In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear brother in Islam, We welcome you to the Muslim Ummah. We also thank you for the great confidence you place in us, and we implore Allah Almighty to help us serve His cause and render our work for His Sake.

Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, states:

“Since you have been addicted to an extremely pernicious habit that destroys your spiritual soul and thus leads to self-destruction, you must urgently summon your will power and take all the necessary steps in order to wean yourself of it immediately.

In order to empower yourself to achieve this, you should seek counseling and therapy, preferably from those professionals in the field who are conscientious Muslims. If such Muslim professionals are not available, choose one from those who are ethically and morally conscious. It is important for you to wean yourself of these pernicious habits. The consequences of persisting in them are simply unthinkable; they would undoubtedly corrode your spiritual soul and cause your spiritual death.

Sins by their very nature are addictive, for it is in the very nature of the carnal self to seek pleasure in sins. As Al-Busiri has rightly said, “The carnal self is a like a baby; if you neglect him, he will grow up clinging on to the breast-milk forever, but if you wean him off, he will be weaned off.” I suggest a few tips which you can use to empower yourself:

1. Visualize and meditate on the ugliness of this heinous sin and conjure up images of hell fire as painted in the Qur’an and the Sunnah as many times as possible until such time that whenever you are tempted to visit such websites or read such magazines, the scenes of hell fire will be playing in your mind. Thus, even as you have associated this addiction with pleasure, you will come to associate it with pure pain and suffering.

2. Convince yourself of the urgency of removing this malignant cancer from your life by taking all measures such as listing all the negative things about such habits, and listing the verses and traditions about the gravity of sins. Remember it is far more serious than cancer attacking your body, since your soul survives you even after your physical body has disintegrated in the earth.

3. Imagine how terrible a loss you will be facing were you to die while being addicted to this most heinous sin.

4. Seek strength from Allah by crying to Him for succor. But you can never seek the help of Allah unless you seek to establish connection with Him through regular Prayers, so never be slack in your Prayers.

5. Schedule your time in such a way that you are never left with any time to think of such matters. Imam Ash-Shafi`i said, “If you don’t occupy your mind with good works, your carnal self will make you busy in bad deeds!”

6. Surround yourself with spiritual and Islamic influences and virtually immerse yourself in them.

7. Always hang around with good Muslims who are busy doing good works; join a halaqah (study circle) where spiritual training is imparted together with the study of Islam.

8. Make your mind and tongue busy with dhikr (remembrance of Allah). Say the following words and others frequently:

Subhan Allah; al-hamdu lillah; laa ilaha illa Allah; Allahu akbar;
Wa laa hawla wala quwwata illa billah. Astaghfir Allaha al-azhim min kulli dhanbin wa atubu ilaihi. (Glory be to Allah; praise be to Allah; there is no god but Allah; Allah is Greatest. There is no power or strength except by the will of Allah. I ask forgiveness of Allah from all my sins and repent to Him.)

9. Once you have been weaned of these pernicious habits, you should seriously consider marriage; marriage is the protection against temptations.

I pray that the Beneficent Lord of Mercy save us all from the evil inclinations of our souls and make us hate disbelief, transgressions and sins; and may He endear to our hearts faith and good works. Amen.”

Excerpted, with slight modifications, from: www.muslims.ca

https://www.islamawareness.net/Sex/fatwa_sex_004.html

Maa shaa ALLAH!

May ALLAH strengthen our faith and grant us Goodness therein. Aameen

JazakumuLLAH khoyran Op

I am a Muslim from Pakistan and so far away from my wife. How do i control masturbation when i know that it will take a year to reunite with my family.

Please advice.

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if you watch porn I'll show you pepper

be warned

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Op please remove Davido’s picture from there it is very wrong same way it is wrong to use someone in hijab for the wrong thing.

uhmm

There is no such thing as Porn addiction. No such thing, neither is masturbation a bad thing

jomoh:
Op please remove Davido’s picture from there it is very wrong same way it is wrong to use someone in hijab for the wrong thing.

Are you stupid ?
So , Davido is wearing a rosary ? Or he carry bible in his hand ?
Go and use someone in hajib for whatever you want !
Nobody must remove any picture here .

Oloriburuku people full this thread .
And they’re are fast to scream intolerance When Muslims start their own now .
Christians are the most intolerant set of people in this world . This thread has nothing to do with them . But they are all over the thread ... masturbating .
Isn’t this interesting?

Jazakumullahu khairan

All the christians above me are senseless fools.
And if you look closely they are those ones that neither go to church nor even read the bible for years.
Social media christians...

y u christian insulting islam.may be davido is ur brother in hell,

A person who masturbates will suffer psychological problems such as forgetfulness, loss of memory, weak determination, preference for solitude, extreme shyness and fear, and being sorrowful.

You need to use a combination of self-discipline as well as refocusing your time on more meaningful and constructive activities.

May Allah make it easy... Ameen

They should focus more on ceasing to encourage terrorism and violence.

WawaIPODJew:

Are you stupid ?
So , Davido is wearing a rosary ? Or he carry bible in his hand ?
Go and use someone in hajib for whatever you want !
Nobody must remove any picture here .

Let's call what is wrong- wrong, the op has no right to use such a picture, he can't prove that Davido was mastubating, there are lots of other pictures out there he could have used. If this wasn't a faceless forum, Davido could sue for character defamation and get away with it.

Always strive to do good so people of the other faith will be drawn towards you.

May Allah make it easy for us and keep us steadfast on the right path. Ameen

lapazi:


Let's call what is wrong- wrong, the op has no right to use such a picture, he can't prove that Davido was mastubating, there are lots of other pictures out there he could have used. If this wasn't a faceless forum, Davido could sue for character defamation and get away with it.

Always strive to do good so people of the other faith will be drawn towards you.

May Allah make it easy for us and keep us steadfast on the right path. Ameen

I no wan hear !

paparazzi1987:

I am a Muslim from Pakistan and so far away from my wife. How do i control masturbation when i know that it will take a year to reunite with my family.

Please advice.

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Discipline yourself. It depends on how much you truly want to stay away. If a gun is pointed to you head and you will avoid getting shot if don't masturbate, will you masturbate? No! Temptation is strongest in a mind that is undecided and unresolved.

WawaIPODJew:

Are you stupid ?
So , Davido is wearing a rosary ? Or he carry bible in his hand ?
Go and use someone in hajib for whatever you want !
Nobody must remove any picture here .

The bastard will always show themselves with inflammatory comment

winj3:
Islam should worry more about addiction to killing unbelievers and terrorism instead of what people do with their own bodies!

backward primitive sick blood thirsty religion that is past its sell-by date!

go and learn about islam...and knw that anger does no good, try and do away with it

May Allah increase us in eaman and protect us from self distruction