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The Senior Pastor of the Living Faith Church, Bishop David Abioye, has advised women against settling for men with no financial commitment.

While delivering his sermon in his church recently, the clergyman stressed the importance of finances in a relationship. Speaking specifically to single women, the clergyman said


''Any man who doesn't show commitment financially is not safe for you to marry''.

According to him, any woman who settles for a man with no financial commitment will end up being the one paying for the house rent, school fees and other very important things, once they get married.

Watch a video of him speaking below>>>

https://lailasnews.com/any-man-who-doesnt-show-commitment-financially-is-not-safe-for-you-to-marry-bishop-abioye-advises-women-video/

But it's true

According to him, any woman who settles for a man with no financial commitment will end up being the one paying for the house rent, school fees and other very important things, once they get married.

What nonsense is this?
How is it wrong for a woman to foot the bills?

It's this kind of mentality that promotes the “my money is mine but yours for the family” idea amongst women.

As a woman, if you settle back and allow your husband to foot everything in the house, you must submit totally.

[quote author=SageMK post=79545230]What nonsense is this?
How is it wrong for a woman to foot the bills?

It's this kind of mentality that promotes the “my money is mine but yours for the family” idea amongst women.

[b]As a woman, if you settle back and allow your husband to foot everything in the house, you must submit totally.
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Even you talk true if your wife is the one contributing everything financially to your marriage will you be comfortable


As for the emboldened so you mean that if I provide for my family financially and otherwise my husband must get ready to submit himself to me

he's on point though

We know that already

Auntie feminist and sister gender equality activist...


Food has been served....

true 100 percent

Good NeWS for leeches.
Dem say weaker vessel,
Cunning vessel ni! Deceptive vessel ko!

SageMK:
What nonsense is this?
How is it wrong for a woman to foot the bills?

It's this kind of mentality that promotes the “my money is mine but yours for the family” idea amongst women.

As a woman, if you settle back and allow your husband to foot everything in the house, you must submit totally.

Gbam!

World War III will happen on this thread. That's for sure.


May the best men and women win.


Virgoquin, been a second! Hawayu ma'am?

Truly a man with no stable source of income should not think of marriage

Correct no argument in that. Go and have a stable income before You think of marriage

Nonsense and Buhari


Mtcheww

SageMK:
What nonsense is this?
How is it wrong for a woman to foot the bills?

It's this kind of mentality that promotes the “my money is mine but yours for the family” idea amongst women.

As a woman, if you settle back and allow your husband to foot everything in the house, you must submit totally.

u deserve a bottle of hero beer.
talk like this puts men in unwarranted pressure. our boys are into vices to meet up with women's demands.........

BTW no scriptural reference to bishop claims

let d debate continue.

Is it an abomination for a woman to foot bills?

Supposing the man showed financial commitments before marriage but then loses everything later, should the woman run?

.

That y lot of women are single and frustrated.

When any man make money, pls marry a young woman and set up a business for her.

Leave her this church, self righteous girls only. Those one you see at Shiloh, they have far pass their prime.

But if I decide not to give her my money before marriage, is it a sin?

Watch the video here


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J4t_ennGqFo

SageMK:
What nonsense is this?
How is it wrong for a woman to foot the bills?

It's this kind of mentality that promotes the “my money is mine but yours for the family” idea amongst women.

As a woman, if you settle back and allow your husband to foot everything in the house, you must submit totally.

You have a point but I don't think that's what Pastor Abioye is saying...A man must be ready to take care of his family by providing for them,that provision is key and the commitment he is talking of...
Of course your wife can help you in any and all ways, so long she knows you try your best to provide.
U feel me?

Team independent women. / Team women are gold-diggers won't like this.

virgoquin:
Even you talk true if your wife is the one contributing everything financially to your marriage will you be comfortable
As for the emboldened so you mean that if I provide for my family financially and otherwise my husband must get ready to submit himself to me

Please ask him Also ask if it means both husband and wife must submit to each other if both contribute to the finances in the home?
Typical Nigerian man.
Always looking for who will submit to them. Smh.
Ask them to submit in return as they love to preach and they'll act like you've said something evil to them, but they'll be looking for who should submit to them.

Na wa o!

On top all the financial entitlements women already have on menfolk.

Archaic mentality,it’s an agreement between two parties mr Pastor you cannot expect one party to provide while the other do nothing,stop putting unnecessary pressure on guys.

noted