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cooldood:
Its for real my sister not imaginary.

Oyindidi post=67901 263:
Tell your imaginary friend he is stupid

cooldood:
Hello friends, I have a good friend who earns 800k monthly and he's 32.He's confused if that kind of salary is ok to start a family. Please advise o.

Oyindidi:
Tell him what I said. He is very stupid

jaychubi:
Per year or month?

Tell ur friend to go n buy sense, he is an idiot

Safiaa:
Well it depends on his spending pattern.

People with more money tend to spend more. More bills, higher upkeep, and keeping up with a certain lifestyle. So it completely depends on his mindset. You would think having more money means you’re actually financially stable, it’s the complete opposite for a lot people. 800k may not be enough for him. For him to even ask that question shows that his financial management skills are poor.

cooldood:
Really? So for you, its ok to start a family with the level of rent and school fees running to millions per year? When will the family now buy a very good car and go on vacation twice a year outside 9ja.

cooldood:
Its per month o.

cooldood:
Ah ah, but he lives in a terrace in Lekki and his rent alone is N3m.

Safiaa:
sir I don’t understand this comment.

Safiaa:
Thats exactly what I was saying. It depends on the lifestyle he wants to live. If he wants to live the big boy lifestyle 800k is nothing, but then we should learn how to live within our financial means. If you don’t have, you don’t have innit! I cannot come and die because I want to live larger than life.

So tell your friend to prioritise his wants from needs, if he wants to get married. “Do I need to live in lekki, or is it something I simply want even though I can’t afford it?” He better face reality.

cooldood:
Rent: 3m per year
Vacation: 2m per year (Air fare and accommodation for 2)
Annual Upkeep: 3m per year
Savings/ Investment: 2m per year

So what is left for school fees when children come?

Safiaa:
tell him to live within his means. He is trying to live a life he can’t afford. He’s 32, not a lost teen. He should know better. 800k is enough for a mid-upper class lifestyle, but he wants to live larger than life. Tell him it’s not by force.

Safiaa:
Well it depends on his spending pattern.

People with more money tend to spend more. More bills, higher upkeep, and keeping up with a certain lifestyle. So it completely depends on his mindset. You would think having more money means you’re actually financially stable, it’s the complete opposite for a lot people. 800k may not be enough for him. For him to even ask that question shows that his financial management skills are poor.

Blackfyre:
I can't wait to eat the party rice ooo

Safiaa:
what does this mean ?

Blackfyre:
An hopeful invitation to your wedding.

Safiaa:
sure

cooldood:
Rent: 3m per year
Vacation: 2m per year (Air fare and accommodation for 2)
Annual Upkeep: 3m per year
Savings/ Investment: 2m per year

So what is left for school fees when children come?

cooldood:
Ah ah, but he lives in a terrace in Lekki and his rent alone is N3m.

Ishilove:
Since he wants to ask dumb questions, we will give him befitting answers

Ishilove:
Yes it's too small. He has to earn at least 1.5 Milla a month in order to cope in Nigeria of nowadays.