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My friend said that he loves his wife but is not sexually attracted to her

So he fantasises about me when he is having sex with his wife

Is it common for men to fantasise about women other than their partner during sex?

His wife is older than him and looks like his aunty

Hmmmm.....not strange!

Ask your father

He's lusting over you
and you are welcoming the stupid reason.


Seems like your secret boyfriend.

Husband snatcher

Madam face Ur front. What nonsense friendship. Leave that married man alone. Who he thinks about is not your issue.

and this is how guys use women with fish brains

And you just happen to be the one He fantasizes about. That's great.

Your friend?

The friend

Forreellinc:
Ask your father

You're too vile.

Sharla87:
Serious answers only!

My friend said that he loves his wife but is not sexually attracted to her

So he fantasises about me when he is having sex with his wife

Is it common for men to fantasise about women other than their partner during sex?

His wife is older than him and looks like his aunty

How can he marry someone he's not sexually attracted to, nitori Olorun?? That's a recipe for adultery.

In other words, he married his sister, that is why he cannot summon sexual feelings for her. To make this even more awkward, he fantasizes about you?? Shior

People just create unnecessary pain and problems for themselves and others.

Really? Your friend? He fantasises about you and you're cool with it

UyaiIncomparabl:
You're too vile.

you are lucky you have some great d!ck sucking lips or i wuda reciprocated your insult
call me whenever you get tired of your broke boyfriend

That person is not your friend.

He’s an unfortunate husband to some innocent woman.
Don’t enable him to carry out his foolishness.

And you believe that scope? You must really be gullible.

That is how he will deceive you and you will fall for him He is just trying to visit your hole, that's if he is not doing that already.

And at last, nobody answered the question. Funny thing is, its a legitimate question. Vaseline crew and women with love machines employ the use of imagination to get their rocks off.

To your question @ Sharla87, it is very common for men to fantasize about people (women and men) other than their partners during intercourse.

Now he has told you, its up to you to decide what to do with that information.

When I have sex with my girlfriend, I am busy physically, spiritually and mentally only with her.

lilmax:
and this is how guys use women with fish brains

What is this nah? Are you for us or against us? Why are you letting out one of the secrets of the Sweet Boys Association (SBA) and the Yoruba Demons Association (YODA). Someone is about to be unfortunate and you are trying to stop her. Our guy is about to hit, run and move to the next victim and you are here letting out our secrets. One victim us about to be made a baby mama with no support from the happily married nigga and you are trying to stop the mission. Please mind yourself, don't angry meeee.

Why would a man do it is he not happy with the woman he has in front of him

ValCon888:
And at last, nobody answered the question. Funny thing is, its a legitimate question. Vaseline crew and women with love machines employ the use of imagination to get their rocks off.

To your question @ Sharla87, it is very common for men to fantasize about people (women and men) other than their partners during intercourse.

Now he has told you, its up to you to decide what to do with that information.

Sharla87:
Serious answers only!

My friend said that he loves his wife but is not sexually attracted to her

So he fantasises about me when he is having sex with his wife

Is it common for men to fantasise about women other than their partner during sex?

His wife is older than him and looks like his aunty

your 'friend' uses you as his mental porn??
wow, you don't find his statement offensive??

Forreellinc:
you are lucky you have some great d!ck sucking lips or i wuda reciprocated your insult
call me whenever you get tired of your broke boyfriend

You need mental attention.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You need mental attention.

pay attention to the end of ma d!ck
you know what I'm saying?

Sharla87:
Serious answers only!

My friend said that he loves his wife but is not sexually attracted to her

So he fantasises about me when he is having sex with his wife

Is it common for men to fantasise about women other than their partner during sex?

His wife is older than him and looks like his aunty

You could not even have the decency of hiding your bias against his wife. It's quite obvious you like the idea of being his mental stimulation.

Let me guess, you look so much better than she does.

Sharla87:
Serious answers only!

My friend said that he loves his wife but is not sexually attracted to her

So he fantasises about me when he is having sex with his wife

Is it common for men to fantasise about women other than their partner during sex?

His wife is older than him and looks like his aunty

How do you become friends with a married person that he can tell you he uses you as his sex.ual fanatasy in confidence?

And what kind of person is he to utter such?

And in your mind, you are sweet sixteen and fantasy material while his wife is aunty.

@Topic Generally: It is very possible for peeps to fantasise about others during se.x with someone else.

bukatyne:
How do you become friends with a married person that he can tell you he uses you as his sex.ual fanatasy in confidence?

And what kind of person is he to utter such?

And in your mind, you are sweet sixteen and fantasy material while his wife is aunty.

@Topic Generally: It is very possible for peeps to fantasise about others during se.x with someone else.

Why would they fantasise about someone else

And of course
I'm 25 people think I'm 18

To your question, yes it's possible and normal for one who hasn't found/isn't with his/her missing rib, or one who didn't marry his missing rib. For a man, this is so because the inestimable value of a woman towards his man lies in the woman's sweetness (beauty remains in the eye of the beholder), selflessness and meekness. Obviously, he didn't marry his missing rib - the three attributes above can never be found missing in a man's missing rib. So, absence of sweetness from his woman is the reason he's resorted to cheating on her with you mentally. He may never come physically for you, if he's thoughtful - thoughtfulness will make him not to disrespect his wife to such extent - of course, you have to help him make this to happen. Both of you should end the unnecessary friendship with each other and become friendly towards each other instead.

To save himself from cheating on her with you physically or to start resenting her - if you resist his physical advances, assuming he stoop low to such, he'll unintentionally transfer his aggression towards his woman - both of you should maintain distance from each other. Your friendship with him has brought negative energy to his union, but with the help of distance between you two (or any other woman of your ilk), he'll not destroy his union in the end. In his hand lies majority of the work.

The good thing is that he loves his woman, as you said he proclaimed, which means the sum value of his woman's selflessness and meekness can suppress the value of sweetness of any other woman outside - you inclusive - for him. This together with his own personal values of thoughtfulness and unassumingness should be able to prevent him from drifting apart from his woman completely. He should be content with the choice he's made already, his unfulfillment notwithstanding.

Actually, unconditionality of loving someone/others (as a normal human being) doesn't invalidate conditionality of falling in love and staying in love. This is the reason every relationship is a work-in-process.

However, you may even be his missing rib. lol.

LordKO:
To your question, yes. One who hasn't find his/her missing rib will surely do. For a man, this is so because the inestimable value of a woman towards his man lies in the woman's sweetness (beauty remains in the eye of the beholder), selflessness and meekness. Obviously, he didn't marry his missing rib - the three attributes above can never be found missing in a man's missing rib. So, absence of sweetness from his woman is the reason he's resorted to cheating on her with you mentally. He may never come physically for you, if he's thoughtful - thoughtfulness will make him not to disrespect his wife to such extent - of course, you have to help him make this to happen. Both of you should end the unnecessary friendship with each other and become friendly towards each other instead.

To save himself from cheating on her with you physically or to start resenting her - if you resist his physical advances, assuming he stoop low to such, he'll unintentionally transfer his aggression towards his woman - both of you should maintain distance from each other. Your friendship with him has brought negative energy to his union, but with the help of distance between you two (or any other woman of your ilk), he'll not destroy his union in the end. In his hand lies majority of the work.

The good thing is that he loves his woman, as you said he proclaimed, which means the sum value of his woman's selflessness and meekness can suppress the value of sweetness of any other woman outside - you inclusive - for him. This together with his own personal values of thoughtfulness and unassumingness should be able to prevent him from drifting apart from his woman completely. He should be content with the choice he's made already, his unfulfillment notwithstanding.

Actually, unconditionality of loving someone/others (as a normal human being) doesn't invalidate conditionality of falling in love and staying in love. This is the reason every relationship is a work-in-process.

However, you may even be his missing rib. lol.

Thanks for a lovely write up
I'm 25 he is 50 his wife is 55

Sharla87:
Thanks for a lovely write up
I'm 25 he is 50 his wife is 55

Am josh from ibadan add me up on whatsapp if you love sex this much bae am sure that you will never let go of me

Sharla87:
Serious answers only!

My friend said that he loves his wife but is not sexually attracted to her

So he fantasises about me when he is having sex with his wife

Is it common for men to fantasise about women other than their partner during sex?

His wife is older than him and looks like his aunty

Am josh from ibadan add me up on whatsapp 07052548026 if you love sex this much bae am sure that you will never let go of me

high6ixx:
Am josh from ibadan add me up on whatsapp 07052548026 if you love sex this much bae am sure that you will never let go of me

LOL. Take it easy.