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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 11:42am On May 18, 2018
When they say you should comman advise on solids, or creche we will not see your brake light but smoh talk of preek your antenna jumped up sharply

Mama deh Mama

Beyonce hand for you grin grin grin

jazzyjazz:
@aishlove




Let me not talk again biko I de office. I nor carry change of pata

lemme Coman be going before enque and some people will call me kpekus mistress

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by LadySarah: 11:43am On May 18, 2018
HolySteph,i'm surprised u r asking this when you have been around here.
Pls cool down very well.my son started sitting at 6mths plus.I know u r being pressurized by those whose children started sitting at two mths,crawled at 3,walked at 6 mths and started going on errands at 7.Ignore them,it will do you alot of good .

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 11:46am On May 18, 2018
Hewu abeg leave the boy oh. Some babies sit early but 5 months they say is ideal. Please prop him up sometimes for practice but don't pressure him abeg


HolySteph:
Mamas in the house Good morning... I hope our little ones are doing fine and disturbing us..[center][/center]

Pls I have a question... is it normal for a 4months 2weeks baby to not be independently sitting on his own? It's becoming frustrating.
I put my baby boy to sit, whenever I do so I'll always have to support him else he'll fall. If he sits for like 5mins he'll starts crying..
I started putting him to sit before he was 3months, now he is 4months plus but he hasn't gotten that full posture. I've seen other babies his stage already sitting and it got me worried, that's why I'm here.

Pls is it normal or when is the appropriate time for babies to sit up on their own or he hasn't reached that milestone?

Mamas pls help before I lose my mind.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 11:47am On May 18, 2018
LadyPrecy:
aishlove the crowned queen kpekus mistress has said it all. Just do all she has said and your ringtone will be baby labam

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

I'm innocent bikonu
I don't know why you people are just calling jazzy upandan

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Bomgirl(f): 11:47am On May 18, 2018
LadySarah:
HolySteph,i'm surprised u r asking this when you have been around here.
Pls cool down very well.my son started sitting at 6mths plus.I know u r being pressurized by those whose children started sitting at two mths,crawled at 3,walked at 6 mths and started going on errands at 7.Ignore them,it will do you alot of good .



grin grin grin. Errand bawo? shocked shocked
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 11:48am On May 18, 2018
Akokor you've gotten good responses, me sef follow share them

How are you, been a minute
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 11:50am On May 18, 2018
hunniesuzie:
When they say you should comman advise on solids, or creche we will not see your brake light but smoh talk of preek your antenna jumped up sharply

Mama deh Mama

Beyonce hand for you grin grin grin


Hian
What have I done na
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by LadySarah: 11:55am On May 18, 2018
Bomgirl:


grin grin grin. Errand bawo? shocked shocked

You have not met them?Their children starts talking at six

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by FloraEC(f): 11:56am On May 18, 2018

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Akorkor(f): 12:01pm On May 18, 2018
HolySteph:

Chai mama you're right. It's my MIL she won't let my baby be. Every time she's with him, she'll start forcing him to sit. My baby would just be crying. She'll always say the baby is supposed to be sitting by 3months. I just tire. She won't let me handle my child the way I want. It's causing me a lot of ish with her.

Please leave your MIL . Take charge of your child because you gave birth to her. Haha!! Kilode now. Don't let anyone change your baby posture because she want her to sit early. Your baby would sit when she is ready. 3 month ke!! Oga ooo
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Akorkor(f): 12:03pm On May 18, 2018
hunniesuzie:
Akokor you've gotten good responses, me sef follow share them

How are you, been a minute

Yes dearie, na work no allow me see road. And since BBNaija nonsense don finish i am back fully here. How is my boy doing. We should start preparing for another one oo @ enque what are you waiting for? grin
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by aishlove(f): 12:07pm On May 18, 2018
Akorkor:

Thanks ma, I really appreciate your reply


I really feel your pain but take one step at a time, no need to rush. Sit your husband down and have a heart to heart discussion with him. Let him know that you feel pain and you are not heal yet. Tell him you will make it up to him with different sex method you are learning. Trust me, men like lies like women too but try and calm him down. Let him wait biko.

On another note, my hubby waited for 4-6 month sef, no tears oo but na cry i go use finish am. I am like you that don't get wet but i prayed to God to let my body be totally released for my husband so that i wont just sit like a log of wood. Right now, anytime we want to do the do, i put all my mind, body and soul to it so that i can enjoy it like he does too. So, change your state of mind. I have never used any drug but the most important drug is your state of mind. Try and think about it, if you are not a really deep person, watch blue movie sef if that will make you to come out of your state. Tell him you are in this together, he should not come and carry disease to you oh because his body is peppering him.


I wish you all the best.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 12:09pm On May 18, 2018
hunniesuzie:
When they say you should comman advise on solids, or creche we will not see your brake light but smoh talk of preek your antenna jumped up sharply

Mama deh Mama

Beyonce hand for you grin grin grin


going forward, ppl now know who t direct kpekus issues to....
shebi she don come sell her 'makate' here

cc jazzyjazz

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by HolySteph(f): 12:13pm On May 18, 2018
FloraEC:


Never compare baby A with baby B please mama. I started putting my daughter to sit at 4months but with support, even used indomie carton, can't remember when she started sitting on her own. Just calm down biko

My dear left for me I wouldn't compare, i dunno why this one got to me.

hunniesuzie:
Hewu abeg leave the boy oh. Some babies sit early but 5 months they say is ideal. Please prop him up sometimes for practice but don't pressure him abeg



I sure will. Thank you so so much.

Akorkor:


Please leave your MIL . Take charge of your child because you gave birth to her. Haha!! Kilode now. Don't let anyone change your baby posture because she want her to sit early. Your baby would sit when she is ready. 3 month ke!! Oga ooo

My dear sometimes eh she just won't understand until I'm harsh about it. Thank you I'll look out for it.

LadySarah:
HolySteph,i'm surprised u r asking this when you have been around here.
Pls cool down very well.my son started sitting at 6mths plus.I know u r being pressurized by those whose children started sitting at two mths,crawled at 3,walked at 6 mths and started going on errands at 7.Ignore them,it will do you alot of good .

I will. Thanks much.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 12:23pm On May 18, 2018
Akorkor:


Yes dearie, na work no allow me see road. And since BBNaija nonsense don finish i am back fully here. How is my boy doing. We should start preparing for another one oo @ enque what are you waiting for? grin

make una de do fes, i de una back
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by lightedpath(f): 12:29pm On May 18, 2018
HolySteph:
Mamas in the house Good morning... I hope our little ones are doing fine and disturbing us..[center][/center]

Pls I have a question... is it normal for a 4months 2weeks baby to not be independently sitting on his own? It's becoming frustrating.
I put my baby boy to sit, whenever I do so I'll always have to support him else he'll fall. If he sits for like 5mins he'll starts crying..
I started putting him to sit before he was 3months, now he is 4months plus but he hasn't gotten that full posture. I've seen other babies his stage already sitting and it got me worried, that's why I'm here.

Pls is it normal or when is the appropriate time for babies to sit up on their own or he hasn't reached that milestone?

Mamas pls help before I lose my mind.
Its too early to be worried. Your baby is still young. Sitting on their own is a 6 months milestone
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by kelizosuy(f): 12:35pm On May 18, 2018
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Nor be only errands cheesy cheesy cheesy
LadySarah:
HolySteph,i'm surprised u r asking this when you have been around here.
Pls cool down very well.my son started sitting at 6mths plus.I know u r being pressurized by those whose children started sitting at two mths,crawled at 3,walked at 6 mths and started going on errands at 7.Ignore them,it will do you alot of good .

Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Liftedhands(f): 12:41pm On May 18, 2018
aishlove:
Thanks for your quick response ma, av use coconut oil as lubricants bt it still pain me and am not d kind dat do get wet during intimacy am as dry as anything u can think of. Even when I've not given birth I will just be like a log of wood.

You have to get your mindset into it and let go of any fears or inhibitions. You can try doing it in the dark or under the sheets if you are shy.

Just put your mind to it and tell yourself I must enjoy my husband body and he mine! Do nasty talks and texts him during the day of things you'd like to do with him. Get sexy lingerie and model yourself in the mirror ( trust me seeing your body in lingerie will give your libido a boost) .

Communicate your desires verbally with him, tell him how he can please you, and encourage him to do more when he does! Your body is not wood so don't lie there as one.


Relax and get help with baby so you will have enough energy to play with your hubby.

This kind of issue usually stems from a buried fear from an event in childhood! Deal with it if you can and discuss with your hubb or trusted person if there is any such underlying cause.


Feel free to ask more questions plenty kpekus(sexx) mistresses abound here smiley all the best.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by angeltolly(f): 12:41pm On May 18, 2018
Thank you Lord for bringing us thus far smiley My adorable chocomilo SONshine is 8 months today kiss kiss kiss 8 months just liadat? shocked shocked shocked shocked They sure grow very fast

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 12:43pm On May 18, 2018
Abeg allow me to enjoy Jazzy style without belle blocking my view for like 2 years before you talk the one ya talking

Akorkor:


Yes dearie, na work no allow me see road. And since BBNaija nonsense don finish i am back fully here. How is my boy doing. We should start preparing for another one oo @ enque what are you waiting for? grin

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Liftedhands(f): 12:46pm On May 18, 2018
jazzyjazz:
@aishlove

Buy lubricant
Proper lubricant that's meant for sex
Example is Durex. There are other brands too.

Before you two start, engage in lots of pre-intimacy.
Let him tickle your clitoris, sick your boob's too
Let him use his hands or fingers to gently trace imaginary lines on your back, your clitoris, let him use his tongue.
You cab spice it up by using honey or some ice cream.
Pour it on his preek and suck it off him
Let him pour it on your n.ipples and twirl his tongue on it

See ehn after delivery I didn't want to have sex either. It was hard. But I got my mind off the pain (and fear that I may be too wide down there).

You two can watch some pornography together. It equally helps with sexual stimulation.

I know some people will frown at MouthAction but if you two are comfortable with it, it's a great sex booster o. Try the "69" position. (thank me later)
Also have a relaxed mind.
The pain will only be for the initial penetration. After that na you go de scream "baby labam don't stop keep moving"



Let me not talk again biko I de office. I nor carry change of pata

lemme Coman be going before enque and some people will call me kpekus mistress
@aishlove grin see one chairlady here.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Liftedhands(f): 12:53pm On May 18, 2018
HolySteph:
Mamas in the house Good morning... I hope our little ones are doing fine and disturbing us..[center][/center]

Pls I have a question... is it normal for a 4months 2weeks baby to not be independently sitting on his own? It's becoming frustrating.
I put my baby boy to sit, whenever I do so I'll always have to support him else he'll fall. If he sits for like 5mins he'll starts crying..
I started putting him to sit before he was 3months, now he is 4months plus but he hasn't gotten that full posture. I've seen other babies his stage already sitting and it got me worried, that's why I'm here.

Pls is it normal or when is the appropriate time for babies to sit up on their own or he hasn't reached that milestone?

Mamas pls help before I lose my mind.
Don't stress or compare you son with another Biko mbok please!!!!! Its from 4months that baby boys should be placed to sit to allow one nerve that controls the blokos to properly mature! And it may take several months to weeks before they can get the hand of it.

Every child is different let him grow at a pace suitable for him Abi award dey for fastest sitter?

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by rvpbae: 12:53pm On May 18, 2018
Liftedhands:
might still be lochia it can resume after tapering off if you over exert yourself.

First period after delivery is usually brutish no be person go tell you say na aunty Flo.


Try and get rest the lochia will reduce or if it's your period just Goan buy plenty pad.

The thing don go sef. I'm just tired of it jare.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Liftedhands(f): 12:59pm On May 18, 2018
angeltolly:
Thank you Lord for bringing us thus far smiley My adorable chocomilo SONshine is 8 months today kiss kiss kiss 8 months just liadat? shocked shocked shocked shocked They sure grow very fast
Hello handsome happy 8 months to you kiss kiss

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by spiceeamiee(f): 1:00pm On May 18, 2018
I miss all of una here o. Will read back when I'm less busy. Abeg ehnn can my baby start taking golden morn? She is 10months and two weeks now. Also, April Mamas that did kiddies party pack for birthdays, what and what did you put inside besides Ribena, sweets and biscuits? What is the minimum amount for one party pack? N200 own dey? grin

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Liftedhands(f): 1:01pm On May 18, 2018
rvpbae:


The thing don go sef. I'm just tired of it jare.
Pele your period is still on leave then.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Akorkor(f): 1:16pm On May 18, 2018
hunniesuzie:
Abeg allow me to enjoy Jazzy style without belle blocking my view for like 2 years before you talk the one ya talking


hahahahahahahahahah
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 1:18pm On May 18, 2018
The manufacturers of Golden Morn said 3 years, I choose to do as they say

spiceeamiee:
I miss all of una here o. Will read back when I'm less busy. Abeg ehnn can my baby start taking golden morn? She is 10months and two weeks now. Also, April Mamas that did kiddies party pack for birthdays, what and what did you put inside besides Ribena, sweets and biscuits? What is the minimum amount for one party pack? N200 own dey? grin

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by rvpbae: 1:20pm On May 18, 2018
HolySteph:

Chai mama you're right. It's my MIL she won't let my baby be. Every time she's with him, she'll start forcing him to sit. My baby would just be crying. She'll always say the baby is supposed to be sitting by 3months. I just tire. She won't let me handle my child the way I want. It's causing me a lot of ish with her.

Haba make she fear God o. 3months ke?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by glosun: 1:26pm On May 18, 2018
Thank you
jazzyjazz:


Awwwww my birthday mate

Welcome
Make yourself at home
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by glosun: 1:28pm On May 18, 2018
Thanks
LadySarah:
glosun,congrats and yes you are highly welcomed.

Kisses to ur Lo
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by greatp80(f): 1:36pm On May 18, 2018
HolySteph:
Mamas in the house Good morning... I hope our little ones are doing fine and disturbing us..[center][/center]

Pls I have a question... is it normal for a 4months 2weeks baby to not be independently sitting on his own? It's becoming frustrating.
I put my baby boy to sit, whenever I do so I'll always have to support him else he'll fall. If he sits for like 5mins he'll starts crying..
I started putting him to sit before he was 3months, now he is 4months plus but he hasn't gotten that full posture. I've seen other babies his stage already sitting and it got me worried, that's why I'm here.

Pls is it normal or when is the appropriate time for babies to sit up on their own or he hasn't reached that milestone?

Mamas pls help before I lose my mind.

Please don't loose your mind.Is like your baby am mine are birthday mate.My baby is yet to sit also unassisted and am not bothered a bit.He will when he is ready.From my past experience with my children.
Please stop looking at other children, you will get your self worked up for nothing.
Unless your mother's instinct is telling you that something is wrong,then you can check with your doc.

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