₦airaland Forum

matify83:
Where is the wife that prayed and fasted for your success?

Sirjamo:
Not everyone can be as patient and supportive of an unfit spouse like Mr Goodluck Jonathan

obembet:
Hmmmm. Okunrin... I fear them pass Snake... Sorry jare lala

matify83:
Where is the wife that prayed and fasted for your success?

isthatso:
you must have sense to recognize sense

yettymuse:
Suffer with any man at your own peril!!!!

Styluscrib:
Well don't blame them,
The magani borantashi (local Viagra)
Can only be endured by young elastic leather.
I salute this male creatures from the upper side of Nigeria.
They can use enhancing support
Take them in aware,
Then you will see a 1 second man
But with borantashi 1 hour digging deep man.

trapQ:
You must also have adequate brain matter to be able to understand that it takes a rational human being to not be a ungrateful asshole.

trapQ CrapQ:
I'm telling you. I pity anyone who wants to suffer with any Nigerian man. The odds are against such woman.

NnadyAutos:
His first wife may be sick, incapacitated, old, uneducated, or divorced and unfit for the office of 1st lady, hence the hurry to marry someone that can fit his new job.Only after hearing from the man one may understand the details.None of the above issue is permitted for 2nd marriage in christian faith,but Muslims have maximum of 4 wives allowed in the religion.

funshint:
Isn't this wicked... This is how some men die young.

isthatso:
isnt it ironic that the same western world that forced Africans who are naturally polygamous to marry one wife (forcing many African women become mistresses and side chicks) are the same people now trying to force us into accepting same sex marraige.

Think about this, you cant marry 2 wives but a man can marry a man..go figure!!!

Forget about foreigners, you are an African, if you want marry 10 wives

isthatso:
isnt it ironic that the same western world that forced Africans who are naturally polygamous to marry one wife (forcing many African women become mistresses and side chicks) are the same people now trying to force us into accepting same sex marraige.

Think about this, you cant marry 2 wives but a man can marry a man..go figure!!!

Forget about foreigners, you are an African, if you want marry 10 wives

trapQ:
I'm telling you. I pity anyone who wants to suffer with any Nigerian man. The odds are against such woman.

funshint:
Isn't this wicked... This is how some men die young.

chibuzorAbia:
Go to majority Muslim countries and speak to men over 50. They will lament and tell you the grave error in marrying more than 1 wife. Many men in Muslim countries are reverting voluntarily to 1 wife mainly due to financial and economic factors. A lot of them go to the grave very early.

isthatso:
Polygamy isnt for everyone but you only have to look at the number of single women in Nigeria who are side chicks and mistresses to know that, there is no one size fits all. People should be able to do what works for them. Most of the single women are mistresses and side chicks anyway to married men so who is fooling who?

Like i said, "if you want" i.e if you can handle it

PythonAmaka:
Snakes are much more fearsome. Snakes have multiple sex partners with no emotion attached and could kill its female lover a second after sex while move on to the next.

Evidently, women hate competition. But quite fairly, every man is entitled to more than one wife. It is most likely and very often circumstantial seeing a man tied to a woman all his life.
More effectively, Okafor's law naturally activated.


-python amaka

trapQ:
You really have zero oligodendrocytes and Schwann cells in that empty skull of yours?

For God's fvcking sake is this about polygamy? This is about a man putting a new wife ahead of the woman of his youth just at the time and totally neglecting his first wife and you come here to spill this thrash?

If the man simply married another wife (which is not a problem since they're both Muslims) , but made his first wife who (probably has been with him through his trials and tribulations) the first lady then it would not make headlines.

Infact let me not waste my time further, not everyone has brain cells to comprehend simple things.

chibuzorAbia:
Side chicks and mistresses are not wives and can be dropped at the click of a finger.

Amanda4life:
Thats why most men die before their wife.


From statistics there are more widows than,.,...............,?

isthatso:
my friend, educated and enlightened people offer arguments for or against a point of view. You started out by abusing me, nonetheless I indulged you by responding. Every post you have abused, if the argument was about who can abuse the most, you would win but that is not the real world.

In the real world you can love your wife all you like, if you are not pulling your weight and she is capable of finding better she might leave you and nobody will blame her, similarly if your wife cannot fit in with your success, even if he doesnt dump you he will find a mistress.

Keep on abusing while another woman is enjoying your husbands success you helped to create.

PythonAmaka:
Was the first wife reportedly divorced from him?
Is she being denied her matrimonial and conjugal rights?
So, what's your stress?


-python amaka

Banter1:
what if the first wife is not educated?

isthatso:
you spent all you time abusing, you didnt get the point. it's not about struggling or not struggling. it's about who you struggle with. As a woman never marry a struggling man or struggle with a man who is above your level. You know in your heart when someone is above your level, even if in the short term he is struggling. Many wives of successful men today struggled with their husbands and their husbands dont mess with them.