₦airaland Forum

trapQ:
Your last statement is your portion.

Why would I want to marry?

Nigerian women are 2 a penny, greed, insecurity and materialism are your downfall. if you are a success you can have 4 women and they will all know about each other and none of them will go anywhere because no one wants to miss out on the jollof. I dont need a wife to have children and I want to live long to enjoy the fruits of my labour so why would I marry and let 1 woman kill me before my time?


The wife of the governor elect, did you hear she packed out? If he was a poor man she would walk out, but Nigerian woman cannot leave money no matter how much she has already..FACT!!!

Please can somebody tell me why some men die earlier than their wives

matify83:
Where is the wife that prayed and fasted for your success?

She isn't good enough now.
Money and power has come.. His taste has changed.

That's what men do.

Any man or majority of men whose wife is deeply happy with lives longer.

Its a secret.

Amanda4life:
Please can somebody tell me why some men die earlier than their wives

Fear Nigerian women and save your life, women become stress one they get married and they turn into monsters the older they get. Once you marry and have children their interest in you is only in your ability to provide for the children. basically no one is looking out for you, so the stress eventually kills you.

Can you speak with actual facts? You keep making these unfounded claims and it's quite suprising.

Please when you take stats of these sidechicks to know they're more in number than single men?

Do you know that the last census showed that there are more men than women in the world?

Go to any hospital and check the sex ratio of births. You will find out for every 100 female birthday there are at least 103 to 106 male births. This is almost consistent throughout the entire world not just in Nigeria.

So since there are more men in Nigeria than women how can there be more sidechicks than single men?

Chaiii, you're just making a monkery of yourself with all these fvckery.

isthatso:
Polygamy isnt for everyone but you only have to look at the number of single women in Nigeria who are side chicks and mistresses to know that, there is no one size fits all. People should be able to do what works for them. Most of the single women are mistresses and side chicks anyway to married men so who is fooling who?

Like i said, "if you want" i.e if you can handle it

trapQ:
Not sure if you know you're just beating around the bush.

Dude, struggling is struggling. Wether above your level or beneath your level. struggling is the keyword here and any man who can be ungrateful and discard a woman who struggled with him is a demon. There are lots of women who were "above" their men and helped them financially only to be discarded like a used toilet paper. If you don't see a problem with that then I just pity you.

My dear you keep abusing me then you will come back to be engaging me trying to get some wise words from me.

A man knows when a woman is below his level, if she stays with him while he is struggling deep down he knows he is managing her, even if he tries to stay loyal, once his eyes clear and he has gotten over the slump, he will now look at his woman and realise that he can do better and the rest is history. even if he stays loyal to her he will acquire a mistress

Thrash! But thanks for telling us you will die before your time. [s]

isthatso:
My dear, I can already see from the tone of your posts, you are the kind of woman that either doesnt find a husband or gets dumped or your husband finds a mistress or your husband becomes a drunk, spends all his time in a beer parlour/bar because he wants to come home as late as possible in order not to deal with your stress. It is obvious a man married to you is destined to have a mistress otherwise he will die before his time.

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isthatso:
Some women are not programmed for the big time, they become a liability. Just look at Patience!

Not every woman who struggles with you is good for you when you succeed. Painful but true!!

If you have lofty ambitions in life, struggle with a woman that will also be good for you when you succeed.

This idea that Nigerian women struggle with men is BS, women struggle with you because they see your potential, not because they are doing you a favour. If a woman see that you are going nowhere AND she can do better, she will dump you like a bad habit.

Wow.....you will be a terrible husband, am absolutely sure you will divorce ur wife & get a sassy looking girl immediately ur wife gets older.

If a woman is good enough to be my wife, mother of my kids, STAYED with me from when I dey manage, when I blow she will always be by my side even if shes an illiterate & even shes sick NO WOMAN will replace her. I rather govern without first lady than bring one gold digger to rip where she did not sow

I pity any woman who'd have the misfortune of marrying you. Shameless!!!

isthatso:
because they always kill their husbands with stress and nagging. Men with sense carry a side chick.

[quote author= trapQ CrapQ post=77690721]If men are entitled to more than one wife can you tell us why the 2003 census showed that men were more populated in Nigeria than women? And can you tell us why the global population statistics show that me are more populated in the world than women?

Going by your "men are polygamous in nature" logic and how men are entitled to 2,3 women etc, If that were even remotely true shouldn't be at 14billion women and 7billion men?

Lmao[/quote]With present wars as was centuries ago, there was a growing population of widows among women as men were prevailed to take them as wives. Less was expected of women than bear his name and bear him a child. Although, education has enabled her share a sense of belonging with him quite much.

Higher population of women still hasn't explained the fact that the more the number that are married off to men yearly, the more the number of unmarried ladies increases.


-python amaka

And you know the second wife will not have other sexmates how?

Amanda4life:
I will prefer my husband to marry another wife than having a thousand and one sex mates

trapQ:
Can you speak with actual facts? You keep making these unfounded claims and it's quite suprising.



So since there are more men in Nigeria than women how can there be more sidechicks than single men?
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dont let stats deceive you

delve deep into the statistics. it is not about the absolute number of men and women there are but how many suitable candidates.

For instance how many men between the age of 25-30 are ready to settle down and how many women, i think you'll find it's more like 1 man for 20 women

aged 30-40 how many women are even candidates, the older you get in this group the less likely a man sees you as a wife material

less than 1% of single women above 40 will ever find a husband by which time the man who wants to marry is already married

I hope you can now see how there is a surplus of women

trapQ:
I pity any woman who'd have the misfortune of marrying you. Shameless!!!

who wan marry una? we men don get sense o!!

Jiang:
Wow.....you will be a terrible husband, am absolutely sure you will divorce ur wife & get a sassy looking girl immediately ur wife gets older.

If a woman is good enough to be my wife, mother of my kids, STAYED with me from when I dey manage, when I blow she will always be by my side even if shes an illiterate & even shes sick NO WOMAN will replace her. I rather govern without first lady than bring one gold digger to rip where she did not sow

Did i tell you I want to marry?


All this one you are talking is naive talk. If you really make it big time, illiterate woman go dey shame you, nobody will tell you before you find someone presentable or you are embarrassed to go to functions with your illiterate wife. It is easy to talk i will I will never if you have never experienced success. if you stick to such a woman, I applaud you but at a certain level some doors will be closed because of her.

Nobody is forcing you to marry so please us the sermon. The bolded is another jargon.

Northern women don't leave polygamous marriages even if they're married to gatemen or other "abokis" so the notion that she stayed because of money holds no water.

My dad's ex-worker is a northerner from bauchi. He has 4 wives presently despite his economic situation none has left him so say something else.

isthatso:
Why would I want to marry?

Nigerian women are 2 a penny, greed, insecurity and materialism are your downfall. if you are a success you can have 4 women and they will all know about each other and none of them will go anywhere because no one wants to miss out on the jollof. I dont need a wife to have children and I want to live long to enjoy the fruits of my labour so why would I marry and let 1 woman kill me before my time?


The wife of the governor elect, did you hear she packed out? If he was a poor man she would walk out, but Nigerian woman cannot leave money no matter how much she has already..FACT!!!

isthatso:
because they always kill their husbands with stress and nagging. Men with sense carry a side chick.

It is side chick stress . they dont have rest of mind.

Even though they carry side chick no peace in them.

A women who goes thru stress of house chores, farm work, taking care of children and earns a living to support lives longer.

I still repeat if a man wants to leave longer be your wife's friend Make sure u treat her the way you would love to be treated she will go out her way to make sure she will do everything possible to help elongate your life. Even with sincere prayers

[quote author= trapQ CrapQ post=77690887]There's never a shortage of stupid people on NL.

Lmao [/quote]Why flatter yourself?.. When it comes to being incredibly stupid, you take the cake.
A case in point is; who becomes the first lady among the three wives if Atiku had won?. Would the other two had had a feeling of being lesser?.. Since you think being a first lady makes you more of a prestigious wife than the other(s). If you think you ain't daft, you are.


-python amaka

Amanda4life:
It is side chick stress . they dont have rest of mind.

Even though they carry side chick no peace in them.

A women who goes thru stress of house chores, farm work, taking care of children and earns a living to support lives longer.

I still repeat if a man wants to leave longer be your wife's friend Make sure u treat her the way you would love to be treated she will go out her way to make sure she will do everything possible to help elongate your life. Even with sincere prayers

I am telling you nothing gives more men stress than their wives, many of these old men cant even fire any longer, so the side chick are not for sex

Another thrash.

All over the world , men are tasked with doing the most risky jobs. Male soldiers go to war and lots die in the process. Men work in mines and when casualties happen expect no women to die. Men are the electricians and builders and climb tall scaffolds when working. Little errors could often cost their lives. There are mostly male armed robbers. Lots of men are acoholics who damage their kidneys with excessive drinking and die later. Men work with heavy equipment in factories and some machine malfunctions can be harzardous and cost their lives.

These are few of the proven reasons men die way earlier than women. Stop saying nonsense on this thread.

isthatso:
Fear Nigerian women and save your life, women become stress one they get married and they turn into monsters the older they get. Once you marry and have children their interest in you is only in your ability to provide for the children. basically no one is looking out for you, so the stress eventually kills you.

Amanda4life:
It is side chick stress . they dont have rest of mind.

Even though they carry side chick no peace in them.

A women who goes thru stress of house chores, farm work, taking care of children and earns a living to support lives longer.

I still repeat if a man wants to leave longer be your wife's friend Make sure u treat her the way you would love to be treated she will go out her way to make sure she will do everything possible to help elongate your life. Even with sincere prayers

From your handle, You are a woman, I am a man. Nothing kills men more than Nigerian wife and family stress.

Wise words from you? Lmao. That is "future impossible tense". It's like fetching water with a basket.

You can't give what you don't have my dear.

isthatso:
My dear you keep abusing me then you will come back to be engaging me trying to get some wise words from me.

A man knows when a woman is below his level, if she stays with him while he is struggling deep down he knows he is managing her, even if he tries to stay loyal, once his eyes clear and he has gotten over the slump, he will now look at his woman and realise that he can do better and the rest is history. even if he stays loyal to her he will acquire a mistress

You're a wise man.

Jiang:
Wow.....you will be a terrible husband, am absolutely sure you will divorce ur wife & get a sassy looking girl immediately ur wife gets older.

If a woman is good enough to be my wife, mother of my kids, STAYED with me from when I dey manage, when I blow she will always be by my side even if shes an illiterate & even shes sick NO WOMAN will replace her. I rather govern without first lady than bring one gold digger to rip where she did not sow

You're simply a product of the failed educational system. It's not your fault.

Speak with facts of shut the fvck up and go read a book.

The fact remains that men are more populous than Nigerian and in the world at large and as such there is a higher number of unmarried men than women.

PythonAmaka:
With present wars as was centuries ago, there was a growing population of windows among women as men were prevailed to take them as wives. Less was expected of women than bear his name and bear him a child. Although, education has enabled her share a sense of belonging with him quite much.

Higher population of women still hasn't explained the fact that the more the number that are married off to men yearly, the more the number of unmarried ladies increases.


-python amaka

I shouldn't let stats from reputable firms and organizations deceive me but rather words from an anonymous faceless person on the internet? Lol

How does what you typed invalidate the fact men are more populous than women in Nigeria and in the world at large?

isthatso:
dont let stats deceive you

delve deep into the statistics. it is not about the absolute number of men and women there are but how many suitable candidates.

For instance how many men between the age of 25-30 are ready to settle down and how many women, i think you'll find it's more like 1 man for 20 women

aged 30-40 how many women are even candidates, the older you get in this group the less likely a man sees you as a wife material

less than 1% of single women above 40 will ever find a husband by which time the man who wants to marry is already married

I hope you can now see how there is a surplus of women

Speak for yourself dude.

isthatso:
who wan marry una? we men don get sense o!!

isthatso:
Fear Nigerian women and save your life, women become stress one they get married and they turn into monsters the older they get. Once you marry and have children their interest in you is only in your ability to provide for the children. basically no one is looking out for you, so the stress eventually kills you.

Not so. Interest changes when they found that their husband don't cherish them, lavish money outside without caring for them again, maybe he is an unrepented cheater. No longer appreciate their body, no longer encourage them to look good . make her feel special once in a while.

In return she will make sure she makes healthy dishes for you so DAT you will not have poty belly, she will encurage her children to respect u. Intact you will be a happy man forever �



Na expo i dey give uooooo

trapQ:
Another thrash.

All over the world , men are tasked with doing the most risky jobs. Male soldiers go to war and lots die in the process. Men work in mines and when casualties happen expect no women to die. Men are the electricians and builders and climb tall scaffolds when working. Little errors could often cost their lives. There are mostly male armed robbers. Lots of men are acoholics who damage their kidneys with excessive drinking and die later. Men work with heavy equipment in factories and some machine malfunctions can be harzardous and cost their lives.

These are few of the proven reasons men die way earlier than women. Stop saying nonsense on this thread.

let me just adress one point.

why does a man drink at that age? Let me give you one reason I have friends that drink because they dont want to go home so they go to the bar after work and when you get to the bar,what else is there to do even when you dont want, you end up drinking.

The one thing I have come to realise about women is that they actually genuinely dont know when they are stressing you, they dont know when they are a nag. I am in the middle of one right now and the more my friends wife moans to me the more I am thinking poor guy, she is insufferable, she will drag small matter even with me her husband's friend. Lets it go no. It got to a point where I dont carry her phone. i was actually on her side in the beginning, by the time the woman talking the same thing over and over and over, sometimes she will be on the phone for 3 hours and I dont want to be rude. Eventully i realised no wonder my friend does not go home early. My friend is out there stressed out trying to complete his house and pay school fees, pay for summer holiday, imagine having to come home to this shit? This is the kind of stress that kills a man!!!


See the way you will abuse me but then quote me....thats the kind of stress that kills a man

shadeyinka:
Goodluck earned my respect in this area: even though this wife was "uneducated", she was the First Lady

who told u she was uneducated u need to go read what really is education...

Amanda4life:
Not so. Interest changes when they found that their husband don't cherish them, lavish money outside without caring for them again, maybe he is an unrepented cheater. No longer appreciate their body, no longer encourage them to look good . make her feel special once in a while.

In return she will make sure she makes healthy dishes for you so DAT you will not have poty belly, she will encurage her children to respect u. Intact you will be a happy man forever �



Na expo i dey give uooooo

i have come to realise that there is nothing you can do to please many Nigerian women. The problem is it is TOO MUCH HARDWORK TO MAKE A NIGERIAN WOMAN feel cherished. SHE wants to feel cherished after you have spent your day hustling. it's never enough.


your need to feel cherished is draining, a man has married you what else, let him be so he can hustle and provide you are talking about cherished. is everyday cherishment. If a man does not love you he wont marry you, but your need for constant affairmation is what causes problems.

isthatso:
I am telling you nothing gives more men stress than their wives, many of these old men cant even fire any longer, so the side chick are not for sex

For me everything in life has solution except death.

I said it earlier that stress can come if those things i mentioned earlier are present.


I think its natural that a man gets tired of sleeping with one woman after at most. 2years. Even those who are very disipline struggle s with this .Every woman should be aware of this. . it is natural but because of Christian religion even most Christian men struggle with the law in the bible which says one wife to one man