighing scale.

Awwww

Graciouscharis:


I’m telling you. Some of us use breastfeeding as our consolation, now this?
I scrolled down immediately I saw her post before I start getting depressed.

[quote author=obinrinrere post=63656608]@Vicvicky.
That looks like an allergy. Had similar thing when I gave my babies oranges.it was as a result of baby cream ND oil I applied on him when he was a month.

please mamas I don't know who to talk to that is why I'm bringing it to the house to advise me on what to do..

I visited a friend and I was impressed on how she teaches her househelp sex education, the girl has a note book on sex education so i decided I was going to start it too in my house, so I went home and called my son and the girl leaving with me to a round table discussion.. I bought a note book for my girl so I proceeded to explain to my son why he shld nt let any body touch his pee pee and so on, then I faced my girl and was trying to explain intimacy to her but she wasn't understanding me and I kept quiet thinking of another way to put it, only for her to say " mummy is intimacy that thing that you and my dee (my uncle in igbo) used to do..Jesus I died and rose again, I just jejely told her to pack her book and go because I was dead with embarrassment.
since then I have been wondering how this girl knows what we do, let me explain in brief how we live.

when she came to leave with me I gave her 1 room to herself but people adviced it wasn't advisable since my husband is not always with us, so I asked her to move into my room so when my husband comes home he stays in a separate room and that is where we do the do.. most times we even do it when they have gone to school and in the middle of the night because my son is very very clingy... so biko how did this girl know what I do with my husband.. she is just 11 yrs old

how do i handle this issue mamas.. I'm very embarrassed to ask her any question

Okokobioko . I'm not laughing I swear, it's just funny. She must have seen you and hubby when you did not think she would. Just have an open honest convo with her. Tell her the "do" is only for married people like you and Dee. It's not for any other person. Just explain in simplified terms what you want her to know...and abeg you and Dee should be very conscious of yourselves when next you are about to enter hear..

katchycouture:
please mamas I don't know who to talk to that is why I'm bringing it to the house to advise me on what to do..

I visited a friend and I was impressed on how she teaches her househelp sex education, the girl has a note book on sex education so i decided I was going to start it too in my house, so I went home and called my son and the girl leaving with me to a round table discussion.. I bought a note book for my girl so I proceeded to explain to my son why he shld nt let any body touch his pee pee and so on, then I faced my girl and was trying to explain intimacy to her but she wasn't understanding me and I kept quiet thinking of another way to put it, only for her to say " mummy is intimacy that thing that you and my dee (my uncle in igbo) used to do..Jesus I died and rose again, I just jejely told her to pack her book and go because I was dead with embarrassment.
since then I have been wondering how this girl knows what we do, let me explain in brief how we live.

when she came to leave with me I gave her 1 room to herself but people adviced it wasn't advisable since my husband is not always with us, so I asked her to move into my room so when my husband comes home he stays in a separate room and that is where we do the do.. most times we even do it when they have gone to school and in the middle of the night because my son is very very clingy... so biko how did this girl know what I do with my husband.. she is just 11 yrs old

how do i handle this issue mamas.. I'm very embarrassed to ask her any question

spiceeamiee:
Okokobioko . I'm not laughing I swear, it's just funny. She must have seen you and hubby when you did not think she would. Just have an open honest convo with her. Tell her the "do" is only for married people like you and Dee. It's not for any other person. Just explain in simplified terms what you want her to know...and abeg you and Dee should be very conscious of yourselves when next you are about to enter hear..

It is ur laugh that is now making me to smile... I have been dazed since today.. i will follow ur advice and I pray she understands... thanks ma

katchycouture:
please mamas I don't know who to talk to that is why I'm bringing it to the house to advise me on what to do..

I visited a friend and I was impressed on how she teaches her househelp sex education, the girl has a note book on sex education so i decided I was going to start it too in my house, so I went home and called my son and the girl leaving with me to a round table discussion.. I bought a note book for my girl so I proceeded to explain to my son why he shld nt let any body touch his pee pee and so on, then I faced my girl and was trying to explain intimacy to her but she wasn't understanding me and I kept quiet thinking of another way to put it, only for her to say " mummy is intimacy that thing that you and my dee (my uncle in igbo) used to do..Jesus I died and rose again, I just jejely told her to pack her book and go because I was dead with embarrassment.
since then I have been wondering how this girl knows what we do, let me explain in brief how we live.

when she came to leave with me I gave her 1 room to herself but people adviced it wasn't advisable since my husband is not always with us, so I asked her to move into my room so when my husband comes home he stays in a separate room and that is where we do the do.. most times we even do it when they have gone to school and in the middle of the night because my son is very very clingy... so biko how did this girl know what I do with my husband.. she is just 11 yrs old

how do i handle this issue mamas.. I'm very embarrassed to ask her any question

This z very dicey,you don't need to be embarrassed because,she z more or less your daughter.if I were you this z what I would do.

I would still go ahead and teach her vital things about sex education and will calmly tell her that she isn't permitted to do it,intact use the old wives method of "" if you allow any man touch you,you go get belle method.

NNE ndo o.other mamas go chuk mouth put for d marra

[quote author=Giddyperson post=63642124]Zaynie would come and answer you. My baby sweats a lot so I've decided not to use any products on her hair cuz it makes her scratch her hair a lot. What I need is a good shampoo and conditioner which I'm yet to buy since then I've even forgotten the replies I got when I asked the question, I'm waiting to read your replies.[/quote
OK. Thanks. She must really have a full hair.

spiceeamiee:
Okokobioko . I'm not laughing I swear, it's just funny. She must have seen you and hubby when you did not think she would. Just have an open honest convo with her. Tell her the "do" is only for married people like you and Dee. It's not for any other person. Just explain in simplified terms what you want her to know...and abeg you and Dee should be very conscious of yourselves when next you are about to enter hear..

dunno why most children no de gree sleep in the nyt.na to de find wetin no find them.

ahnie:


This z very dicey,you don't need to be embarrassed because,she z more or less your daughter.if I were you this z what I would do.

I would still go ahead and teach her vital things about sex education and will calmly tell her that she isn't permitted to do it,intact use the old wives method of "" if you allow any man touch you,you go get belle method.

NNE ndo o.other mamas go chuk mouth put for d marra

Thank u ma, I didn't know a thing about sex education before I decided to do copy copy. ..maybe if I was well prepared I wouldn't have been this shocked..

Katchy, she might not mean what your thinking.
It might even be a kiss or snuggle she's talking about.
Let her explain what she knows.
It might even be all these rough play you sometimes engage in and not intimacy.




The day I saw my son twerking on the bed I almost had heart attack cos I thought he was imitating the act and then he stood and continued his twerking and another bout of heart attack came. Only to find out he watched a music video and was replaying it. Video channel that I passed by and stopped for one minute to see these "bad bad shildrens".
Children are very good at mimicry

sorry I just had to laugh

My friend taught her 2years old daughter to scream whenever someone touches her ITE(I think that's the Igbo name for the jajiana)
You can try that method

katchycouture:
please mamas I don't know who to talk to that is why I'm bringing it to the house to advise me on what to do..

I visited a friend and I was impressed on how she teaches her househelp sex education, the girl has a note book on sex education so i decided I was going to start it too in my house, so I went home and called my son and the girl leaving with me to a round table discussion.. I bought a note book for my girl so I proceeded to explain to my son why he shld nt let any body touch his pee pee and so on, then I faced my girl and was trying to explain intimacy to her but she wasn't understanding me and I kept quiet thinking of another way to put it, only for her to say " mummy is intimacy that thing that you and my dee (my uncle in igbo) used to do..Jesus I died and rose again, I just jejely told her to pack her book and go because I was dead with embarrassment.
since then I have been wondering how this girl knows what we do, let me explain in brief how we live.

when she came to leave with me I gave her 1 room to herself but people adviced it wasn't advisable since my husband is not always with us, so I asked her to move into my room so when my husband comes home he stays in a separate room and that is where we do the do.. most times we even do it when they have gone to school and in the middle of the night because my son is very very clingy... so biko how did this girl know what I do with my husband.. she is just 11 yrs old

how do i handle this issue mamas.. I'm very embarrassed to ask her any question

katchycouture:


Thank u ma, I didn't know a thing about sex education before I decided to do copy copy. ..maybe if I was well prepared I wouldn't have been this shocked..

Same way I have automatically decided to stop bathing with my 2plus daughter,few days ago,she looked at my private part,grabbed it and asked""mama you private part z very Big.she touches hers and said her was smaller.I told her that,mine was bigger because she came from there,zino told me that mummy I wantu enter inside your private part and sleep inside.

so one needs to be weary of kids these days

spiceeamiee:
Okokobioko . I'm not laughing I swear, it's just funny

Just shoot me, lmao!!!!!!

graciouscharis, atumomo, beyedew, arihodi. thank you mamas. see me na, I don't have a father anymore, he is gone and I wasn't able to say goodbye cos I didn't travel this Xmas.

so many had I knowns. :-( :-(