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What Would You Do If Your Teenage Child Tells You She Wants To Start Having Sex by Manuellu(op): 12:48pm On Mar 11, 2019
So a friend of mine, narrated a story about how his daughter walked up to him and her mother and announced that she wants to start having sex. Although they raised their child up to be open about anything, but this hit him like a sucker punch.
After the announcement, she walked away leaving her parents deep in thought as to how to deal with the situation. They don't want to reprimand her and push her away, but encouraging her might also plunge her deeper.
So friends, in this situation what would your reaction be? Please share your thoughts...
Re: What Would You Do If Your Teenage Child Tells You She Wants To Start Having Sex by meobizy(m): 12:50pm On Mar 11, 2019
Why will my child tell me?
Doesn’t he or she know where they sell condoms?
I never told my parents so I see no reason why my child should do so.
OP, did you ask your parents for permission before your first experience?
Re: What Would You Do If Your Teenage Child Tells You She Wants To Start Having Sex by Manuellu(op): 12:56pm On Mar 11, 2019
meobizy:
Why will my child tell me?
Doesn’t he or she know where they sell condoms?
I never told my parents so I see no reason why my child should do so.
OP, did you ask your parents for permission before your first experience?
I did not, but times are changing. I won't raise my kids the way I was raised. Plus the child was raised to be open about anything, she obviously knows nothing about sex and should be guided.
Re: What Would You Do If Your Teenage Child Tells You She Wants To Start Having Sex by GOFRONT(m): 1:09pm On Mar 11, 2019
Girlchild??
Re: What Would You Do If Your Teenage Child Tells You She Wants To Start Having Sex by lilmax(m): 1:12pm On Mar 11, 2019
girl child? carry on, but leave my house immediately
Re: What Would You Do If Your Teenage Child Tells You She Wants To Start Having Sex by meobizy(m): 2:21pm On Mar 11, 2019
Manuellu:
I did not, but times are changing. I won't raise my kids the way I was raised. Plus the child was raised to be open about anything, she obviously knows nothing about sex and should be guided.
You have answered your question OP.
The thread has served its purpose.
Re: What Would You Do If Your Teenage Child Tells You She Wants To Start Having Sex by Manuellu(op): 3:30pm On Mar 11, 2019
lilmax:
girl child? carry on, but leave my house immediately
She's a teenager
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