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Hi pals,I got into financial challenge,but when I ask a few of my friends and some of my cousins brothers to assist me with some money,even promising to pay them back,the next thing, they would just stop chatting with me,it's frustrating and also embarrassing.
There is this cousin of mine who would seem so concerned about my well-being,just recently I asked him to lend me 20k so I can tackle one issue,my bros automatically blank me.
Now makes me wonder, why was acting so concerned all this while?

moneyhunter247:
Hi pals,I got into financial challenge,but when I ask a few of my friends and some of my cousins brothers to assist me with some money,even promising to pay them back,the next thing, they would just stop chatting with me,it's frustrating and also embarrassing.
There is this cousin of mine who would seem so concerned about my well-being,just recently I asked him to lend me 20k so I can tackle one issue,my bros automatically blank me.
Now makes me wonder, why was acting so concerned all this while?

obvious you are still budding
No one gives a Bleep about you
Have that mentality so you can shock them when you start to blow.

Lol,, Are you for real... in this 2019? you still ask for help? lol... Even my Dad blank me at some point na then my eyes clear. Bro na O.Y.O these days oo

The bitter truth,most of the time, is that almost everyone is struggling. The fact that they put on a smiling face and refuse to ask for help does not mean that they're living in abundance.

thesicilian:
The bitter truth,most of the time, is that almost everyone is struggling. The fact that they put on a smiling face and refuse to ask for help does not mean that they're living in abundance.

I always thought that uncles were rich and stingy until I became an uncle

Most people are struggling to pay bills even with a smiling face

Well first rule is don't depend on anyone or have the mentality.... Second is most of the distance famz... Cousins name it r usually useless even some siblings... So prepare for the worst... Hustle like a orphan that's lost in the world