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See epistle person write untop another man girlfriend matter.

Lol.

The hate is real.

Niggas do know how to hate

The dude sabi English....but e no get sense

sekem:
What exactly is wrong with our morals in this country?

Is this what poverty has eventually reduced us to?

How come no one saw the message in what the guy is trying to pass along?

But rather, they just chose to abuse him for speaking out?

Well, what am I even trying to say?

Of course, what else do you expect from a totally wasted generation?

The guy is talking rubbish as far as I'm concerned

Women of the past (our grand ma era) suffered a lot of disrespect and shit from their men (well not all men were like that, but a lot were) beating, chasing out of the house, cheating and polygamy and the list is endless

Didn't they still stay with such men

Or because they were "married" to such men?

The society has evolved, and it has come to stay.

whether we like it or not is immaterial

laudate:
Don't mind them. What the guy was simply saying was that as a single girl, she should not have sacrificed her self-respect & dignity, on the altar of money, by staying glued to a guy who has little respect for her feelings!

Did most men of the past care about the feelings of their wives in the past

Before they took actions, did they care about how it could hurt the wife (or wives)?

But because of the "marriage" tag, you guys will not see anything wrong with it

purples25:
He said material gain is the only reason a woman will stay like that. That's not true. I'm not justifying this, but , there are women out there for centuries who suffered and died at a poor man's hands. How about the many poor women with boyfriends and husbands equally broke, that have endured all the disrespect ? What would he then call those ? Shit diggers ? So , as you can see - material gain is not the only reason bro.

Then, he keeps talking about a woman who will stay. A woman who will stay. My dear, is there really, truly, even a fairly large amount of relationships where the men, or women are not cheating for that matter ? If you'd be honest, truly there's almost no such thing as this respectful relationship you are referring to. It's 10% of the population, rich or poor. The rest just hide their issues from the world. You know what this means ? It means that rich or poor, majority of women are not saints either. The lady staying with this man doesn't make her the gold digger you call her then. All is suffering, in her own case she will be crying for a rich unfaithful man, instead of a poor unfaithful man. Even without the money, millions are still languishing in relationships. Are those ones to be called shit diggers then, lol ? Is a golden casket really not a casket at the end of the day, same as a wooden one ?

You have things to hide . Things that you would be more than ashamed of. You are not good even by miles. If God were to judge without mercy you would be gone as soon as Chioma would be , because very few of us in this world are worthy. So its sad to wonder what gives you the arrogance to give her such names and accuse her so badly. My friend, I think you may have been happier if this woman was suffering this with a poor arrogant man. Then, you may have sat and smiled and calmly adviced her to leave, or even told her to endure. You see virtue in the same condition when it is a poor man, which is biased, and doesn't make sense.

I think, in my opinion therefore , that your fire might be borne out of envy or bitterness of only God knows what in your soul. But your type loves to make impact with harsh words man, so what can I say. I have a bro who is an expert on lashing one with words too.

I'm not supporting anyone and I wouldn't be a demon even if I did. Poor men are not angels either. Being in a poor relationship does not make those women good either, neither are they inferior. Go solve the underlying issues in your life leading to such an attack on your fellow human being.

Exactly!

How many women have I seen/heard of that were driven away from their homes by their husband's for not having a male child, or other stupid excuses?

How many women endure a whole lot under abusive husbands?


And a lot of people are pained by chioma's choice.

If she chooses to overlook the excesses of the man (as women have done since time immemorial, whose business is it


Nigerians just get this PhD mentality


The comments coming from ladies are even the worst.

They are masking their jealousy with hate speech

Women sef

idiot, what is the problem with some of us, davido bought gift for his girlfriend and we writing this long epistle, for what? Is this a national concern for us to debate? There are other pressing issues to be debated upon, you wasting talent to write article on davido and chioma... If they break up now, you will be rejoicing because the the porche will become yours or what

Y'all are so worried about Chioma.

The writer is a pure kid!

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stephenmorris:
Its No Longer News that davido bought his girlfriend,chioma of 5 years a porshe car worth 45 million Naira.The news broke the internet and has continued to do so ,but a Nigerian man by name olakunle alison has this to say about the whole scenario.

Very Important: Davido's Girlfriend Chioma like A prostitute ,Nigerian Man Says
As Shared On His Facebook ;

A generation of women sold to money slave camps.

Sticking with a man to whom you are not married and who cheated on you with several women, impregnating two of them in the process (baby mamas) whilst dating you, and then became an accidental 'baby-daddy' is NOT LOVE just because he bought you a #45million car.

You are a needy, opportunistic, parasitic, gold-digging, low self-esteem sufferer. A Stockholm syndrome patient. You are not loyal. You are a liar. A prostitute and you share some moral equivalence.

The only reason any woman would endure contemptible treatments from a man is because of what she looks to gain materially and financially. Let's stop ridiculing the word 'Love' for the sake of posterity so that they'd be able to distinguish between virtue and vice.

There is simply no virtue in staying with a man who openly disrespects you over a period of years. None. And buying you the moon  and stars  will not make up for him treating you like human fecal matter. Money cannot buy moral worth. Rather money distorts moral worth. And that's what is happening these days.



Permit me to digress a bit whilst I elucidate on point of ethics.

Humans are created with a deep sense of moral worth. This simply means that every human being loves to be treated like a rare and precious stone. It's just the way our Maker made us. The desire to be loved, admired, desired, respected, treated fairly and kindly is part of our teleology. So when anybody willingly and voluntarily subjects himself or herself to vile and inhumane treatments for other considerations it basically reduces that person to an object rather than a subject. The person has objectified himself or herself.

Believe it or not, what we are witnessing today is one of the unintended fallouts of the extreme faction of feminism: The Moral Self-Depreciation of Womenfolk. After all, the cardinal philosophy of modern feminism is CHOICE and SELF AUTONOMY. So who are we to question a woman who CHOOSES to stay in an abusive but profitable relationship? If she has a right to choose who stays in her body and a right to choose her role in a marriage, why not this?

I once wrote a piece on the tyranny of freewill (choice). Generally, humans don't have the tool box necessary to make good choices. A man's choice will only be consistent with his true nature. And man is deeply flawed by nature, hence his choices must necessarily be flawed. A greedy man will always choose money above morals, yet he needs morals more. A dog by nature must bark and a cat moan.

Knowing this, it is therefore suicidal to build an ideology on human choices and self autonomy. Nobody (man or woman) should be self autonomous. In reality, nobody is. Everyone needs a governing and regulatory authority that sets boundaries; both moral and spatial boundaries. This is necessary for the survival of humanity because our natural appetite is self destructive. We need to be delivered from ourselves.

Feminism is toxic not because of its intended consequences but because of its unintended ones, and we are already seeing them play out. If consistency matters, no hardline feminist should be able to condemn any woman who chooses abuse and disrespect over self dignity. IT IS HER CHOICE!

We should not teach our daughters that CHOICE is the best power they have. Knowledge is. With knowledge they'd understand that they don't just make choices but that their choices make them.

The young lady's choice makes her a disgrace.

#truthissacred
Selah.

source-https://www.xclusivenobs.com/celebritylifestyle/nigerian-man-said-about-davidos-girlfriend-chioma/

Yoruba and bad belle letter......just coz she is chioma.....an igbo girl....

yorubas as known to be high profile prostitute who fornicate recklessly with no point of return.....


olakunle mind ur business.....ur only problem is coz d girl is not a Yoruba girl....

foolish man.....

There was some sense in the post, though...

abbey621:
Anybody sticking their nose in personal issues that does not concern him or her is a nobody. If you want to be somebody in life, learn to mind your damn business when it comes to personal relationships!

Is it a personal relationship when the people in the relationship makes everything public? If you show the whole world when you kiss,smooch,eat, bath and sleep with someone you are in a relationship with, do you still have the moral justification to ask people to mind their business?? Davido’s case is different because he needs the public to stay relevant, and staying relevant means making more money from album sales and stuffs..when you’re in the public you have to accept the good,bad and ugly that comes with it...if you want people to ‘mind their business’ then don’t make your business public on a SOCIAL media...

People no go kill demself o ,over Chi baby and Davido matter.
Leave them alone.
Some poor men still treat their women like thrash and impregnate other women too, yet their girlfriends still continue to stay with them.
No be today.

Ugosample:
Exactly!

How many women have I seen/heard of that were driven away from their homes by their husband's for not having a male child, or other stupid excuses?

How many women endure a whole lot under abusive husbands?


And a lot of people are pained by chioma's choice.

If she chooses to overlook the excesses of the man (as women have done since time immemorial, whose business is it


Nigerians just get this PhD mentality


The comments coming from ladies are even the worst.

They are masking their jealousy with hate speech

Women sef

Lol true.

Women are their worst enemies.

dreamwords:
Every lady that collects cash or any capital assets from a man who bangs her is a prostitute.. So therefore every nigerian lady is a prostitute.. Unless the ones that feeds their boyfriends or husbands


My 2cents

Mr man, see your wife to be is standing at the road side begging men to sleep with her for free
U dey hear the run mouth......
Ask your mum oo becos I guess they gave birth to u thr gh wedlock...

Balderdash. Only an articulate incompetent like the OP will antagonize free will (choice) in any guise.

Citing his parochial submission, it means that an important fruit like banana should be proscribed from human consumption since abuse of it always results to nervous breakdown.

Domineeringness can never stand as an alternative to libertarianism. Choice of course doesn't mean absence of conscientiousness.

crafteck:
Funny enough the man made sensible points, greed blinds us all

Unfortunately these generation of "Yoots" do not see it........and they are out to lynch him. Well I long gave up on the "Yoots", generation of dullards; lost generation, lost moral compass and values

I'm wondering if I read same thing with people up there. This article, to my own judgement, is not about Davido-Chioma. It is a scholastic masterpiece about Choice, human weakness and the moral corruption perversing our generation. Kudos to the writer. Ofcourse, Choice is still one of the ability in human existence, so I don't care about Davido or Chioma....

TIDDOLL:
Hmmm..
Nice write up!

Deep in every writer's mind, lies an artistic expression.
He is not bitter, i see a writer flexing his prowess!!

That is the least of what I see. I see the writer showing us that what "glitters" blinds us to slavery

sekem:
What exactly is wrong with our morals in this country?

Is this what poverty has eventually reduced us to?

How come no one saw the message in what the guy is trying to pass along?

But rather, they just chose to abuse him for speaking out?

Well, what am I even trying to say?

Of course, what else do you expect from a totally wasted generation?

Bros,

Poverty did not reduce us to this abyss. It is intellectual laziness, moral decadence and share greed. The "feedback" from these folks is simply - "given worse scenario, they are ready to play ball....even for half of what Chioma gets"

dreamwords:
Every lady that collects cash or any capital assets from a man who bangs her is a prostitute.. So therefore every nigerian lady is a prostitute.. Unless the ones that feeds their boyfriends or husbands


My 2cents

when she leaves u n go sum1 else for money cus u are unable to.. dats when she's a prostitute. n most Nigeria gals will leave u when u are not giving dem money, mostly when de are btw 18-27. but if De are 32 n above. whether u give or u no give they are urs

Ifedith:

PigBenis: :
Wetin una won talk about Annie? No be the same thing?

No... Not even close. Annie was der wen 2baba was 0....chioma is wat we call, obiageri... �

Me I see no difference.

youngest85:
I don bleep chioma several times

Of course. For your dream!

wheenie:
since every Nigerian Lady is a prostitute which is ur mom? Olosho or Ashawo or just plain prostitute?

I'm suspecting you!

KanwuliaExtra:
Married or not, women will still go through the same “endurance” factor! She had been there for FIVE YEARS ABI? So, what is the problem? Is that not what relationships are all about?

She should leave to follow A BROKE-AZZZZE likely ya?


See JELOSI O?
Which man or woman does not have a PAST?

But 2Baba abi na Tuface did the same na.

Abeg let them be.
At least, they have made the decision to be together. Nobody’s business o!


A broke azzzzzze dude DISRESPECTS a woman even MORE!

Which is better?

Better be disrespected by A LOADED MAN, than by a NONENTITY!

Chioma! Faya dey go ooooooo, BABY OKU!

Team D&C (Davido and Chioma) trending! HATERS GO AND DIE!!!!!!

gold diggers united

This broke ass Mofo is prolly related to one of Davidos baby mamas. He is angry Dude bought his girl a car? Who does that? News flash! Chioma was Davidos girl, them Babymamas knew he had a woman, but they bleeped him anyway, and went and got pregnant to trap dude. Has it ever occured to anyone David is sticking with her cos she isnt interested in joining the club of desperados waiting in line to be called Davidos babymamas? Cant even imagine how frustrating it is to know every girl you bleep is secretly hoping to use pregnancy to grab some of your chips. Frustrating indeed. dont get it twisted, the real gold diggers are his baby mamas.

U can say he's jealous but this guy is saying THE BITTER TRUTH.

I am not surprised, despite the packaging, bros poverty still dey ur body. How is that ur biz? U dey blow all these grammar for another man matter for Nonsense

Ade3000yrs:
Gbam! U nailed it. Moral over money. But Feminism is not toxic it is a more subtle and strategic way to get things done without conflicts and stress. Only Lazy youths would be trilled by Davido and his cohorts over hyped, faked or inflated extravagances. This our Nigerian artist are all morally and materially broke but fake their life to the media, yet we Africans are too blind to see it. we dont! Only fake people would buy fake lies, fake news and in the end become inducted in the cycle of fake life and ideology! In the end we blame our misery or mischievousness on bad government, non well wishers and circumstances, poor exposure and lack of quality education or environment

1. I think he speaks contextually and generally when he asserts that Feminism is toxic. Let me try an put it in perspective for some of us that are interested in the moral and intellectual value proposed

a.

Believe it or not, what we are witnessing today is one of the unintended fallouts of the extreme faction of feminism: The Moral Self-Depreciation of Womenfolk. After all, the cardinal philosophy of modern feminism is CHOICE and SELF AUTONOMY. So who are we to question a woman who CHOOSES to stay in an abusive but profitable relationship? If she has a right to choose who stays in her body and a right to choose her role in a marriage, why not this?

While feminism advocate for equity(unfortunately misinterpreted for equality), the extreme faction of feminism has led to misuse of and enslavement thereof of "free will" and "self ownership". Also this extreme faction of feminism is relegating "KNOWLEDGE" & "VALUE" to the background. "It is my choice"... even when it is clear that these choices may send you to destruction, over "my choices determines who I am..and become". That is why a typical Chioma probably feels her sole purpose in life is to be a typical Davido's "B*tch"

Therefore

b.

Feminism is toxic not because of its intended consequences but because of its unintended ones(consequences), and we are already seeing them play out. If consistency matters, no hardline feminist should be able to condemn any woman who chooses abuse and disrespect over self dignity. IT IS HER CHOICE!

Answers like -"it's her life", "What is your business?", "Broke-ass", "Jelous", "Poke-noser" etc are already factored into this.

I've come to realise that we do not live life for ourselves alone. There are higher purposes and we cannot make ourself the sole player in that purpose. I'm priviledge to have a daughter and a son. I have consistently been teaching both -"Brains over Body". Do I want my daughter to be a typical Chioma? "God forbidest"! Do I want my son to be a typical Davido? "God Forbidest"!

BAD BELLE!

stephenmorris:
Its No Longer News that davido bought his girlfriend,chioma of 5 years a porshe car worth 45 million Naira.The news broke the internet and has continued to do so ,but a Nigerian man by name olakunle alison has this to say about the whole scenario.

Very Important: Davido's Girlfriend Chioma like A prostitute ,Nigerian Man Says
As Shared On His Facebook ;

A generation of women sold to money slave camps.

Sticking with a man to whom you are not married and who cheated on you with several women, impregnating two of them in the process (baby mamas) whilst dating you, and then became an accidental 'baby-daddy' is NOT LOVE just because he bought you a #45million car.

You are a needy, opportunistic, parasitic, gold-digging, low self-esteem sufferer. A Stockholm syndrome patient. You are not loyal. You are a liar. A prostitute and you share some moral equivalence.

The only reason any woman would endure contemptible treatments from a man is because of what she looks to gain materially and financially. Let's stop ridiculing the word 'Love' for the sake of posterity so that they'd be able to distinguish between virtue and vice.

There is simply no virtue in staying with a man who openly disrespects you over a period of years. None. And buying you the moon  and stars  will not make up for him treating you like human fecal matter. Money cannot buy moral worth. Rather money distorts moral worth. And that's what is happening these days.



Permit me to digress a bit whilst I elucidate on point of ethics.

Humans are created with a deep sense of moral worth. This simply means that every human being loves to be treated like a rare and precious stone. It's just the way our Maker made us. The desire to be loved, admired, desired, respected, treated fairly and kindly is part of our teleology. So when anybody willingly and voluntarily subjects himself or herself to vile and inhumane treatments for other considerations it basically reduces that person to an object rather than a subject. The person has objectified himself or herself.

Believe it or not, what we are witnessing today is one of the unintended fallouts of the extreme faction of feminism: The Moral Self-Depreciation of Womenfolk. After all, the cardinal philosophy of modern feminism is CHOICE and SELF AUTONOMY. So who are we to question a woman who CHOOSES to stay in an abusive but profitable relationship? If she has a right to choose who stays in her body and a right to choose her role in a marriage, why not this?

I once wrote a piece on the tyranny of freewill (choice). Generally, humans don't have the tool box necessary to make good choices. A man's choice will only be consistent with his true nature. And man is deeply flawed by nature, hence his choices must necessarily be flawed. A greedy man will always choose money above morals, yet he needs morals more. A dog by nature must bark and a cat moan.

Knowing this, it is therefore suicidal to build an ideology on human choices and self autonomy. Nobody (man or woman) should be self autonomous. In reality, nobody is. Everyone needs a governing and regulatory authority that sets boundaries; both moral and spatial boundaries. This is necessary for the survival of humanity because our natural appetite is self destructive. We need to be delivered from ourselves.

Feminism is toxic not because of its intended consequences but because of its unintended ones, and we are already seeing them play out. If consistency matters, no hardline feminist should be able to condemn any woman who chooses abuse and disrespect over self dignity. IT IS HER CHOICE!

We should not teach our daughters that CHOICE is the best power they have. Knowledge is. With knowledge they'd understand that they don't just make choices but that their choices make them.

The young lady's choice makes her a disgrace.

#truthissacred
Selah.

source-https://www.xclusivenobs.com/celebritylifestyle/nigerian-man-said-about-davidos-girlfriend-chioma/

BAD BELLE , HATER!

stephenmorris:
Its No Longer News that davido bought his girlfriend,chioma of 5 years a porshe car worth 45 million Naira.The news broke the internet and has continued to do so ,but a Nigerian man by name olakunle alison has this to say about the whole scenario.

Very Important: Davido's Girlfriend Chioma like A prostitute ,Nigerian Man Says
As Shared On His Facebook ;

A generation of women sold to money slave camps.

Sticking with a man to whom you are not married and who cheated on you with several women, impregnating two of them in the process (baby mamas) whilst dating you, and then became an accidental 'baby-daddy' is NOT LOVE just because he bought you a #45million car.

You are a needy, opportunistic, parasitic, gold-digging, low self-esteem sufferer. A Stockholm syndrome patient. You are not loyal. You are a liar. A prostitute and you share some moral equivalence.

The only reason any woman would endure contemptible treatments from a man is because of what she looks to gain materially and financially. Let's stop ridiculing the word 'Love' for the sake of posterity so that they'd be able to distinguish between virtue and vice.

There is simply no virtue in staying with a man who openly disrespects you over a period of years. None. And buying you the moon  and stars  will not make up for him treating you like human fecal matter. Money cannot buy moral worth. Rather money distorts moral worth. And that's what is happening these days.



Permit me to digress a bit whilst I elucidate on point of ethics.

Humans are created with a deep sense of moral worth. This simply means that every human being loves to be treated like a rare and precious stone. It's just the way our Maker made us. The desire to be loved, admired, desired, respected, treated fairly and kindly is part of our teleology. So when anybody willingly and voluntarily subjects himself or herself to vile and inhumane treatments for other considerations it basically reduces that person to an object rather than a subject. The person has objectified himself or herself.

Believe it or not, what we are witnessing today is one of the unintended fallouts of the extreme faction of feminism: The Moral Self-Depreciation of Womenfolk. After all, the cardinal philosophy of modern feminism is CHOICE and SELF AUTONOMY. So who are we to question a woman who CHOOSES to stay in an abusive but profitable relationship? If she has a right to choose who stays in her body and a right to choose her role in a marriage, why not this?

I once wrote a piece on the tyranny of freewill (choice). Generally, humans don't have the tool box necessary to make good choices. A man's choice will only be consistent with his true nature. And man is deeply flawed by nature, hence his choices must necessarily be flawed. A greedy man will always choose money above morals, yet he needs morals more. A dog by nature must bark and a cat moan.

Knowing this, it is therefore suicidal to build an ideology on human choices and self autonomy. Nobody (man or woman) should be self autonomous. In reality, nobody is. Everyone needs a governing and regulatory authority that sets boundaries; both moral and spatial boundaries. This is necessary for the survival of humanity because our natural appetite is self destructive. We need to be delivered from ourselves.

Feminism is toxic not because of its intended consequences but because of its unintended ones, and we are already seeing them play out. If consistency matters, no hardline feminist should be able to condemn any woman who chooses abuse and disrespect over self dignity. IT IS HER CHOICE!

We should not teach our daughters that CHOICE is the best power they have. Knowledge is. With knowledge they'd understand that they don't just make choices but that their choices make them.

The young lady's choice makes her a disgrace.

#truthissacred
Selah.

source-https://www.xclusivenobs.com/celebritylifestyle/nigerian-man-said-about-davidos-girlfriend-chioma/