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Twoclans:
To take care of a man is not a babys job,if she is really 16 i am not sure she knows the value of human life.

A very high percentage of married women will tell you that at a point in time in thier marriages it has crossed thier minds to kill thier husbands especially during crises.

It takes maturity and so many other things not to pull it through

Hmmm...I see. True confessions. In the context of feminity and relationships I am sure your fellow women will rush to hush you up because you are supposed to be the weaker, fairer sex...incapable of hurting a fly. Violence and angst is for the menfolk.

Slikbae:
Must you say rubbish?

Children can never relate to what i wrote .

34webers:
At 16, she wasn't ripe for a wife. She is still a kid.
Maybe she was just trying to play out what she had watched in kannywood with the thought he will just die for a moment and reappear later since actors do die in one movie and feature in a later one
Aboki and this marrying of newly weaned children sef.
35 married to 16, that is 19yrs difference, haba.

Are you quoting another NEWS? Because 16yrs it wasn't mentioned at all

HallaDaTruth:
Why would these notherners always marry kids

because they always want catch them Young and it shall be yours 4ever, what is d benefit of leaving dem to grow like d southerners and got spoilt by different guys b4 reaching marriage age.
many southerners girs have been dick by different guys even b4 d age of 20 and still unmarried.
southerners always think they are right but wrong on this.

Getting married to little girls is not exclusive to the north. Men like fresh meat, fresh fish, young blood, whatever you call it. Seeing that women are like a sex dish or something of the sort to men, they are always looking for a ' fresh fish ' . Abeg men , keep looking for those 20 or 18 years or just clocking 18 or 20. Nothing do you ehn . You see your mate you say she's too old you need young blood. Go on then.

I feel bad about the situation surrounding this girl.

Nigerians with their mentality, in the north, early marriage while in the south girls are disvirgined before they reach 10 years. At 12yrs girls mastered all the styles and sex positions while in the north, at 13 a girl is ripped for marriage.

Nigerians with their mentality, in the north, early marriage while in the south girls are disvirgined before they reach 10 years. At 12yrs girls mastered all the styles and sex positions in the south while in the north, at 13 a girl is ripped for marriage.
Which one even better sef?

carinmom:
Be sincere pls, at what age do most southern girls become sexually active? Pls be objective in your reply.

I'm not in support of child marriage, but the way you guys go about making negative comments against the north when such cases occur leaves much to be desired as if in the south your girls only become sexually active after attaining the age of 18 when we all know that is not the case.

Ok. I'll be objective since you requested. In the South "some" girls are sexually active usually from 12 or 13 upwards. Far very few girls do so below that age. But understand "most importantly" that it happens mostly with their male peers and playmates within their age group usually in their schools or neighborhood.

This makes it easier for the girls cos the male genitals of their peers is also under-developed and can match the girls without causing tear and turture.

In the north what you have is that because their religious leader Mohammed married a six year old girl Aisha, it now became a norm for full fledged adults with "massive" genitals to get sexually involved with girls with highly underdevloped genitals. This is why you have the highest level of VVF in the north and in muslim nations. Where underdevloped female genitals are torn by massive male ones to extent of leakage and other complications.

You said I be objective and here are facts and by no means mockery or ridicule of your religion or tribe.

So please when replying yourself be objective too without tribal or religious sentiments.

MODIFIED: Also In the north marriages are forced on these children prematurely! They have no say whatsoever.

In the South marriage is mostly by the lady's choice and it mostly happens when she's of age from 20 and above.

Actuarydeji:
Are you quoting another NEWS? Because 16yrs it wasn't mentioned at all

If you had read at least first two lines of the report, you wouldn't have embarrassed urself like this.

Successvibes11:
Arrrrgh! 16years old housewife

Who knows the trauma this young girl must have gone through for her to take such drastic action of killing that old man.

God bless you! I never knew there would be a reasonable person on this trend since most people here seem to only chat out their rage with life. You are very smart.

GraGra247:
Ok. I'll be objective since you requested. In the South "some" girls are sexually active usually from 12 or 13 upwards. Far very few girls do so below that age. But understand "most importantly" that it happens mostly with their male peers and playmates within their age group usually in their schools or neighborhood.

This makes it easier for the girls cos the male genitals of their peers is also under-developed and can match the girls without causing tear and turture.

In the north what you have is that because their religious leader Mohammed married a six year old girl Aisha, it now became a norm for full fledged adults with "massive" genitals to get sexually involved with girls with highly underdevloped genitals. This is why you have the highest level of VVF in the north and in muslim nations. Where underdevloped female genitals are torn by massive male ones to extent of leakage and other complications.

You said I be objective and here are facts and by no means mockery or ridicule of your religion or tribe.

So please when replying yourself be objective too without tribal or religious sentiments.

God bless you too, for you are very reasonable.

Actuarydeji:
Are you quoting another NEWS? Because 16yrs it wasn't mentioned at all

Please read again and edit your reply.

omoge001:
God bless you! I never knew there would be a reasonable person on this trend since most people here seem to only chat out their rage with life. You are very smart.

Awwwn.. Thanks

Hanseel1:
so she shouldn't be punished??

are you crazy or something??

The black race is really inferior!

Some child, that probably married at 13,has been molested and abused and assaulted her whole 'conscious' life! Instead of giving her succor and rehabilitation you're talking punishment!

You are a disgrace to humanity! Tueh! Don't you ever jump into my mentions uninvited again!

Slikbae:
You are irredeemably mad

And that's why I ask you to join me as we fight this madness together

GraGra247:
Ok. I'll be objective since you requested. In the South "some" girls are sexually active usually from 12 or 13 upwards. Far very few girls do so below that age. But understand "most importantly" that it happens mostly with their male peers and playmates within their age group usually in their schools or neighborhood.

This makes it easier for the girls cos the male genitals of their peers is also under-developed and can match the girls without causing tear and turture.

In the north what you have is that because their religious leader Mohammed married a six year old girl Aisha, it now became a norm for full fledged adults with "massive" genitals to get sexually involved with girls with highly underdevloped genitals. This is why you have the highest level of VVF in the north and in muslim nations. Where underdevloped female genitals are torn by massive male ones to extent of leakage and other complications.

You said I be objective and here are facts and by no means mockery or ridicule of your religion or tribe.

So please when replying yourself be objective too without tribal or religious sentiments.

Bless you! I'd even objectively add that in the south its by choice for these youngsters to engage in sexual activities. No parent would marry off their preteen daughter.

In the north these marriages are forced on these children! The have no say whatsoever.

Hanseel1:
many men are jailed for false rape allegations without medical enough proofs.

Does two wrongs make anything right? Those men should not be jailed until proven guilty.

Positivepoint:
and not every 40 year old woman makes sex a priority, a lot r still virgins. Sex is the union in marriage that is why in every scriptures God instruct that it should only be shared btw married couples only. I repeat if she is old enough to ve sex then she is old enough to be married. Stop the cosmetics the reality is the reality.

And I ask you, did you hear that she was having sex? I also say sex is not the same thing as marriage. Go ask any adult woman that is married around you if sex and marriage are the same thing. Many women are married without having a happy sexual life but the duties of being a wife/husband is not the same as sex. There is more to marriage than sex. Its like saying anyone that has sex must be made to have kids. Having sex is different from raising kids. You may choose to be ignorant to that fact because you have made up your mind to marry a minor and justify your sexual encounter with a minor based on she is old enough to have sex. That a girl can have sex doesn't mean she must be forced into marriage or be encouraged to be sexually active. This warped mentality of yours is why this world is experiencing problems. Give her a pen not a p€nis. Do you force teenage boys to marry because they can have sex at that age too? If no, but you would rather encourage them to face their studies and build a solid foundation for their future before diving into marriage, why then doesn't the girl child deserve same? Because she is a girl?

BossLaifay:
Bless you! I'd even objectively add that in the south its by choice for these youngsters to engage in sexual activities. No parent would marry off their preteen daughter.

In the north these marriages are forced on these children! The have no say whatsoever.

Ahh thank you wise one. I totally forgot to add that very important part.

To think that a northern lady is the one confronting me on this matter makes me marvel.

Do they enjoy the abuse or have they been so brainwashed. I go with the latter... or maybe she wasn't a victim.

underage marriage is not only in north even muhammed the founder of islam makes it a law in sharialaw which state that you can get married to a 6years old girl and start having sex with her at age 9.i know they will start barking now.maybe na lie

Nigeria's problem started from the north, married at 16 before she reach 30 years she'll have more than 10 children & the man will marry like 4 wives & gather an empire which he can't carter for then Boko Haram & herdsmen will absorb them thereby becoming a menace to the country or they will fill the streets as Almajiris

delishpot:
why then doesn't the girl child deserve same? Because she is a girl?

My dear some people are so disgusting!

But I dnt mind 10year

It is abnormal for a man of 35 to marry a 16 year old girl. Her adolescence is at its peak, so i wonder how they will be coping.

Halo22:
It is abnormal for a man of 35 to marry a 16 year old girl. Her adolescence is at its peak, so i wonder how they will be coping.

who knows at what age he actually married her? 13? maybe 14 or 15? God help us.

Isn't this an old story they are bringing back?

God!
May the family of the deceased be consoled.

but please, muslim cleric should help girls from this forceful marriage. probably she did not like the man. It is also an offence for her to be tried in a competent court of law in Nigeria because she is a minnor.


please, the judge should be careful, though she is reprimanded in children's prison if that exist in Nigeria.

God please help us and our Children.... 16:35 by way of ratio... haba duanallah.

Actuarydeji:
Are you quoting another NEWS? Because 16yrs it wasn't mentioned at all

because you only reads and never understood.

The way wives are now killing their husbands in nigeria is alarming and scary,oh Jehovah,unto Thee,i commit myself

Plan To Attend Or Worship Online

BossLaifay:
So this one is a 'woman' too? You must have a screw or two loose.

You are nothing but a demented murderer

34webers:
At 16, she wasn't ripe for a wife. She is still a kid.
Maybe she was just trying to play out what she had watched in kannywood with the thought he will just die for a moment and reappear later since actors do die in one movie and feature in a later one
Aboki and this marrying of newly weaned children sef.
35 married to 16, that is 19yrs difference, haba.

what do u say about an ibo man @40 settling down with a lady @ 20 nko?