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Dear Mrs Jzhane,

This one is about my friend o. Please help me advice her cos I have been talking to her but she has refused to listen. I don’t know if she is under a spell or she is just so desperate.

Ajoke met Dany in 2012. At that time,he was separating from his wife when they met. Dany has a four year old son from his wife. He and my friend Ajoke started dating. A year later,Dany proposed to Ajoke. Everyone was very happy. Ajoke was 37 years at that time,yes a late bloomer. But the issue was that,even with the engagement,Dany had not yet finalized his divorce with his wife.

I mean,they have done introduction and Ajoke wears an engagement ring but the divorce is not finalized. The reason,very flimsy: Dany says he does not want the divorce to affect his son!Can you imagine that? So he and Ajoke were like that until Ajoke even moved into his house cos her parents refused for the wedding to take place cos the man had not yet divorced his wife. On top of that,this man was cheating on Ajoke with several girls. She didn’t believe it until she read his text messages. That was after three years of living with this man as a fiancee not a wife o.

This made her......more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-is-stuck-with-a-man-who-is-deceiving-herplease-help/

Samuelgr8:
Dear Mrs Jzhane,

This one is about my friend o. Please help me advice her cos I have been talking to her but she has refused to listen. I don’t know if she is under a spell or she is just so desperate.

Ajoke met Dany in 2012. At that time,he was separating from his wife when they met. Dany has a four year old son from his wife. He and my friend Ajoke started dating. A year later,Dany proposed to Ajoke. Everyone was very happy. Ajoke was 37 years at that time,yes a late bloomer. But the issue was that,even with the engagement,Dany had not yet finalized his divorce with his wife.

I mean,they have done introduction and Ajoke wears an engagement ring but the divorce is not finalized. The reason,very flimsy: Dany says he does not want the divorce to affect his son!Can you imagine that? So he and Ajoke were like that until Ajoke even moved into his house cos her parents refused for the wedding to take place cos the man had not yet divorced his wife. On top of that,this man was cheating on Ajoke with several girls. She didn’t believe it until she read his text messages. That was after three years of living with this man as a fiancee not a wife o.

This made her......more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-is-stuck-with-a-man-who-is-deceiving-herplease-help/

If care is not taken, her case might be worst than the first wife case.
He must have lied to her about whatever that lead to their brake up.
She is desperate because she feels that time is not on her side but has forgotten that God's time is the best.
It's not late for her to pull out of the man if he can't do the needful.
What is her stand with the man's family and they with her or she is own her own.
Stop advising her let play the game and watch the movie since she has been adamant about it.
Very soon she will see you as being jealous of her

i quite agree with you. experience they say is the best teacher

frozen70:
If care is not taken, her case might be worst than the first wife case.
He must have lied to her about whatever that lead to their brake up.
She is desperate because she feels that time is not on her side but has forgotten that God's time is the best.
It's not late for her to pull out of the man if he can't do the needful.
What is her stand with the man's family and they with her or she is own her own.
Stop advising her let play the game and watch the movie since she has been adamant about it.
Very soon she will see you as being jealous of her