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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 12:59pm On Mar 10, 2018
Blackfyre:
I don't trust these tests tho, took another now and it came out architect, despite I filling in not being emotionally stable (currently anyways) undecided

Very confusing, i will take it again and see.
I think some of them are fairly relaible, like the myers-briggs type indicator. But of course, it can't be 100% accurate, as its only an indicator and not a firm declaration of your personality. One of the problems these tests face is the inconsistency of self reporting, which usually varies with mood, emotional stabilty (tongue) and one's state of mind generally.

To get a true picture of your personality, you have to step out of yourself and objectively examine your personality. Many personality test skeptics are people who are conflicted about who they REALLY are and who they THINK they are and so cannot give accurate information about themselves.

You in the medical field, i won't be surprised if its true you that introverted. You people tend to read alot or at least required to do so.
Reading alot doesn't necessarily mean you have to be introverted, plus I don't even read like thaaat. I have classmates who read way more than I do and they're very crazy cheesy
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 1:55pm On Mar 10, 2018
OliviaPope:
I think some of them are fairly relaible, like the myers-briggs type indicator. But of course, it can't be 100% accurate, as its only an indicator and not a firm declaration of your personality. One of the problems these tests face is the inconsistency of self reporting, which usually varies with mood, emotional stabilty (tongue) and one's state of mind generally.

To get a true picture of your personality, you have to step out of yourself and objectively examine your personality. Many personality test skeptics are people who are conflicted about who they REALLY are and who they THINK they are and so cannot give accurate information about themselves.
Think i will try the Briggs, i was brutally honest on both tests but i think my mood(think i was on a save the world mood) influenced the test that gave an advocate result. I took it again and it came out architect. I thought lack of firm control of ones emotions sometimes should make one fall within feelings spectrum than thinking spectrum. Perhaps i thought wrongly.

Reading alot doesn't necessarily mean you have to be introverted, plus I don't even read like thaaat. I have classmates who read way more than I do and they're very crazy cheesy
yeah i know so, that's why i said 'if'. you know your field requires someone reading alot which means staying indoors for long hours or at least overtime conditioned to be so especially for the Nigerian unis. But i fully get what you mean.

Random question, have you got the stage of experimenting on cadavers?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 2:45pm On Mar 10, 2018
Blackfyre:
Think i will try the Briggs, i was brutally honest on both tests but i think my mood(think i was on a save the world mood) influenced the test that gave an advocate result. I took it again and it came out architect. I thought lack of firm control of ones emotions sometimes should make one fall within feelings spectrum than thinking spectrum. Perhaps i thought wrongly.
"Feeling" seems appropriate but what do I know, I'm not a psychologist ..


yeah i know so, that's why i said 'if'. you know your field requires someone reading alot which means staying indoors for long hours or at least overtime conditioned to be so especially for the Nigerian unis. But i fully get what you mean.

Random question, have you got the stage of experimenting on cadavers?
Dissecting cadavers is 2nd/3rd year stuff. I'm in my 4th year.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 2:56pm On Mar 10, 2018
OliviaPope:
Dissecting cadavers is 2nd/3rd year stuff. I'm in my 4th year.
You have dissected a human! shocked I heard most peeps get chopped off at that stage. Random question, is there some sort of change to the way you view humans now as compared to before?

Because doctors have this sort of calm introspecting way they look at a human being, i wonder if it is years of working on people's bodies that has made them sort of 'jaded' or unfazed irrespective of the condition of the body or ailment.

I ask this because i wonder if it's the experience so far or its something you are groomed/taught also?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 10, 2018
Blackfyre:
You have dissected a human! shocked I heard most peeps get chopped off at that stage
Yeah, the first day I actually cut, I felt like I could cure cancer grin.. And yes, to your second question. The formidable MBBS part II! Funny thing is, it's not even the most difficult exam in medical school.

Random question, is there some sort of change to the way you view humans now as compared to before?

Because doctors have this sort of calm introspecting way they look at a human being, i wonder if it is years of working on people's bodies that has made them sort of 'jaded' or unfazed irrespective of the condition of the body or ailment.

I ask this because i wonder if it's the experience so far or its something you are groomed/taught also?
I think its experience, the way an intern would react to an emergency is quite different from the way a resident would. They often realise, over time, that panic only worsens the situation and of course you get used to stuff if you see it often enough.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 9:40pm On Mar 10, 2018
OliviaPope:
Yeah, the first day I actually cut, I felt like I could cure cancer grin.. And yes, to your second question. The formidable MBBS part II! Funny thing is, it's not even the most difficult exam in medical school.

I think its experience, the way an intern would react to an emergency is quite different from the way a resident would. They often realise, over time, that panic only worsens the situation and of course you get used to stuff if you see it often enough.
Who knows, you may actually get to cure cancer, the world will be more than grateful to you for that cheesy Hmmm...efiko! tongue


Thought as much.

Took the Briggs test, came out INFJ, think it's questions are more precise than the other test. The other test seem to judge more on how intellectual someone answers a question as opposed to the answers itself.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 3:59pm On Mar 12, 2018
Blackfyre:
Who knows, you may actually get to cure cancer, the world will be more than grateful to you for that cheesy Hmmm...efiko! tongue


Thought as much.

Took the Briggs test, came out INFJ, think it's questions are more precise than the other test. The other test seem to judge more on how intellectual someone answers a question as opposed to the answers itself.
Yeah very precise. Couldn't agree more.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 6:14pm On Mar 12, 2018
quote author=Lawlahdey post=65776888]Ohh, okay ma'am. kiss[/quote]Wanted to ask you this question. You that you call yourself god not demon, can you cure the infertile? Can you give child to the barren? Can you tell the sex of a child before its conceived? Can you find a loving partner for someone?
God does all these without collecting any sacrifices just worship alone
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 7:31pm On Mar 12, 2018
Oyindidi:
Derailergrin be civil
I would have been civil if that biased thing wasn't pandering to some very foul thing! I and someone else were having a discussion reprimand both of us or caution both of us you decided to ban me and leave the other when it was someone I was having a chat with and you who asked me a question. Anyways sha, may I not see the end of the week if that judgement of yours wasn't biased except I wasn't born with blood to this earth. She come hide the post, if she is so sure of herself she should have left the post opened and allow the God Almighty answer her before the week runs out.

Anyways, it will all come to an end by the end of this week. That is what I am waiting for. The demons amongst them are trying so hard to discredit it. From prophets are using psychology to one claiming out rightly it's a demon and yet says she is a fish.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Oyindidi(f): 7:41pm On Mar 12, 2018
Dirus:
I would have been civil if that biased thing wasn't pandering to some very foul thing! I and someone else were having a discussion reprimand both of us or caution both of us you decided to ban me and leave the other when it was someone I was having a chat with and you who asked me a question. Anyways sha, may I not see the end of the week if that judgement of yours wasn't biased except I wasn't born with blood to this earth. She come hide the post, if she is so sure of herself she should have left the post opened and allow the God Almighty answer her before the week runs out.

Anyways, it will all come to an end by the end of this week. That is what I am waiting for. The demons amongst them are trying so hard to discredit it. From prophets are using psychology to one claiming out rightly it's a demon and yet says she is a fish.
I'll be back, I'm kinda busy now
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 10:41pm On Mar 12, 2018
Heartsbane:
I noticed you quoted me, evidently it was hidden because otherwise was the case.

Posting it here so they don't ban me.
I quoted you saying poco was being sarcastic/joking when she said she was a demon
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 10:46pm On Mar 12, 2018
Heartsbane:
She told you so or you assumed so?

Plus you speak as though you know much about her life than herself.
I think it was very obvious to everyone except you tbh lol

Did you really not catch the sarcasm? Lol wow
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 11:08pm On Mar 12, 2018
Heartsbane:
Sarcasm ko moccasin ni undecided

You guys better learn to tell yourselves truth rather than whistling at random dudes dick. First she changed her dp and made some downcast post and then logs out. You then talking of sarcasm.

You kno nothing about her life nor do have any spiritual experience yet you making assertions without any basis but something being obvious. Continue...
Lmao she was being sarcastic, it's cool though, I've noticed you don't grasp things most people do sometimes and can takes things very literally so it's not your fault I guess

What's dick got to do with anything? lol random

How do you know I don't know anything about her life? I actually know her offline so who is the one now making baseless assertions? cheesy
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 11:31pm On Mar 12, 2018
Heartsbane:
She wasn't being sarcastic if you know her that well offline you will know she wasn't being sarcastic but she is your friend keep defending her. I don't know her offline haven't spoken to her before yet she could never give me a definite answer on that matter for months!

I don't take things literally, i see what others fail to see. Just I have seen yours too as far as i have known so far, no one has proved my assertions wrong. Everything i have said is being proven gradually to people i haven't even seen face to face sef. Like i said, time will tell....

I brought that in based on how you lots failed to tell yourselves the truth, if you do tell yourselves the truth, you won't be whistling at dicks, it will leave you lots too sober than such superficial filthy talks. But time will tell, God is very much around the corner.
She was being sarcastic/joking, sheesh lol. Give a definite answer to who and about what? Some random guy chasing her on an online forum asking if she's a 'demon', do you read what you write/listen to what you say this guy? huh undecided

Lmao

Whilsting at dicks how? undecided And if you want to go there haven't I seen you talk about breasts before? Posting girls' names on that ashewo thread for that guy 'Jack' to look at? And there's another thing you told me which I won't mention here lol sweet Lord I've never come across anyone as hyprocrital as you, It's hilarious grin
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 11:53pm On Mar 12, 2018
Heartsbane:
Random guy that she offered to treat right or was it suck his electricity? Or one time refereed to as her personal person? Madam, poco and i were mutual friends, if she didn't see mein that light she wouldn't have wanted to have something with me offline.


I have also spoken about gay and insinuated being gay too with that same guy, you do see why i needed to bring that in and further more it was to make him settle in with me so i can find out some info which he alleged to have had but didn't. There is a reason for every of my move. What did i tell you that isn't on that diary, are you referring to porn? Come on i have posted porn videos on that thread and my motive for doing so. It may sound strange to.you but there are a myriad reasons i watched it. That aside, that was in the past,we are talking of you not being sober enough as to tell yourselves the truth than to come on here defending what isn't defensible but sensible enough to whistle at dicks. You can possibly fail to grab the logic in thishuh


I see you laughed out about that, wouldn't want to get into that for sure. I am certainly not hypocritical. You will have to post strong facts to back that up.
Lol conversations with you and the word logic are lines that rarely meet to be honest. I'm even at fault for interjecting myself into the situation, it was none of my business so I can't even complain, my bad for interjecting. Lol I laughed about that because as usual I don't know what you're talking about. Never mind again, my bad
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 9:37am On Mar 13, 2018
ibkayee:
Lol conversations with you and the word logic are lines that rarely meet to be honest. I'm even at fault for interjecting myself into the situation, it was none of my business so I can't even complain, my bad for interjecting. Lol I laughed about that because as usual I don't know what you're talking about. Never mind again, my bad
We both know that's not true else we wouldn't be here. cheesy

Yeah, i see you know her well offline...cheesy

Usual? I will address it another time, obviously you dodging it.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 9:43am On Mar 13, 2018
Aguia:
We both know that's not true else we wouldn't be here. cheesy

Yeah, i see you know her well offline...cheesy

Usual? I will address it another time, obviously you dodging it.
Lol guy I'm being honest, you can be very longwinded, random and go off tangents, na your way, that's why some people on here avoid long convos with you, it can be draining lol
Lol I can never dodge, I genuinely don't know lol and this won't be the first time you talk about some random thing I have no clue about. Anyway, again my bad, shouldn't have interjected.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 9:59am On Mar 13, 2018
ibkayee:
Lol guy I'm being honest, you can be very longwinded, random and go off tangents, na your way, that's why people on here avoid long convos with you, it can be draining lol
Lol I can never dodge, I genuinely don't know lol and this won't be the first time you talk about some random thing I have no clue about. Anyway, again my bad, shouldn't have interjected.
People on here, how do you know so? Did they tell you so or you assume so? Irrespective, i drag whatever issues for reasons best known to me. One day they will prove very useful to me, today they don't make sense one day they will surely do.


Yeah right. I have told you before offline to go chec yourself when you spoke of dudes being unnecessarily clingy to you. First it was the dude who called you 50 times even though he met you just once, then a number of dudes who you said were needy, them there are those who make jabs on washing your panties( this is you a slight jab on your person gets you defensive) i am.confused as to why you will want someone to tolerate something you yourself won't(yes i knw its a joke but can you subject yourself to such joke?). I guess not but there you watch others do something you will never subject yourself to and relish the attention you get from such things.Then there is a dude who says you are his sun and you light up his life, answer me this, is that normal to you? Where does he put his mother, is that one the moon? Where does he put his God if you are the one that light up his life? Why do all the dudes you meet get clingy and are overly obsessed with you?

Do you think it's normal or there isn't something more to it? You can't deny its a reoccurring pattern.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 10:13am On Mar 13, 2018
Aguia:
People on here, how do you know so? Did they tell you so or you assume so? Irrespective, i drag whatever issues for reasons best known to me. One day they will prove very useful to me, today they don't make sense one day they will surely do.


Yeah right. I have told you before offline to go chec yourself when you spoke of dudes being unnecessarily clingy to you. First it was the dude who called you 50 times even though he met you just once, then a number of dudes who you said were needy, them there are those who make jabs on washing your panties( this is you a slight jab on your person gets you defensive) i am.confused as to why you will want someone to tolerate something you yourself won't(yes i knw its a joke but can you subject yourself to such joke?). I guess not but there you watch others do something you will never subject yourself to and relish the attention you get from such things.Then there is a dude who says you are his sun and you light up his life, answer me this, is that normal to you? Where does he put his mother, is that one the moon? Where does he put his God if you are the one that light up his life? Why do all the dudes you meet get clingy and are overly obsessed with you?

Do you think it's normal or there isn't something more to it? You can't deny its a reoccurring pattern.
They don't need to tell me when I can see it for myself

Lol can't even be bothered to address this, more taking things literally, looking too deep into things etc etc. Do you have friends in real life and how often do you socialise? Do you think you may have autism spectrum disorder? Is english your first language? Also, do you think you're one of the 'dudes' that have at one point been obsessed with me? If so, do you think it's normal? cheesy
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 10:20am On Mar 13, 2018
Nice movie...
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 10:29am On Mar 13, 2018
ibkayee:
They don't need to tell me when I can see it for myself

Lol can't even be bothered to address this, more taking things literally, looking too deep into things etc etc. Do you have friends in real life and how often do you socialise? Do you think you may have autism spectrum disorder? Is english your first language? Also, do you think you're one of the 'dudes' that have at one point been obsessed with me? If so, do you think it's normal? cheesy
But at the same time called me a chronic assumer for something i too saw for myself. You are also making conclusions from things not based on facts but just your own perception.

Oh no, you didn't expect it. It knocked you off pretty bad. It's the truth tho and one day you will find i was right the whole time.

No my obsession with you wasnt normal, i knew that but i had other permutations but each one has been struck out and i then find, it wasn't an issue with me especially the sort of dreams i had with you during the time we chatted. It was serious but i kept making excuses i shouldn't have. It's not looking deep into things that has repeated the cases so far. They can't all be obsessive lovers or needy ones, especially if it's something reoccurs with you. It's for you to go check it out. At least the last babe on here got involved with can never term me an obsessive lover. I am very much informed before i made such assertion on you.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 10:42am On Mar 13, 2018
Oh by the way do you know you just sort of insulted my parents by alluding to I possibly having Autism? Or you just pulled it out without reading up on it...
undecided

Cc ibkayee
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 10:46am On Mar 13, 2018
Aguia:
But at the same time called me a chronic assumer for something i too saw for myself. You are also making conclusions from things not based on facts but just your own perception.

Oh no, you didn't expect it. It knocked you off pretty bad. It's the truth tho and one day you will find i was right the whole time.

No my obsession with you wasnt normal, i knew that but i had other permutations but each one has been struck out and i then find, it wasn't an issue with me especially the sort of dreams i had with you during the time we chatted. It was serious but i kept making excuses i shouldn't have. It's not looking deep into things that has repeated the cases so far. They can't all be obsessive lovers or needy ones, especially if it's something reoccurs with you. It's for you to go check it out. At least the last babe on here got involved with can never term me an obsessive lover. I am very much informed before i made such assertion on you.
Bruh, you're a chronic assumer, from 'studying me for 10 years', to the near meltdown about people you thought I spoke to off here, to taking everyone's words literally, they're all things that have happened and aren't just perceptions lol

Lol knocked what off? Lol you're just draining.

- 50 calls? That was a one off and is actually not unusual for a Naija guy to be honest (no offence)

- guys I said are needy? I didn't say 100 guys, neither did I say every or all guys, not sure where you got that from, I could've been talking about 2 people, funny enough I found you to be extremely needy.

Panties? (don't even know what you're talking about here lol).

Sun and lighting up his life? It's a saying, sheesh, and not to be taken literally. Do you know what a saying is? Or even a proverb? Lol guy the same way you ask people to get checked out, you yourself please go and check if you have autism spectrum disorder (I'm not even trying to be funny, it may explain why your mind functions the way it does). Ontop of that, do you socialise or have first hand experience in a proper mature relationship? If not, this may explain some things too.

Lol your one sef was just creepy
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 10:48am On Mar 13, 2018
Aguia:
Oh by the way do you know you just sort of insulted my parents by alluding to I possibly having Autism? Or you just pulled it out without reading up on it...
undecided

Cc ibkayee
Insulted your parents how? undecided

Lol so what do we call it when you go around telling people they have certain things too? Is it different when you do it as usual?

Lol this guy
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 11:10am On Mar 13, 2018
ibkayee:
Bruh, you're a chronic assumer, from 'studying me for 10 years', to the near meltdown about people you thought I spoke to off here, to taking everyone's words literally, they're all things that have happened and aren't just perceptions lol
I didn't study you for ten years, your posts over ten years. Nope i didn't have a meltdown over that, i had a meltdown over personal stuffs I was going through and i needed someone to share it with but you never cared thought it had to do with you but it was i that needed someone to speak to, so i decided to employ the tactic to get you back so we could talk because i needed someone to talk to but still ended up with nothing happening. I remember you making fun of me that i was lonely and had no one to talk to. Don't mix it up.

Lol knocked what off? Lol you're just draining.

- 50 calls? That was a one off and is actually not unusual for a Naija guy to be honest (no offence)

- guys I said are needy? I didn't say 100 guys, neither did I say every or all guys, not sure where you got that from, I could've been talking about 2 people, funny enough I found you to be extremely needy.

Panties? (don't even know what you're talking about here lol).
Which had more to do with you than me if we are to be honest about it, plus you do know i needed someone to talk to given all I was going through at the time. Though you never asked which I was hoping you do despite the cues i gave so it doesn't seem I am dropping them on you. Me being needy has very little to do with me but more with the circumstance and you. So far, you the only female that has said so to me. At least spoken with other females and i never came across that way to them.

You always tend to shift things to other people rather than look at it if it isn't from you. First you shifted I to be extremely needy, then shifted the 50calls to being a norm for naija guys, keep shifting it onto other people.

Sun and lighting up his life? It's a saying, sheesh, and not to be taken literally. Do you know what a saying is? Or even a proverb? Lol guy the same way you ask people to get checked out, you yourself please go and check if you have autism spectrum disorder (I'm not even trying to be funny, it may explain why your mind functions the way it does). Ontop of that, do you socialise or have first hand experience in a proper mature relationship? If not, this may explain some things too.

Lol your one sef was just creepy
I don't have autism, i just see things people don't see and sooner than later the truth will come out. It always does.

I know it's a saying but it still is wrong especially in the manner at which he said it. A good person who has the fear of God in her heart of his heart will never want someone to say such to herself or himself. I repeat again, if you light up his life, does that mean his life was in darkness before he met you where did he put his God? Why does it come across in a way that looks as tho he is worshipping your presence in his life? It's a sick thing for anyone to tolerate such being said to his/her person.

God is the creator of everyone, no one should say or feel like the sun in anyones life and such person must do well to correct such mentality else a terrible obssession is on the way. That can never be a healthy relationship.

When i referenced panties, i was referring to the sod guy whom they were making a jab on about him washing your panties. I found that very distasteful more so that i know you can never subject yourself to such charade even as you try to pass it off as 'joke'. I remember someone making a joke of you being stupid and you quickly called him to ask if he is okay? But there you are laughing over another dude being made fun of washing your panties and telling him not to mind them.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Cannicus:
ibkayee:
Lool no not this time, I approached him this time because he was chasing my friend and derailing one thread
How do I get with this poco sef?

Need me some choco in my life.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 11:14am On Mar 13, 2018
ibkayee:
Insulted your parents how? undecided

Lol so what do we call it when you go around telling people they have certain things too? Is it different when you do it as usual?

Lol this guy
Read up on autism and the sort of people diagnosed with it.. It has to do with them having older parents, family history of them having the condition and genetic factor.

So when i say so about people, how does that relate to their parents or genetics or running in the family? Please tell me the similarities between the two.
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